Atom Smasher said:
GMP, you're hijacking someone else's thread. Copy and paste your post into a new thread on the main DJ Discussion screen. You'll get a lot more eyeballs on your question and more help.
He can't - he has to post up responses on 10 other threads before he's allowed to start his own thread, and so far he's at 1.
Anyway... to the OP, I think enough people here have already talked about the mindset you need to have. Here are some simple actions you can do to display non-neediness:
1. Every so often, when she text or call you, don't answer right away - wait a minimum of 1 hour. Then, hit her back and don't tell her why you couldn't respond right away.
2. If you make plans for a certain day, and then she hits you back trying to move your plans to an earlier day or time, tell her you've already filled up that time with other things.
3. Rarely - if ever - verbalize your feelings. Do as much as you can to show her through your actions that you care about her, but lessen the verbage.
4. Do NOT initiate text messages with her unless its to set up plans (and even then, phone calls are better). Texting KILLS relationships.
5. If she ever gets you really upset, like on some disrespectful stuff, don't be afraid to pull contact from her for a couple of days. Girls need to know that they're wrong sometimes too, and that there are consequences to her being a biznich.
6. When you two go out, try to have at least ONE story about something you did with another friend since the last time you saw her. That way, she will know you're not just sittin around obsessing about her when she's not there, and that you DO interact with other people.
Hope this helps!