Help! I'm paranoid and care way too much about what others are thinking about me!
- Thread starter Viper
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oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Im thinking the samething. Theres NO WAY this can be real. This kid is too ignorant and gets too offended like a little girl. Do you all understand why ive been telling people to stop helping him? Hes a loser and on top of that hes an *******. If he wasnt such a **** then maybe he would deserve help, but instead he chooses to act like he owns the world.
All I will say is good luck with your success in life. If you are on the wrestling team then work harder and set some goals, maybe some success will help your self image. Don't be afraid 2 ask for help I'm hoping to go sarging with AC/DC myself when he has time (by the way if ur reading this and live in the bay then PM me and we can practice are DJ skills together). Once again I wish you the best.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
We're gonna have a great time!!
Also, YES, if you live in the Bay Area, PM me or Chris, we'll hook up and have little seminars or whatever.
Viper
Banned
If I ever saw you in real life dude, I would f*cking kick your ass, seriously, you are annoying as f*ck. Seriously man, I don't want to hear your BULLSH*T, if you don't F*CKING BELIEVE IT? YOU KNOW WHAT? GET THE F*CK OUT, I don't need the bullsh*t. You want to b*tch, make your own f*cking, "OH MY GODZ, RAGE AGAINST VIPER, HE IS TROLL LOL!" thread, don't do that sh*t here, asswipe. And I'm a loser? HAH! Who's the one calling people troll's and telling people that they're complaining, when he pratically does it in every topic? That's right, YOU, so don't call me a loser b*tch. That's every god damn topic with your as*, I ask for help and you say something that p*sses me off, you're like a god damn kid who doesn't know when to shut up.
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tigre
Don Juan
dude how are you gonna kick his ass, if you´re already too scared to approach people?!!you wouldnt even dare to get in front of his face and fight him, or are you thinking about using a 10 ft pole to hit him or what?..... seriously, STFU troll
Viper
Banned
Haha, sorry, but your attempt to flame me has only proven you dumber. I approach girls daily, sure I don't get good results, but hey, I'm one step ahead of you I'm sure. You know, call me a troll, call me whatever-the-f*ck you want, I don't give a sh*t; you can get off topic and be asswipes if you want, but hey, unlike you guys, I'm not going to stay a loser and raid peoples topics, I'm going to improve.
Yeah, I asked ACDC for help before, but he's never on AIM.
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Viper, you are one of the most insecure people I know...
Believe me, that says a lot.
My advice to you is **** HIGHSCHOOL!
You have a bad reputation in High school and need to have some good incounters in order to boost your confidence. Knowing your reputation I say you should go out to the mall and approach people, guys and girls. Put some nice cloths on, hell even buy a new outfit JUST to go out and get your confidence level up. Talk to strangers, be a man!
Something you could do at the mall might be when your paying for your new outfit and the cashier is a girl, use what you know at sosuave... YOU JUST MET HER AND HAVE A CLEAN REPUTATION WITH HER! DONT **** IT UP!! You see how that could work, now say something like
"How do you like working here?"
She says: "It's ok, a bit slow during this time."
You say: "Ah! So when do you get off?"
She says: "6 P.M"
You say ( without looking like a creep, put a smile on your face}
"We'll if you ever want to have some fun I could give you a call."
She says: "I dont know I have a lot to do and it was nice of you though!"
You say: "Well, it was nice talking to you, if you ever do want to do something than just email/AIM/text/ or call me( You choose ONE to say )
Than you just walk out and say "Have a nice day"
This will boost your confidence even though are not immediate results, good or bad. It is simply giving you experience.
Someone posted something like:
Reject is ALWAYS better than regret.
Now I WANT you to actually go out and boost your confidence with random people, strike up conversations and get Phone #'s if you can!
...........---------..........
If you tell me this wont work, than you are a troll my friend,
GET THE **** OUT OF YOUR NEGATIVE INSECURE STATES AND BE A GODDAMN MAN!
Do that, act with confidence and you will succeed... not immediatly but you WILL succeed soon!
Believe me, that says a lot.
My advice to you is **** HIGHSCHOOL!
You have a bad reputation in High school and need to have some good incounters in order to boost your confidence. Knowing your reputation I say you should go out to the mall and approach people, guys and girls. Put some nice cloths on, hell even buy a new outfit JUST to go out and get your confidence level up. Talk to strangers, be a man!
Something you could do at the mall might be when your paying for your new outfit and the cashier is a girl, use what you know at sosuave... YOU JUST MET HER AND HAVE A CLEAN REPUTATION WITH HER! DONT **** IT UP!! You see how that could work, now say something like
"How do you like working here?"
She says: "It's ok, a bit slow during this time."
You say: "Ah! So when do you get off?"
She says: "6 P.M"
You say ( without looking like a creep, put a smile on your face}
"We'll if you ever want to have some fun I could give you a call."
She says: "I dont know I have a lot to do and it was nice of you though!"
You say: "Well, it was nice talking to you, if you ever do want to do something than just email/AIM/text/ or call me( You choose ONE to say )
Than you just walk out and say "Have a nice day"
This will boost your confidence even though are not immediate results, good or bad. It is simply giving you experience.
Someone posted something like:
Reject is ALWAYS better than regret.
Now I WANT you to actually go out and boost your confidence with random people, strike up conversations and get Phone #'s if you can!
...........---------..........
If you tell me this wont work, than you are a troll my friend,
GET THE **** OUT OF YOUR NEGATIVE INSECURE STATES AND BE A GODDAMN MAN!
Do that, act with confidence and you will succeed... not immediatly but you WILL succeed soon!
Viper
Banned
How can I have a BAD reputation when I don't even have a reputation, period?
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Are you still here?
NO ONE RESPOND TO VIPER EVER AGAIN!
He is a waste of time.
He has no motivation.
If he wanted to change already he would have changed.
He asks for advice and does not take it. He insults those who give him advice who are then fed up with him because he does not take it. (let's hear the flaming, Viper)
I've done a quick search on him and this is his pattern:
New thread - Viper's life sucks, blah blah blah, help, blah blah blah
Sets himself up for disaster - I'm going to talk to the hottest girl in school.
Reads new responses - then flames people and does not, will not take YOUR advice. So, don't give him any (advice).
Makes another thread on how his life sucks.....
There are numerous of threads made just to give advice to Viper. Has this made a difference? I think not.
Conclusion:
DO NOT REPLY TO VIPER
No matter what you think he will NOT take your advice!
Even if he did take your advice, will it make a difference?
End of message.
By the way, Viper, you are a very insecure person.
By getting so upset with what people write about you shows how insecure you are about yourself.
I bet you're going to respond to this with some negativity (not a DJ quality) just so you can prove to an online community that you are not such and such. A secure person does not need to approve himself to anyone.
Now, will you show just how insecure you are................?
Viper
Banned
Like I said, you got a problem? Get out. Your not even worth arguing with because you obviously don't even have a clue what you're talking about, I don't have to reply to something to read it. Say what you want back, but don't expect a reply, because if you don't have anything helpful to say, I don't give a sh*t. You have no right to call me insecure with your, "OMGZ HE DOESN'T REPLY, HE MUST NOT HAVE READ POST" mentality.
Seriously, who gives a **** if you're a DJ or not? Live the life you want to. If you want to be nice, be nice. You have one life, live it the way you want to. If you want to become the Alpha Male, work at it. If you don't want it enough, then who seriously cares?
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Ahem...this is what ive been saying for months.
Viper, everyone thats given you advice knows what theyre talking about. Theyre not making post about ho much their life sucks. Go run into traffic or pick a fight with the biggest kid you know so you can have a near death experience and stop all this b*tching.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
this is called ocd disorder. it means you obsess over things too much.
you can get medication to help control this .
Viper
Banned
Hah, stop posting, you don't know what you're talking about, deal with it. I don't even have to explain myself to the likes of you, b*tch. Maybe you knew what you were talking about, I would actually care about what you had to say, but you obviously don't. I'm going to stop pay attention to your b*tching and start paying attention to people who can actually help me.
That is a possibility, but I've seen stuff about REAL people with OCD and it's definitely not that.
It's not that easy, you can't just wake up and tell yourself, "Who cares?", well you can tell yourself that, but then you go out there and your still insecure. How do you get your body to believe it? How do you get your body to live? Simply telling yourself that isn't going to do it.
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taiwanesedude227
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why is he not banned yet? why??
Viper
Banned
Question is, why are you not banned yet?
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Dude, you need to take your life in your hands and take it in little steps.
1. The hot girls arn't paying you any attention.
-You're aiming to high to begin with. Do you go into the gym for the first time and lift the heaviest wieght? You learn to drive, do you jump into the ferrari? no. little steps . You start with the UG's to get your skills up. Sure, you don't want to bone them, but you have to work your way up. You learn how to talk to women, and how to act around them.
I walk into the common room, and I don't head straight over to the table of aloof, cold, b!tches, I head over to the table of allright looking, overweight girls. I get them laughing, I become the "party starter". Makes the hot girls think, "who's this guy who's a laugh riot, and why is he hanging around with them rather than us?". In short, you start getting a rep - great for you, as you say you don't have one.
2. You feel insecure.
Dude. Who the hell doesn't? but you have to realise that not everyone is looking at you, not everyone is thinking about you. And as for not caring what others think, it is a mindset. Recently, and ex of mine tried to get some "revenge" on me by making slanderous posters, and sticking them round the common room. I was bricking myself, then I thought.....hang on....these people's opinions don't matter to me, I don't hang around with them, why should I give a damn about what they think?
S'all in your hands mate.
1. The hot girls arn't paying you any attention.
-You're aiming to high to begin with. Do you go into the gym for the first time and lift the heaviest wieght? You learn to drive, do you jump into the ferrari? no. little steps . You start with the UG's to get your skills up. Sure, you don't want to bone them, but you have to work your way up. You learn how to talk to women, and how to act around them.
I walk into the common room, and I don't head straight over to the table of aloof, cold, b!tches, I head over to the table of allright looking, overweight girls. I get them laughing, I become the "party starter". Makes the hot girls think, "who's this guy who's a laugh riot, and why is he hanging around with them rather than us?". In short, you start getting a rep - great for you, as you say you don't have one.
2. You feel insecure.
Dude. Who the hell doesn't? but you have to realise that not everyone is looking at you, not everyone is thinking about you. And as for not caring what others think, it is a mindset. Recently, and ex of mine tried to get some "revenge" on me by making slanderous posters, and sticking them round the common room. I was bricking myself, then I thought.....hang on....these people's opinions don't matter to me, I don't hang around with them, why should I give a damn about what they think?
S'all in your hands mate.
Viper
Banned
Yeah, but you know what's even funnier? The look your mother had when you came out and she saw how ugly you were.
