Exactly !They're making the argument for us. LOL
Those who refuse to lie prompted by fear of when she finds out she will lose attraction are the real supplicators. They structure--and for some suppress--their behavior in fear of her reaction and exit.
The irony, here, is a liar who DGAF, will play with his lies, and even throw them out there unnecessarily, and lie and about her understanding of his lie through a discussion prompted by him, and her knowing very well he is lying as he is continues to play with her, and she will still run across a mine field to stay with him. Hilarious!
Fellas, in the end. Lie, don't lie ... the action is irrelevant. All that matters is FRAME, the motivations from which you are operating.
I'm still having revulsions when I heard that a man must be worthy of a woman..