zekko
Master Don Juan
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I said lying about your height is an admission that your true self is not worthy of a date. Apparently "worthy" was a bad word to use, because it has triggered some people and Spaz and Guru want to grab it by the wrong end of the stick and beat me with it.Huh? I don’t get it what this has to do with “worthiness.”
Think of it in terms of SMV if you prefer. If a woman screens out all men under 6', then she considers those guys to have too low an SMV for her (or she considers them unworthy, to use the bad word). A 5'8" guy who lies is trying to make his SMV appear to be higher than it really is so he can be noticed by the screening woman. Not my cup of tea, but y'all are welcome to do as you please. As I've said, I've had friends who lied to women all the time.
I don't see how it is much different than a woman who posts a thin picture of herself, and then when she shows up for the date she is 40 pounds heavier. Guys here complain about that all the time.