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The hardest thing I see on behalf of those guys too timid to realize their hopes and dreams is that their underlying philosophy is out of whack.
They go to work on 1 aspect of their life, to the negation of all other elements. It's much like working out. If you workout your chest, your body will be disproportionate. And though, you may have magnificent pecs, you still will not have accomplished what you set out for which was a GREAT BODY. Many people do this to the detriment of their legs, EVEN THOUGH working out the legs is the greatest builder of strength and size for our body's.
The same analogy is true of life, and success with women.
Any trait you can devise on scoring any woman is concurrently valuable in another aspect of life.
Creativity
This one is pretty much a given. Creativity on dates, on conversational topics, and even on designing a business is immeasurable.
Composure
Maintaining cool in all aspects of life, business, with family or with women. A woman is meant to be emotional. She seeks you as a lighthouse, or a beacon, or a rock to land upon, not some wavering ocean of emotion.
Drive
Seeking what you want and knowing when you've got it. Not settling for less. Persisting when you're set back. Again, business, family, the gym, life, women.
Humor
Being able to laugh at life and situations. Our Ego HATES the end of things, as it seeks comfort. BUT, by the virtue of life, as it is born, so shall it must also die. If it has a beginning, it also has an end, sometime in the future.
Conversational Skills
Learning how to network and speak amongst people confidently and articulately. Is there anywhere this doesn't benefit you?
The list is endless, based on your definitions of life. Suffice it say, most AFCs will seek answers in women, and realize they KNOW the solutions but have yet to implement them.
I see my friends who keep on trucking with bad women *i.e. super young, underage gals, druggies, drunks, dropouts, dbags, etc*, and alot stems from Self-Worth and from their Philosophy on themselves and life.
They've given themselves no intrinsic worth, so how can they be a prize?
I have a friend, who because he's a male, feels he's automatically a prize and can say what he wants, and what any girl who rejects him is a *bytch*. Well guess what?
He's got a dead end job *though it has a pension in 30 years*.
He's out of shape.
Takes pills for mental problems.
Has no social skills.
And never gets laid.
And when I have a female around, he persists at getting him connected to her friends.
In the end, I alienate him more as he's a deadweight too idealistic to see his own demise. His supreme arrogance to see woman as *slutz* and *less than him* never leads to any *puzzy*. He lacks skills of a true gentleman and deals with people on a leve of no trust, as he seeks to scam people, and not deal fairly with them.
And it isn't that such a person can't change, it's that he's so bent on his beliefs as WHO HE IS, that if he let go of his demons, he'd HAVE NO IDENTITY. Well guess what, we have no identity anyway. It's the mind that seeks TO KNOW SHYT. It has to, to be comfortable. To adapt. It organizes life so we can navigate it. For if we had no map, what would happen? We'd be lost!
We already are lost!
You need to develop the realization that we're here for such a blink that fear is not even an issue. It's nothing. Non existent. At the very least it was that bit of consciousness that God instilled in us all when he banished us from the Garden of Eden. And at the worst case scenario, the human mind can be the best, and worst, friend you have.
The biggest thing people desire are QUICK FIXES. I've recommended books, and articles, and sites, and seen few people even state they own it, or whether they liked it. Well, guess what, the guru's writing the crap most pay $39.95 for HAVE READ the books, have the mentors, etc, and are now just filtering it down to you in E-book form. Suffice it to say, the book is far better.
Two books a month will make u a genius and change your life. I guarantee that much.
Go with the flow of life. Stop forcing so much.
If it isn't working, try another method, after you've sufficiently exhausted the first.
Read your gut. Just because she's pretty, what other benefit do you derive by spend a portion of your short existence with her? Laughs. Excitement. Companionship.
NEVER, EVER, NEVER, EVER stop growing and learning.
Develop methods that work for YOU. If you desire to learn a method such as PU's at clubs, go for it. But if you have no interest, then go where you're comfortable.
Abundance is key. Women ARE all around. Just because you didn't see 10hb's in 1 day, doesn't mean you won't in a month, and at least 1 of them will give you a number. Go from there, and you've done 120 hb10 approaches in a year. If you've kept up your other activities, you'll score at LEAST 1 of them, and have the type of game you can bring anywhere, anytime, anyplace.
Enjoy the game and stop taking life so seriously. Go get an enema if you can't laugh right now and enjoy what gifts you do have. You be approaching while you're growing, because growth never ends and nor will approaching.
Your core purpose in life is more important than any woman, even if it's your wife.
You can't serve others until you've served yourself. A soldier can't protect, serve, or fight, if he hasn't first worked out to be in shape, mentally and physically. I might be noble and valiant, but if I'm not well-trained and I run off to battle, odds are better than Vegas I'd die, along with many others.
The same with women, and/or family. If you're financial, emotional, physical/health, situations are whacked out, you're the Titanic taking your whole family with you. When you're ordered together, calm, unattached, you can serve their needs now and they can rely on you. She can love freely, and not feel that you're less of a man because you can't even work properly, let alone tend to her.
The journey doesn't end....
A-Unit
