Gym & grocery store approaches

[GoodMan32]

sure, but how? Sometimes it like telling a man "just get taller".

Yeah. Especially seeing as an autist's instinct tends to be creepy.

We can learn some basic social rules, no doubt. But there's no way to fully train our instinct out of us.

 

[GoodMan32]

I have always perceived that a more direct approach (could be called Mode One Hardcore) made more sense in nightlife venue approaching.



When doing approaches in supermarkets, I've never had any complaints or drawn the attention of the staff.

There are approachers who have gotten in trouble for approaching in a shopping location. The Toronto mall PUA guys were a well known case of it in 2013. I think a lot of the approaches were not calibrated and more like spam approaches.

A Swarm of Pickup Artists Tried to Invade a Mall in Toronto

Unfortunately this wasn't the only pick up event scheduled on arguably the worst day ever to hold such an event, December 6, the National Day of Remembrance and Action on Violence Against Women and the 24th anniversary of the l'Ecole Polytechnique...

www.vice.com

Most reasonable approachers will be like us, not catching attention from the outside world.

Yikes to hear about the Toronto story.

If you don't mind me asking, where would you say you fall on the 1-10 looks scale?

(Asking because looks could potentially make a difference in whether a guy is viewed as a creep)

 

[SW15]

If you don't mind me asking, where would you say you fall on the 1-10 looks scale?

You are better off getting a face rating done by Wheat Waffles.

If you could, as a secondary effort, you would want to see if you could get heterosexual women to rate your looks. Ideally, the typical man would want to get heterosexual women in his realistic dating pool to rate him. For you, the realistic dating pool would be ages 23-33 at its widest.

 

[GoodMan32]

You are better off getting a face rating done by Wheat Waffles.

If you could, as a secondary effort, you would want to see if you could get heterosexual women to rate your looks. Ideally, the typical man would want to get heterosexual women in his realistic dating pool to rate him. For you, the realistic dating pool would be ages 23-33 at its widest.

I don't have much experience getting gals around my age (or any age) to rate my looks.

A girl I went on 2 dates with in college rated me an 8 and a half.

When I posted my picture on a human (not AI) looks rating website, I remember a woman around my age rating me a 9. I don't remember what anyone else rated me (but I remember the rating was skewed by the fact men rated me too)

In high school, a female classmate rated me a 1 (but I guarantee she never even gave much thought to my looks; the 1 rating was more a rating of my social standing at school)

Various gals I've been involved with through the years have indicated they found me attractive...without mentioning a 1-10 score.