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Gym & grocery store approaches

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I first got the idea in my head that night clubs are for alphas.

Additionally, night clubs have all sorts of qualities that could potentially turn off beta males:

-Extremely loud music
-The style of music
-Excess alcohol consumption
-Dancing
-Late nights
-Decent chance of fistfights breaking out
Nightlife venues cover a variety of different types of venues.

In general, nightlife favors alpha males but not to the extent that swipe apps do.

Those things have the potential to turn off alphas, sigmas, betas, and omegas. It doesn't matter who you are as a male.

Betas are the majority of males and also the majority of nightlife venue attendees.

Quieter lounge type environments are better for conversation and better for pickup for a lot of men.

The loud music venues are going to favor alphas more because there's little verbal communication. Everything is based off of looks.

There are plenty of men who approach in nightlife venues and avoid the loud, nightclub type environments.

If we go back to the original topic, the general gym floor is going to be most like a loud, nightclub environment in terms of how it would favor alphas. Women wearing earbuds are going to get annoyed by most approaches but they would be more likely to accept an approach from a 6'0"+ man who is fit/muscular. Men other than those can approach, but it's a more difficult battle with earbud wearing women on the general gym floor. A cool, sigma male can do well here, but is going to have more of a difficult time if his physique isn't shredded.

The grocery store is less looks based. The alpha advantage is reduced here. This is a place where a lone wolf, sigma type guy can do very well and is likely why the grocery store has been my best venue for finding first dates of the traditional daygame venues.
 
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