I stopped going to clubs when realizing the guys having the most success there (DJ, Bouncers, Promoters, Celebrities, Owner) were also the ones getting PAID to be there.old married dude said:
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Guys, Don't Waste Your Time & Money at Bars & Clubs - Here's Why
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LiveFreeX
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If your game is high then you should invest in some dance lessons. You want the hottest women to notice you? Walk in at 9:30, make a b-line to the empty dance floor and bust a move for an hour. I've been break dancing for about 14 years and it has helped me meet thousands of people all around the world.
Its not hard to pick up a few basic things like popping and locking and you'll be the most popular person in the nightclub. I give lessons to guys in packed nightclubs, you should see the attention we get. If they have their game turned to full, you have near instant success. Can be applied in any club, anywhere in the world.
Its no different than being the extremely ripped guy w/ game at a nerd convention. You crush the opposition (10d6 lighting bolt, no saving throws!). I've NEVER spent money in a club and I go every Saturday on the VIP and get women approaching me non-stop through the night... I always bring a couple wings because I have a girl that I'm happy with.
Learn to dance, you don't have to be a pro.. a couple lessons for a hundred bucks will make clubs into gyms and you'll be the only body builder in a room full of fatties.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SU-tpNPoNmg
GAME is 90% body language, learn to use it and you'll be invincible.
Its not hard to pick up a few basic things like popping and locking and you'll be the most popular person in the nightclub. I give lessons to guys in packed nightclubs, you should see the attention we get. If they have their game turned to full, you have near instant success. Can be applied in any club, anywhere in the world.
Its no different than being the extremely ripped guy w/ game at a nerd convention. You crush the opposition (10d6 lighting bolt, no saving throws!). I've NEVER spent money in a club and I go every Saturday on the VIP and get women approaching me non-stop through the night... I always bring a couple wings because I have a girl that I'm happy with.
Learn to dance, you don't have to be a pro.. a couple lessons for a hundred bucks will make clubs into gyms and you'll be the only body builder in a room full of fatties.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SU-tpNPoNmg
GAME is 90% body language, learn to use it and you'll be invincible.
Yo. Lil end of summer update.
Right now I'm actually packing up my truck and boat ready for another trip to Havasu for Labor Day weekend.
Figured I'd share some more observations about the club scene:
Foreign male influence is a big part of the problem. I have to travel a bit for work, and I travel a lot for play, and one thing I noticed is there are tons of British guys, Brazillian guys, and italian guys flooding to US tourist traps, but they are only males. I heard an anecdote from a navy friend talking about plane fulls of Brazillian men landing near his station, but never any of the women. The guys come, without equal female numbers, and just totally bulk up the male ratios in popular US spring/summer destinations.
Since he told me that, I've kept my eyes open, and that's a BIG part of why spring break destinations have been so bad recently.
As for clubbing in general. Clubs are for dates now, groups. They are NOT meat markets anymore. The meat markets are the social spots, the bars, the lil events. You won't meet your girls in clubs anymore, but you can use clubs as good day two/seduction scenario spots, if you know how to work that lifestyle.
I'm in San Diego, former military, etc. Lot of my friends live up in the Inland Empire, north of Base, renting houses. It has been a GOLD mine for me this year. SoCal is not out of the running yet, but the Coastal areas have been abused. I just spent a week in OC for work, some good, whole lot of bad. I can give better detail if requested, after I get back from my trip.
Vegas was still Vegas, but the foreign male influence was HUGE. I went to Vegas in May and July, and all over the place you saw the Euro dudes, whole teams worth, and not a single girl in sight. I talked to a bunch of them, trying to find out what's good, and they all said they came in groups of 5-10 guys, not a single girl, as "we came to find some American lasses mate".
They also get very drunk and can quickly ruin a party.
Dance game is QUASI-irrelevant because of what I listed earlier. dance game is a comfort and seduction tactic now, not really attraction. It will be hard to dance with NEW girls in many popular spots. They will all be in their groups with their dates/table mates. How you use dancing THESE days is to get a good club outing planned, and use your dance skills to build comfort with and seduce a girl you invited out.
A blueprint for me and some of my boys has been:
meet girls randomly wherever, invite them over to wherever to pre-game, go clubbing(dance, comfort, invite the seduction), bring them back for the afterparty, drink more, smoke weed, throw them into the pool, etc.
It's been pretty golden.
I still lone wolf in clubs and bars and it's still the same ole same ole, but the game has changed.
I'm not looking forward to this havasu trip at all, it is going to be 118 degrees and a major sausage fest. My boys just got back from Astan , so I'm going for their sake.
Right now I'm actually packing up my truck and boat ready for another trip to Havasu for Labor Day weekend.
Figured I'd share some more observations about the club scene:
Foreign male influence is a big part of the problem. I have to travel a bit for work, and I travel a lot for play, and one thing I noticed is there are tons of British guys, Brazillian guys, and italian guys flooding to US tourist traps, but they are only males. I heard an anecdote from a navy friend talking about plane fulls of Brazillian men landing near his station, but never any of the women. The guys come, without equal female numbers, and just totally bulk up the male ratios in popular US spring/summer destinations.
Since he told me that, I've kept my eyes open, and that's a BIG part of why spring break destinations have been so bad recently.
As for clubbing in general. Clubs are for dates now, groups. They are NOT meat markets anymore. The meat markets are the social spots, the bars, the lil events. You won't meet your girls in clubs anymore, but you can use clubs as good day two/seduction scenario spots, if you know how to work that lifestyle.
I'm in San Diego, former military, etc. Lot of my friends live up in the Inland Empire, north of Base, renting houses. It has been a GOLD mine for me this year. SoCal is not out of the running yet, but the Coastal areas have been abused. I just spent a week in OC for work, some good, whole lot of bad. I can give better detail if requested, after I get back from my trip.
Vegas was still Vegas, but the foreign male influence was HUGE. I went to Vegas in May and July, and all over the place you saw the Euro dudes, whole teams worth, and not a single girl in sight. I talked to a bunch of them, trying to find out what's good, and they all said they came in groups of 5-10 guys, not a single girl, as "we came to find some American lasses mate".
They also get very drunk and can quickly ruin a party.
Dance game is QUASI-irrelevant because of what I listed earlier. dance game is a comfort and seduction tactic now, not really attraction. It will be hard to dance with NEW girls in many popular spots. They will all be in their groups with their dates/table mates. How you use dancing THESE days is to get a good club outing planned, and use your dance skills to build comfort with and seduce a girl you invited out.
A blueprint for me and some of my boys has been:
meet girls randomly wherever, invite them over to wherever to pre-game, go clubbing(dance, comfort, invite the seduction), bring them back for the afterparty, drink more, smoke weed, throw them into the pool, etc.
It's been pretty golden.
I still lone wolf in clubs and bars and it's still the same ole same ole, but the game has changed.
I'm not looking forward to this havasu trip at all, it is going to be 118 degrees and a major sausage fest. My boys just got back from Astan , so I'm going for their sake.
While there's been a lot of discussion about how the nightlife has died (and I agree), no one has yet explained how women currently meet guys. They do not meet guys on Facebook. Facebook is for harmless flirting within cliques, but there's no true sexual aspect to it. Even if there were, the last thing people would do is publicize their sex lives on FB. From my perspective FB is smoke-and-mirrors and doesn't really reflect how women really meet guys.
I look at it from another angle, namely demographics. The number of young girls in the population varies from time period to time period, and right now we're in a period where there just aren't a lot of young single women in the US. Look at the population growth aspect. If you were born in 1980, that was a time point when US births started to increase every year afterwards till 1990. There were more young girls that came after you than there were guys in your generation. By the time you turned 25 (let's say 2005), the number of younger women exceeded the number of older men, and since that's the typical dating pattern (older guys date younger girls), you would've had a lot of choices in 2005. That's exactly what happened.
Now let's look at the current period, today's young girls 18-21 were born in 1990-1993. That was a time of decreasing births, because US births peaked in '91 and started decreasing afterwards (I'm looking at this graph: http://i39.tinypic.com/126eeu1.jpg) The number of younger girls is now less than the number of older guys who are looking for them. Negative population growth really hurts men while positive growth helps (e.g. after the Baby Boom in 1940-1960 there were so many young women that men had a very easy time dating and mating).
I explore this subject further in a new blog that I've just started,
http://ratiofactor.blogspot.com/
Feel free to check it out if interested, I'll be posting some further comments and analysis on this topic. I was looking for resources on this subject, but they're very hard to find for some reason. (Nothing against "Mala Fide" or other bloggers, but I don't find their expletive-laden diatribes scientifically satisfying.)
If anyone has further thoughts, please share.
I look at it from another angle, namely demographics. The number of young girls in the population varies from time period to time period, and right now we're in a period where there just aren't a lot of young single women in the US. Look at the population growth aspect. If you were born in 1980, that was a time point when US births started to increase every year afterwards till 1990. There were more young girls that came after you than there were guys in your generation. By the time you turned 25 (let's say 2005), the number of younger women exceeded the number of older men, and since that's the typical dating pattern (older guys date younger girls), you would've had a lot of choices in 2005. That's exactly what happened.
Now let's look at the current period, today's young girls 18-21 were born in 1990-1993. That was a time of decreasing births, because US births peaked in '91 and started decreasing afterwards (I'm looking at this graph: http://i39.tinypic.com/126eeu1.jpg) The number of younger girls is now less than the number of older guys who are looking for them. Negative population growth really hurts men while positive growth helps (e.g. after the Baby Boom in 1940-1960 there were so many young women that men had a very easy time dating and mating).
I explore this subject further in a new blog that I've just started,
http://ratiofactor.blogspot.com/
Feel free to check it out if interested, I'll be posting some further comments and analysis on this topic. I was looking for resources on this subject, but they're very hard to find for some reason. (Nothing against "Mala Fide" or other bloggers, but I don't find their expletive-laden diatribes scientifically satisfying.)
If anyone has further thoughts, please share.
While there's been a lot of discussion about the fact that nightlife has died (and I agree), no one has yet explained how women currently meet guys. Women don't really meet guys on Facebook. Facebook is for harmless flirting among cliques, but there's no truly sexual aspect to it, and even if there were, the last thing people would do is publicize their sex lives on it. FB is more of a smoke-and-mirrors kind of thing, which obscures what really goes on behind the scenes, so I wouldn't really blame it too much.
I look at it from another angle, namely demographics. The number of young girls fluctuates from time period to time period, and right now we're in a period where there just aren't enough young single women. Look at the population growth aspect. If you were born in 1980, you were born at a time point when US births had started to increase every year afterwards till 1990, i.e. there were more girls that came after you than there were boys in your generation. By the time you turned 25 (let's say in 2005), the number of younger women exceeded the number of older men, and since that's the usual dating pattern (older guys date slightly younger girls), you would've had a lot of choices in 2005, which is exactly what happened.
Now let's look at the current time period, today's girls who are 18-21 right now were born around 1990-1993. This was a time of decreasing births in the US, because after a peak in 1991, they began to go down each year (I'm looking at this graph: http://i39.tinypic.com/126eeu1.jpg). Thus, there are currently fewer younger women than there are older men who are looking for them. Negative population growth hurts men while positive growth helps a lot.
I explore this subject further in my blog,
http://ratiofactor.blogspot.com/
Feel free to check it out if interested, I'll be posting some further comments and analysis. I was looking for any resources on this topic, but they're really hard to come by, for some reason. (Nothing against "Mala Fide" or other bloggers, I just don't find their expletive-laden diatribes scientifically satisfying.)
If you have any thoughts/comments, please share.
I look at it from another angle, namely demographics. The number of young girls fluctuates from time period to time period, and right now we're in a period where there just aren't enough young single women. Look at the population growth aspect. If you were born in 1980, you were born at a time point when US births had started to increase every year afterwards till 1990, i.e. there were more girls that came after you than there were boys in your generation. By the time you turned 25 (let's say in 2005), the number of younger women exceeded the number of older men, and since that's the usual dating pattern (older guys date slightly younger girls), you would've had a lot of choices in 2005, which is exactly what happened.
Now let's look at the current time period, today's girls who are 18-21 right now were born around 1990-1993. This was a time of decreasing births in the US, because after a peak in 1991, they began to go down each year (I'm looking at this graph: http://i39.tinypic.com/126eeu1.jpg). Thus, there are currently fewer younger women than there are older men who are looking for them. Negative population growth hurts men while positive growth helps a lot.
I explore this subject further in my blog,
http://ratiofactor.blogspot.com/
Feel free to check it out if interested, I'll be posting some further comments and analysis. I was looking for any resources on this topic, but they're really hard to come by, for some reason. (Nothing against "Mala Fide" or other bloggers, I just don't find their expletive-laden diatribes scientifically satisfying.)
If you have any thoughts/comments, please share.
Meh, does still happen sometimes.Eugene__ said:
I fvcked two new women last week - one from a random club pick up, one from her (the other) randomly adding me on facebook and me escalating from there:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=191416
You can cry about night game being dead all you like, but where I am (when back in the city), there are thousands of hotties out.
Sure beats day game (although of course, opportunities may arise) and online (majority are fat or only seeking attention).
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
lol I can verify this.PokerStar said:
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This is why women say men are stupid.
That's why men like girls instead of women. After 25, all they want a man for is "support." If you have a constant supply of good money, keep going after the 18-25 year old girls. It's cheaper in the long run, and way less annoying. Besides, after 25 they start showing their age and are desperatly running out of time (and they know it).
Try starting a collage party (make some small flyers), only invite girls to this party. Start your own social event. You'll have a good time. I know, I have a yaght party every week. It doesn't take them long to find out who owns the yaght.:cheer: :rockon: :cheer:
Precicely, now-a-days women (beutiful women) would rather read your profile first and then decide if they want to date you. They want to know that all too frequently asked question that they try to bury in their line of questioning as to be not too obvious. "So, What do you do?" or "What do you do for a living?"spinaroonie said:
That's why men like girls instead of women. After 25, all they want a man for is "support." If you have a constant supply of good money, keep going after the 18-25 year old girls. It's cheaper in the long run, and way less annoying. Besides, after 25 they start showing their age and are desperatly running out of time (and they know it).
Try starting a collage party (make some small flyers), only invite girls to this party. Start your own social event. You'll have a good time. I know, I have a yaght party every week. It doesn't take them long to find out who owns the yaght.:cheer: :rockon: :cheer:
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The good thing about clubs is that they are a perfect place to practice pick-up, when you know that girls are no there to be get you can rely yourself and being outcome independant.
Despite clubs being a sousage fest there is still an agreeable number of girls in an environment where is no "creepy" to approach.
You can start the interaction and try to isolate and escalate and see what work (while playing on hard mode) so when you will be near accessible girls you know what to do and what to avoid.
Despite clubs being a sousage fest there is still an agreeable number of girls in an environment where is no "creepy" to approach.
You can start the interaction and try to isolate and escalate and see what work (while playing on hard mode) so when you will be near accessible girls you know what to do and what to avoid.
Young Juan
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Disproved all this last night. Two girls, two numbers, both hit me up. Will soon fvck both of em. Good luck with that glass
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The thread is about a general shift & trend. Nobody is saying it can't be done at all. Just that it is usually a waste of time, money and effort. And of course geographical area plays a role.Young Juan said:
My experience is similar to everyone else's. Clubs/bars these days are a bunch of friends going out, staying together and leaving together while pretending that nobody else exists. I once was at a vodka bar where HALF of the whole fuvken bar was a birthday party. Lame as hell. I left after 10 minutes.
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
I see what you're saying, but I still disagree with the waste. As far as a solo guy getting it in with a group of friends? Not super likely. Now on the other hand, if you're with a few friends or a group, it's much easier to mix with another group since the singles from each group will intermingle.
I somewhat agree with the staying and leaving together part. Most chicks I meet leave with their friends but that doesn't mean that you can't go with her and her friends or her and her friends wont come back wit you and yours. The dynamics have changed but I disagree with it being a total waste of time.
The age old adage still stands true that girls just wanna have fun. I always try to just make my expereince to have as much fun as possible. I may drink 2 or 3 drinks, but I drink mostly water the rest of the night. I don't buy girls drinks unless they've been hangin out with me for a good while and I'm getting a round anyways. Half the time I don't even ask for their numbers, they ask for mine or suggest we exchange. Yeah, I live in a Phoenix, AZ, but my game was the same when I went to Anchorage, AK and it worked just as well.
I somewhat agree with the staying and leaving together part. Most chicks I meet leave with their friends but that doesn't mean that you can't go with her and her friends or her and her friends wont come back wit you and yours. The dynamics have changed but I disagree with it being a total waste of time.
The age old adage still stands true that girls just wanna have fun. I always try to just make my expereince to have as much fun as possible. I may drink 2 or 3 drinks, but I drink mostly water the rest of the night. I don't buy girls drinks unless they've been hangin out with me for a good while and I'm getting a round anyways. Half the time I don't even ask for their numbers, they ask for mine or suggest we exchange. Yeah, I live in a Phoenix, AZ, but my game was the same when I went to Anchorage, AK and it worked just as well.
yes yes this my problem. i gave up on bars and clubs, it was a waste of time and money. i have no wingmen because all my friends are married and dont go out much. i have no one, so i have to go out and prowl on my own. its hard by yourself. i cant just jump into the middle of someones clique and hit on a girl in front of everybody. i mean nobody wants to do that.
ive noticed that attractive women are rarely alone. they always have their bf or the pvssy beggars that follow them around. the only times they are alone is when they are busy doing something like at the gym, reading, texting, or working.
now i just go to walmart or the supermarket hoping i can catch one shopping alone.
ive noticed that attractive women are rarely alone. they always have their bf or the pvssy beggars that follow them around. the only times they are alone is when they are busy doing something like at the gym, reading, texting, or working.
now i just go to walmart or the supermarket hoping i can catch one shopping alone.
Naughty Ninja
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Whats your b- boy name? I used to break when i was younger. Im big into watching the red bull competitions. Junior from france is nasty and easy roc from rsc. Too many to mention. Im proud as hell how far its come. Been into graff though havent wrote bombed or pieced in years. T kid and many others from around the world are insane. Dj'd for 22the years huge into turntablism and real dj mixing skills. **** you got me going..lolLiveFreeX said:If your game is high then you should invest in some dance lessons. You want the hottest women to notice you? Walk in at 9:30, make a b-line to the empty dance floor and bust a move for an hour. I've been break dancing for about 14 years and it has helped me meet thousands of people all around the world.
Its not hard to pick up a few basic things like popping and locking and you'll be the most popular person in the nightclub. I give lessons to guys in packed nightclubs, you should see the attention we get. If they have their game turned to full, you have near instant success. Can be applied in any club, anywhere in the world.
Its no different than being the extremely ripped guy w/ game at a nerd convention. You crush the opposition (10d6 lighting bolt, no saving throws!). I've NEVER spent money in a club and I go every Saturday on the VIP and get women approaching me non-stop through the night... I always bring a couple wings because I have a girl that I'm happy with.
Learn to dance, you don't have to be a pro.. a couple lessons for a hundred bucks will make clubs into gyms and you'll be the only body builder in a room full of fatties.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SU-tpNPoNmg
GAME is 90% body language, learn to use it and you'll be invincible.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
**** im from nyc. I was single and barely dated for years. Teens were breakin, then djing and bombing for years and years. I was a friggin beast on turntables. Literally a hermit practicing mixes and dj routines for years. Djd in several states and jamaica. I still follow it but that sh!t consumed my life for years. Had to drop it all completely. Mofos have no idea the sh!t i know about djing and bombing especially. Damn i had the best years growing up even without chicks and id do it over again. Though after a certain point it got too much. Hell i could go on for days about dmc competitions writing breaking.bradd80 said:
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Yup, I remember getting loads of numbers, while watching desperate guys get gunned down left, right, and centre!sstype said:
The guys who left with girls, more ofter then not, came in with them.
BadNews
Senior Don Juan
Perhaps it's just me...but I completely disagree with your post/thoughts. I have been having nothing other than HUGE success at clubs. I don't just do the club scene to find women, but it has not let me down whatsoever.spinaroonie said:
As for where to meet a quality girl? You CAN meet them at a club, but it's a little less likely. I've always found GF material women are easiest to connect with through your social network. Friends, family, groups and organizations you may belong to are all great ways to meet quality women.
