Got hit on and got a number from a sexy 25 year old at the water park today. Why? Because I am in shape.

[FlexpertHamilton]

I mean that's included but it was probably no more than 45 minutes total over the 5 hours and not all at once.

Honestly I like punishing them and making them cvm/squirt as many times as possible until their eyes roll back in their head and/or they can't take it any more and tell me I have to stop for a little bit to allow them to recover.

I find that super hot...also usually leads to them telling me I can do whatever I want to them.

Honestly even after I blast a load I am ready to go within a few minutes...sometimes so don't even go soft.

It's definitely gotten more intense since I have gotten in really good shape...definitely had to take a lot more rest periods when I was heavier. Now it doesn't even phase me and I can keep going for quite some time...

Thats crazy once I bust I can keep going but its incredibly sensitive and uncomfortable so I usually stop.

I would think I'm in decent shape but hours still sounds crazy. It's part of the reason I started running/sprinting more, in case I ever do feel like going longer. Do you just do cardio or what?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Thats crazy once I bust I can keep going but its incredibly sensitive and uncomfortable so I usually stop.

I would think I'm in decent shape but hours still sounds crazy. It's part of the reason I started running/sprinting more, in case I ever do feel like going longer. Do you just do cardio or what?

Weighted vest hill climbs...by far the thing that will translate the most in the bedroom that I have ever done and I've done just about everything.

 

[EyeBRollin]

also, the women in your life want you to fall out of shape. Why? Exactly because of the reasons like this.

don’t buy into the “I think you look great baby” thing. You do look great to them, but not for the reason you may think.

I noticed this with my wife. I’ve lost 15 lbs (unintentionally) this year. Now I look shredded and even better. My wife said I need to gain weight and is trying to get me to eat more junk. She said I need to “look more married.”

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I noticed this with my wife. I’ve lost 15 lbs (unintentionally) this year. Now I look shredded and even better. My wife said I need to gain weight and is trying to get me to eat more junk. She said I need to “look more married.”

Don't fall for that sh!t...

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I noticed this with my wife. I’ve lost 15 lbs (unintentionally) this year. Now I look shredded and even better. My wife said I need to gain weight and is trying to get me to eat more junk. She said I need to “look more married.”

This is common.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This is common.

Yup, they want to lock you in, lower your value with other women and then once they realize you are happy to let yourself go, lose attraction and leave for men in better shape as you become a butterball while they continue working out and staying in shape.

Then all the excuses start rolling in why sex is dwindling to once a month then once every two months, then 3 times a year and all the while they act like it's a chore to have sex with you...

Until finally sex stops happening because they are getting it from someone else and they consider it "cheating" on them to have sex with their unattractive, out of shape husband.

Men, don't let this be you.
Fair warning.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Had to reschedule things on Thursday due to work obligations but we are planning on doing the movie/drink/bang thing tonight instead...and she is already talking about things she needs to pack that she forgot to bring last time so I am assuming she is spending the night...and she sent me a pic of what she will be wearing underneath her outfit...

I'm not sure my c0ck has gone down since she sent it about 45 mins ago...

 

[Divorced w 3]

Had to reschedule things on Thursday due to work obligations but we are planning on doing the movie/drink/bang thing tonight instead...and she is already talking about things she needs to pack that she forgot to bring last time so I am assuming she is spending the night...and she sent me a pic of what she will be wearing underneath her outfit...

I'm not sure my c0ck has gone down since she sent it about 45 mins ago...

Go with God

 

[IKO69]

I have noticed that just adding weight by itself helps without working out as well. Women dont want no skinny guy. They want a man that can protect them and that includes guys that have some weight behind them.

Yes, working out is of capital importance. There is nothing that will hurt you more than being an out of shape looking, beer swilling with a gut, couch potato. Physical attraction goes both ways and yes, women do value a man who can protect them. Working out is essential and one of the easiest ways to raise your self esteem / add a few points to your overall attractiveness. Really should be done for oneself but as a nice bonus you get more attention from women. What guy doesn't want that?

 

[SargeMaximus]

Too much banter for me. When I get hit in in public I just get embarrassed and don’t know what to say. Maybe just say I’m not looking for anything serious and offer my number? I dunno.

I have noticed that just adding weight by itself helps without working out as well. Women dont want no skinny guy. They want a man that can protect them and that includes guys that have some weight behind them.

Tell that to my Auschwich-body brother who gets the cuties

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Too much banter for me. When I get hit in in public I just get embarrassed and don’t know what to say. Maybe just say I’m not looking for anything serious and offer my number? I dunno.



Tell that to my Auschwich-body brother who gets the cuties

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Too much banter for me. When I get hit in in public I just get embarrassed and don’t know what to say. Maybe just say I’m not looking for anything serious and offer my number? I dunno.

That's a hole in your game you should work on fixing.

 

[SargeMaximus]

That's a hole in your game you should work on fixing.

Nah. Props on the 5 hours tho. Longest I’ve gone was 3

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Realized I haven't updated this thread in a while but don't have a ton to report. This chick is legit super into me in a way that is very surprising to me to be honest.

It's almost like she is fighting so hard to win my approval at everything that when she finally gets it, she is over the moon happy about it and gushes about it to me(not about how she wants my approval, but how much she likes me, how I make her feel amazing, etc)...

Honestly I am not even trying that hard. It's like the less I try the more she fights for my validation and approval. I don't know if it's because she is so young but she asks me for life advice a LOT and I try and give her my thoughts based on what I have experienced and she seems super appreciative of it.

She brings me food I like without me asking when she comes over, she went on a trip and brought me a small gift back that she said reminded her of me and she wanted to get it for me and she always brings stuff over if we cook dinner together.

Honestly I am waiting for her to ask to be my girlfriend, that's the vibe I am getting from her, but she hasn't yet and I am not sure what I'd say if she did.

While she is probably one of the hotter women I have been with in a long time, I have to think there has to be some ulterior motive at play. I think to myself she can't really like me as much as it seems she does. It just doesn't make a lot of sense to me...

Constantly texting me, double and triple texting me if she doesn't hear back in a while, calling me babe, telling me how she catches other women checking me out and it makes her jealous when we go out, etc...

I've just decided I am not going to question things, I am just going to enjoy it while it lasts and keep fvcking the life out of her when she comes over.

Pretty much always spends the night and then wants to stay the next day sometimes too... I've only allowed that once, she spent the whole weekend at my place and it was cool and we had fun but I don't want to set a precedent for it. I like my space and have made her leave by noon the other times.

 

[obelisk]

That's awesome. Stay frosty. Less is more. You're doing a good job of not getting fully enticed by her enthusiasm.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Keep spinning this plate!

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Haven't posted an update on this in a little while because there hasn't been much to update, things have been going well and I have been seeing her once or twice a week and we have been fvcking like rabbits.

She spent the night at my house Saturday night this past weekend and when she woke up Sunday morning she had this kinda weird grin on her face as she looked at me and she just kept staring at me for a few seconds and I asked if she was having a stroke or something and did I need to call an ambulance and laughed and she said No! And kinda pinched me a little and then she just looked at me and said "I just wanted you to know that I really love you." And put her head on my chest.

I kinda didn't know how to respond and it caught me off guard so I said something like "Well that's definitely good to know" and I kissed her forehead and she snuggled her head onto my chest and just lay there...then she ramped things up and we went at it pretty heavy for the rest of the morning...

Has been texting me almost non-stop since...I am wondering if I made her feel insecure by not saying "I love you back"?

Not sure what I want to do here...I really do like spending time with her and our chemistry is off the charts good but I don't know if I want to head down that road with someone 25.

Has anyone been in this situation before in terms of huge age difference relationships?

 

[Dr.Suave]

Not sure what I want to do here...

Damn, bro. I dont think we can figure this one out for you.

Some people are gonna say go for it. Some are gonna say its not gonna work out due to age difference, better save yourself the trouble and just spin plates for life.

What is your gut telling you?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yes, I have.
I think you should slow her down. Not to put a hex on you, but narcissistic people have a tendency to 'love-bomb' the first weeks/months and they can make you walk on clouds, but after you commit to them exclusively their true character comes out. Make sure you date her long enough before you 'commit' or 'go exclusive' with her.

I was leaning that way too...I mean it's only been like 3 months so far.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I was leaning that way too...I mean it's only been like 3 months so far.

That’s long enough man. Give it a shot. Being exclusive is not the same as living together or being married. It’s honestly not even a big deal. If you really do like the girl don’t play these stupid games. If she turns out to be batshvt in a few more months you can just dump her.

Don’t listen to the spin plates until you die chorus. There should be a final goal somewhere. What do you want out of all of this?