Got hit on and got a number from a sexy 25 year old at the water park today. Why? Because I am in shape.

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With that type of woman, you can be Johnny Sins, she just won't be satisfied with only one man.
Better Sins than Depp. You'll make it to 60 without ending up debilitated by wet brain, or a fading former FHM cover girl s-itting your bed, both figuratively and literally
 

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Judging on how she hit on you as described in OP she's not shy and she's obviously not interested in settling down. With that type of woman, you can be Johnny Sins, she just won't be satisfied with only one man.
That's a lot of assumptions you are making on one interaction without knowing anything about her.
 
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In this case, she said "Damn, I hope I look as good as you do when I get to your age!"

I laughed and said "Thanks, but I have a way to go to get to where I want to be at."

She looked me up and down and said, "I think you look amazing right now!"

So I laughed and said "Amazing enough to grab a drink sometime and connect when we have more clothes on?"

She said "Absolutely!" and came back to where my stuff was at in the locker and gave me her number. I texted her so she'd have my number and she said she'd hit me up when she got her stuff as she didn't have her phone.

She hit me up about an hour ago and asked me "So when are we going to meet up?" with smiley faces...
@BackInTheGame78 you truly are back in the game, I loved reading your story including how you got together!!^^

I'm curious how she knew your age, in my world it's not something people ask upon first meet but anyway it's a great story and kinda debunks the notion that "men pursue/women respond" which I'm personally moving away from and have posted about it.

Like in your case, I'd say you both pursued each other which are the best types of relationships imo! You both made effort and from what's posted above it all went down quite naturally and organically, equal give and take.

Not sure why the negativity from some, it's nearly a year later, she's told you she's in love with you, you are IT for her, the man, her man.

This was really nice to read.... enjoy!!! :love:
 

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That's a lot of assumptions you are making on one interaction without knowing anything about her.
That’s exactly right. And truly if she makes you happy who gives a fvck. I don’t blame OP for not being regular on the updates here. At a point, you just stop caring what others thing. The tactics have been used, the situation is going well, and all it does is open up the door for negative thinking to solicit or invite the criticism of others. I am the same way.
 

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@BackInTheGame78 you truly are back in the game, I loved reading your story including how you got together!!^^

I'm curious how she knew your age, in my world it's not something people ask upon first meet but anyway it's a great story and kinda debunks the notion that "men pursue/women respond" which I'm personally moving away from and have posted about it.

Like in your case, I'd say you both pursued each other which are the best types of relationships imo! You both made effort and from what's posted above it all went down quite naturally and organically, equal give and take.

Not sure why the negativity from some, it's nearly a year later, she's told you she's in love with you, you are IT for her, the man, her man.

This was really nice to read.... enjoy!!! :love:
Well, she didn't know my age exactly, just that I was at least older than her by quite a bit. She actually guessed that I was 39 when I ended up asking her how old she thought I was on our first date and I laughed and said higher...she didn't believe me so she made me take out my license to prove it :lol:

It kinda helped that I had some random guy stop and ask me what I was doing for my workout plan because I looked great literally almost right in front of her.

I turned around after talking to him for a few minutes and she was standing right in front of me with a big smile on her face.

Oh for sure...I thought she was sexy AF...I honestly thought she was jerking my chain but I figured I'd shoot my shot and it seemed she was definitely NOT jerking my chain...
 

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Oh for sure...I thought she was sexy AF...I honestly thought she was jerking my chain but I figured I'd shoot my shot and it seemed she was definitely NOT jerking my chain...
This (Older men and younger women pairing up)is going to become more and more common


Especially as we men are required to undertake more education and training than our forefathers had to, in order to become financially and socially robust

Rejoice, BITG!!! You're a harbinger of the bright future many of us could enjoy
 

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This thread remotivated me to get my 4 pack back. All the lines are there and ive been lifting for years plus doing cardio so just have to dial it in a bit
 

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Are you doing barbell squats with a training belt?
No haha would that carve out the lines from the belt? I do them without a belt (and sometimes without pants at all since i lift in my home gym a lot lol)
 

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What are your stats, height/weight/bf%. Any celeb comparison?
173 lbs 5'8" around 11-12%. Very close to a full 6-pack, abs visible thru Dry-Fit compression shirts when I wear them. They look like thick slabs of ribs.

Thickly muscled with big lats and wide shoulders. About the only muscle group that lags on me is biceps, everything else grows pretty well. Veins going crazy including in weird places like my abs and chest.

My chiropractor calls me a Brahma Bull because of how thick my traps are and he has a hard time doing neck adjustments because of them :lol:

Not really...I rock a shaved head now so I kinda look like a drill sergeant.

It's always been a little weird for me...some average chicks think I'm meh and some hot chicks think I'm hot...one of those types where I have a pretty wide scale depending on who the woman is.
 
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