Going out alone - Journal

[Poop1337]

So if I understand correctly you're not even going for the number in most of these. Dude when ever possible go for the number. Also wow that is a **** load of approaches. like if you approach a 5 set are you counting that as 5 approaches lol.

Look you really need to go for the number even if it feels wrong. All those girls you kissed would have probably given you their number even if it had been awkward. Then you have a pile of numbers you can work and send texts to. Seriously I texted a girl who literaly hated me after I got her number. I made the mistake of saying she had short hair and she should grow it long. I stand by that comment but I shouldnt' have made it. She pushed me away. She ignored me when I texted her. Then I texted her months later and we had a date even though she remembered being mad at me. My point is get numbers. You need them.

 

[Don-Kong]

Interesting comment, thanks.

I don't class group sets or doubles in my approaches, as 2 or 5 or whatever, just the approach itself. Because each approach is an experience to draw valuable info from and work on getting better.

As for the numbers thing. It's a work in progress. I'm not overly concerned. Numbers don't equate to a pull, not on any level.

Question for you: wtf are you doing texting a chick months later for a date? I've got a whole stack of flaked numbers I've sacked off, I can't even remember what they look like. If you are going out often and actually gaming, then you won't need to hold on to a chick months down the line unless you see her regularly as a plate. Am I missing something here? Even after they flake by phone you text them up months later? Who else has this work for them? I really don't see any point in it but perhaps I am missing something?

Friday report to follow...

 

[Poop1337]

She was really hot and surprisingly the months later retext can work out so I wouldn't be so quick to just throw away numbers. I will delete numbers but it takes a lot lol. I got 3 numbers last night I need a better system for how I handle numbers. What would you do with 3 numbers you just got. My plan wait till Monday then have some comfort building conversation invite them out.

 

[Don-Kong]

'The Glide' (wing) was meant to be out with me but I got a text Friday morning saying he had man-flu. I felt good about it because I now am happy to go aout alone, months ago I would have been crushed "oh no, i have no one to go out with" ha ha. This was a realisation.

I had been out Thursday night with friends in the big smoke so Friday I was shattered. I almost didn't go out. I find it interesting when you commit to something, you just do it anyway. I know that feeling of tiredness leaves once I energise through the evening. It's pushing through it.

Friday
Where: Bar Kohl, trendy Vodka bar & Club Revolution Max capacity 1500 Medium size
When: 27/06/14
With who: Alone
Strategy: Initial strategy: work on logistics and try to move the chick out the club or bounce somewhere else. The strategy i actually used was different because I was tired, i was just out to have fun and get a few kisses. A bit of game maintenance.


Pre-club bar: Groups of people after work seemed to be here. I was far more relaxed than what I thought I would be. I had good chat with the bouncers who settled my initial butterflies. I went in and started to mingle straight off the bat opening some chick at the bar, then chatting with bar staff. The mood was light, this was warm-up territory. It's not a big place and is the sort of place where people would know you are on your own so I didn't stay too long. I mainly hung around at the bar area where there were more people as this seemed less noticeable and easier to meet randoms.

Had a few interesting chats about the world cup etc and Glastonbury (since the festival is on) and not much else happening but my state was becoming more open, relaxed, aware. Drunk people have an energy that is contagious and easy to relate to.

I opened double-sets with relative ease since I wasn't going for the usual cave-man grab the chick and kiss routine. All warming up.

Rocked up, round the corner to Club Revolution. By this point I was feeling very confident. The bouncers seemed sketchy thinking I was in a big group but was coming in alone. I just said I was just out after work looking for a dance. Inside the club was pretty easy.

Observations: lots of slvtty looking girls, chicks 30+, this was going to be interesting
Approaches: 50+
Opens lots of relaxed openers. "what's your name?" not very original but worked well. "fvck me you are sexy" worked really well. " YOU get here " slightly cave-man. This at the moment seems to be my default gaming style. "Hey slvt, dance with me, show me what you got!" - this annoyed and challenged some, good banter though which increased my state. "You're too old to be doing this" crazy, but worked well. Chicks in their 30's seem to have a sense of humour, where younger chicks freak out.

Attraction - didn't try as hard tonight, coz i wasn't that bothered. Perhaps this worked better for me and my expectations. Girls seemed to dig my vibe and appeared to find me sexy.

Comfort - I was much more comfortable, which i think translated my in my vibe. Less need to practice or do anything and more about just letting go. I really enjoyed it which meant that i was emanating that vibe, so this made it easy to chat and be at ease.

Close - kissed 9 women, 3 numbers
Kisses: on the dancefloor, grab, smile, spin her, pull her in close, no chat, kiss.
Numbers: Pulled them off the dancefloor, " I cant hear you, lets go over here" bounced the chicks into a quiet spot. "what's your name" bit of chat still difficult to hear, more kiss, "give me your number, we can hook up where it's not so noisy" not the greatest thing to say but in the moment it seemed alright, kiss, part ways. No intention of the pull. Same thing for the others.
Nice ozzy chick I want to get fired into, 25, gorgeous. Will see what manifests.

How to do better: Great night. Find more places which are like this. Different types of people go to different clubs. People here seemed much more relaxed but maybe that was just me. Again, I couldn't really be bothered but ironically turned out better than what some other nights went. So this may indicate I'm trying too hard at certain aspects. I ned to focus on spending more time with the chicks, definitely. I'm going for quantity but i should be going for quality. If I get the chick, kiss her, then she is into me, I need to work on the next steps, building deep rapport, more attraction, bouncing her to another venue, perhaps going outside to get food and create 'shared experiences' and intimate one on one time instead of getting the kiss and number and leaving her. This may indicate lack of interest to her. Will reflect further.

Now listening to old skool tunes for meet-up with friends to play pool. They might be coming out but if not, I will follow the schedule and will work on my mistakes from last night

 

[Don-Kong]

Saturday
Where: Fountainbridge (playing pool) then Silk nightclub (Temple night special DJ Dave Pearce)
When: 28/06/14
With who: Alone
Strategy: work against b1tch shields and use positive and negative validation. Get some numbers!

What can I say? Toughest and most valuable night ever!
It’s about 4.30am, I’m just in from the long walk home from the club. I’m buzzing. This one was an absolute baptism in fire. Oh my god. Proper learning curve.

Observations: Hottest girls I have EVER seen. Ridiculous! So hot, jesus, it was insane! Girls walking around in knickers and bras serving drinks, like REALLY HOT CHICKS. Blonde bombshells giving out free drinks. I was horny all night.

Approaches: less then 10 - lowest since starting. nightmare! Maybe more but not by much!!

Opens - AGAIN, still the BEST EVER approach. Listen up guys. Walk up, Lift her. Spin her round, its the BEST experience she has in the club. She feels like a princess! Please take this to heart out of all my ramblings. It is dynamite!

Attraction - little. Created a lot of fun. Still went with the not that bothered vibe so approached less but everyone was digging my vibe. Got a MASS following of AFC’s who thought i was God, again. Its getting embarrassing. I tend to look at these guys now as pathetic, its harsh and judgemental but I’m willing them to approach, they don’t, they orbit, disgusting.

Comfort - I was so shocked tonight. Really shocked. It took me 1 HOUR AND 30 MINUTES TO APPROACH! Fvck. Thats FREEZE status. I got in the club at 11.30 and diddn’t approach till 1p.m. This really unsettled me. I was so taken aback by all the hot girls I just couldn’t believe it. I was having thoughts that I wasn’t good enough, that I wasn’t good looking enough, fun enough, I was too old etc. Nightmare. Proper nightmare.

Close - embarrassingly, i didnt kiss anyone tonight, i reckon I could have, i just didnt. One HB9 ASW was up in my face at the bar. She bought me a drink, we discussed eye colour. I said she looked like a cat with her weird eyes using a bit of C&F. This worked well. She bought me a drink after I gave her my place in the queue as it was taking forever. She made a joke about getting her boobs out etc. Got my drink had a peck and we went our separate ways. Little did I know that she was an ASW then until she displayed the common traits through the night, so I sacked her off a couple of time with a couple of blatant rejections and she was hounding me then after ruining my chances with other girls which i thought was bad game. Although I passed this off to other chicks saying I had previously rejected her and she was bitter. They agreed. I got 1 phone number!

My saving grace was meeting Shannon and Courtney. The 2 hottest chicks in the club. WITHOUT DOUBT. EVERY guy was like, WTF. I was really doubting myself aswell. Like who am I to be in with these chicks. It was weird. I met them first at the bar, gave a little banter and walked off. Came back 30,minutes later, gave more funny banter and walked off. This breaking rapport was really important. But, I’ve never doubted myself like this before. And yet, when I got to know both of them, they lived together and were both 18. BEST BODIES. OMG. To die for. Ridiculous. I played it really cool, really cool. They both kept pecking me on the cheek, giving me massive compliments etc and I was still playing the player. I picked both of them up and span them around several times, which they both loved. And loads of guys were really envious. They bought me drinks, we exchanged numbers. Then at the end of the night we all decided to do shots, doubles. I went to the toilet after and came back and they were both kissing random guys. I wasnt too bothered. As we met up after and discussed meeting up again for nights out. I know where they both work and they are both really keen. Not sure if I want to hook up with either one because they are both smoking so I’m thinking of having them around as chicks who look good to increase chances with others as a back up. I’d loved to have a 3 some with these chicks or edge my way in. Seriously, they were sooooo fit, its criminal!

Other C&F moments in the night with other chicks. Told one chick she looked like a vampire and she was looking like a 40 year old. She instantly got defensive and validating herself and then loved me. I was not bothered after this, my attraction faded, it was too easy.

How to do better: Where do I start? !!!
I froze for an hour and a half. Such wasted opportunity and coloured the whole night with lack of confidence. Fvcked up after the spin, perfect opportunity, like easily the best way to kiss and pull a girl. This really is a shame. I need to really follow this up. I’m kicking myself for this but didnt have the confidence in the moment to follow through as I was still shell-shocked.
Should I have made a move on the 2 gorgeous chicks who were really into me? I dont know? I know I should have made more approaches. I just froze. I need to work on the basics of overcoming that anxiety. I thought I had it down but it just goes to show that any situation can throw you off your game until you have experienced it.

Conclusion: I was seen as a god by some but felt like a poor man. I have it in me to really shine at game if I work at it and keep doing it. It gets easier. I know I can pull anyone if I make the right moves it comes down to practice. The more I go out alone, the more I progress. This really has propelled me and opened my eyes to anxiety and feeling free. I feel good. I had fun, OK so I didn't pull or kiss a bunch of chicks tonight. No big deal, I know I can. Clubs are soooo different. I'm going to investigate other clubs around the area which I have not tried. I'm also intrigued by how my confidence level diminished after being with my friends playing pool.
I was drinking coke and was really in high spirits. I got to the club and died. It wasn't until about an hour later that I hit the alcohol to up my state, which is a bad sign of a sh1tty night. So that was my crutch tonight. But I will learn from it. Insane night. Off to bed!

 

[ImprovingJuan]

it needs a great pair of BALLS to go sarging alone. i dont think i would/could do it alone, without a wingman. but i give kudos to those who can.

 

[Don-Kong]

It's not easy.

Sunday. Didn't go out

 

[Don-Kong]

Updated format to aid my learning and analysis:

When:
With who:
Initial thoughts:
Initial feelings:
Pre-club:
Club:
Capacity:
Style:
Strategy:

Stage 1: 11pm-12am
Warm-up sets:
Warmth Level/State:

Stage 2: 12-1am


Stage 3: 1-3am

Observations:
Approaches:
Types of openers:
Favourite Set:
Worst set:

HB levels & Ages:
Comfort -
Kiss Close -
Number Close -
Pull -
How to do better:
Conclusion:

 

[Don-Kong]

Schedule

When: 03/07/14
With who: Alone
Initial thoughts: I can’t wait to go out! I really want to get back out there. I hope it’s busy tonight. There are graduation parties going on through the city so the clubs should be packed, yes! This will factor into my openers.Many of the clubs also are doing closing up nights with cheap drinks before The Edinburgh Festival.
Initial feelings: Excitement, eagerness, anticipation, relief
Pre-club: I will find a trendy bar that is crammed full of Klit.
Club: Undecided. There are loads in the same area so I might just scope out where some chicks are going and tag along. Student clubs are a must for tonight.
Capacity: Student clubs round here are usually 1000+
Style: Music ranging from Pop, R&B to dance & house
Strategy: I’m expecting lots of students out tonight just looking to have a great night. This means, lack of inhibitions and letting go. This may also mean, close-nit cliques not wanting to be disturbed.

I think the whole, “what have you graduated in?” is a particular opener for tonight, perhaps with a bit of C&F depending on the response.

My main strategy though is smashing through ‘The Freeze’ - this is like a hell realm of approach anxiety and inner crisis. I don’t want to be stuck there again. Get in, warm-up, jump in. Take a shot if needs be to settle down and then crack on.
Second, I want to keep conversation going and develop rapport and not just run away after the kiss.
If I lift and spin the girl tonight, she’s getting fvcking kissed!
Then, I want to up that sh1t and go back to hers (my flat is messy) and destroy her. Thats the plan. Lets see what develops!

Time now: 7:15pm, start getting my clothes organised soon and get some tunes on
Edit. Time now: 9:15pm. Butterflies. Excellent, this is how I know its Thursday. I dont get this on following days as I've been out of the loop for several days. This is like jumping back in the fire.
Been watching a few RSD vids.
How to keep a conversation going after the open, just trust in my vibe rather than over think anything about content. Its all energy. Free associate using various specific words. This is good, I'll use this tonight.

 

[Don-Kong]

Thursday 03/07/14:
Pre-club: The Tron. Student bar. Massive groups huddled round tables, few people going up to the bar.
Club: The Hive
Capacity: 650+ Student club Small, intimate.
Style: Pop, R&B, old skool cheese

Stage 1: 11pm-12am
Warm-up sets: Really bad. The pre-club bar was a bad choice and put me in a weird state. Groups of students around table, a few chats to barmen and randoms which went really well got some good banter at the bar but couldn’t penetrate the large groups. So decided to immediately finish my drink and leave before it sucked me down.
Warmth Level/State: Started off low energy state.

Stage 2: 12-1am
In the club. It was quiet at first, I met a whole bunch of groups having their face painted and a few single guys out sarging alone! Sick. One from the States and the other from Germany. These guys provided home base for any passing conversations and mid dance high fives.
Succumbed to buying a few shots. Became loose and started really warming up, opening mainly double-sets.
Got on really well with everyone.

Stage 3: 1-3am
Burning up, really warm now but not supersonic. This is the time I made my most approaches. This is the time to get things on.

Observations: Stage 3 is the best time to approach everyone is buzzing. Girls are drunk and loose. I am vibing. Most AFC’s have been blown out and its a waiting game to move in and take the swooping opportunity. Anyone half non-AFC and can deal with a dance-floor Sh1t test is in. There didnt seem to be too many people celebrating a graduation, maybe there was but I didn’t speak to everyone. Student girls can be quite pretentious.

Approaches: 30+
Types of openers: AGAIN, the best opener is the confident as fvck, dance to her smooth, lift her, spin, perhaps gyrate her, kiss. ALWAYS gets the chick saying WTF in a good way. They love being the centre of the club looking like they are having the most fun. Gets them noticed. The follow-up is important.
Tried a few graduation openers, most chicks there hadn’t graduated but were studying so this was a good opener for conversation, What you studying blah blah.

Favourite Set: Petite chick, kissed mid-air whilst doing the spin, afterwards acted all casual and then we drifted apart? Why do i continue to do this?? I will analyse this, maybe its lack of confidence, maybe I just don’t know how to bounce her off the dance-floor, maybe I don’t know what to say once I got the kiss. This is a sticking point I have to address as the lift is so fvcking good, no stealing this trick fellas its gold! They get spun out and dont know whats going on, shock treatment.

Worst set: Dancing, then span round straight into this chick and started kissing her, to pull away 3 seconds later when i realised she was fat and slightly ugly. NO! Awful, really awful. I felt violated.

HB levels: 6-9. Ages:18-25. I always seem to misjudge these chicks ages to find out they are in fact 18.

Comfort - I felt comfortable sitting down in the club on my own when it was pretty empty. My comfort level of approaching chicks didn’t warm up properly till stage 3. Why was this? Approach anxiety wore off. I used a few shots for courage, not good, but it was like jump starting a car.

Kiss Close - 4
Number Close - 0
Pull - 0
How to do better: The approach anxiety is sometimes stronger depending on the environment. If I have space and can single chicks out I find I can approach easier. If there are large groups, then I am more hesitant. If it’s a smaller venue there is less places to hide or run so its a total sink or swim moment. I absolutely need to do something after the lift, have to, it’s so easy, they love it. If I make it awkward by not following up with some chat or bouncing her somewhere else instead of playing it cool, then I lose my chance in that moment to seal the deal. I might lift, spin, move her mid-air, grab her hand bounce, lift again. Watch the bouncers they hate it!

Conclusion: Good learning night again. Might avoid the student clubs for a bit and look for places with women a bit older but they tend not to be out too much through the week. Students are good practice though. Saw off my boy from the States who I’ve seen in there a whole bunch of times. It was epic, so many locals go its fun. My physical game is really good but my conversation dies out, so I need to work on improv.
Warm-ups need to be looked at, seriously.
End of the night walking home, saw some guy on the road wanting to kill himself. Some chicks were around and I talked to him. We all went back to his place. I’m getting him some free therapy. So got home about 5 am to be up at 6. Shattered the next day.
Friday night not out, went to be very early, not long up. Did some exercise, now thinking about the next venue

 

[Don-Kong]

Tonight's schedule
When: 05/07/14
With who: Alone
Initial thoughts: Cant wait.
Initial feelings: Excitement.
Pre-club: The Three Sisters, huge open pub, massive beer garden.
Club: Silk/Temple
Capacity: 1000+
Style: Pop/chart, R&B, Dance, house, funk
Strategy: Pump myself up, build my state. Warm-up, take time to do it. Dancing also allows me to let go so this is a good weapon. Own that approach anxiety! Do something, anything after the fvcking lift.
Should I go out earlier and build my state on a slow burn? Perhaps. We’ll see.

Pre-night out action plan
Simple mistakes:

1. Waiting to be in the zone/state/positive vibe/buzz/warmed-up to approach.
2. Asking for a phone number with no ‘lead-too action’
3. Doing nothing after the lift & spin


1. This is plain silly. Overcoming the freeze needs to be created from the inside and secondarily enhanced by the external conditions. That energy must be drawn upon or built-up through the course of the evening, confidence follows.
Action: Inner mantra “No one else in the club is doing this. I am a strong, brave as fvck, confident man and it’s sexy! My powerful, fun and positive energy is attractive! I am a Don Juan. There is no better time than now”
Action point 2: Open everyone at all costs. Spread the vibe, build the vibe.


2. Phone numbers don’t necessarily amount to anything. Getting a number whilst being vague about it results in flakey behaviour.
Action: Ask for a date first. Make it sound really fun. The phone number comes second.
Instead of approaching, chatting, kissing, nothing. Get a future with this chick. If I can’t bounce her out the door, last resort is a date of some sort which can be finalised via text.

3. Once you lift her and she's smiling, buzzing, enjoying herself, she is in an optimum state for your charms. Whether that is bouncing her elsewhere in the club, away from her friends. Perhaps even saying mid-air to the friends, now she's mine, I'll bring her back or something like this. Another option is straight to kiss as you are spinning, then lead her by the hand in an emergency state way, she wont know what's going on, the problem with this is that the dance-floor may be busy so the urgency may die down so keep strong eye contact.

 

[Peterpack]

I'm also really enjoying your reports

Please keep posting !

 

[FBJ]

nothing wrong going out alone now that we are in the age of Iphones and social media

Last week I went shopping for summer clothes and then went to lunch in a restaurant and while eating I was on facebook through my phone


So what's exactly is wrong with going out alone? Then you can strike up small talk with a lady in the area

 

[Peterpack]

my only comment is when i read of 30,40, 50 plus approaches, are you going for quantity over quality ?

My best nights out have been when i have approached under 5 girls but got great results because i've put some time into a couple of them. Most girls won't go home with a guy they have been chatting with for a minute unless he's a celeb or he really is physicallly her ideal.

 

[Don-Kong]

It's 4am, just in.

Quantity over quality? No absolutely not. But the whole practice is to practice. I’m not vetting chicks on their relative hotness. I try and warm-up as best I can. In a club environment I need to up my state. When I am in the zone I am unstoppable. Without this state I am fvcked. The more approaches, the warmer I get, the more in the zone I feel. I don’t care as much as what she looks like. I am more interested in being in that place where it is easy. I radiate pure sexy, seriously, its phenomenal. Until that point, I am restricted, imprisoned by my own thoughts.

Stage 1: 11pm-12am Pre-club: Espionage (which is a 5 storey club)
Warm-up sets: Lots. Easy sets. So easy, I was slick and un-stifled.
Warmth Level/State: Very warm. I opened everyone, especially the sexy bar-maids. OMG, they were hot, I didn’t push it as I saw them as warm-ups but this definitely propelled me into super-sonic state. I was jamming here, I kissed 6 women. It was too easy. Too easy. I wanted the challenge of a better club, so I moved on. This really hit me that its not the chicks that make me game, its the game itself.

Stage 2: 12-1am
On fire. In Silk. Smashed it, proper on fire. No approach anxiety. Slick and warm. This is how it feels. Easy when I am warmed-up. So important. I may as well kiss the night goodbye unless I am warm. Great banter with chicks, lots of connections. Got too caught up with one chick who was very aggressive and we bounced around the club. I thought she would be an easy lay, she would have been but I thought to myself, Where is the challenge in that? I sacked her off. Im not lowering my standards that much to mould myself because of some bint.


Stage 3: 1-3am
My state lowered after that crazy aggressive chick but I was still smouldering, met a few dodgy boyfriends who didnt like me lifting their chicks although the chicks proclaimed they loved it after I said sorry and didnt realise they were taken. Again, another positive sign from the lift and spin.


Observations: I feel so much more relaxed after warming-up properly. This maked a huge difference to the whole night. Got some great intel from a few chicks who were like “ we push guys away because we are scared” and “ we tell them no even if we like them to see their reaction” and “there are so many idiots on the dance-floor that we dont want to lead some guys on” - this kind of shocked me and didn’t at the same time, valuable none-the-less.
Approaches: 30+
Types of openers: Jesus arms (this always works well with a smile) chicks feel obliged to come in toward the ‘hug’. A few dodgy chicks moaning or giving rank looks, which to my reply was, enjoy yourself. Some other openers were fairly generic. Some were just walking along side them, arm over their shoulder and walking with them chatting. This actually works well.
Favourite Set: “ I know you, you look familiar. Lets dance!” The chick almost cried. And said “ I don’t know you, what are you talking about!” ha ha so funny, self amusement was so peaking.

Worst set: HB9 fluttered me away like I was a fly and looked at me like the **** around the fly also. Took me 3 seconds to laugh it off.

HB levels: 6-9 & Ages: 18-35
Comfort - I felt really comfortable all night. Thursday night has a good effect on approach anxiety. Its easier the more I practice.
Kiss Close - 6 (all at the pre-club)
Number Close - 1 (at the end of the night)
Over the last 3 weeks I have gaming the Ozzy bar-maid who is about a HB7. She’s alright. I have been breaking rapport on a good note and it has worked. Tonight I asked her out on a date INSTEAD of her number, which she then gave me. We are meeting on Wednesday night for drinks.

Pull - 0
How to do better: I should have number closed the other hot bar-maids at the other club. But saw them more as warm-up sets, this was a mistake. The opportunity was there, perhaps this was why I was so comfortable with it as I had no pressure on myself?

Conclusion: Excellent night again. I got in free tonight also from chatting to a group of guys, so this socialising business has its benefits! It only gets better. Will update on the Ozzy chick status.

 

[Don-Kong]

Tonight is date night with Ozzy bar-maid. Baby got big bangers.
****tail bar, bit of a dance. Fun.

I'm thinking about doing a few warm up sets before I meet her. Loosen up my jaw and bad @ss self. Feel me.

Interestingly I couldn't give a damn if this goes well or not. To me this is practice. That of course doesn't mean I won't game her or enjoy myself. I'm just not that bothered. She's hot but I'm relaxed. I'm thinking of gaming this weekend and kissing a bunch of other chicks. It feels good to be in a mental state of abundance knowing I can get what I want if I just do it.

I will definitely just ask for dates from now on. I have deliberately kept text short and specific, she has responded with high IL.

No Thursday or Friday sessions unfortunately. Saturday with 'The Glide'
Peace.

 

[apprenticedj]

Go get em Don!!!! Loving the journal, very inspirational stuff.

 

[Don-Kong]

Got stood up. Ha ha! Honestly, I know why so many guys on here don't mind being a bit of a b@stard. It's hard not to feel frustrated.

There's a few explanations.
1. She had something really important to attend to and couldn't text
2. She's weak and got scared
3. She intentionally tried to fvck me over.

I chose option 1 and carried on with my evening at the irish bar next door and opened a fair few sets. Nothing came about but a bit of banter about the shocking football results about Brazil etc. I enjoyed it but didn't want to wait a few hours to hit up the clubs.

I texted the chick as if it didn't phase me. I didnt even ask why. There's no point. It didn't really phase me but I still don't get why chicks can't send a quick text when it was something blatantly planned. It's no wonder there is so much hatred toward women from the male community with behaviour like this.

'The Glide' contacted me during the Argentina match. We are a go for Saturday, with his comment which made me laugh.... "Lock up ya daughters!" Lol

 

[jurry]

The chicks saying no to guys they like to see their reaction is interesting. How would you respond to this or be able to tell they are **** testing?

 

[Don-Kong]

I acted really cool and in my text I said I was having fun and met some lads and was watching the World Cup. So it came across as if I was enjoying my night regardless, which I was.

I did think it maybe a test but I'm not that bothered. If she wants to hook up I'll smash her and trash her. It's part of the process. Some of these chicks are scared to get hurt, understandable so they will test the water before jumping in.

How to tell if it's a test? Hard to say. Limited interaction and not much to go on.