I hope you get to go out with the girl who stood you up haha but good job not caring. As for the two got chicks you clubbed with you should have made a move. You got them drunk then went to the bathroom bad move. Don't worry about screwing up the good vibes. You had a great time with them it seems so you win but you should have tried for more. You still have their numbers so go for it man.
Going out alone - Journal
- Thread starter Don-Kong
- Start date
Thanks Poop, I've been reading your reports. Good stuff.
I texted those chicks, nothing back, so they are a dead end. As for the Barmaid, she seemed genuine, so if I see her I will use c&f and be happy to see her but not invest.
I texted those chicks, nothing back, so they are a dead end. As for the Barmaid, she seemed genuine, so if I see her I will use c&f and be happy to see her but not invest.
Tonight's schedule:
When: 12/07/14
With who: Alone first to warm-up, then meeting ‘The Glide’
Initial thoughts: Really up for this one. Missed Thursday and Friday night not going out so might be a little rusty on start-up.
Initial feelings: calm, relaxed, chilled
Pre-club: Red Squirrel, Ghilly Dhu’s, The Three Sisters
Club: Silk (I’m loving this place at the moment)
Capacity: 1000+
Style: Pop/chart, R&B, Dance, house, funkStyle:
Strategy:
Pre-club: I’m going to try the super relaxed warm-ups. Empathy, warmth, genuineness and see how that differs from my usual high-energy state openers. I’m also going to practice talking sh1t, and keep talking and NOT leave the set early for lack of direction.
For the club:
I’ve been studying ‘Natural Game’ techniques and philosophy. I may implement this tonight. I usually want to up my state and energy levels but natural game is all about relaxation, chill and centredness. I’ll see how this pans out.
I’ll be asking for future dates tonight, creating an interesting, fun future where we can have a good time.
When: 12/07/14
With who: Alone first to warm-up, then meeting ‘The Glide’
Initial thoughts: Really up for this one. Missed Thursday and Friday night not going out so might be a little rusty on start-up.
Initial feelings: calm, relaxed, chilled
Pre-club: Red Squirrel, Ghilly Dhu’s, The Three Sisters
Club: Silk (I’m loving this place at the moment)
Capacity: 1000+
Style: Pop/chart, R&B, Dance, house, funkStyle:
Strategy:
Pre-club: I’m going to try the super relaxed warm-ups. Empathy, warmth, genuineness and see how that differs from my usual high-energy state openers. I’m also going to practice talking sh1t, and keep talking and NOT leave the set early for lack of direction.
For the club:
I’ve been studying ‘Natural Game’ techniques and philosophy. I may implement this tonight. I usually want to up my state and energy levels but natural game is all about relaxation, chill and centredness. I’ll see how this pans out.
I’ll be asking for future dates tonight, creating an interesting, fun future where we can have a good time.
Well, this was undoubtedly one of the most eventful evenings in a long time.
Its almost 4am. I am still drunk and somewhat disappointed in the opposite sex.
To summarise:
I got in a b1tch fight with 3 crazy chicks
I sh1t my pants, no really, I did!
I lost faith in humanity
Warmth Level/State: I started in the pre-clubs and hit a great level of warmth by opening lots of sets, it was really good fun, every chick was really into having a good time.
Observations at the club: It was really relaxed. ‘The Glide’ insisted on doing Mango shots, so we got pretty hammered but not legless. There was a good range of chicks in tonight, 18-25 although I wished for a few older chicks. We had fun. It was not as busy as last week.
Approaches: 30+ at the club, more in the pre-clubs.
Favourite Set: Some chick, she was 18. She was totally n my vibe and we got on really well. Only to be interupted by her fat friend who was obviously jealous of our fun.
Worst set: A 3 set. I was dancing around them, they were in a circle. I cut in. They went nuts and told me to fvck off. I said I was just dancing. SO one of the chicks proceeded to pour ner drink over me which I quickly palmed off and it went all over the 3 chicks, to my amusement. I walked off with them chasing me moaning. 30 minutes later I was shackled by 2 big bouncers questioning me, but who understood they were just complete muppetts and they let me go.
Types of Openers - All sorts tonight. Calm hand gesture openers, sweet talking openers. Cave man lift openers. Walking up behind them arm round their shoulder openers. Whole group openers. It was intense.
HB levels & Ages: 18-25. HB’s 5 - 8
Comfort - I felt really comfortable tonight with The Glide in tow. It was easy to open sets but I lost a bit of confidence after the big bust up with the 3 set.
Kiss Close - 2
Remarkably, and unashamedly, after I sh1t my pants after what I thought was a fart. I proceeded to the disabled toilets, got rid of my Boxer shorts, wiped up and got the fvck out of there to kiss a couple of birds.
Point of me telling you this: Humbly, it’s not good to be honest about this but it goes to prove that even on the sh1ttiest of nights, literally, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Something can be salvaged when pushing it out to the bitter end even if I wanted to go
home and have a shower. Thats just fvcking crazy dedication.
Number Close - 0
Pull - 0
How to do better: I don’t know. I need to think about this.
I am still in the grips of thinking how retarded some women are, how they lack in compassion, common sense and moral fibre. I dont know why i should expect such things from chicks on nights out but I am fighting to protect them and say to myself they are not so bad, they are human and are just lost.
I am trying to stop myself classifying all women as b1tches when really 90% of chicks who go out are just on the defensive and have their b1tch shields up, they are not so bad. They are just cvnts when we are out. Perhaps they do not know any better. I hope my daughter does not end up like them but in a way I hope she does manage to fend off most of the AFC’s and idiots who will try and get in her knickers.
Barmaid chick update: apparently, she 'lost her phone' i then countered with, well we can still go out, when are you free. She said not until late August. Pretty pathetic. No apology, no truth, no genuineness. 'The Glide' and I almost p1ssed ourselves laughing at how lame it was. Why are some women so blatantly weak?
Needless to say, my faith in the opposite sex is low right now until evidence proves me wrong.
Its almost 4am. I am still drunk and somewhat disappointed in the opposite sex.
To summarise:
I got in a b1tch fight with 3 crazy chicks
I sh1t my pants, no really, I did!
I lost faith in humanity
Warmth Level/State: I started in the pre-clubs and hit a great level of warmth by opening lots of sets, it was really good fun, every chick was really into having a good time.
Observations at the club: It was really relaxed. ‘The Glide’ insisted on doing Mango shots, so we got pretty hammered but not legless. There was a good range of chicks in tonight, 18-25 although I wished for a few older chicks. We had fun. It was not as busy as last week.
Approaches: 30+ at the club, more in the pre-clubs.
Favourite Set: Some chick, she was 18. She was totally n my vibe and we got on really well. Only to be interupted by her fat friend who was obviously jealous of our fun.
Worst set: A 3 set. I was dancing around them, they were in a circle. I cut in. They went nuts and told me to fvck off. I said I was just dancing. SO one of the chicks proceeded to pour ner drink over me which I quickly palmed off and it went all over the 3 chicks, to my amusement. I walked off with them chasing me moaning. 30 minutes later I was shackled by 2 big bouncers questioning me, but who understood they were just complete muppetts and they let me go.
Types of Openers - All sorts tonight. Calm hand gesture openers, sweet talking openers. Cave man lift openers. Walking up behind them arm round their shoulder openers. Whole group openers. It was intense.
HB levels & Ages: 18-25. HB’s 5 - 8
Comfort - I felt really comfortable tonight with The Glide in tow. It was easy to open sets but I lost a bit of confidence after the big bust up with the 3 set.
Kiss Close - 2
Remarkably, and unashamedly, after I sh1t my pants after what I thought was a fart. I proceeded to the disabled toilets, got rid of my Boxer shorts, wiped up and got the fvck out of there to kiss a couple of birds.
Point of me telling you this: Humbly, it’s not good to be honest about this but it goes to prove that even on the sh1ttiest of nights, literally, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Something can be salvaged when pushing it out to the bitter end even if I wanted to go
home and have a shower. Thats just fvcking crazy dedication.
Number Close - 0
Pull - 0
How to do better: I don’t know. I need to think about this.
I am still in the grips of thinking how retarded some women are, how they lack in compassion, common sense and moral fibre. I dont know why i should expect such things from chicks on nights out but I am fighting to protect them and say to myself they are not so bad, they are human and are just lost.
I am trying to stop myself classifying all women as b1tches when really 90% of chicks who go out are just on the defensive and have their b1tch shields up, they are not so bad. They are just cvnts when we are out. Perhaps they do not know any better. I hope my daughter does not end up like them but in a way I hope she does manage to fend off most of the AFC’s and idiots who will try and get in her knickers.
Barmaid chick update: apparently, she 'lost her phone' i then countered with, well we can still go out, when are you free. She said not until late August. Pretty pathetic. No apology, no truth, no genuineness. 'The Glide' and I almost p1ssed ourselves laughing at how lame it was. Why are some women so blatantly weak?
Needless to say, my faith in the opposite sex is low right now until evidence proves me wrong.
Not out tonight Thursday. Very skint after several large purchases this week! Get paid tomorrow!
Schedule:
When: Friday 18/07/14
With who: Alone
Pre-club: Espionage (huge club) possibly Frankensteins (large pub)
Club: The Bongo Club
Capacity: 750-1000
Style: Drum n Bass, Dubstep, Electro
Strategy: Just really looking to get fvcked and dance. I will however use the opportunity to bump into some emo goth chicks and start convos. Maybe even get a few emo fish fingers lol
When: Sat 19/07/14
With who: Alone (possibly meet The Glide later on)
Pre-club: TBC
Club: Cabaret Voltaire or Why Not?
Capacity: 1000+ / Why Not is smaller 500-750 but they have a huge LED room!
Style: Funky sh1t, deep house, alternative / Pop, chart, cheese, house
Strategy: Approach mania. Build momentum, one vine to another, no excuses, till i'm at boiling point
Schedule:
When: Friday 18/07/14
With who: Alone
Pre-club: Espionage (huge club) possibly Frankensteins (large pub)
Club: The Bongo Club
Capacity: 750-1000
Style: Drum n Bass, Dubstep, Electro
Strategy: Just really looking to get fvcked and dance. I will however use the opportunity to bump into some emo goth chicks and start convos. Maybe even get a few emo fish fingers lol
When: Sat 19/07/14
With who: Alone (possibly meet The Glide later on)
Pre-club: TBC
Club: Cabaret Voltaire or Why Not?
Capacity: 1000+ / Why Not is smaller 500-750 but they have a huge LED room!
Style: Funky sh1t, deep house, alternative / Pop, chart, cheese, house
Strategy: Approach mania. Build momentum, one vine to another, no excuses, till i'm at boiling point
Friday Nite
Stage 1: 11pm-12am
Warm-up sets/state: Started low, flame grew, buzzing.
Warmed up really well last night. Chatting to everyone, quite at ease. I think I have slowed down this week so I was more relaxed in general, this certainly affected my state of mind. I definitely went out with a winning attitude, so important as the night goes on. I got a new job also so this made me feel good and I was kind of celebrating.
Pre-club was a club so the atmosphere was actually perfect to move on to the next place. This is where I did a whole bunch of sets, even with some of the staff who were trying to flog the cheap shots. Then moved off to the club as intended. Could have stayed here but wanted to stick to schedule.
Stage 2: 12-1am
This was like another warm-up, feeling out the club getting in the vibe, but I was in a good place mentally. I did quite a few sets but was mainly just dancing at this point enjoying myself.
Stage 3: 1-3am
As always, my favourite time of the night. Buzzing. It was easy last night.
Observations: Going from a huge club to a smaller club is a good idea mentally. I can conquer the big one so the smaller club seems less daunting. Different class of chicks in both clubs. More skankier but easy going chicks in the Bongo Club. I liked this, nothing too serious.
Approaches: 40+
Favourite Set: Some 21 blonde chick who was really playful with me, who I kissed pretty much off the bat. Don’t know if she was that hammered or just rebounding or what. We hardly spoke, it was about vibe and energy, playfulness. I left set, on the dancefloor, looking cool (see conclusion)
Worst set: Fat chick, who was to be used as a warm-up - wouldn’t have fvcked her to save my life, but I was thinking about the warm up - she blatantly put her hand up, “I’m taken thank you” as if she was some sort of super model, ha ha. This was perfect for my self amusement which kept me going for ages. I couldn’t get over it. I just walked off and I didn’t have the heart to tell her why I was coming to speak to her ha ha
Types of Openers - More natural game, “Hey how are you!”, “This place is buzzing, lets gets shots” On the danceflor: “Can I get fries with that shake baby?” (Will Smith opener) Classic! Chick laughed, no go though.
HB levels & Ages: 6-9 / 18-28
Comfort - Excellent, very calm and poised tonight (natural game style)
Kiss Close - 3
Number Close - 1 (chick from New Zealand who just seemed up for an adventure. These chicks from out of town are so much more open to the ‘adventure’ and you only live once kinda vibe. The chicks from around town can go back to their boring lives. I am looking at ways to draw them out of that boredom and into my pants.
Pull - 0!
How to do better:
STOP LEAVING SET! STOP LEAVING SET! My biggest problem in game. I hadn’t noticed it too much it’s an unconscious magnet taking me out the game. Weird, spooky and fvcking annoying but I have an awareness of it. Apparently it’s quite common.
It’s hard to comprehend that I go out sarging, get in set and then leave set before she has time to warm up. These chicks are defensive as a default to all the chodey-fosters I must understand this and the longer in set I am the more opportunity to get her aroused and interested. Thanks to RSDAlex for that insight!
I need to be clearer on my intent. I'm out looking for poon as well as a good time, not wanting to look or play it cool for sake of seeming too desperate, thats nuts.
Meeting The Glide soon for some poonany adventures.
Stage 1: 11pm-12am
Warm-up sets/state: Started low, flame grew, buzzing.
Warmed up really well last night. Chatting to everyone, quite at ease. I think I have slowed down this week so I was more relaxed in general, this certainly affected my state of mind. I definitely went out with a winning attitude, so important as the night goes on. I got a new job also so this made me feel good and I was kind of celebrating.
Pre-club was a club so the atmosphere was actually perfect to move on to the next place. This is where I did a whole bunch of sets, even with some of the staff who were trying to flog the cheap shots. Then moved off to the club as intended. Could have stayed here but wanted to stick to schedule.
Stage 2: 12-1am
This was like another warm-up, feeling out the club getting in the vibe, but I was in a good place mentally. I did quite a few sets but was mainly just dancing at this point enjoying myself.
Stage 3: 1-3am
As always, my favourite time of the night. Buzzing. It was easy last night.
Observations: Going from a huge club to a smaller club is a good idea mentally. I can conquer the big one so the smaller club seems less daunting. Different class of chicks in both clubs. More skankier but easy going chicks in the Bongo Club. I liked this, nothing too serious.
Approaches: 40+
Favourite Set: Some 21 blonde chick who was really playful with me, who I kissed pretty much off the bat. Don’t know if she was that hammered or just rebounding or what. We hardly spoke, it was about vibe and energy, playfulness. I left set, on the dancefloor, looking cool (see conclusion)
Worst set: Fat chick, who was to be used as a warm-up - wouldn’t have fvcked her to save my life, but I was thinking about the warm up - she blatantly put her hand up, “I’m taken thank you” as if she was some sort of super model, ha ha. This was perfect for my self amusement which kept me going for ages. I couldn’t get over it. I just walked off and I didn’t have the heart to tell her why I was coming to speak to her ha ha
Types of Openers - More natural game, “Hey how are you!”, “This place is buzzing, lets gets shots” On the danceflor: “Can I get fries with that shake baby?” (Will Smith opener) Classic! Chick laughed, no go though.
HB levels & Ages: 6-9 / 18-28
Comfort - Excellent, very calm and poised tonight (natural game style)
Kiss Close - 3
Number Close - 1 (chick from New Zealand who just seemed up for an adventure. These chicks from out of town are so much more open to the ‘adventure’ and you only live once kinda vibe. The chicks from around town can go back to their boring lives. I am looking at ways to draw them out of that boredom and into my pants.
Pull - 0!
How to do better:
STOP LEAVING SET! STOP LEAVING SET! My biggest problem in game. I hadn’t noticed it too much it’s an unconscious magnet taking me out the game. Weird, spooky and fvcking annoying but I have an awareness of it. Apparently it’s quite common.
It’s hard to comprehend that I go out sarging, get in set and then leave set before she has time to warm up. These chicks are defensive as a default to all the chodey-fosters I must understand this and the longer in set I am the more opportunity to get her aroused and interested. Thanks to RSDAlex for that insight!
I need to be clearer on my intent. I'm out looking for poon as well as a good time, not wanting to look or play it cool for sake of seeming too desperate, thats nuts.
Meeting The Glide soon for some poonany adventures.
enjoying the format of your reports, great stuff
And i truly applaud you for continuing on after the pooping pants incident, that is something i couldn't do
I have to admit, i laughed when i read that, reminded me of an episode of the Uk show the Inbetweeners where Will sh(ts his pants in an exam
And i truly applaud you for continuing on after the pooping pants incident, that is something i couldn't do
I have to admit, i laughed when i read that, reminded me of an episode of the Uk show the Inbetweeners where Will sh(ts his pants in an exam
apprenticedj
Senior Don Juan
Don Kong you are a legend! You sh*t your pants and STILL kept on trucking!
That deserves a place in the DJ Hall of Fame.
That deserves a place in the DJ Hall of Fame.
Don, your post about getting stood up and then still going out sarging at some bars afterwards, i remember that happening to me, i was all set to take this girl out and she didn't show so i rang my mates and caught up with them at a bar. It was really really hard to get out of your mind why she stood me up, really puts some doubt inside your head.
Props to continuing on in the circumstances
Props to continuing on in the circumstances
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Dude, I see a couple things that you may want to have pointed out to you.
1. "Caveman Spin"
How many times have you done this, now? Many, right? Consider how many times it has been seen, now. Those people that have saw it, well, they go to other clubs, too. When they see the same guy do the same thing? Lame. One-trick pony. It seems entirely possible to me, based on your posts, that you've spun the same girl twice, in front of someone else for the third time, perhaps. Put it away. Pull it out for someone who is about to be pulled, never for lucky ladies at random. Why would you afford that luxury so frequently? It cheapens it's value.
2. Too many.
Too, too many. You couldn't possibly be noting and re-gaming all these hundreds of approaches the next time you see them. Over-availability, again, cheapens you. Besides, I get the impression that you aren't giving the women enough of your actual focus. You have ejected quickly with no closes throughout this FR. So, can I infer that it has been quite some time since your p-p has been covered in V J? The picture you are painting for us is of a desperate club kid out looking for attention. That's a flirt. Anyone can be a flirt. Fine, if you want to have fun, have your fun, flirt even.
You keep yourself in "caveman" mode, so I suggest you find Señor Fingers and read some his posts regarding getting into a sexual state. The effect you need to convey is that you are a porn star, not a brute.
Good luck.
1. "Caveman Spin"
How many times have you done this, now? Many, right? Consider how many times it has been seen, now. Those people that have saw it, well, they go to other clubs, too. When they see the same guy do the same thing? Lame. One-trick pony. It seems entirely possible to me, based on your posts, that you've spun the same girl twice, in front of someone else for the third time, perhaps. Put it away. Pull it out for someone who is about to be pulled, never for lucky ladies at random. Why would you afford that luxury so frequently? It cheapens it's value.
2. Too many.
Too, too many. You couldn't possibly be noting and re-gaming all these hundreds of approaches the next time you see them. Over-availability, again, cheapens you. Besides, I get the impression that you aren't giving the women enough of your actual focus. You have ejected quickly with no closes throughout this FR. So, can I infer that it has been quite some time since your p-p has been covered in V J? The picture you are painting for us is of a desperate club kid out looking for attention. That's a flirt. Anyone can be a flirt. Fine, if you want to have fun, have your fun, flirt even.
You keep yourself in "caveman" mode, so I suggest you find Señor Fingers and read some his posts regarding getting into a sexual state. The effect you need to convey is that you are a porn star, not a brute.
Good luck.