Originally posted by backbreaker
here are a couple of things I look for to tell if a girl are wrothy in my eyes or not.. this is just me, some of these things I learned first hand from my dad, some I learned from just playing the game.
1) if the girl has a Fat mom, leave. Keep in mind, at one point in time, the girls mom was this age as well. I have dated girls in the past that were very skinny, and their moms were big, two in particular.. I have seen both over the last year and a half and both have balloned
2) on the contary, if the girl's mom is a MILF, that's a great sign. The girls' mom that b ought me to this site mom is extremely pretty, which made me want her even more because I knew her looks werent' going anywhere anytime soon.
3) The apple usually doesn't fall far from the tree. If the girls' mom is.. FAST, it's a good chance she is FAST or at the very best, ****ed up in the head. her reality is different from yours and most peoples. She has seen first hand that sex=attention. when I was 16 I dated a girl, whoose mom was to this day one of the prettiest women I have EVER seen, but when my dad saw her, he told me she was in his words.. " a freak" and that he and his friends had all passed her around... About a month later the girl started bragging about how her mom could get money and clothes from guys and how guys used to spend money on them.... I soon left and from what I heard I did the right thing...
4) A woman, will always remain a woman. Women don't change as they get older, the only thing that changes are their options. The one mistake I made was not cutting off my last GF when I found out what she did to her last 2 BF's. It's a story that would have won post of the year here. She basically was with a guy for 6 years, and he proposed, and she said yes.. took the ring, pawned it, yes Pawned the ring and left him... Started dating another guy, was with him for about 8 months or so, and one day he just so happens to be riding by her house and she is sitting outside with her Ex that she was with for 6 years.
So of course, the new BF gets mad and when he confronts his GF, my Ex, she says "you aren't my BF"... in a rage he slapped my Ex and she got mad and called the police on him, but didn't press charges... I knew she was ****ed up in the head then.. However, she convinced me that "all that is passed her" and she has "changed".
Like I said.. the only thing that changed about her were her options... I never had a problem with her cheating on me, but she did some things that I knew she would do.. being irresponsable, all around lazy, ,acts like she is a princess and the world should revolve around what she wants, etc.
Then again, I was only 21, you live and learn.
To hit on the point again, women don't change as they get older, the good men, the ones they want, the ones they flake on you to leave for, are all gone.
My mom, and this is my mom, is very good looking, isn't a flake or anything like that, but is extremely independant minded.. to the point that after my dad left her when I was 7, she ran off every man that took interest in her. My mom makes more money than most men, more than all she has dated. She expected men to be perfect or bam, gone.
She just got married to a guy last year that I know 10 years ago she wouldn't have thought twice about marring him. Now, he makes a very good living, but he has no backbone whatsoever and it's the best looking guy in the world... let's just say I'm glad my mom met my dad first. My mom even admiited to me last eyar that she isn't "getting any younger" and if "she doesnt' settle down now, she never will" The few times I go over my mom's house I see her bossing him around... It's a sad site to behold.
5) All women, fall into one of three catorgories... women for Pay, women for Play, and women for Stay. I can talk to a women and after the first date, it's clear which she is.
In other words, all women aren't made the same... All German Sheperds are dogs, ,but all dogs arne't german Sheperds.
They all like you for different reasons... A woman that is a freak, will like you because you come off as sexual (granted all women love sexual men) and fun, in the "moment" type of guy that can give them great sexual pleasures.
A Hoe will like you because you seem like you have money.
A LTR girl wil like you because you seem to have great LTR qualities.
So a) it's silly to try to fit all women in one mold and to think that everyone likes or doesn't like you for this or that reason.
6) The most important rule.. if a girl has been abused in the past, or doesn't know or really get along with her father or father figure, and i mean REALLY don't get along not like "i'm not talkingto him he pissed me off by taking my phone" get along but "my dad is an ******* he bets me" get along. RUN.
If the girl comes from a past that has drugs in it. RUN
Save yourself a lot of time and heartache.. I dont car ehow much they said they hae "changed".. It's not your job to be their theaprist.
My cousin has been with this girl for about a year and a half, ,and she lies, ****s other guys (I ****ed her about a year ago, but I honeslty didn't know he was dating her, as I hadn't talked to him in about 3 years) and all he can say is "well, her mom threw her out when she was young" and "she doesn't know her dad" or "she almost got raped by such and such"... Your point? What does that have to do with you?
I met a girl like this about a year ago... she grew up with foster parents because her real paerents didn't want her because they were too busy getting coked out... And in all honesty, given what she came from, she did a damn good job of getting her life together.
But with that said, she was still the worst nutt case I ever put my **** in...
I can write pages of the stuff that happened, the mind games we sued to play with eacy other in the 3 months of ****ing we did... I'll say this and leave it at this.. I met her Husband one night (yes you read that one night).. we wernet' ****ing at the time...okay let me stop lying yes we were, but only like one time.. she invited me to her BDay party and had her hand in my pants while she was sitting next to her husband! I mean would could I do? But **** like that excited her and gave her a rush... My two best friends thinks she is the best thing ever... I used to get her to bring us free food from her job and one day she mentioned she wanted to be gangbanged... so we took care of that little fantasy for her to say the least.
But like I said, regardless of all that, the girl was a headcase, I knew she was a headcase about after the 5th time we had sex and I decided not take her seriously and just beat it up.. I eman, she couldn't get mad, she was married.
anyway, that's some of the things that were taught to me and that I have learned on my own in the years.
