DJ naruto said:
O ye God of Getting Laid, why and for what reason doth thy eateth into Deus ex Pianoforte so maliciously. Its completely unnecessary to the thread. Still, I completely agree with the points you made. The points are well thought out, but y would you rip into someone in such a manner.
well, your questioning of the reasons for my behavior too are unnecessary to the thread. but FYI, Im just correcting Deus becuase hes far more off then the average poster. And on top of that, claims to have evidence and claims to be scientific about it. I cant help but correct people like that.
Ok. to provide a little substance to the thread. Looks do matter as well as personality. Each one can make up for the other to a certain extent, for example, you can have a guy with average looks and great game lay chicks left and right. In the same way you can have a guy with great looks and poor game also lay chicks-- maybe not as many chicks as the guy with great personality.
The flaw in your thinking is that if we are talking about laying hot chicks here, it is rare that one will be able to make up for his looks with his good personality if hes average looking to her. Hot chicks only deal with guys they see as atleast cute when it comes to sex, no how great the personality (statistically speaking).
And if your personality is horrible, no matter how good looking you are, most hot chicks will not deal with you. They usually cant deal with the painful akwardness of guys who have social anxiety/women anxiety (the most common kind of "bad personality"). Women dont enjoy talking on the phone with a really quiet guy nor do they enjoy going on a date where both of you just sit their silently because you dont know what to say even though your physically attracted to eachother.
But, of course, there are always acceptions. But these women make up a minority of the "hot woman" population.
You really need both to be successful with hotties, neither is negligable (statistically speaking). Most people have no problem grasping the part about personality, but struggle to understand the importance of being good looking.
What percentage of each, you need to lay a lot of chicks isn't necessary for our goals. If you are here, why not develop your personality the best you can regardless of what you look like? To develop you personality, you need to practice practice in field. Yes, u might make a fool of yourself. Yes, people will see you make a fool of yourself at times. However, people are fickle and they will eventually forget about those times if you do progress.
Well, since both personality and looks are required to be successful, why would you focus on one and neglect the other? that makes no sense. Why not just focus on looking good, and forget about fixing your social anxiety problem?, that would be just as stupid. You cant neglect either. And you can improve your looks to some extent.
Although, when it comes to personality, you dont have to have an awesome one, you just cant have a horrible one ie. quiet and shy around women for example. If your good looking, and you act comfortably around women, and can carry on conversations with them and know how to act around them, your success is in the bag.
moral of story is don't flame, just build your personality.
I have to keep propagandists like Deus in line, and dont forget to add "improve your looks" to the "build your personality" part. You need both, you cant neglect either one.
This forum gets enough attention on the "improve your personality" part, and needs more attention on the "improve your looks" part. looks are improvable to an extent.
