haha
more histrionic shaming from Zarky the faggot
15 years and you still hate men
you obviously took the command to shave quite *personally*
well save up and get the sex change operation then...you are obviously a frustrated lesbian...so be one.
Uh oh and here comes the textbook shaming . lol at snarkys attempt to distance herself from something she's been a part of for years. And lets not forget you plugging your sh!tty blog here there and everywhere throughout the *GASP* "manosphere" you nimrod.Zarky said:And don't listen to the incel manosphere omegas. They're more likely to shoot up a women's gym in beta-rage than actually get laid in the next decade.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
bobbytomorow said:Ok so I have been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks, maybe half a dozen dates.
This is why you should apply the 3 Strikes Rule with women like this to avoid time wasters and flakes. You had 6 dates with her. How many do you think you needed to get laid? More dates with her will not increase you odds of getting laid!! Skip the flakes and fvck the dates!!bobbytomorow said:No sex yet, I've fingered her and have come very close but she always shuts it down JUST before I think I'm getting in.
A lame excuse....if she wanted you to bang her that would not be a problem. I've banged chicks who didn't shave and they didn't care at all. They made a comment about it like "I didn't shave for a few days" "I'm like a porcupine" but that didn't stop them from wanting sex. she gave you an excuse!!bobbytomorow said:The last shutdown was because she hadn't shaved and when I put my hand down there I confirmed that...It was little longer than stubble maybe a month of growth.
bobbytomorow said:Anyways, todays texts:
Girl: Want to meet tonight?
Me: Sure
Girl: I have yoga after work. I will give you a call after I get in and shower
Me: Sounds good...when you shower I want you to shave
Girl: lol I was going to anyway
**couple hours go by**
Girl:Ok done yoga and home now....but that shaving comment really turned me off
Me:Really? I only mentioned it becuase last time you seemed bothered by it....it certainly doesn't bother me
Girl:It doesn't bother me to simply be not shaved
Me: So what is the issue here, you feel as though I crossed boundaries of yours??
of course she won't respond...She is not interested in you for sex!! if she was...you would already be banging her by now!! What the hell are you going to apologize for? For being direct? For screening out a flake? she doesn't want you for sex....only for you to pay her dates...move on!!bobbytomorow said:Now nothing, she hasn't responded...I don't want to apologise but should I?
There was no need for you to send that reply. You let her confirm that she has no sexual interest in you!!bobbytomorow said:a few minutes ago, after not hearing from her when we are supposed to be hooking up tonight;
Me: It looks like you've made other plans, have a good night I'll catch you some other time
Girl: I'm just kinda grossed out. I don't know. You telling me to shave. The assumption you're just going to get in there. It's not where I'm at and I'm making ****ing cupcakes. Don't pull that crap on me. I'm too old for it. Good night.
what the hell are you going to do that for? do you think that will make her want to bang you? Look...you had 6 dates with her...you got nothing except a little fingering....then when you were direct about having sex....she showed you she had no plans to have sex with you!! There is no need to apologize!! She isn't interested in you!!! Move on!!bobbytomorow said:As lame as it sounds I feel like going there with flowers and apologizing but I also know that may be a big mistake. Just seems lame to let this one slip by simply because I can't man up and say I was wrong...No?
"had that girl in the bag" you say? He never had her in the bag because she had no plans of having sex with him. 6 dates...he got nothing!! Then he made a direct comment.....she used that as an excuse to turn it on him!! She was out of the bag all the time!! She had no plans of having sex with him.Zarky said:You made a really as*hole comment. I cringed when I read that. Don't know what else to tell you, you probably had that girl in the bag, though that's pure speculation.
Apologize? Why the hell should he apologize for being direct with this chick? she had zero interest in having sex with him....she used this as an excuse!! and you want him to apologize? This is as beta as it gets. Wimping back to a chick after she turns him down several times for sex!! C'mon man....get with it!!Zarky said:I'd come out and say something like:
"Hey, I apologize for the shaving comment. That was a real d*ck thing to say. I didn't expect anything from you but just remember how hot we got together last time... But if you don't want to hang out again, I understand." *
It used to bother me, since any shmuck can call people names from the safety of his computer. I'm sure if they were face to face they wouldn't have the guts to do it. That's not even a question in my mind.Mauser96 said:I agree. It's is quite sickening actually.
No, she doesn't. Judging by her reaction, she's a b!tch (and really, any attractive single woman in her mid-30s is going to be a b!tch). She's pretending to be "grossed out" by your comment because she wasn't planning on giving it up anyway...and you gave her a perfect excuse.bobbytomorow said:I honestly really like this girl, we get a long great, she is my age for once, she has a great personality and she is very attractive
Coming from a guy who specializes in banging middle-aged POF 4's and 5's, that's a little rich. There is nothing more beta/omega than banging older, unattractive women. It's like eating leftovers from a garbage bin.Zarky said:Wow the men's rights betas & omegas are out en masse in this thread. It's clearly beneath any man to ever admit he was a douche ;
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Doesn't change the fact that it's beta behavior.Zarky said:They're actually 5s and 6s
At least I'm honest about it, not telling the world I'm banging "8s" who are actually 6s. Or not getting laid at all like 95% of the guys here.
Perhaps, I've never called myself an alpha. But if I'm a beta, then people who call others childish names in the glow of their computer screens behind locked doors, when they would never have the bravery to do so face to face, are absolute omegas and should feel shame for that. Or at least get intense psychological help.Bokanovsky said:Doesn't change the fact that it's beta behavior.
The issue is they just can't help it. Many guys here, and most if not all manosphere and MRA guys, have crippling psychological disorders.cordoncordon said:.the amount of sniping and general hostility shown by many on here towards other posters is getting disturbing.
The Queen of snark now plays the victim..really?Zarky said:It used to bother me, since any shmuck can call people names from the safety of his computer. I'm sure if they were face to face they wouldn't have the guts to do it. That's not even a question in my mind.
Eat her out, with a full bush?f283000 said:This was probably the wrong way to do it.
Eat her out, make her feel good, then mention how much better it would be for you and her if she shaved down there. I don't think she would put much resistance about shaving if you went about it that way rather then just ordering her to shave.
You have to use a little psychology.
Hair pie...LMFAO said:Eat her out, with a full bush?