I was honestly tempted to just dismiss this entire post based upon the fact that 95% is made up or fabricated. But....for discussion purposes, I think it may be best to try and see where the he11 you are coming from.
At this point I think you just like to argue. In almost every thread you nit pick and make stuff up just so you have things to argue about. I give credit to Danger and PairPlusRoyalFlush because when we disagree they are consistent. They simply have a different mindset and philosophy from me and thats ok. We try to convince each other all the time.....but you.....dont seem to be anywhere as articulate and consistent. You almost look for things in anything I post, just to disagree.
goldengoose said:
What lessons were those? Most of the people that read them agrees with me.
She b1tched you out, you acted aloof, you forgave her on the way back to the car.
You tried to help her with her test, she b1tched you out, you got mad, she cried.
You wanted sex, she denied you because she was mad at you, she was thinking of the ex, you got sex when she wanted it.
1. They are lessons based upon real life. I dont just come here and masturbate to the red pill and come up with theories....I put them into practice. If you cant relate to those posts and the only thing you get out of them is that you think I am so "whipped" or "getting disrespected".....look behind you. The main themes and points whizzed right by your head.
2. I dont care what you or any other person really thinks for that matter. Just because you and "most others" disagree with me doesnt make you correct. He11 the majority of America voted in Obama. Majority doesnt mean squat pal.
3. Every one of your "cliff notes" on my RLE is mischaracterized. I encourage members to go read them for themselves. You make it seem like she was acting like a real b1tch when really......it was normal female behavior. Get this through your head pal.....they ARE EMOTIONAL BEINGS.
It doesn't matter what I think about the "friend zone" being a viable option.
It certainly does matter pal.
It called being congruent. The reality you are painting about women constantly banging their orbiters is false. If that were the case, we would be preaching about how to get friendzoned on purpose, in order to sleep with a taken woman. They dont bang "friends" as much as you and the other CWAFs say they do.
What matters is what your girlfriend and what her orbiters think about it
because what they do is what will affect you, not what I think. I think it's not a good route to go, but women do cheat going that route, so you can say it does work for cheating.
This has NOTHING to do with me or my girlfriend. We should be helping the OP and instead.....you want to try to tell me how my relationship is.
You must be so smart.
When your girlfriend is hanging around oribters, that shows she is willing to put herself out there for other men. When there is a guy she really wants, that's the guy who she will really want to be with. Women with orbiters have been known to give them a taste every once in a while.
A new concept! "The occasional friendzone bl0wjob"!!!!!!
Absolutely absurd. They dont get a "taste". The only thing they get to taste is her "fake attention". She uses it to keep these guys on a leash and do her bidding and listen to her drama.
You hanging out with a fat chick has nothing to do with your girlfriend hanging out with other men.
Its a point I was trying to make that apparently has whizzed past your head along with everything else I apparently say....
An orbiter to a woman is what a fat chick is to a man.
She is absolutely sexually repulsed by a male orbiter. In fact, one of the most common scenarios that drive men to find the manosphere is when he has had a crush on a woman for a long time but she had a boyfriend. When she breaks up...he thinks he finally has a shot.......only to find out she banged some other guy this weekend. He is left heartbroken.
Women would rather meet up with a random guy and have sex with him....over some guy whose "been there" for her for years.
"The brother" is only good for a man that she's known for a long time. Some dude she's just met can't be "like a brother" to her because she doesn't know him that well to call him that.
And how do you think they get that way pal? Do they suddenly wake up one day and magically know some woman for a "long time"? No....they try to be nice. They try to hook up with them. They listen to their drama. They snap selfies with them at work. Its how it starts.....its extremely possible to get thrown into the "friends" category extremely early. Women usually know within 2 dates whether she sees you as a friend or not.....2!!!! not "a long time".
She is doing a lot more than just doing work for her job. She is having drinks, brunches, dinners, went out to events, and has been over to his place. Basically, she is dating him on the side and using work as a front to spend time with him. That's how some women go about it. They will use "work" or "school" to spend 1 on 1 alone time with him so it looks innocent to guys like you. That isn't good and it's stupid to put up with that.
Finally....something of substance.
I agree with this....if it were true. He said "he believes she was over his house".....he doesnt even know. He answered his own problem earlier when he said "he is jealous" and that he "cares too much". Not one person can say for certain that she is doing anything inappropriate with this older guy. Sure as he11 sounds like he is trying.....but we know how "trying" goes for 95% of the male beta population.
All in all. It sounds to me like she is trying her damnest to suck up to a potential client and land him for their business. She could be sucking his d1ck too....or she could not be. But you guys have him seriously considering breaking up with his girlfriend simply because you read a couple lines on the internet. You dont know the entire situation....its impossible for us to tell.
Its clear that OP has a lot of growth and work to do on himself still.....but you other posters should be ashamed. Your point of view is based on a lot of assumptions.
You always defend women who are displaying negative actions.
Nice blanket statement. Im one of the biggest critics on settling for low quality women on this site pal. When they act like a b1tch, ill treat them like one......not because some user told me only 2 paragraphs of his current relationship and its not very clear.
Why do you accept your girlfriend hanging out with a lot of orbiters? That is disrespectful towards you and one day she will be giving someone a taste.
Again ill ask....so you believe going through the friendzone is a viable option to hooking up with woman? Just wanna get that on record because I bet 90% of the users here have tried that and failed and could let you know how the friendzone REALLY works.
You do realize its in the woman's DNA to monopolize male attention right? If you ever find a girl who wouldnt give even the time of day to another man just because she is dating you......well my god....wife her up asap. They dont exist. There will always be guys trying to hit on your woman. If you are high value and she is highly attracted to you....she wont do a damn thing to another man....she wouldnt even dream of it.
If you are going to respond atleast break it down so I can see what point you are addressing with what....they was dreadfully painful to read through. Most of it was just random blabber about my girlfriend. Lets stick on topic pal....
