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Getting jacked/ripped would eliminate 85% of the problems on this forum..

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Former Ufc fighter Anderson silva flunked a drug test for steroids and was skinny as a rail at the time. He was probably using to recover from breaking his leg.

If you want to get big to be intimidating, I would think martial arts would be in order, so that you can back it all up if ever needed. I saw two jacked mucle guys get in a fight at a strip club once and it was hilarious. They were slapping each other like girls. Size will bluff most people, but eventually someone will call that bluff.

Jacked up muscle guys usually end up being either huge pussies or have zero fighting skills.

Only one thing matters in fighting....training and experience. A small guy well trained in just about any decent martial art can rag doll / knockout guys much bigger than him.
 

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This thread is absolutely true.

If guys on here were truly sincere about improving the quality of their life, then we would expect the Fitness and Financial sections to be the hottest sections on this board. But those sections barely get any action.

It proves that most guys are just BSing - they neither have game, looks or finances. They waste their time trying to learn pick up or wondering "When should I text her back" or "was she interested in me cause so-and-so"....
 

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It proves that most guys are just BSing - they neither have game, looks or finances. They waste their time trying to learn pick up or wondering "When should I text her back" or "was she interested in me cause so-and-so"....
This is a game forum, no? So you think it's weird that guys come here and ask game related questions on a game forum? I would think it would be weird if guys on financial forums would only ask about game tips instead of stock tips.
 

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If you didn't begin at least squatting, benching, deadlifting back in high school, you f ucked up a long time ago. I can't think of a better time to learn and to learn all the lessons that come with the territory.
 

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This is a game forum, no? So you think it's weird that guys come here and ask game related questions on a game forum? I would think it would be weird if guys on financial forums would only ask about game tips instead of stock tips.
Ain’t no such thing as game. It’s all a marketing ploy. We’ve all been conned.

Womens subconscious mind: can you protect me(strong/fit), can you provide for me(money), do you have status(popularity/money), if you c*m in me would we have strong healthy kids.(strong/fit/healthy).

Its really that simple. You can lack one, but you better make up for it in the other areas
 
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Ain’t no such thing as game. It’s all a marketing ploy. We’ve all been conned.
game as its marketed, yes. Speak with guys who aren't in the community that are very good with girls, know its a very real thing. game recognizes game.
 

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Being in a state of physical fitness is obviously going to help, the notion it is not is absurd. I know women who are turned off by "Soft" guys, like a guy who is hard to the touch, I know others who don't care at all, however even still the appeal factor.

I also know women who don't like guys that are like "overtuned" where it's obvious they get a ton of dussy, like not even a player vibe but a insecurity vibe, she's gonna want to know where he is all the time.

I have found very little of the things I find super sexually attractive to be things I associate with a relationship I want to invest in
 

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game as its marketed, yes. Speak with guys who aren't in the community that are very good with girls, know its a very real thing. game recognizes game.
Nah bro, it’s bullsh*t.. if you’re broke, ugly with a soft nasty body and have no friends no amount of “game” will get you p*ssy.
You can’t even argue this.
 

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I’m telling you it’s no greater feeling than walking into a room with a shirt that could possibly be considered a size too small and watching girls eye-f*ck you when you walk by.

Men hold you in a higher esteem and automatically give you respect. Girls will walk up, touch your biceps and open you.

Your coworkers will respect you, your performance at work will improve, your family will admire you ..Your energy and mood will be better, you’ll have stronger erections Girls will put out faster, and you’ll have access to quality, fit women you did not have before.

I advise anyone who is struggling in dating, confidence or life in general to put down the phone and go to the gym right now.
If you are completely clueless, hire a trainer and nutritionists. If you know a little bit, read more and experiment and get those gains.

it will fix almost everything ..
100% you don't even need to be that huge. I've always been quite slim. Worked out a bit in my younger years but nothing serious.

Around 30 I took it seriously. I put on a ton of weight and got really strong. This is subjective, not huge and not crazy strong, but really muscler for me.

I looked really good and I looked strong. It was life changing. I don't know I felt like an apex preditor or some **** like that.

Treated differently, better by everyone . Men , women , whatever. It sort of snowballs from there. It's a game changer. It's almost effortless , everything just falls into place.

The thing is I entered a long term relationship around that time. Got comfortable and over the years,got lazy and lost my strength. My relationship recently ended.


I'll find myself again in the gym and grind it back. It works like magic for me.
 
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Nah bro, it’s bullsh*t.. if you’re broke, ugly with a soft nasty body and have no friends no amount of “game” will get you p*ssy.
You can’t even argue this
For game to be bullsht you have to phrase it as tho the guy who says game is real is saying, "only game matters. you can have all the disadvantages in the world but if you have game you still get pvssy". Which anyone with social intelligence can see is not at all what I'm saying. I am above average looking. It's not until I learned the things I learned from the community, my own reference experience, relying on my intuition, that I got pvssy.
 

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For game to be bullsht you have to phrase it as tho the guy who says game is real is saying, "only game matters. you can have all the disadvantages in the world but if you have game you still get pvssy". Which anyone with social intelligence can see is not at all what I'm saying. I am above average looking. It's not until I learned the things I learned from the community, my own reference experience, relying on my intuition, that I got pvssy.
Ok
 

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What types of men have always done well with women over 1000s of years? Those with power. Power can be physical (muscles, martial art skills) or social (influence, persuasion, leadership). In the earliest days of men, before proper tribes and civilizations, physical power ruled. After organized human structures became the norm, social power started to become more important. After all, an influential leader can command hundreds of muscular men to protect himself and his offspring.
There has never been a time when humans lived without tribes. And in the pre-modern tribes that exist today, it's not physical strength that determines someone's official authority. Also, someone who is physically weaker can still use deception, conspiracy, poison, and tools (weapons) to make up for it, which in themselves are the traits that contribute to making us humans in the first place compared to our much more physically powerful primate cousins.

Your speculation also doesnt really hold up... but i know that's not entirely the point, it was fun to think about for you. Im just wary of the very poor anthropology that tends to be repeated as basic truth in the "manosphere".

This thread is absolutely true.

If guys on here were truly sincere about improving the quality of their life, then we would expect the Fitness and Financial sections to be the hottest sections on this board. But those sections barely get any action.

It proves that most guys are just BSing - they neither have game, looks or finances. They waste their time trying to learn pick up or wondering "When should I text her back" or "was she interested in me cause so-and-so"....
It's our nature as humans to be irrational. We do what we know we dont want to do, and dont do what we know we want to do.
 
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There has never been a time when humans lived without tribes. And in the pre-modern tribes that exist today, it's not physical strength that determines someone's official authority. Also, someone who is physically weaker can still use deception, conspiracy, poison, and tools (weapons) to make up for it, which in themselves are the traits that contribute to making us humans.
Obviously I meant our distant ancestors, before speech/language. I should've said 100 000s of years ago and probably not used the word "men" :)
 

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Obviously I meant our distant ancestors, before speech/language. I should've said 100 000s of years ago :)
Oh yeah, fvck, i was gonna add in that i think you probably meant that but got too hasty.
 

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Being muscular and ripped will help strengthen game. Being average will neither weaken or strengthen your game. Being too skinny or obese will weaken your game. Being muscular and ripped will only briefly help though, if you got nothing else to add. Basically a beta in alpha clothing. Too much dogma and absolutes in some of these post. Mark Bell said "strength is never weakness, and weakness is never a strength." True that! I'll leave with an excerpt of one of my post over on "Health and Fitness."

" Don't train for 18 inch biceps and for 10% bodyfat. Train because any day now, you might walk by a house fire have to pick-up some fat chick and carry her out of a burning building. Train because you might have to lift the corner of a car off a trapped person. Train because any day now some dude with some prison muscle is going to challenge you. Whether you can fight or not, (If not, I suggest you learn), many men will size you up physically before challenging you. When criminals are picking a victim, most will take the path of perceived least resistance. They'll pick the weaker looking person just like predators in the wild. As Rippetoe has said, "Generally speaking, a stronger man is harder to kill." That's why you train. A symptom of that type of training is that you'll look good naked."
 

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In college, I've been broke and obese getting laid like a warlord by just randomly talking to college girls after reading the book of pook

Game exists.

And fitness is a part of it.
 
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Cola, you see how @AttackFormation has lulled you, and everyone else, into this super deep, intellectual conversation about your suggestion?

This is what Betas do. They can't get enough of sitting on SS, debating everything to death.

They refuse to just take a suggestion and go 'okay thanks, I'll do that.'
This is an interesting observation from someone who has been on SS for only five months and has already accumulated nearly 2,400 posts :D
 
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