FR: Wal-Mart pick up

[MacAvoy]

I think you played it perfectly. I wouldn't be worried at all about her not wanting to drop the panties on her first night over. She's just not low quality that will give it up easily. However don't be discouraged, she likes you immensely, she was willing to sleep in your bed and she was comfortable with you.

The second thing I notice that you do, when you run into resistance, you immediately come up with an excuse. Don't do that. In this case, you think she has a b/f. I guarantee you she doesn't. If she had a b/f, she would have spread her legs for you.

Your on the right track bro, you've played everything right. I think this girl really likes you, see the getting all dressed up for you on the first date. But she really likes you. I think her going away for a month thing might be to your benefit as well. I would make sure to see her at least once more, you should be able to f close her this time.

I think you made a great impression on her by not forcing the issue. Remember she was comfortable enough to sleep over and asked you to go to be with her. These are all signs of interest.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

I think you played it perfectly. I wouldn't be worried at all about her not wanting to drop the panties on her first night over. She's just not low quality that will give it up easily. However don't be discouraged, she likes you immensely, she was willing to sleep in your bed and she was comfortable with you.

The second thing I notice that you do, when you run into resistance, you immediately come up with an excuse. Don't do that. In this case, you think she has a b/f. I guarantee you she doesn't. If she had a b/f, she would have spread her legs for you.

Your on the right track bro, you've played everything right. I think this girl really likes you, see the getting all dressed up for you on the first date. But she really likes you. I think her going away for a month thing might be to your benefit as well. I would make sure to see her at least once more, you should be able to f close her this time.

I think you made a great impression on her by not forcing the issue. Remember she was comfortable enough to sleep over and asked you to go to be with her. These are all signs of interest.

I talked to her and we're going out again this weekend. I'll just keep doing what I've been doing.

 

[Prod]

Props for getting this chick crazy for you. I think a f close is imminent.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Props for getting this chick crazy for you. I think a f close is imminent.

Thanks. It's been awhile since I had a successful cold approach. I've been taking the wussy route and trying to meet girls from the internet. I think hitting the gym non stop really helped too.

Meeting in person is SO much better. There is much greater vibe and there is no awkwardness and the comfort level is high.

Meeting girls off the internet really sucks compared to the real thing. Now I just need a few more.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Guys I'm picking her up tonight!

All I asked her is if she likes Italian food. She said "yes why?" I told her she will find out tonight. I'm going to take her to a nice place to eat then I guess it's back to my place for another movie.

Am I getting laid tonight??

 

[Dink]

first things first. dont ever expect to get laid. Take it easy and play it easy and smooth. making out with her and things and thing start to slow explore with some foreplay. dont go right for the cash and jewels below. maybe easing her more into would be a better help then going for the money. I wouldnt expect anything but always be prepared. Normally I dont expect that i'm getting any. I just go with it. it works well with me as long as I run wit oppurtunities and you know when they are there. I love it when girls just stare in my eyes. i see do me all over them. haha I just met two 19yr olds. both friends. and they both want me to go with a movie with the both of them. i'm 24. but them being young claim that i'm a shared boyfriend. i'm goin for threesome!

 

[MacAvoy]

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[Vlad the Impaler]

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[Vlad the Impaler]

WHAT THE HELL JUST HAPPENED?

She is in my bed now, and we were fukking. For about 5 minutes! I was getting into it and all of a sudden she stops and says "Im good"

I'm like WTF?

Then she says she's hungry and she wants to eat the food from the restaurant. So she's up in the bed eating now.

Also, she tried to hop on my d!ck before I put a rubber on. Red flag alert. I had to stop her and put it on. Maybe that turned her off?

Well, she's here for the rest of the night so any suggestions? I did get laid because it was in for about 5 minutes. She felt the need to stop fukking, eat cold chinese food, and go to sleep.

We have been drinking and smoking though.

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

WHAT THE HELL JUST HAPPENED?

She is in my bed now, and we were fukking. For about 5 minutes! I was getting into it and all of a sudden she stops and says "Im good"

I'm like WTF?

Wow, just LOL. Did she actually get off? (as in orgasm or at least come close, not get off as in jump off of you which we already know she did). You're either just that good, or that bad. Did you ask her why she stopped? Maybe the smoking and drinking just didn't work for her and she got the munchies and passed out.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Wow, just LOL. Did she actually get off? (as in orgasm or at least come close, not get off as in jump off of you which we already know she did). You're either just that good, or that bad. Did you ask her why she stopped? Maybe the smoking and drinking just didn't work for her and she got the munchies and passed out.

I don't think she cummed but I didn't ask. I asked her why, she says she wants to sleep.

Here's the weirdest part. I was doing it missionary, and she said she liked it on top. So she got on top and then started quivering. It's hard to explain. She wasn't going up and down like they usually do. She was fukking quivering!!!

I can't explain it. What the hell is her problem. I better get hard porno sex when she wakes up.

 

[MacAvoy]

Next time just make sure you finish first. Don't worry about pleasing her as she doesn't appear to be worried about pleasing you. How did she react this morning?

 

[Ken785]

WHAT THE HELL JUST HAPPENED?

She is in my bed now, and we were fukking. For about 5 minutes! I was getting into it and all of a sudden she stops and says "Im good"

I'm like WTF?

Then she says she's hungry and she wants to eat the food from the restaurant. So she's up in the bed eating now.

Also, she tried to hop on my d!ck before I put a rubber on. Red flag alert. I had to stop her and put it on. Maybe that turned her off?

Well, she's here for the rest of the night so any suggestions? I did get laid because it was in for about 5 minutes. She felt the need to stop fukking, eat cold chinese food, and go to sleep.

We have been drinking and smoking though.

So...Lets get this straight...shes in your bed RIGHT NOW, and your on sosuave asking for advice?? Get back in bed fvcker...always ask after shes left...use your DJ instincts man! Quit asking for advice all the time, especially when the situations going on RIGHT NOW!

 

[JDA70]

Strange.

hey Vlad step up and take control.
Tell her just before sex I mean when the cloth
are still on tell her we are going to have hard core sex.
Like lets screw for about an hour or 3 or no deal.

Can you do that? Don't settle for some lame azz
5 minute junk. If shes not into it then be nice and
just hang out with her for a few and then say bye
and don't call her. See if she calls you.

 

[tssme]

Re:

I thought you guys were going for Italian. Where did the Chinese food come from? To me..that seems like a bigger issue here.

On a more serious note, what's your economic status like? If you're making a few hundred K and she's working in the service industry making minimum wage..and doesn't want you to wear a condom..you should have some serious red flags in your mind. Just be sure that she's not looking for more than what you're willing to offer.

If the above isn't a concern, I'd say carry on with your dates with her as long as you're enjoying her company. Sooner or later she will give in and you'll get a good lay. But if at any point her company is not worth it..SOZE her ass.

 

[The Bat]

Lol @ what tssme said about sudden change in food type...

Vlad, man you have got to live up to your name and start impaling this girl with your penis. It's interesting the double standard at play here...let's say it were you who was done early and wanted to eat and go to sleep...what would have happened? Oh yes you know it..she would've spilled all of that rice and soy sauce all over your bed and stormed out the door.

You on the other hand are confused and expecting a better sex in the morning...or some other time.

Now is the time to up the ante. She failed to meet one of your standards (porn star sex) so she needs to qualify herself to you now. You have to let her know that you were disappointed in her that she didn't bang your brains out for more than 5 mins. If she says it was the alcohol and smoking, give her the benefit of doubt BUT let her know that she isn't off the hook.

You got to figure out your expectation and enforce them accordingly. I'm assuming "great porn star sex" is one of your expectations out of a plate...so, now is the time to enforce it. Be careful though. Don't FORCE her to give you good sex. As Rollo would say, you can't negotiate genuine desire. Just be assertive in letting her know that you're very disappointed in her although you're willing to give one more chance if she is willing.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

I thought you guys were going for Italian. Where did the Chinese food come from? To me..that seems like a bigger issue here.

On a more serious note, what's your economic status like? If you're making a few hundred K and she's working in the service industry making minimum wage..and doesn't want you to wear a condom..you should have some serious red flags in your mind. Just be sure that she's not looking for more than what you're willing to offer.

If the above isn't a concern, I'd say carry on with your dates with her as long as you're enjoying her company. Sooner or later she will give in and you'll get a good lay. But if at any point her company is not worth it..SOZE her ass.

We ended up not going to the Italian place. This is the least of my concerns. I don't make that much at all but she doesn't know that. I could be making that much. Could it be she wants to get preggo?

Maybe it is the condom thing. Everytime I use one with my ex she complains it doesn't feel as good and can't get off as easily. But still.. if she doesn't at least give you the moment of day, then fvck that sh!t!

Agreed. I don't like condoms either, but 'm not about go banging girls without one. Big red flag here.

Next time just make sure you finish first. Don't worry about pleasing her as she doesn't appear to be worried about pleasing you. How did she react this morning?

She was fine in the morning. She was acting bubbly and cuddling with me. In fact she said she wanted to cook for me tonight. I told her that would be nice. Then we got some food and she changed her tune saying she had plans to go with her friend to the club and she wants me to take her home. At this point I was happy to get rid of her and I dropped her the **** off.

She kept asking if I was mad. I denied it and told her to have fun at the club.

How can I finish first? After 5 minutes (probably less) she said "I'm good" and got off me and turned over. I'm not about to force any girl to do anything and catch a rape charge.

Vlad, man you have got to live up to your name and start impaling this girl with your penis. It's interesting the double standard at play here...let's say it were you who was done early and wanted to eat and go to sleep...what would have happened? Oh yes you know it..she would've spilled all of that rice and soy sauce all over your bed and stormed out the door.

You on the other hand are confused and expecting a better sex in the morning...or some other time.

Now is the time to up the ante. She failed to meet one of your standards (porn star sex) so she needs to qualify herself to you now. You have to let her know that you were disappointed in her that she didn't bang your brains out for more than 5 mins. If she says it was the alcohol and smoking, give her the benefit of doubt BUT let her know that she isn't off the hook.

You got to figure out your expectation and enforce them accordingly. I'm assuming "great porn star sex" is one of your expectations out of a plate...so, now is the time to enforce it. Be careful though. Don't FORCE her to give you good sex. As Rollo would say, you can't negotiate genuine desire. Just be assertive in letting her know that you're very disappointed in her although you're willing to give one more chance if she is willing.

I didn't really even mention what happened last night or try and talk about it. Was this a mistake?

How ****ed up is what she did on a 1-10 scale?

 

[RazorAzoth]

How ****ed up is what she did on a 1-10 scale?

Honestly, I think it was more ****ed up that you had a beautiful girl in your bed and you're on a website with a bunch of guys who can't get laid asking them for advice.

She sounds like a headcase, by the way.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Honestly, I think it was more ****ed up that you had a beautiful girl in your bed and you're on a website with a bunch of guys who can't get laid asking them for advice.

She sounds like a headcase, by the way.

She clearly said "STOP", and "NO". What was I supposed to do, lay there and cuddle? I'd much rather surf the web. Hell, I would have had a better time last night alone jerking off to porn.

Maybe I should have just banged her anyway. Then I could post stories about dropping the soap in the state pen.

 

[RazorAzoth]

No, you should've told her to hit the road because you have to get up early in the morning and blow her off. If she's saying "STOP" and "NO" in less than 5 minutes into sex, she's not into you and has other motives.

I'm far from a DJ, but it doesn't take a DJ to see that.

Relax dude, I just thought it was funny that you were asking what you should do with the girl in your bed after what just happened. Tell her to get the **** out because she's a whackjob?