Originally posted by backbreaker
so I decided to go to the strip club last night. I had about 1k to blow, all in my pocket for some lucky lady.
So I see a girl, good looking, can actually dance, so I give her a modest tip while she was on stage, 15 dollars, just to let her know I was interested.
She comes, gets off stage and talks to me, and asks me if I want a 20 dollar lapdance, of course I say yes.
After the dance, I tell her, in so many words, that as long as she sits and talks to me for the night, she will be more than fine.
I didn't go to the club with the intentions on ****ing, I just wanted to have some fun and spend a little money.
I guess she didn't believe me, because as soon as she left, she went to the VIP section (Which down here is nothing special)
AFter going to the VIP section for 30 mintues and not getting one tip,s he goes on stage.
So this time while she was on stage, I made her dance for me, and I gave her about 120 dollars while she was on stage, 6 twenties.
Now, you would think, this would be enough to grab someones attention that hey, this guy has some money that he wants to spend on YOU (didn't tip anyone else the entire night, no one else worth tipping)
So she comes back, and sits down for like 20 mintues, I order us both drinks. She seems cool, seemed to be enjoying herself for the most part. I mean, I'm not an ungly guy by any means, I just like the strait forwardness of strip clubs.. I know what you want and visa versa, that's refreshing to me. I am a cool guy, we talked about her growing up and how she got kicked out the house when she was 15, blah blah blah, kept checking her phone and sending texts, etc while talking to me, which It hought was disrepsectful to say the least. Not once did she ask me anything about me. NOt what I did for a living, not why I am here, nada.
So she leaves, again after like 20 mintues. So I find her, and decide I am going to take some inniative, and drag her back there and make her give me a lapdance, I told her i shouldn't have to do her job for her (in a joking manner of course). I mean.. I don't stink, I was dressed nice, and I had over 700 in my pocket to blow on HER if she would just act right and act like she wanted it
I mean, I wasn't going to tell he how much money was in my pocket because it's your job to EARN it, not me to give it away, that's my feeling.. that takes the fun out of it.
So I get 3 lapdances, 20 each, and she leaves because she says she is tired.
So we go back out, and she is talking to this other guy.. and I'm cool, I eman.. i can't knock the girls hustle at all, it's her job.
So I outbidded him.
She got on stage, and he was tipping her 10's, so I though 300, 20 at a time dollars on stage and told her " you will learn to stay where the money is"
YOu would think that THIS wo uld get this girls attention?
Nope.
I couldn't even get her to come and say thank you afterwards. Wait, she did, but the second after that she went to go sit with the other guy, who from what I saw, didn't give her a dime besides the 15 dollars on stage.
I mean, am i really missing something here? I thought the point was to make as much money as possible. I know if I was a stripper, my rationale is, any guy that throws over 400 dollars on stage to see you dance in PUBLIC is probably willing to pay a hell of alot more to see you do it privatly.
Like I said, I wasn't trying to have sex or do anything illegal, just wanted her company for the night and was willing to come out of my pocket to pay for it.
Also, we are in Arkansas. On an EXCELLENT night,t he best stripper MIGHT make 400 dollars and that's a MIGHT if she is extremely good and lucky. Very often, even on saturdays, good/decent looking girls walk out with less than 50 dollars.
I actually felt insulted.. like my money was not only not good enough, I wasn't good enough. I mean, it sucks to pay someone 500 dollars for what amounts to you sitting wtih me for 25 mintues and 3 lap dances, when I WANTEDT to pay y ou m ore
Now, this is the funny part. I was telling this guy I know today at the mall my experience.. He's an AFC and sells makeup to alot of strippers.
So he said " you made her feel like a *****" and "you shoudln't have said what you said to her about coming to the money"
I looked at him like he had lost his damn mind.
First of all, IT'S A STRIP CLUB. I can't begin to state how much I don't give 2 cents about her feelings. lol, I am giong to pay YOU money to hear about YOUR problems, how much sense does that make? I pay you money to feel important or whatever, and to pay for your time.
That's the equivlant of paying a hooker ot eat her *****.. isn't the point for me to feel happy at the end of the day?
Secondly... I mean.. if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck.. I mean in all honestly, she told me about all of the guys that she has dated, how all her guy friends have crushes on her (and she's cute, really cute, but has nothing on my ex's and can't hold a torrch to my old oneitis).. and you work at a strip club... I am not calling you a ***** babe.. but if you were to call yourself one.. I wouldn't necessarly raise an arguement.
So, I told the guy.. look. I'aid her for a service I didn't get.. and I did something wrong?
I can tell you exactly what happened. She saw me, a young black guy and the other guy, a 35ish white guy who was dressed semi nice.. wrinkled blue jeans, knockoff blazer, etc, and assumed he had more money than me.
Even though I had already spent about 400ish on her, she assumed he had more money or that I was out of money.
either that or she just doesn't like black guys, which would be stupid because money is green and doesn't care what color you are.
