For you guys who still live at home.....

[Broham]

UGHGHGH isn't it the most annoying thing! You're out on a date with a girl, it's going well. The end of night is approaching and you want some P, and the only place you got is YOUR CAR. Yup, that's me. My parents never leave the house! They rarely go on vacation or even out on weekends. The last 5 girls I've been out with didn't dig hooking up in my car. The thing just isn't ergonomically correct for that. The worst part is my rents know I date alot and I don't hide my itentions. My room is right next to theirs too so that's a lost cause. I know, its embarrassing at 23 but I could care less......I'm sure a number of you have the same prob.

 

[KnightRyder]

I know what you mean, we are about the same age , i am 24 , . . maybe you might be able to get a job and find a pad. I 've toyed with the idea of paying for a hotel at the end a date, but the hotels in my areas are mad expensive

 

[Tha Realnezz]

I left for a room with freinds at 19 but been going back and forth since.Living on your own I don't reccomend to guys who don't have a really good-paying job.

Fvck what people say,don't leave till you have a nice whip,money in the bank,and nice place to stay of your own.

Focus on getting all that then leave.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Dude, get a motel room and get the job done. When they say "I don't want to do it in the car", they are hinting that they'll do you in any room, and want you to make it happen. The other option is to get a van and drive it around during your dates!

 

[thefonz]

dude, i don't even date anymore these days because bringing a girl back to my mom's house sucks.....the parentals are always home......it is very hard to dj get a girls number go on a date and then head back to your tiny parents house (we're not that rich) because you can't afford your own place....anyone got a solution to this, words of encouragement, advice, ANYTHING on this topic.....cheers to broham for starting it

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Originally posted by thefonz
dude, i don't even date anymore these days because bringing a girl back to my mom's house sucks.....the parentals are always home......it is very hard to dj get a girls number go on a date and then head back to your tiny parents house (we're not that rich) because you can't afford your own place....anyone got a solution to this, words of encouragement, advice, ANYTHING on this topic.....cheers to broham for starting it

Yeah, move out! I am not being faticious here. Get roomates, and get your own room. broham lives in your town, I'm sure there are plenty of college aged guys who would like to move out for similar reasons. Talk to your friends, and see who wants to move out.

Gentlemen, once you bag a girl, she becomes a lot more flexible,and will keep putting out, regardless of wether you're in the ideal place. The point is, get a hotel/motel room, then, aaahh, you get it.

 

[tom121]

here are some options

1) go to their place

2) cheap but good designed hotel/motel

3) public washroom (haha I tried this, it was fun. Always use the family washroom, it has lots of room and make sure you lock the door)

4) van

 

[dietzcoi]

I know you don't want to hear this but MOVE OUT!

I do not want my kids living with me at 23/24! It is disgraceful.

My kids are going to college at 18 and not coming back.

You will feel the same way when you have kids. You are an adult. Act like one

Dietzcoi

 

[thefonz]

but it's like realnezz said....it's not recommended to move out unless you have a good-paying job (and 8.25 per hour ain't good) I don't know where you guys live but for me and broham the cost of owning a aomehwat decent apartment is about 1500 a month (granted it will be split) not including the initial deposit of $2000 just to move in......then there's my monthly car insurance bill, my cellphone bill, my food bill, and after that my go out and have fun bill......i go to school full time next january so part time work will bring roughly 600 a month which ain't enough to survive on this. it;s too overhelming to move out.

 

[Panda 2000]

Well if you think that's tough, it's even tougher for us who don't have our own apartment (highschool) and aren't in a position to own a car yet. But we manage somehow.

 

[DJDamage]

Give your parents $20 and tell them to go out and see a movie. You will have at least 2-3 hours to do your business.

 

[icecreaman]

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
I left for a room with freinds at 19 but been going back and forth since.Living on your own I don't reccomend to guys who don't have a really good-paying job.

Fvck what people say,don't leave till you have a nice whip,money in the bank,and nice place to stay of your own.

Focus on getting all that then leave.

COSIGN!!!! Dont leave until you are absolutely ready

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by DJDamage
Give your parents $20 and tell them to go out and see a movie. You will have at least 2-3 hours to do your business.

LOL won't they know what you plan on doing then?

 

[DJDamage]

LOL won't they know what you plan on doing then?

No just tell them the innocent part of it " I am inviting my girlfriend over for a romantic dinner, here is $20 go to the movies and enjoy"

Of coarse they will guess that you are probably going to do "the nasty" after dinner but hey they should already know that if you are in a relationship with this girl you are going to be doing that.

Might as well be done discreatly in their house as long as they don't hear or see it as oppose to spending more money in some roach motel or getting caught by the police while doing it in the car.

Eventually you will have to move out because if you are over 30 and still living at home with your parents, most chicks wouldn't even want to touch you.

 

[Sir Space]

Ive been living on my own for some time now, like 4 months (im 20) and let me tell you... its the greatest thing ever.

I cant even begin to fathom what some of you guys (ages 23/24) are still doing at home... i mean seriously... get your sh1t together.

 

[Fenderules]

im going to school and im 18 (university) so im here til next christmas, then im moving out





yeah i got the same porblem. My mom is ALWAYS HOME! she has no life other then her work which is not steady hous (she is a realtor). She is always back at at least 6 and then is home the rest of the night. She never goes on vacation or anything and on top of that she is still paranoid with me around girls. she says im Not allowed to sleep over at somebodys house if girls are there and no girl is allowed to sleep over here regardless if im ****ing them or not. Its retarded

 

[Paintballguy]

I can't wait to move out.... I should be buying my own place within a few months.

Hopefully I'll have tons of chicks passing through.

 

[Abbott]

I hear ya man.....

It's even harder for me because I have an extended cab pickup truck (so no bench seat in the back), instead of a sedan.

Plus, I think it's harder to get respect if you're still living at your parents' house full-time after high school.

Me...I don't even dare have friends over, because my parents don't like some of the things they do and would never let me hear the end of it if they knew my friends did those things (drink alcohol frequently, play cards for money, etc.). They don't know I drink plenty too (when I'm not at my parents' house, of course).

And women...since I've never had a girlfriend before my mother would be SO inquisitive about it and never shut up.

Because of that I'll probably have my own house before I can swing that.

Ben

 

[chancer]

You know what? You're going to have to move out eventually. I moved out about a year ago. I'm a full time college student. I don't have any money, and neither do my parents, but I gotta say, the freedom of moving out is awesome. Yes it's a struggle, but I've learned to make things work.

 

[Jager_Boy]

Originally posted by KnightRyder
I know what you mean, we are about the same age , i am 24 , . . maybe you might be able to get a job and find a pad. I 've toyed with the idea of paying for a hotel at the end a date, but the hotels in my areas are mad expensive

I had to do this just last week, cost me $70, fugg it, I was drunk and I got laid....