For those with past or present HB 9 or above girlfriends...?

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Clooney;

How hot is your actual girlfriend? Are we talking a chick that looks like Zeta Jones or a body with Denise Richards? The way I see it, if your chick is atleast a "6" other guys are always going to check her out and try and hot on her...just something you have to deal with. Men are dogs man, yes we are!
 

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yeah mahon, hahaha, that is some funny sh*t, because she HAS the face of Zeta Jones, people in the street stop her and tell her this. And her body is VERY SIMILAR to Denise Richards, VERY SIMILAR!!

Oh yeah and Wheelin, yeah I have dated MANY hot chicks, you dont know who I am, but I can show you as many photoes as you want, as long as you are willing to post your photoes to this site as well? Do you take the challenge MR GOOD LOOKIN DJ, I NEVER HAVE ANY PROBLEMS, BECAUSE I AM SO GREAT!!??????

What do ya say?
 

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Yes I will post them and you wont, you will run like a little b*tch!!! You have NADA on me, NADA, you are just some nerd behind his computer acting tough, and when u have to post the evidence, you will either run like a bi*ch or post some that arent of you.

So my plan is, send me a photo of you kissing some of these HOT CHICKS!!!! Then I will send some to you. DEAL?? Oh no, wheelin you cant do this right? Because you never had a girlfriend, hahahaahahahaha, cause your a fag*ot!!

Well that is all, I will keep my dignity from now on, actions speak louder than words, so send me your photoes?
 

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Guys - if you wanna fight, do it elsewhere. What are you contributing?
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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Originally posted by CLOONEY
Yes I will post them and you wont, you will run like a little b*tch!!! You have NADA on me, NADA, you are just some nerd behind his computer acting tough, and when u have to post the evidence, you will either run like a bi*ch or post some that arent of you.

So my plan is, send me a photo of you kissing some of these HOT CHICKS!!!! Then I will send some to you. DEAL?? Oh no, wheelin you cant do this right? Because you never had a girlfriend, hahahaahahahaha, cause your a fag*ot!!

Well that is all, I will keep my dignity from now on, actions speak louder than words, so send me your photoes?
That's enough out of you... skinny. Back to your computer games and internet porn.

Who rolled the rock off the retard cave and let this guy out? :rolleyes:
 

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I agree. I like the advice and experience both of you guys bring to this board. There's no reason two experienced DJs like you all should be fighting like this.

Clooney had a very good response to this thread, and I'd like to see other replies, as I'm sure they could help many DJs out!

Robby
 

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Originally posted by corruptrelic

Clooney correct me if I'm wrong but I don't think he's giving the full story. There's a difference between having a hot girlfriend who has guys drooling all over her and who doesn't respond to their advancements - than a HB who actively misleads guys, lets them approach her, flirts with them, and even gives out her number.

That is just plain disrespectful in my opinion. She's in a relationship with you, she shoudn't be flirting with other guys and playing with other guys hearts.. how long until one of these guys hits all her right buttons and then she can blame it on "it just happened"? Its like she's in a relationship with you, yet she seeks her attention from other guys, she's not single, but she acts single. This isn't a good picture.

Accept the fact that insecurity and distrust are two different things. If you have a HB girlfriend and a guy approaches her and she does the honest, respectufl thing and says something like "Thanks, but sorry I already have a boyfriend." she's faithful, trustworthy, and the kind of woman you should be happy with.
But if she says "Wow really? You like my legs? Here's my number, give me a call some time and we'll get together, and I'm available!" That's just an attention wh0re. (NO offense to you clooney.)

I sware my one-itis was EXACTLY like this. She kept claiming interest in me yet she went out with other guys, danced with them, mislead them, flirted with them, hugged them, did everything and yet in the end she would always say "But I'm only interested in you." I stopped caring what she SAID and started paying attention to what she DID - and she did the same thing your girl did, flirted with every guy out there. She was a fine spanish girl and I really have no problem with guys noticing her, thats just complimenting you! But when she activiely goes out and starts misleading these guys, this is another whole thing.
And if you are hanging back telling her you dont care about all these guys, it doesn't bother you at all, don't you think you're giving her the impression you just dont care?

I agree its good to give some degree that you dont care, hey do your own thing.. but when a girl is in a serious relationship she needs to know that you CARE at least some, trust me on that. And the things she does and you act like you dont care, hey.. you dont care if you dont care, right? So why not keep doing what she's doing, and believe it that one of these guys is going to find out what she wants, convince her that she can do better, and next thing you know she'll be leaving you for another guy, all because you never cared in the first place. What kind of committed relationship is this by the way? Is this supposed to be exclusive? Because apparently it isn't!

It reminds me so much of one-itis and how she played with all these other guys, I had so much distrust in her I decided it was time to stop worrying. It was time to find a faithful, honest, LOYAL woman who doesn't play games. And there are a ton of them out there. You can stick around with a girl who goes out with every guy in town, and hope she'll stay faithful. But why would you want to put up with that unnecessary worry? You can do better things in your time than to wonder what guy she's talking/seeing/whatever else with don't you think?

So I'm going to agree with slickster - call her on this and tell her enough, and let her know you're ready to walk away if she doesn't stop. Remember as far as I know this post was a little incomplete, its not just guys hitting on her, but its her LETTING them hit on her, and even going as far as giving out her number to them. Its not just guys paying attention, its vice versa, her paying just as much attention to them as they are her. How could anyone trust someone like that?

She's the one that needs to change, and if she can't, you have to talk a walk and not look back. There are so many other girls out there who will be honest and loyal that it's crazy to stick around with one until she gets to use the common "it just happened" excuse.. she let it happen, and to some degree so did you, because you didn't care what she did with other guys. I definitely feel for this post though.. and I hope you'll strongly think about the future, and ask yourself, is it really worth staying in something that you feel uncomfortable in? When you know there are about 3,000 other women right around the corner, who are perfectly happy with just one guy, and not only do the say it with their words - but they PROVE it with their actions.. something your girlfriend apparently has yet to do.
Holy God from the high heaven in the blue sky ( :eek: )!

This post should be put in the DJ bible as a quote. This really summarize all the correct attitude a Dj must have with those type of girls.
 

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I can not say I have had your problem Clooney, but I can imagine what it would be like. I suppose the solution is to not bother going to bars and clubs with her as you know that guys will hit on her there. Outside of these venues, chances are she will get a few stares and the odd attempt to chat her up, but surely you can cope with this and take it as a compliment. Besides, it is pretty obvious when a girl is with a guy and if you box chances are other guys should be far too intimidated to hit on her.

Besides, I think you may be displaying some double standards. You mention you are model good looking. If this is true, chances are a lot of girls hit on you too. Presumabely your girl is aware of this and lets it slide because she trusts you. You have to learn to do the same.

And yeah, beautiful girls are a lot of hassle. It is your choice. Put up with them attracting constant attention from other guys, or go for a less good looking girl.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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My oneitis was exectly like in corruptrelic story, where were you buddy when we did the thread on attension wh0res!!?? lol.

Anyway she was HB8.5 and she was getting so much attension because she had low self esteem and she needed validation from everyone. She was bi-polar as well that was a fact, and I also suspected borderline disorder.

One clue for an AFC if you are dealing with this type of a girl, is if all of the sudden you think you meet the perfect girl. I was an AFC who had problem maintaining intresting conversations with women (still do on occaisons that's why I am RAFC). All of the sudden I meet this gorgeous girl out of the blue, where she flirts with you, smiles, acts intrested, asking you questions, shakes her tight a$$ and laughs on all my stupid jokes and she agrees with you and makes you believe you two think alike on most things. However she does this with EVERY GUY!! like a camelion she adopts herself to every guy wishful fantasy what a woman he is looking for (like a female Don Juan).

All of the sudden you see guys following her and you in the mall, you go out to a resturants and she already knows the waiter, same thing with a club/bar she knows the bartender chit chats flirts with him. She has guys dropping numbers at her workplace, I go to fast food resturant with her, she flirts with the guy behind the counter, while he acts unhappy towards me since I am with her. The point is that a woman like that thrives on attension by looking for attension and therfore gets attension. She could meet a guy for the first time and after 5 minutes act like they are best friends. It drove me up to wall everytime she wished to tell me a story of a guy dropping her a number or a marriage proposel on the spot, she enjoyed seeing me squirm trying to keep a stright face because that adds up to her enjoyment of attension.

Bottom line if she gets too much attention, its because she is putting herself out there for that. Don't get involve long terms with chicks like that. They are good for a short relationship but if you thinking love/LTR, look elsewhere unless you wish to have a stressful existence.
 

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LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!! Fukcing hilarious! I cant beleive this thread has been dug up from the past. Man, was I a little abusive dude back then! hahaha.

These girls have gone out the window now! lol, well maybe they are still around, but now I just dont really care about one inparticular enough to let it bother me. LOL. Funny man, too funny to read this stuff again.
 

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Originally posted by Matt Rogers


Besides, I think you may be displaying some double standards. You mention you are model good looking. If this is true, chances are a lot of girls hit on you too. Presumabely your girl is aware of this and lets it slide because she trusts you. You have to learn to do the same.

Oh and as far as this, yes I did have others hitting on me also. But when you are into a girl, as I was into a couple at and before the time of this post, its a different story. I used to just be too much of a green eyed monstor, (jealousy) is a killer! But luckily these days, I see the entire game differently now, and jealousy doesnt get in my way. Usually its the woman these days who get too wrapped and too jealous (probably now because they sense that I dont care about them in the least and will get rid of them in an instant should they choose to try and get away from the end of the whip I am crackin)! lol. Still laughing to come accross this post, I barely remember starting this thread back in the day!
 

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Originally posted by CLOONEY
Oh and as far as this, yes I did have others hitting on me also. But when you are into a girl, as I was into a couple at and before the time of this post, its a different story. I used to just be too much of a green eyed monstor, (jealousy) is a killer! But luckily these days, I see the entire game differently now, and jealousy doesnt get in my way. Usually its the woman these days who get too wrapped and too jealous (probably now because they sense that I dont care about them in the least and will get rid of them in an instant should they choose to try and get away from the end of the whip I am crackin)! lol. Still laughing to come accross this post, I barely remember starting this thread back in the day!
I was thinking WTF is someone doing dragging up this old shiite now. But, it's actually a really good thread so I'm leaving it alone.

It is simply amazing what happens when YOU are not jealous or show it: THE CHICK GOES NUTS. SHE gets completely jealous!!! Whenever any of you are thinking about being/acting jealous -- just hold on and don't do it ... for sure enough, the chick will.

If she's a complete attention wh0re as someone said ... then you might just want to boot her if you feel as if she is disrespecting you.

Nice thread. And, as usual, always good to see you here Clooney.
 

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Originally posted by CLOONEY
Guys, I am talking about girls who are REAL HOT!! The ones who get guys hitting on them EVERYWHERE they go.
Clooney,
how is the HB in mention dressing? That can make a WORLD of a difference. Females need to understand - perception is reality. Dress like a hoe your gonna get treated like one. Now if the HB 9-10 is wearing some regular jeans and a regular shirt thats not to tight or accentuating her figure, she will pretty much fly under the radar and maybe get a few stares here and there but will be lucky to get hit on maybe once or twice every couple of weeks, depending on where she goes.

Now, if she is dressing like a slut - belly shirts, shirts that show cleavage, cut off shorts, really short skirts, well, dress like a hoe your gonna get the cat-calls, the creepy guys, the misyonogic tones and the all around a-hole people.

I dated a HB 9 recently. She was a VERY classy dresser. Always had on black dress pants and a sweater or a concealing dress shirt. And ya know what? I cannot think of a single time of anyone acting innappropriate around her. However, I also dated a HB 7 that dressed like a complete slut, and you can guess how that went over. What a fuking headache.
 

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Originally posted by prosemont
I was thinking WTF is someone doing dragging up this old shiite now. But, it's actually a really good thread so I'm leaving it alone.

If she's a complete attention wh0re as someone said ... then you might just want to boot her if you feel as if she is disrespecting you. Nice thread.
That's why I dragged up this post! ;)
 

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the girl i am dating now used to be a model. Even though I am black, I am normally not attracted to black women, but she is so bad I had to make in execption.

It's funny because she is 24 and I am 21, and her Ex BF is 30 and she tries to be friends with him, knowing that he wants to **** her. I call him "cake man" because all he does is try to sweet talk her while I am over her banging her brains out.

I even have no problem with her going to visit him from time to time, because I know that he is a chump and she knows it, and if she did something stupid like cheat on me SHE will be replaced.
 

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Re: Re: For those with past or present HB 9 or above girlfriends...?

Originally posted by myfriendblu
Clooney,
how is the HB in mention dressing? That can make a WORLD of a difference. Females need to understand - perception is reality. Dress like a hoe your gonna get treated like one. Now if the HB 9-10 is wearing some regular jeans and a regular shirt thats not to tight or accentuating her figure, she will pretty much fly under the radar and maybe get a few stares here and there but will be lucky to get hit on maybe once or twice every couple of weeks, depending on where she goes.

Now, if she is dressing like a slut - belly shirts, shirts that show cleavage, cut off shorts, really short skirts, well, dress like a hoe your gonna get the cat-calls, the creepy guys, the misyonogic tones and the all around a-hole people.

I dated a HB 9 recently. She was a VERY classy dresser. Always had on black dress pants and a sweater or a concealing dress shirt. And ya know what? I cannot think of a single time of anyone acting innappropriate around her. However, I also dated a HB 7 that dressed like a complete slut, and you can guess how that went over. What a fuking headache.
The main girl at the time was not dressing too slut*y at all. She just had a KILLER body and an awesome face. Its hard to "hide" the curves of a woman with a body like that. And when their face is stunning 24/7, she will NEVER fly under the radar. Oh well, not to worry, just added another babe to my stable yesterday, this new one is at least a 9. Thats a stable of 5 now, man, hard work to keep it up and especially hard work to keep it up and not get caught!
 

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Originally posted by CLOONEY
I meet HB's all over the place. In Clubs, at College, or through a mutual friend.

How did I stand out? Because I am good looking and dont talk to them, then after a while they wonder why not, and they talk to me. Neg-hits are a MUST. I NEVER go out of my way to talk to them, if you do, this gives them power, and straight away you loose. Unless of course you are the king of charm.
I thought is only worked if you showed INTEREST in them FIRST and then you took it away. I find it hard to believe chicks would hit on you if you seem non-interested or unfriendly FIRST.

Remember, alot chicks have low-self esteem and if a guy does not show interest...she will either think he has no self confidence (which is bad) or is not interested.

I think chicks will only approach you without YOU making the FIRST move only if you are a celebrity.
 

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My current fling is a HB 9.7 ... when she dosent dress up or put on makeup, she gets hit on a few times a day. When she dresses up, she is stunning looking, are rarely gets hit on, its funny as ****. At first, i had a problem with it, but she is head over heals for me, so I am not worried about other guys :)
 

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