IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Man, i know EXACTLY what u mean..!!!! I've got the same problem with an HB9.. twins lol
For those with past or present HB 9 or above girlfriends...?
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Player_Supreme
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My last long term and I had this problem. I couldn't walk to the bathroom without men and women hitting on her.
At her job as a cosmetic sales person she would have fools walk by the counter and go up to her and say she was the most beautiful woman they had ever seen!
And I had her totally under my control. Which is how I handled it. I knew she was deeply in love with me so I didn't really sweat the small stuff...ie symps trying to get at my shyt.
If you can imagine a beautiful porn star type of girl..she had implants at 18 and we dated until she was 24 or 25....so you know how white guys love implants...it was ridiculous how those fools would act. But she stayed right by my side totally devoted because of the level of game I put upon her.
You only need to worry when your game isn't tight. When she starts getting bored or you become predictable then your game will be leaking. Then she is no longer enthralled!
At her job as a cosmetic sales person she would have fools walk by the counter and go up to her and say she was the most beautiful woman they had ever seen!
And I had her totally under my control. Which is how I handled it. I knew she was deeply in love with me so I didn't really sweat the small stuff...ie symps trying to get at my shyt.
If you can imagine a beautiful porn star type of girl..she had implants at 18 and we dated until she was 24 or 25....so you know how white guys love implants...it was ridiculous how those fools would act. But she stayed right by my side totally devoted because of the level of game I put upon her.
You only need to worry when your game isn't tight. When she starts getting bored or you become predictable then your game will be leaking. Then she is no longer enthralled!
Girls definately DO approach if they think you are real cute and you show no interest first. Dont know why and I dont analyse why, but it does happen. I mean, u give them the eye contact first, that is a must, but you dont approach and dont go out of your way to talk to them if they are in a conversation with your friends. (**remember, this only applies to the real good looking guys of the forum, from my experience**). So dont try it if you arent a very good looking guy!!!
PS, I agree. If you have a chick whipped, its easy not to get jealous and not to care. And if you are not totally into them or have REAL solid game, its also relatively easy not to care, thus in turn only making her want you more and more devoted to you. However, if you really like the girl and your game is good but not SOLID, it can still be very hard. A couple of years ago, I had solid game, but not anything in the league it is now. Right now there are just way too many babes at my disposal to really get hooked on one.
PS, I agree. If you have a chick whipped, its easy not to get jealous and not to care. And if you are not totally into them or have REAL solid game, its also relatively easy not to care, thus in turn only making her want you more and more devoted to you. However, if you really like the girl and your game is good but not SOLID, it can still be very hard. A couple of years ago, I had solid game, but not anything in the league it is now. Right now there are just way too many babes at my disposal to really get hooked on one.
Yo, IrReSiStIbLe, send me a PM with your email. I am flying down to Melbourne in a week (Thursday the 30th), and staying for 5 days with a few of the boys. A couple have some real solid game, one is useless and one tries but does not get much, one is a sleeze and the other is me
That week is going to be a HUGE pick-up week, especially since its new years. We have a comp running between the boys to see who is #1 (just a bit of fun), haha. I am the favourite at the moment, but one of them will definately give me a run. Look forward to seeing u dude!
That week is going to be a HUGE pick-up week, especially since its new years. We have a comp running between the boys to see who is #1 (just a bit of fun), haha. I am the favourite at the moment, but one of them will definately give me a run. Look forward to seeing u dude!
I understand the DJ mentality at work here, nevertheless it is annoying to watch the chumps in action. My present GF is an HB8, and the chumps swarm sometimes. I understand what Player and the others say, but that does not answer the question as to how to stop it. Whether you are the master of all DJs or not, you do get tired of it. And there is always danger that a better DJ will appear.. after all we cannot all be the best.
SO, my solution would be to avoid going to places where there are (drunken) AFCs who cannot control themselves and throw themselves at every HB7+ who walks by
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Dietzcoi
SO, my solution would be to avoid going to places where there are (drunken) AFCs who cannot control themselves and throw themselves at every HB7+ who walks by
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Dietzcoi
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
mahon83050
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No I am not a real good looking guy,,,I am in the 6-7 range in my opinion,....oh well. Funny you mention that, I know a guy who is real good looking and all the girls at the bar were hitting on him one night.
Dated several 9's but couldn't quite hold on to them for more than a few months. Had an LTR with a 9.5. She was French Creole, with long black Jane of the Jungle hair and skin like toffee, bright eyes and a 38D. Unbelievably, traffic-stopping gorgeous. It's been years and my heart still pounds when I think about her. She turned out to be a walking personality disorder and I bailed on her after about a year, when she had a pair of kittens I'd gotten her put to sleep because she "was tired of them."
How did I meet her? We had been working at the same place. My band was touring a lot, and I was working part-time when I was in town. She was dating a guy who was cheating on her with a married woman at the company, who in turn was banging at least two other guys in the firm. Really sordid. I knew from this that she had self-esteem problems, and that was her Achilles heel. Guys wouldn't talk to her -- EVER. So she was with this total loser, spoon-chested mama's boy who was also taking sloppy seconds on the office mattressback. But he was, as far as I could see, the only guy who'd had the sack to talk to her.
One weekend, I invited her out to a "party" for some "musician friends." She was half-African American ("Halfrican american," as she said), and identified very strongly with it. The "friends" were members of a prominent black artist's backing band (I had recorded with one of his backing vocalists, who was from this town, on a session some months before, and the band was in town that weekend.) I took her to a club, introduced her to this artist, then proceeded to jam with his band (not with him, though.) I took her home, gave her a peck on the cheek, and said good night. The next day she called and invited me over to her place for dinner. She answered the door in a pink teddy.
She was my date for the Billboard Awards in Vegas, the opening of the Experience Music Project in Seattle, industry parties here and in L.A., the launch party for our Japan tour. . . . she even rode with me in the tourbus / RV for a week down the West Coast and loved it. And you want to talk about improving my Social Standing? I made it a point to meet and chat up as many HB's as I could with her on my arm. After we broke up I made myself VERY visible to them. . . .
I think that if you want an HB9, you've got to offer her something that no one else can. It doesn't matter what it is -- I wasn't rich by a longshot; hell, I lived in a studio flat in a war zone and drove a beater flat-black Honda motorbike with no windshield. But I was a local celebrity, my band was always "on tour" or doing something exciting, I got into clubs for free. . . I was exciting to be around. And that's enough for a lot of girls.
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How did I meet her? We had been working at the same place. My band was touring a lot, and I was working part-time when I was in town. She was dating a guy who was cheating on her with a married woman at the company, who in turn was banging at least two other guys in the firm. Really sordid. I knew from this that she had self-esteem problems, and that was her Achilles heel. Guys wouldn't talk to her -- EVER. So she was with this total loser, spoon-chested mama's boy who was also taking sloppy seconds on the office mattressback. But he was, as far as I could see, the only guy who'd had the sack to talk to her.
One weekend, I invited her out to a "party" for some "musician friends." She was half-African American ("Halfrican american," as she said), and identified very strongly with it. The "friends" were members of a prominent black artist's backing band (I had recorded with one of his backing vocalists, who was from this town, on a session some months before, and the band was in town that weekend.) I took her to a club, introduced her to this artist, then proceeded to jam with his band (not with him, though.) I took her home, gave her a peck on the cheek, and said good night. The next day she called and invited me over to her place for dinner. She answered the door in a pink teddy.
She was my date for the Billboard Awards in Vegas, the opening of the Experience Music Project in Seattle, industry parties here and in L.A., the launch party for our Japan tour. . . . she even rode with me in the tourbus / RV for a week down the West Coast and loved it. And you want to talk about improving my Social Standing? I made it a point to meet and chat up as many HB's as I could with her on my arm. After we broke up I made myself VERY visible to them. . . .
I think that if you want an HB9, you've got to offer her something that no one else can. It doesn't matter what it is -- I wasn't rich by a longshot; hell, I lived in a studio flat in a war zone and drove a beater flat-black Honda motorbike with no windshield. But I was a local celebrity, my band was always "on tour" or doing something exciting, I got into clubs for free. . . I was exciting to be around. And that's enough for a lot of girls.
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I never get jealous. Hell half the time I get high 5's later from guys because they think I'm the man when I'm with one of these girls. I am the prototypical average guy but I do dress better than most which gets me a bit more respect.
I don't mind other guys talking to them. I don't know something about showing jealousy seems like a weak thing to do to me when you know you could have tons of other chicks.
I don't mind other guys talking to them. I don't know something about showing jealousy seems like a weak thing to do to me when you know you could have tons of other chicks.
Very important. If you have babes hanging off your arm, make them VERY visible to other babes you know and girls in clubs. I once took a very beautiful model (as close to ten as you can possibly get, absolute perfection), out to bars and clubs with me for a couple of months. I made her visible to this group of girls (about 7-8 and ALL are babes, they are very arrogant and posh), but as soon as this girl was not on my arm anymore, these girls were swarming me. I ended up getting with 4 of them over the next few weeks, but all were a bit to posh for me to keep them around for long, the longest only lasted a few dates before I booted her!
Mr. Mystery II
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Hahaha! I love how many replies you have to your post CLOONEY, sosuave is full of super pimps that get tons of HOT women.
I have only been with 2 super hotties, one while I was very new to the game and I didn't really here much "guys love me soo much" garbage, but I screwed that up. The other was recently, she used to work in Vegas as a loan officer, where she said she got the job basically because she looked good and didn't have to do much work. Vegas girl didn't mention too many guys either, but she did try to go after a very succesful friend of mine who ended up getting pissed at her for some reason, and then she had the audacity to try and play like things were cool with me and her!
So, thats my experience with super hotties. None of them really talked about all the guys they had after them. Usually the 7-8 range share that with me. The super hotties usually have nothing to prove.
Mr. Mystery
I have only been with 2 super hotties, one while I was very new to the game and I didn't really here much "guys love me soo much" garbage, but I screwed that up. The other was recently, she used to work in Vegas as a loan officer, where she said she got the job basically because she looked good and didn't have to do much work. Vegas girl didn't mention too many guys either, but she did try to go after a very succesful friend of mine who ended up getting pissed at her for some reason, and then she had the audacity to try and play like things were cool with me and her!
So, thats my experience with super hotties. None of them really talked about all the guys they had after them. Usually the 7-8 range share that with me. The super hotties usually have nothing to prove.
Mr. Mystery
It's all about value. If she mentions other guys a lot, you should mention other girls and build yourself up to be a man in high demand.
I'm currently playing this game with a girl I've been dating and I seem to be winning. She constantly talks about guys who hit on her or call her up (and they do!), so I tell her about the girls who ask me out and call me and I even let her see some of the flirtatious text messages I get and it makes her both jealous and proud to be with me.
Sometimes I exaggerate, as I'm sure she does, but it's all about creating a balance of egos.
I'm currently playing this game with a girl I've been dating and I seem to be winning. She constantly talks about guys who hit on her or call her up (and they do!), so I tell her about the girls who ask me out and call me and I even let her see some of the flirtatious text messages I get and it makes her both jealous and proud to be with me.
Sometimes I exaggerate, as I'm sure she does, but it's all about creating a balance of egos.
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Awesome man, will do! I'll bring some of my mates as well.. handsome looking guys and suave with the ladies.. and hopefully felony and duke007 as well.. will be awesome.. i know the best place that runs on a thursday.. I'm sure u guys will like it.. I'm currently seeing a chick, so i dunno if I'm gonna be with other girls.. OK, maybe a few numbers here and there.. cant help itOriginally posted by CLOONEY
Yo, IrReSiStIbLe, send me a PM with your email. I am flying down to Melbourne in a week (Thursday the 30th), and staying for 5 days with a few of the boys. A couple have some real solid game, one is useless and one tries but does not get much, one is a sleeze and the other is me
That week is going to be a HUGE pick-up week, especially since its new years. We have a comp running between the boys to see who is #1 (just a bit of fun), haha. I am the favourite at the moment, but one of them will definately give me a run. Look forward to seeing u dude!
but yeh.. will be sweet..NYE I'm seeign that girl and taking her for a surprise cruise down the yarra and then to mine
so yeh...Anyway, Spk soon mate,
IrReSiStIbLe.