For all of those complaining about your height or weight

[TheGambino]

Bro that’s broke man talk. Get your ass to the gym and big and ripped and feel like a king. Everyone will notice and life is so much better! Everything goes easier also when girls get wet by your energy and body and will accept your flaws that everyone has as being humans. - GAMB

 

[SW15]

It's OVER for PooPooFaceCels

Bad facial aesthetics do impact one's ability to attract and seduce women.

 

[jhonny9546]

This board really has a problem with nuance.

Exceptions don't mean anything. You can find a man in a wheelchair who gets pvssy, that doesn't mean that every wheelchaired man is capable of easily getting pvssy.

Of course, men shouldn't let things like height or looks become a self-limiting belief, but simply acknowledging (rather than denying) your innate advantages/disadvantages is necessary to level up in life and become self-actualized.


This is a clown statement. The majority of women refuse to even consider dating a man under 5'8 or so. I don't say this as a bitter man either, I'm above average height, but I recognize my advantage.

Don't for a minute think that height is irrelevant, I'm 164cm, and I can confirm that many women rejected me because of my height. They were 2 to 10 cm taller than me, and I know it because they talk to her female friends which told me this.

This is something that is taught by society and modern media, what could we do about it?

And yes, I can also confirm that there are some women, like 1% of the total I've met, which are still interested in me, no matter my height.
But that's the 1% guys, so If you're short you might not play the PUA or "High Value" male route, but use the knowledge to be a good man in your life, knowing that you will be rejected by 99% of women.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Don't for a minute think that height is irrelevant, I'm 164cm, and I can confirm that many women rejected me because of my height. They were 2 to 10 cm taller than me, and I know it because they talk to her female friends which told me this.

This is something that is taught by society and modern media, what could we do about it?

And yes, I can also confirm that there are some women, like 1% of the total I've met, which are still interested in me, no matter my height.
But that's the 1% guys, so If you're short you might not play the PUA or "High Value" male route, but use the knowledge to be a good man in your life, knowing that you will be rejected by 99% of women.

At each height there is a corresponding facial attractiveness that must be met so one can be competitive. It is an inverse. The greater the height, the less face matters & vice versa.

 

[Lotus Effect]

At 5’7 I have had zero, 0, problems dating on regular basis for the past 15 years.

Sorry, but this is BS.

 

[Lotus Effect]

The mindset in my case is:

I’m 5’7 and I don’t think I’m short.
It is actually the global average. Google it.

So it’s not a fvcking issue in my mind.

It was when I was insecure about my self, and my worth. Back then I was looking for problems.

Guess what? I found problems.

Chicks are not attracted for the things they say they are attracted to…

… If anyone on this website haven’t realized that by now, than you should go back and understand attraction dynamics.

Fvck all this BS excuses.

We are grown man.
The room for excuses is zero!

 

[BackInTheGame78]

In Europe it was crazy...literally 60% of women 7+ were with dudes who were probably a 5 or lower in the US...skinny dudes, Dad Bods or fat dudes but like half of American fat(that's obese there)...dudes with bad teeth, etc...to the point I was like WTF is going on here?

And they are right on food quality making a huge difference...I did my best to work out as much as I could and probably did so 10-11 times(mostly the first half of the trip) but my food consumption was a lot of pastries, bread, gelato and cheeses...plus not many vegetables as that's not really a thing there.

Came back after 3+ weeks down 2 lbs. I thought I was going to be up like 15 lbs.

Anyone who argues that American food quality/additives/preservatives doesn't cause obesity is kidding themselves. So many things the US allows to be put in food isn't allowed in the EU.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

The mindset in my case is:

I’m 5’7 and I don’t think I’m short.
It is actually the global average. Google it.

So it’s not a fvcking issue in my mind.

It was when I was insecure about my self, and my worth. Back then I was looking for problems.

Guess what? I found problems.

Chicks are not attracted for the things they say they are attracted to…

… If anyone on this website haven’t realized that by now, than you should go back and understand attraction dynamics.

Fvck all this BS excuses.

We are grown man.
The room for excuses is zero!

Things with women are only a problem until they aren't a problem.

Women will overlook just about any shortcoming for a man they really like and eventually even turn what they said they "hated" into something they "love" about them instead.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You're talking from personal experience here?

Yes...they hate how I walk around with my abs showing when I take my shirt off or when I wear compression shirts and they show thru the shirt and how women break their necks turning their heads to look...then they start loving it because "they have me and the others don't".

Although my girlfriend still hates it even tho she met me at a water park that way.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You're such a stud.


Of course she hates it. Your exquisite masculinity renders her so inferior she cannot cope but to hate your magnificent torso.

For being over 45 it really is magnificent.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Bad food is everywhere, I live in the US and I'm the best shape of my life, cause I cook al my food. The problem is not the food, is the fata$$es who eat like $hit.

Yes, that is true but what I am saying is that even if you eat "like crap" in Europe, it doesn't have the same effect as it does in the US. There have been plenty of examples where people show the exact same product label by the same company for the same product and the EU version has half the ingredients or less than the US version. That's an issue...all that extra "crap" the US allows that the EU doesn't leads to inflammation, insulin resistance and obesity if you eat enough of it.

You can become obese very easily in the US, in Europe it's much harder.

I did not see a single person in 5 countries and 11 cities and literally tens of thousands of people that I saw walking around all over those places that even came close to a 350 lb person in the US that you will see on a random trip to a store any day of the week.

Those people barely exist in Europe.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Oh I see, can you give a couple of examples, I'm interested if what people who live there say its true

Pretty much anything that is "processed" that comes in a bag or a box with more than one ingredient.

Plus their breads, etc.

I believe they also are much more stringent on what they allow to be sprayed on foods for pesticides, etc and they are also far more strict towards GMO foods

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Bad food is everywhere, I live in the US and I'm the best shape of my life, cause I cook al my food. The problem is not the food, is the fata$$es who eat like $hit.

My girl and I eat out a lot because of our jobs. We also work out a lot. So we aren’t fat. Also, Cali tends to favor healthy eating.

 

[MatureDJ]

At each height there is a corresponding facial attractiveness that must be met so one can be competitive. It is an inverse. The greater the height, the less face matters & vice versa.

So you're basically saying that a man at 5'5" pretty much has to be a Brad Pitt.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

So you're basically saying that a man at 5'5" pretty much has to be a Brad Pitt.

I don’t know what face (x/10) someone at 5’5” has to be to be competitive. But it needs to be higher someone whonis 6’.

 

[DROPTOP_GTA]

I guess that is with charm as well. No matter how horrible you look, if you have charm...

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A fictional pimp/dealer like young Drexel doesnt worry about game. This character oozes confidence and an IDGAF attitude.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Shorter women actually want a taller man even more than taller women do. The height thing isn't about you being taller than her, it's about you being taller than other men, ie your ability to protect her, since taller men have a tremendous advantage in fights over shorter ones, and evolutionarily speaking, being taller signifies more power. Shorter women feel more vulnerable, so their desire for a taller man, in general, might be even greater than taller women, who are deluded into thinking they can protect themselves, and may only desire a taller man out of ego.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Shorter women actually want a taller man even more than taller women do. The height thing isn't about you being taller than her, it's about you being taller than other men, ie your ability to protect her, since taller men have a tremendous advantage in fights over shorter ones, and evolutionarily speaking, being taller signifies more power. Shorter women feel more vulnerable, so their desire for a taller man, in general, might be even greater than taller women, who are deluded into thinking they can protect themselves, and may only desire a taller man out of ego.

Not my experience. My GF is 6” shorter than I. My first GF was 5” shorter. A

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[BackInTheGame78]

Shorter women actually want a taller man even more than taller women do. The height thing isn't about you being taller than her, it's about you being taller than other men, ie your ability to protect her, since taller men have a tremendous advantage in fights over shorter ones, and evolutionarily speaking, being taller signifies more power. Shorter women feel more vulnerable, so their desire for a taller man, in general, might be even greater than taller women, who are deluded into thinking they can protect themselves, and may only desire a taller man out of ego.

Not necessarily true.

Typically in fights, at least the ones that happen outside a ring in a social area the person who is more aggressive and more ruthless has the advantage. This isn't boxing where the bell rings, the fighters tap gloves and then they get down to it. There are no rules involved and no such thing as a "fair" fight.

Most people want to talk and talk and talk. The person who says nothing and simply acts and acts violently and ruthlessly will always have the advantage because the other person will not be prepared for it.

If I'm ever in a fight, I'm not looking to throw a bunch of punches and dance around and talk. I'm looking to land one carefully placed kick to the outside of their knee with force and cave their knee in then walk away without any worry of them being able to follow me.

Typically tho, if you aren't out looking for trouble, you usually don't find it. The ones who tend to find it usually are out looking for it.

 

[MatureDJ]

Shorter women actually want a taller man even more than taller women do. The height thing isn't about you being taller than her, it's about you being taller than other men, ie your ability to protect her, since taller men have a tremendous advantage in fights over shorter ones, and evolutionarily speaking, being taller signifies more power. Shorter women feel more vulnerable, so their desire for a taller man, in general, might be even greater than taller women, who are deluded into thinking they can protect themselves, and may only desire a taller man out of ego.

I think it's that they don't want short sons. They know picky they are, and they figure that if they have a short partner, it will be OVER their sons before it even begins.