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Originally posted by bud_2005
Yeah no kidding. ARK probably thought he did great on this date, but it screams AFC. Cooked them dinner, washed her dishes, took out her trash? Are you serious? Did she tell you to do all this or did you offer? Either way you are screwed.
Well, what was I to do? She asked me to watch the food so it didnt burn and I didnt want to sit there on my asz and do nothing. Might as well do something constructive. Kinda hard to see the girl your dating when she has two roommates. Your going to have some face time with the other girls at some point. Im just going to have to limit my time with those other girls somehow.
 
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ARK, no big deal...you wanted to be helpful for her in time of need - you didn't wash the dishes did you?:rolleyes:

You never want a woman to see you in a subservient role ESPECIALLY in the beginning of a relationship -- because she'll expect more of this in the future!!


Post script...
OK, I got the "grinding in the park" bit from another thread -- I took it out of my post. but my stance remains the same!!
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
ARK, no big deal...you wanted to be helpful for her in time of need - you didn't wash the dishes did you?:rolleyes:
Only thing I really did was wash the big pot the noodles cooked in. I cant imagine that getting clean from a dishwasher. heh.
 
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Originally posted by ARK
Only thing I really did was wash the big pot the noodles cooked in. I cant imagine that getting clean from a dishwasher. heh.
Hahaha, at least your honest!! But please don't this again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TRUST ME!!
 

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THIS JUST IN UPDATE WITH GIRL #2

Well that was an interesting lunch. Met her, went in and she ordered first and I ordered second and paid. Ok, fine I asked her to lunch. We sat down, talked and she proceeds to tell me what all she has been up to. (Quick background - She contacted me and I set up a date. I called her twice in a weeks time after the date and she never called back. Finally, she called me back at work. I called her a couple days later and we set up a lunch date.) She tells me sorry she disappeared there for a while and that the guy she was seeing and her were having problems. So she broke it off with him before she went out with me.

Well that following week I didnt hear from her I guess he came back saying he was stupid and that he wanted to be with her, etc. so she said she is giving him another chance. (I noticed she had a ring on her left hand ring finger) Then she says, "I know we went out and it sucks now because I had a good time with you." Anyway, we talked more, I asked her about this guy a bit and theyve only been going out for two months so far but she said she wants to keep her options open and keep in contact with me. Anyway, we talked about work, we finish up lunch and she gives me her work business card. So we leave and she says she wants to keep in contact and keep her options open and that maybe we could go to lunch ever so often and again says "Keep in contact". We left and that was it. Interesting. She broke up with a guy after seeing him for two months and he comes begging for her back. Sounds like an AFC. Thoughts boys?

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On another note, I went to Petco afterwards to get some food for the piranha at work. Ive been talking to the cashier whenever I am there. So I said, "Hi, (insert first name here)" making small talk about work. She rings me up and hands me the receipt and I said "You need my signature huh?" She said yeah, and then watched me sign and proceeds to ask me my name and says "You always say my name but I dont know yours" and smiled. I asked for her last name and I stuck my hand out to shake and she shook my hand and I introduced myself." Nice to meet you, etc. while she handed me my receipt. I took the bag and she told me to have a nice day with a big smile and I told her to have a nice evening. Next time I see her. Im getting her number. ; ) TA DA!!
 
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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
PR_L say what ?

oh really lol ?

so you are Yoda and i am Obi-Wan ?
I am Morpheus and you are Neo (a new beginning)....at 26 you have the potential to be greater than I and your mission is to save all the world from Hors and Ho-mos and Wake Up the AFC masses from their slumber!


Originally posted by ARK
So we leave and she says she wants to keep in contact and keep her options open and that maybe we could go to lunch ever so often and again says "Keep in contact". We left and that was it. Interesting. She broke up with a guy after seeing him for two months and he comes begging for her back. Sounds like an AFC. Thoughts boys?
She wants his penis and he wants her vagina - he is an afc and she is a hor - nothing very startling - actuallly quite normal in today's world!!!
 
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Nothing else new to report other than an email from Girl#1 last night. She told me how her day went, hoped that I was well and sent me her picture. :) I replied a little bit ago when I got a break from work.
 

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Originally posted by ARK
THIS JUST IN UPDATE WITH GIRL #2

Well that was an interesting lunch. Met her, went in and she ordered first and I ordered second and paid. Ok, fine I asked her to lunch. We sat down, talked and she proceeds to tell me what all she has been up to. (Quick background - She contacted me and I set up a date. I called her twice in a weeks time after the date and she never called back. Finally, she called me back at work. I called her a couple days later and we set up a lunch date.) She tells me sorry she disappeared there for a while and that the guy she was seeing and her were having problems. So she broke it off with him before she went out with me.

Well that following week I didnt hear from her I guess he came back saying he was stupid and that he wanted to be with her, etc. so she said she is giving him another chance. (I noticed she had a ring on her left hand ring finger) Then she says, "I know we went out and it sucks now because I had a good time with you." Anyway, we talked more, I asked her about this guy a bit and theyve only been going out for two months so far but she said she wants to keep her options open and keep in contact with me. Anyway, we talked about work, we finish up lunch and she gives me her work business card. So we leave and she says she wants to keep in contact and keep her options open and that maybe we could go to lunch ever so often and again says "Keep in contact". We left and that was it. Interesting. She broke up with a guy after seeing him for two months and he comes begging for her back. Sounds like an AFC.

Thoughts boys?
Yeah... the unpleasant kind.


It's over.


She played the classic "I dont want you but maybe I can still use you" strategy.

No need to sulk. It happens to everyone at some point.

Don't communicate with her.
 
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