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[Lost In Translation]

Ark i got no beef with your Iron Chef pimpin' angle

but this caught my attention

As far as the virgin part goes, she told me "her boyfriend of 4 years didnt get as far as he would have liked."

she is speaking ******** here bro

WARNING WARNING ****

i can hear alarm bells....

where is PR_L ? usually you say the word virgin and he pops up

ok. her boyfriend of 4 years ?

how old is she ?

if she was 12 when she started to date him maybe i can believe it

maybe if his name was Reed247 i might believe it

4 years !!! no sex ??? ahh but she is not saying that is she ?

she is speaking ******** escape language !

A week later she then told me what to expect from her on a physical level.

told ? hmm... interesting

That she had morals and was more or less worth waiting for.

she says WAIT

her last man waited 4 years

and what did he get ?

NOTHING lol.

can we get some more background on this virgin / ice maiden ?

is she hardcore for God ? how old is she ? is she legit ?

i am not saying she is not legit. i am just saying DON'T BELIEVE THE HYPE about virgins. even christian chicks that claim it. 4 years is a long time to hold hands and play footsies.


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[BrotherAP]

Making dinner for her is great, but do it as a deal. Ask her if she can cook. If she can, make a deal - you'll make her dinner, but she has to make you dinner, and whoever makes a better dinner gets taken out on a dinner date, all expenses paid.

What's cool about making her dinner? She eats it at your place. You talk at your place. Then it's time for seduction... and you don't have to waste your time with "Your place or mine".

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
umm the best chef's by far in the world are men.


how often do you see women cooks anywhere???

cooking is a mens hobby

I hear 'ya. I can cook my @ss off. Me and my ex use to throw dinner parties and she would sometimes get jealous as hell because her girlfriends would be hanging out in the kitchen with me, keeping me company and telling me how much they wished that their boyfriends were as talented.

As far as impressing a woman, either she is through conversation or she isn't. The cooking thing is just something to make them feel a bit special. More times than not they've already had me over to their place for dinner.

I feel that restaurants, flowers, candy, cards and the like are really cliché. Everyone does it and it takes no effort or creativity at all. No wonder that most AFC are frustrated because after just a couple of dinner dates, women get bored with them and stop seeing them.

Guy's have got to get some type of talent to set them apart from other guys. Doing the same old sh1t like dinner and flowers will only drain your wallet.

 

[DJDamage]

Only cook for women who earned it. Meaning they have gone out of their way to prove themselves that they are worthy of you doing something "nice" for them for nothing.

As well you should cook for a woman you already slept with because if you are hoping she might like you more for doing this and maybe she will sleep with you as a reward then you are already failing in your quest. This is the ultimate act of supplicating and you are more likely to fail then not (If that is the case you are better off opening a soup kitchen and feeding the homeless because you are such as "nice" guy).

 

[ARK]

Ok Lost.. just for you.

She is 23 and just starting her third year of medical school. Does a lot of studying, is very bright and definitely is career minded. She is an alpha female type. She doesnt go to church on a regular basis, but has more than mentioned she is religious and goes when she can. Her sister married when she was young and already has a child. So she probably sees the ways in waiting for the right person.

Here is more about our dates here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76188

Yes she did tell me "To be fair, I want to let you know what to expect from me physically." But also added, usually she just gives a hug after a date, even hugged a guy on the sixth date. "That she wasnt acting like herself with me. She doesnt normally make out with a guy on his couch by the third date." "She just felt that comfortable and relaxed being with me." Ever since then our dates usually end with us making out on a couch until the wee hours of the morning. 5am one night. I cant imagine her playing footsies for 4 years either. How far she ever went though I have no clue.

 

[BrotherAP]

Since I cook for myself all the time, cooking for somebody else is no big deal. Sometimes, I cook extra on purpose, so I'l have some in the fridge and can throw something quick together next time. It's not like you have to avoid doing it - the point is that, if you're doing it as supplication, then you're wasting your time. If you enjoy it, then you'd be stupid not to do it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by DJDamage
Only cook for women who earned it. Meaning they have gone out of their way to prove themselves that they are worthy of you doing something "nice" for them for nothing.

As well you should cook for a woman you already slept with because if you are hoping she might like you more for doing this and maybe she will sleep with you as a reward then you are already failing in your quest. This is the ultimate act of supplicating and you are more likely to fail then not (If that is the case you are better off opening a soup kitchen and feeding the homeless because you are such as "nice" guy).

Here's a little thing that I've noticed. Now what I usually do is have her help me cook dinner. By the time I decide that she merits such a thrill as cooking with me, it is pretty much a given that she will stay the night because we usually watch movies and have a bottle of wine or two.

Now, here the thing; the ones that truly want to qualify themselves usually get up before me in the morning and cooks breakfast! Hell, they know their way around my kitchen so why not? It's happened more than a few times and it does move them up on my list.

 

[Lost In Translation]

Ark your thread has turned into a Episode of Iron Chef lol

meanwhile.... somewhere else on the island.....

the important question is Ark do you have an idea that you are going to marry this girl ?

she is obviously holding herself from sex until she is married right ?

is that where you see this going ?

from your thread you gave me a link to :

damn you got some bad advice on that thread LOL

*GASP* ***HOLD THE PHONE IGNORE MY ABOVE ADVICE/QUESTIONS !!!!****

Ark
One thing she did say though is that since she didnt want to get into a serious relationship she wanted to let me know that I should date if the opportunity arises and she would do the same if asked. However, then she turned around and said that she didn't like to date this guy, and that guy, rather she preferred to have one guy that she could depend on.

dude !!! DUDE !!! she is a WH0RE !!!

my fellow Don Juan PROTECT YOUR HEART ! she is a player !

she is claiming VIRGIN. 4 years and no sex. she only hugs.

but she wants other men ? just to hug ?

WHAT THE F*CK ?

SOMETHING IS ROTTEN IN THE STATE OF DENMARK !!!

ARK IT'S A TRAP ! LOCK AND LOAD ! SWITCH TO PIMP MODE !


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[Lost In Translation]

SuperGigaloDJ what do you think of this though ?

Quote - Ark
One thing she did say though is that since she didnt want to get into a serious relationship she wanted to let me know that I should date if the opportunity arises and she would do the same if asked. However, then she turned around and said that she didn't like to date this guy, and that guy, rather she preferred to have one guy that she could depend on

sounds like more than hugs is her plan to me

i never heard of a 23 year old serial hugger virgin

have you ?


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[ARK]

I dont think she is a *****. She is very well educated and has a lot on her plate right now. Her career is very much first in her life right now and relationships are second. This is what she said...

Anyway she goes on to say, "that she wished we had been talking sooner because she would have liked to know before she moved if we were compatible for a serious relationship". After 6 dates... she brings up the topic of a serious relationship. Anyway, she adds, "she was hurt before when she jumped into a serious relationship and right now with her going to school and devoting the majority of her time to school that she was enjoying her freedom of not having to answer to someone. She wanted to let me know because of this, that I was free to date someone else if the opportunity came along. And if asked she would go out as well, but she added she preferred to stay with one guy that she could trust and depend on rather than date several guys at once.

She was ok with me being divorced, and added "to be fair what I could expect from her physically." Basically she is a virgin and wants to wait until shes married. Anyway, we kiss, etc. and we exclaim that we both care for each other and that we are both beginning to build feelings for each other. That we were going to enjoy what we had and if it was meant to be that it will happen. We both agreed to keep in contact and I would come see her after she moved. She added shes never made out on a guys couch before on the 3rd-6th date. Usually she just gives hugs after a date. She just feels so comfortable and relaxed with me. Anyway, we kiss more, etc. and she left.

EDIT: I did ask her what her reply would be if someone asked about us. She quickly replied, We are dating.

 

[BrotherAP]

Well.. she said you should date other people. Uh-oh. I recommend getting her a boquet of 36 roses, write her a love song, and then go stand beneath her window so that she'll see what a prize you really are and have sex with you.

Or you could just date other people.

 

[ARK]

You guys are cracking me up! :crackup:

Yes, we have been making out a lot. First thing she did when I saw her on memorial day was give me a kiss. Ever since our third date happened our dates end with us on the couch making out into the wee hours of the morning. She even said "Usually the kissing gets better as a relationship goes along but she cant imagine our kissing getting any better than it already is."

:woo:

EDIT: I have gone out with another girl a couple weeks ago.

 

[BrotherAP]

I think this one can be seduced... but watch out. You're playing with fire here - be ready for a shotgun wedding.

 

[Lost In Translation]

MC HAMMER TIME

well Ark it seems we need to examine her statements alittle closer

but before we do we must remember it is not what a woman SAYS but her ACTIONS that show you what she is up to

Her career is very much first in her life right now and relationships are second

but how can she afford the time to date you and other men ?

AT the same time lol ?

she wanted to let me know that I should date if the opportunity arises and she would do the same if asked

and then she says

"that she wished we had been talking sooner because she would have liked to know before she moved if we were compatible for a serious relationship"

what the ? but she is gunna date the next dude that asks her ?

she doesn't feel that strongly about you BE HONEST

The Wh0res Credo :

Anyway, she adds, "she was hurt before when she jumped into a serious relationship and right now with her going to school and devoting the majority of her time to school that she was enjoying her freedom of not having to answer to someone.

if i had a dollar for every time i have heard a woman say that to a man LOL. it means SERIOUS pimpin'.

thats ******** for i am liking this seeing 4 different men at once and i am going to keep it that way so don't try anything BUSTER

but at the same time she is saying no sex until she is married ? I SMELL A SCAM

She wanted to let me know because of this, that I was free to date someone else if the opportunity came along

love is not divisible. chicks are jealous. she is saying " serious relationship " but she is pushing you away and telling you to hook up with other chicks !!!??

ARK BUDDY SHE IS NOT FEELING YOU LIKE YOU THINK SHE IS

And if asked she would go out as well, but she added she preferred to stay with one guy that she could trust and depend on rather than date several guys at once.

thats some serious ******** right there. will DATE *insert kiss/suck/f*ck other men IF ASKED. but i will tell you i will TRY and keep it legit. cause society says it's better if i have 1 and if my parents caught me i'd be dead 23 or not.

Anyway, we kiss, etc. and we exclaim that we both care for each other and that we are both beginning to build feelings for each other.

have you read the DJ Bible ? you should not be telling her your deep feelings after how many dates ?

She added shes never made out on a guys couch before on the 3rd-6th date.

she has a master plan and you try and tell me this chick ain't a player ?

THIS CHICK KEEPS SCORE AND HAS A BATTING AVERAGE LMAO !!!

BrotherAP gave a good reply. look through his sarcasm and see the wisdom in what he is saying.

You are letting her DICTATE the terms.

She is THE PRIZE

She knows she is THE PRIZE

Keep us posted Ark


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[Tazman]

LIT, very informative. She's actually quite clever with her words, but I can see obvious contradictions. She also says she was very hurt in a past relationship, and of all the girls I've talked to, "sex," is pretty much always involved. That's usually where a lot of the "pain" comes from. Do you really think she's a "virgin"?

 

[Lost In Translation]

who me Tazman ?

i think she is full of $hit lol.

No i don't think she is a virgin.

she is not acting like a sheltered virgin girl.

she is using her " virgin " story to control the men she dates

it has a way of making a man ACT CRAZY

i seen chicks do this before


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[Lost In Translation]

Quote - Tazman
She also says she was very hurt in a past relationship, and of all the girls I've talked to, "sex," is pretty much always involved. That's usually where a lot of the "pain" comes from.

^^^ wisdom


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[ARK]

I'll agree she did say some contradicting things.

She wished we would have talked earlier so she would have known if we were compatible for a serious relationship. Then say she doesnt want to jump into a serious relationship right now. Want female continent is that ******** from???:crackup:

She told me the last guy she dated was during summer of 04. She was living in the apt. below me with her roommate (female) for the past year. I never saw any guys going in and out of her apt. Maybe shes telling the truth.

Oh well. Im just going to see where this leads. She called me Monday and we talked for an hour and a half. We had plans for me to go see her Sat. but she has a medical school thing to go to now from 1-5. So we rescheduled and Im going up Fri. night now picking her up at 5 and going to a dinner theater. Im supposed to spend the night at her apt. and then head for home around lunch time Sat. Her other two med school roommates (female) were moving in that afternoon.

She said she wasnt going to have a lot of time this semester but once she found out her schedule next week she was going to let me know so we could still see each other. I'll definitely keep in touch.

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by Lost In Translation
who me Tazman ?

i think she is full of $hit lol.

No i don't think she is a virgin.

she is not acting like a sheltered virgin girl.

she is using her " virgin " story to control the men she dates

it has a way of making a man ACT CRAZY

i seen chicks do this before


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ANYTIME A CHICK TELLS YOU A LONG STORY WITH DIFFERENT TWISTS AND TURNS AND IN THE END IT DOESN'T ADD UP, YOU KNOW SHE IS LYING.

A good girl does not need to lie and hide her past. Whenever you hear a chick say something that doesn't add up, its because it DOESN'T ADD UP!! The lies ususally start small and the more you accept the lies and let her get away with it, the more she will lie to you and the bigger the lies get.

Example: In my AFC days I dated a chick that told me that she only had 2 boyfriends and she is the type of girl that "likes to keep her relationships a private matter and is not the type to disucss it with others"

I remember I had a light bulb flicker in my head even back then and I was thinking: Hmmm usually when chicks are in a relationship with a guy they often can't stop bragging about it to whomever will lend them their ears! and how come such an attractive chick like this had only 2 boyfriends in her life and she is acting all sweet and innocent????!! I JUST SHRUGGED MY SHOULDERS AND DECIDED TO DATE HER!!

Not only did those proved to be lies ( I found out she only calls guys she had a strong emotional connections with the title: BOYFRIEND while other guys where she dated (suck,fvck pull) did not count and she dated close to 30 guys!! That is the reason why she would always keep her relationships a secret because she did not want to be labled a slvt!!) But she ended up lying to me so more about her past and the lies got bigger and bigger and each time I forgave her because she had "anxiety problems" and I let it slide until the end where she dumped my sorry ass for another guy. So remember to always pay close attention to what they say and ask yourself DOES IT MAKE SENSE OR NOT.

 

[ARK]

In explaining past relationships she said she gets sucked in to them and doesnt see the guy for whom he really is. Said that was how she got hurt in the past with the guy in the 4 year relationship.