Finding your confidence! Help me with your comments!

[Maverick001]

I don`t know how I missed this one - funny, serious and insightful.

It`s also one of the few threads that I commenced and finished reading in one go.

Great job!

Cheers,
Mav

 

[Sapiens]

Perspectives, Thought and Ways of Thinking…

The General and the Soldier.

There is no great difference between a young soldier and an old soldier, except for the fact that the old soldier has learned to push off all the mundane tasks of soldiering onto the young, ignorant and inexperienced recruits.

There isn’t much thought required to keep existence and living as a common soldier. The main point of it being to wait until the task of battle is inevitable presented. Once such task is presented, then main point is to survive the short intense moments of violence long enough to restrain or destroy the enemy.

Thus is destined the life and career of the common soldier, condemned to an overall existence of ennui. It requires no thought, just to react in the proper way when ordered or as instructed.

In total contrast, a budding and aspiring general is destined and exposed to a different path. He begins his career as a young lieutenant, picked from the prosperous families of the society and already accustomed to privilege.

As a young lieutenant he is tasked with managing, overseen and commanding a group of about fifty men. With the assistance of non commissioned officers drawn from the ranks of the common soldiers, the budding general is required to account the where about of his men, to ensure they are trained, fed, healthy and ready for battle.

If he quickly and efficiently masters those tasks, he is rewarded with more responsibility and privilege. He is promoted in rank and made commander of more men. As he rises in rank, more abilities are engaged and required for him to master. He must learn to read other men characters, to think strategically and diplomatically. His life has been privileged and diverse, with constant challenges and risks. For each challenge successfully triumphed, he is rewarded with more responsibility and privilege.

Until one day he is made Supreme, acknowledge and admired and most likely envied and hated by his peers. On that day he shudders, for it is revealed to him a great secret. Although the fruit of his labors and ingenuity helped him achieved the zenith of success among men, he realizes that all men could achieve what he has achieved. At that moment he is pleased that men are born ignorant, for he realized that if men were to know that:

"All Beings have an equal and unalienable right to exist. But not all Beings are created with equal abilities."

His journey would have been more challenging, and his privileged harder to earn. Yet, he is then sad and bitter, for he was robbed of being the best he could be, for other men did not step to be the best that they could be.

Such is life.

-Sapiens

 

[eLMac]

Tyler Durden RSD, he is the future of Game. The savior of AFC's.

 

[Sapiens]

Originally posted by MrLuvr
Sapiens, out of curiousity, what is the age range of women you date/approach?

Date, 30 to 35 year olds.

Approach 18 to 101 year olds.

Originally posted by KnightRyder
sapiens, you really hate non-fathiful married women.

I don't hate them. I just think that as adults we should be responsible for our actions. You shouldn't get married if you are going to cheat.


Thank you for the kudos gentlemen!

-Sapiens

 

[eLMac]

TD has more game than everyone on this board combined.

 

[MrLuvr]

Sapiens, so your only success is with women in the 30+ age group? That is the easiest group of women out there. Doesn't take much to pick up a 30 something woman. Most men don't have any interest in these older women.

I think this whole thread is more of an ego feeding exercise rather than anything based in reality.

I am calling BS. Come on, when this "student's" description was first posted he had a 45" waist. So he is a fat mo fo. And now a month or so later he is picking up an HB9.5. Gimme a break!!

You are eloquent and tell a good story. But, it is BS. Nice try though.

 

[KnightRyder]

Originally posted by MrLuvr
I am calling BS. Come on, when this "student's" description was first posted he had a 45" waist. So he is a fat mo fo. And now a month or so later he is picking up an HB9.5. Gimme a break!!

yeah but if I recall correctly, the student was said to be a good looking dude, so I find it very plausible that he got a HB9.5 , An AFCs with good looking suddenly getting DJ skills is a terriblely potent combination and I believe that sapiens is also a good looking dude , since he is so successful at this.

 

[eLMac]

Decircumcise for confidence.

 

[Sapiens]

Originally posted by MrLuvr
Sapiens, so your only success is with women in the 30+ age group? That is the easiest group of women out there. Doesn't take much to pick up a 30 something woman. Most men don't have any interest in these older women.

I would normally ignore you, yet I will repond to you this once for the benefit of whom ever reads this thread.

In reference to the above quote, you are wrong. In fact it doesn't take much to pickup any woman. All it takes is for you to have the confidence and develop the necessary skill to succeed.

Originally posted by MrLuvr

I think this whole thread is more of an ego feeding exercise rather than anything based in reality.

Take it as it suits you.

Originally posted by MrLuvr
I am calling BS. Come on, when this "student's" description was first posted he had a 45" waist. So he is a fat mo fo. And now a month or so later he is picking up an HB9.5. Gimme a break!!

You are such a dolt as to believe that weight is the only issue preventing someone from picking up women?

Originally posted by MrLuvr
You are eloquent and tell a good story. But, it is BS. Nice try though.

Thank you, I will accept the compliment. Besides, I can discern you are an expert in bovine excrement.

Cheers,

-Sapiens

 

[MrLuvr]

Originally posted by Sapiens
In fact it doesn't take much to pickup any woman. All it takes is for you to have the confidence and develop the necessary skill to succeed.

Is that why you can't pick up the more desirable demographic of women in their 20s and instead have to settle for over the hill 30 somethings?

You talk a good game. But, you don't have the game to compete for the real catches. Sounds to me like you are a bottom feeder boosting your ego on other guys' left overs.

 

[kenypowa]

Originally posted by MrLuvr
Is that why you can't pick up the more desirable demographic of women in their 20s and instead have to settle for over the hill 30 somethings?

You talk a good game. But, you don't have the game to compete for the real catches. Sounds to me like you are a bottom feeder boosting your ego on other guys' left overs.

and i wonder why this board is getting worse all the time.


if you don't like this thread, then don't waste your time posting here.

Are you trying to prove something or seeking validation here?

 

[BrotherAP]

nudge

er... bump

 

[Sapiens]

Toxic People……

There is a segment of any society whom are called Toxic People.

These people at its best are parasitic and at its worst virulent and deadly.

They are the type of people where from the cliché “misery loves company” is derived.

Toxic People are the people that destroy the dreams and aspirations of the young, ignorant and inexperienced.

They enjoy destroying beauty and are the happiest when misery is around them and in them. With every dream and aspiration they crush, they wallow in misery with fervent pleasure.

Toxic People tell the young painter his colors are wrong and his drawings ugly. They tell the sculptor his statues are deformed and tasteless. They tell the sales man he will never sell that many. They tell the visionary he is a useless dreamer. Etc., etc., etc.

All the mean while, they take the value and creations of others and take full advantage of its benefits. Toxic People do not create anything other than misery and discord. Envy rules their spirit, malice their heart, deception their actions.

They are able to manipulate their victims with great dexterity using guilt, as if they were master violinists at a concerto. They are insidious and masters of hiding their true intentions; just like a deadly cancer. You would be hard pressed to doubt their loyalty.

Toxic People proclaim:

“I am a harsh critic!”

“I am brutally honest!”

“I tell it like it is!”

What they don’t tell you is that their “harsh criticism” and “brutal honesty” are cloaked in false virtue. Their true motive is not to help you, but to crush and destroy you. While all the time making it seem they are your true friends.

Toxic People can be our mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters or our closest trusted friends!

Beware my friend, for they are the Toxic People.

You must learn to trust your instinct, believe your gut and walk away from them. Only by extinguishing them from your life you will be able to heal from their poison. Do not let them kill your dreams and aspirations, for you are what makes life worth living; the beauty in your creations, the melody of your song, the laughter from your humor and so on.

-Sapiens

 

[MrLuvr]

YAWWWNNNNNN...

You expect us to believe that in JUST OVER A MONTH you turned around a grossly obese, fat slob from not having a date and having no skills with women to dating HB9.5s and having women fight over him? Yet, you can't get a date with a woman under 30?

You TRULY must be a GURU! One that has not been seen before on these boards!

It took many of the acknowledged gurus in this field from David De Angelo to Style to Mystery, months, if not years of study and hard work to get to that point. But, you were able to achieve it with this guy in just over a month. You are a genius. You can make millions of dollars at $5K a student doing this. Wow. We are witnessing the birth of a new paradigm.

 

[kona]

keep the posts coming sapiens....there are people here who are benefitting from them!

 

[Sapiens]

The Lady and the Tramp…..

Why you develop oneitis.

While doing our weekly review, GH mentioned that he was going home for the holidays in Massachusetts. He said that he wasn’t looking to seeing his past girlfriend since he still has feelings for her. He asked me why we develop “oneitis.”

Let me share with you the story as I heard from my Grand Master, it goes something like this:

There was this very beautiful young woman named Bella. She was the daughter of a poor day laborer and she had three sisters and two brothers. Her family barely made it, with the help of her local church and charity of family friends.

She ended up being married to the richest and most powerful man in her country. Most people would say that she sold her soul to the Devil and what not, but this is what happened.

Bella had had slept with three young men in her town and had a reputation of being an easy girl. Well, the rumor got around and Bella’s life became a shame for her and her family.

Bella got a job working as a maid at the local country club, there one day the youngest boy of one of the wealthiest families almost drowned. Luckily for the kid, Bella was there and was able to save him, the life guard was busy saving some old hag when the kid fell into the deep part of the pool.

The kid’s mother had Bella brought to her; the Lady wanted to thank Bella for saving her son. Once the Lady met Bella, she asked what she could do for Bella, in gratitude for saving her son. Bella replied that she didn’t do anything out of the ordinary and that the Lady didn’t need to reward her.

Well the Lady said to Bella: “I have heard difficult things about you, but in my gratitude I will share with you a priceless family secret. This secret is only passed down the female family line, and I will share it with you, but only if you accept the risk of knowing it. For the secret can be a curse or a blessing, depending in your nature. If you use it wisely, you will live content and from time to time very happy. If you use it unwisely, you will grow old, lonely and bitter.”

“Would you like to know it and do you accept the consequences for what ever happens to you once you know it?”

“Yes,” replied Bella.

The Lady went on to tell Bella this:
A lady must love in silence.

Why, asked Bella, she didn’t understand.

Because, said the Lady, Man is a hunter, provider and protector.

A lady must turn man’s true nature against himself, in order to keep him.

What it means? asked Bella; can you give me an example, she pleaded.

The Lady replied: “Bella, a man must never know he has won your love completely. For he is a hunter; and a hunter once it knows it has caught its prey, loses interest.”

“Second, never tell a man you are fulfilled, for he is a provider, he must always feel the need to provide for you.”

“Third, always show him admiration, for he is a protector and always in competition with his friends.”

“With your beauty you will attract them, but with the secret I have told you, no man will escape your charms, except for one. All men that will know you; will claim you are the ‘One.’”

“If they shared your bed and you have no use for them, they will always want to return to you, for they will never find anyone like you; for you are the one that have turned their true nature against them. Their uncertainty about you is your friend, and your indifference, your most powerful weapon.”

That is how a Tramp became a queen; and you infected with oneitis. Women use your true nature against you.

-Sapiens

 

[MrLuvr]

Re: The Lady and the Tramp…..

Originally posted by Sapiens
Why you develop oneitis.

While doing our weekly review, GH mentioned that he was going home for the holidays in Massachusetts. He said that he wasn’t looking to seeing his past girlfriend since he still has feelings for her. He asked me why we develop “oneitis.”

Let me share with you the story as I heard from my Grand Master, it goes something like this:

There was this very beautiful young woman named Bella. She was the daughter of a poor day laborer and she had three sisters and two brothers. Her family barely made it, with the help of her local church and charity of family friends.

She ended up being married to the richest and most powerful man in her country. Most people would say that she sold her soul to the Devil and what not, but this is what happened.

Bella had had slept with three young men in her town and had a reputation of being an easy girl. Well, the rumor got around and Bella’s life became a shame for her and her family.

Bella got a job working as a maid at the local country club, there one day the youngest boy of one of the wealthiest families almost drowned. Luckily for the kid, Bella was there and was able to save him, the life guard was busy saving some old hag when the kid fell into the deep part of the pool.

The kid’s mother had Bella brought to her; the Lady wanted to thank Bella for saving her son. Once the Lady met Bella, she asked what she could do for Bella, in gratitude for saving her son. Bella replied that she didn’t do anything out of the ordinary and that the Lady didn’t need to reward her.

Well the Lady said to Bella: “I have heard difficult things about you, but in my gratitude I will share with you a priceless family secret. This secret is only passed down the female family line, and I will share it with you, but only if you accept the risk of knowing it. For the secret can be a curse or a blessing, depending in your nature. If you use it wisely, you will live content and from time to time very happy. If you use it unwisely, you will grow old, lonely and bitter.”

“Would you like to know it and do you accept the consequences for what ever happens to you once you know it?”

“Yes,” replied Bella.

The Lady went on to tell Bella this:
A lady must love in silence.

Why, asked Bella, she didn’t understand.

Because, said the Lady, Man is a hunter, provider and protector.

A lady must turn man’s true nature against himself, in order to keep him.

What it means? asked Bella; can you give me an example, she pleaded.

The Lady replied: “Bella, a man must never know he has won your love completely. For he is a hunter; and a hunter once it knows it has caught its prey, loses interest.”

“Second, never tell a man you are fulfilled, for he is a provider, he must always feel the need to provide for you.”

“Third, always show him admiration, for he is a protector and always in competition with his friends.”

“With your beauty you will attract them, but with the secret I have told you, no man will escape your charms, except for one. All men that will know you; will claim you are the ‘One.’”

“If they shared your bed and you have no use for them, they will always want to return to you, for they will never find anyone like you; for you are the one that have turned their true nature against them. Their uncertainty about you is your friend, and your indifference, your most powerful weapon.”

That is how a Tramp became a queen; and you infected with oneitis. Women use your true nature against you.

-Sapiens

And THIS is your theory as to why men develop oneitis? What a load of DRIVEL.

This story makes it out as though the woman is an active participant in oneitis and is manipulating the man to develop oneitis for her. Well, yes there are some instances where this does happen.

BUT, in the MAJORITY of cases the man who has oneitis for a woman develops such a condition because of various other issues in his life which may or may not include, a lack of self confidence, the feeling that he can't do better, insecurities and over all low self esteem. The man is able to develop oneitis by himself without any manipulation by the woman. In many cases the object of his affection couldn't care less what he is doing with his life, let alone actively making him develop oneitis for her.

 

[MrLuvr]

For those of you that want to learn more about oneitis, take a look at this thread, specially the brilliant posts by Rollo Tommasi.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91349

 

[Crux]

To all those argueing 5k is too much. A three day workshop / bootcamp costs near 2k. Do the math.

 

[So Many Ways]

I can't believe I slept on this thread.

*bookmarks thread*