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Ignorance. Breeding Ground of Evil……….

I have been taken it easy with GH after his encounter with the fire dragon Sylvia.

I had him come over for supper, and we took time after the meal to review his progress. I have to tell you, GH does not lack confidence, he may be shy but he is pretty certain of his abilities to an extent. He is ambitious and driven, also, persistent.

As we got talking, he apologized for not following my advise in reference with his little incident, and that he was aware of the “seriousness of the matter.”

I understand GH; I would chuck this slip to youth. I noticed something in GH that I have hardly noticed on most human beings: humility. This humility, at his young age, tells me he will become a great man.

He asked me if what he did to Sylvia was an evil act? I replied that I didn’t know what exactly transpired between them, but how would he feel if she did to him what he did to her? He replied that he would feel like zhit. I don’t know if it would qualify as evil, since there was no malice and she agree to share herself with him out of her own volition, but I leave that to the moralists.

I would like to share with you once of the most enlightening concepts I use in my daily life; I did not think of the concept, I read it while traveling in South America, it was written on one of those raggedy local newspapers. The idea goes like this:

There are four types of people:

The Victim
The Bad
The Idiot
The Smart

The Victim: The victim usually always loses, and most likely, it is always out of ignorance. They usually don’t know any better and they get taken advantage of.

The Bad: The bad know something about the world and they always see to take advantage of everyone for their own personal gain; even harming others out of malice, just for the sake of injuring others without reason.

The Idiot: The idiot always harms himself and others, they are not even aware that they are injuring themselves and others. These are the most dangerous type of people, because they could have the best intentions in the Universe, yet they are not aware that they are committing harm or injury. No one wins with these types of people, avoid them at all cost, if you don’t, you will always risk injury to your well being.

The Smart: The smart always wins for himself and others. They are aware of the ignorance of the Victim, the malice of the Bad and the stupidity of the Idiot. The Smart becomes prudent and learns to deal with each of the other three types.

The thing about this concept is that it makes it obvious that all of us are always playing one of those types. In every situation in my life, I ask, which of the above types I am playing at that particular time.

For example, if I don’t know anything about the situation I am heading or about to be engaged in, I know the provability of me ending a Victim is very high.

If I know that I can clearly take advantage of someone to their own detriment, I know I am being Bad.

If I have no clue what I am doing, and think that what I am doing is best for someone else, I know I am being a total Idiot.

If I know what I am doing and can clearly see someone may benefit from my actions, I know I am being smart.

With this concept and knowledge of the Truth or fundamental principles, I have had incredible success in my life. I hope it helps you the same way. For ignorance lets the Bad commit the most heinous acts and Enlightenment lets the Smart share existence in peace with the others.

-Sapiens
 

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Sarging for Quality Women……

Ok, so if you have been out there doing cold approaches and meeting all kinds of women on the street, book stores, cafes and any place you can think of, you have finally realized that good looking girls are dime a dozen, but quality chicks are hard to come by. Why?

Because the chicks you are looking for are of a certain type you still need to define for yourself. i.e. they have to have a certain I.Q., grade of education and type of upbringing. Right now you should have a bunch of phone numbers, lots of them which you have not even bother to call because, in your estimate, the chick was not worth your time.

So where do we find the type of women we are looking for? Well, once you write down the qualities that a woman you would be attracted to must have, all you need to do is figure out where would they hang out. An athletic type may hang out at the gym, a professional at seminars, young college types at colleges… You get the picture, now all you need to do is enroll in a class, join the gym or take a seminar.

I have tried the above suggestion to great success and as a bonus I did learn something and stayed fit.

-Sapiens
 

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Know Yourself………..

I like to watch the world from the perspective as a third person or external being. I like to watch people and wonder what are the experiences encapsulated within them.

Why am I telling you this? Because it is how I empirically learn of the many secrets hidden in open view of the world. I hope to open your mind’s eye to see things that seem beyond your immediate physical control; but are nevertheless, available for your control.

It is understood that when we are born, our mind is tabula rasa; that is to say, the mind before it receives the impressions gained from experience.

If you were born from a rich family, you would experience the world from a rich upbringing perspective. If you were born into a poor family you would experience the world from poverty and your view of the world would be one of scarcity.

The above made sense to me, but one thing that did not make any sense to me was how could people born into wealth or poverty be either good or evil.

I searched for the answer in the libraries, books stores, talked to sages and fools, but nothing seem to answer my question. Until one night as I lay in bed meditating fell asleep. I had a dream, where I was under questioning in a greatly immense forum. Then, I heard a voice ask; why do you seek such knowledge? I instinctually knew the voice referred to my question. I replied: “I seek such knowledge to be a better man.” There was thunder and lightening, and a second that seemed an eternity passed, then the voiced said: “You may have and be privy to such knowledge and do with it as you please.” Then, I woke up.

But once I was awake, I knew this: That although you may share your same genes and blood with your siblings, your spirit is unique and separate from those of others. Your brother or sister may have the same genes as you, but they could be of the most dark and evil spirits, while you are an Enlighten One. Is it wrong for them to have been born with a dark and evil nature? No, that is they way the Creator has ordained things, and Life demands that eternal conflict in order to exist and carry on.

What does this means to you and me? Well, know your true nature and seek the path of your ways. There will always be Evil people, looking to harm you. You just need to know that they exist and must be aware of them. One thing is clear though, their way always leads to non-existence, like a virus and its infection; if the virus wins, their hosts always die.

No one can demean you or have authority to demean you, only you have such authority for yourself and others can have such authority only if you give it to them. Now, edify yourself so no one can use your ignorance against you. If you are poor, first know yourself and you will have the power to amass the greatest pecuniary fortune you wish to achieve. The irony is, once you know yourself, you will see how empty and futile money is without purpose.

Yes, stick around and I will show you how to amass that fortune, should you wish to amass it.

-Sapiens
 

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!!!!!!!THANKS!!!!!!!!

SAPIENS YOU ARE THE MAN!!!!!!!!! YOUR BLOG IS BACK UP. DON'T QUIT THIS THREAD PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Know The System, Use It to Your Advantage……

I have been getting mail from people whom yet don’t know or understand what I am saying in my posts.

The point is this: You decide what kind of life you wish to lead. The system we presently live in was engineer from those that figured out early that you make your own reality. If you don’t like your present way of living, change it. YOU MAKE YOUR OWN REALITY!!!!!

Look at the American Founding Fathers; they didn’t like their reality under King George. They changed it! It could cost them their lives, but they rather have died than live under the reality of King’s George rule.

So, if you don’t like your reality, change it. It may cost you your life but would you rather live YOUR OWN reality, or that reality engineer for you by someone exploiting your ignorance to your detriment?

You are a Man! Live like a Man! Learn to experience rejection, pick yourself up and try again. If you live in the Truth, only fools and tyrants will be your enemies. Free yourself of DOGMA, make your own trail. Women want you as a Man! Be a MAN!

-Sapiens
 

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Force, Violence, Hostility…….

There is a misconception that force is only available to the dark side, in their violence and hostility. This is wrong, force is neither good nor evil, just like fire is a tool that its intent is determined by the Being whom puts it to use. Just like fire, force can be used to do good or ill.

An Enlightened Being may use force to defend against or suppress a dark or evil Being. For those in the Judeo-Christian faith, the command is: Thou shall not Murder; not Thou shall not Kill. There is a big difference, and semantics are critical to Enlightenment.

Murder implies MALICE; and you may kill in your self-defense to preserve your own life, provided you are not committing a crime yourself.

Just because you live by the principle: Do unto others, as you like to be done to you. Does not mean others will live or respect your principle. You have all the right to defend yourself, not be taken advantage of, or enslaved; be it mentally, physically or spiritually.

Edify yourself, Enlighten yourself, overcome your ignorance; so those with knowledge of the Truth and dark evil spirits may not overpower you or enslave you by your ignorance.

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awesome posts...keep up with the great work! :D
 

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wow. 5k seems way over the top...but then again if he's willing to pay that, then he must REALLY need help.
 

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You Shall Know Them by Their Actions……..

While out sarging GH asked me: “Hey Sapiens, you keep telling me not to lie to women, but how am I going to get laid if I tell them all I want is a quick fvck?”

“Well, if you put it to them that way, maybe 1 in 25 may answer back that it would cost you $100.00” I said.

He didn’t think it was funny, telling me that it was a serious question. He continued and told me that every chick that he was hitting on was not responding favorably to him. He didn’t like getting shot down.

Ok, let me explain the logic behind the concept that you shouldn’t lie to women, or anyone for that matter.

People already mislead themselves; they do not require your help at all to continue to be misled. Let me explain, if you have heard the cliché: “Do not judge a book by its cover.” It means most people assume things about you from the way you speak, they way you dress, the way you carry yourself, etc….

Most women instinctually know that when a male approaches them, the male would be pleased to copulate with them. For illustration purposes of this exercise, let’s call your unrestricted access to a female vagina for pleasure the “Treasure.” As said before, the female instinctually knows that when you approach her you are making an implied run for her Treasure. She would not be persuaded to think otherwise, unless you are proved to be actually not “interested in her Treasure.”

So how can you “prove you are not interested in her Treasure” whiles all the time you just want full unrestricted access to her Treasure? Simple, you just appear not to be interested without admitting or denying it; you let her make her assumptions and let your actions speak for themselves.

Ok, Sapiens, give me a practical example. Fine, here it goes.

You make EC/smile to an HB; she does the same.

Then you approach the HB; she instinctually knows you would like access to her “Treasure” so all her defenses are activated, she knows she has something of value to you and must protect it from you.

You say, “Hi, wow, it’s really cold today huh?” (If the weather is cold, be creative; look around you to make conversation about things around you.)

She may reply with something like “Yeah,” or “Yes, it’s really cold today” or no response at all. If she smiled and made eye contact (EC) with you and did not respond to your comment, she might be really shy; otherwise she may not be interested and just friendly.

So, in the spirit of this exercise let’s say she is interested, but is shy.

She just replied with “Yeah.” You continue with, “How long do you think it may stay this cold?” The point here is to open her to talk to you and develop rapport with her. Once you have her talking, her perception of the value of her “Treasure” to your value will change.

The more interesting you are, the more she begins to value you, the less she will think the value of her “Treasure” to your value is. Eventually, once you have her smitten, she will give you her “Treasure” to keep you interested, because you are worthy to be gifted her “Treasure.” At this point the tables are turned and you are in total control.

You don’t brag, you don’t tell her how valuable you are, let her assume, let her find out how valuable you are. If you don’t make a blatant attempt at her “Treasure” you create uncertainty in her mind as to how you value her “Treasure.” Her assumptions work against her, while everything you say to her only is received with skepticism by her defenses.

So you let her talk about herself, and let her make her own assumptions of you by the way you carry yourself. If you appear nervous and unsure she will suspect you and therefore she will treat you with suspicion. Most people assume that someone nervous or unsure is doing something they should NOT be doing.

While if you appear certain and confident and act like it’s not big deal, she will be comfortable with you. Most people assume that confident people know what they are doing.

Ok, why the aphorism: “You shall know them by their actions.”

Simple, let me explain. Some evil and dark spirits have been taught the Truth; they know they can use the principles in the Truth to bind the Ignorant and use the Ignorant’s own words against them to coerce them to do something.

The evil and dark spirits words may appear noble, but their actions will reveal the true nature of their purpose. Let me give you an example:

A Usurer lends you money at 25% per annum; you borrow $1000.00. The Usurer requires you to have collateral in the amount of $2000.00.

You accept the terms, the Usurer knows that most people can’t pay back the $1000.00 plus interest under the terms of the agreement as written for or by him. He knows you will provably default and he will take your collateral.

You on the other hand, don’t know this; you are just glad you got a loan to solve your immediate problem. What you don’t know is that the Usurer knows you will most likely fail to pay back the loan under the terms and will be in a bigger problem down the road. You may have thought he did you a favor, while all the time his actions will reveal the true nature and purpose of his words.

Remember, someone will say something; you may agree (out of ignorance and assumption) and will end up doing something different all along.

Therefore, study and know the Truth, edify yourself. Do not let your ignorance be used against you.

-Sapiens
 
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FR….A Sarging Experiment….on Pick Ups

I have this friend named Dragon, he is one cool dude.

I shared with him that I was training GrassHopper and he laughed. He recalled the days when we met our Grand Master and we were AFCs.

After I introduced him to GH, we got to talking and the following idea surged: GH said to Dragon that we could not be as successful picking up women dressed as regular Joes and driving zhitty cars. So in the name of science we went to our local uniform place and bought some work shirts, pants, and work boots. Then we called around to car rental agencies for an old beat up car (Not an easy task.)

We found a 2001 Ford Focus for our experiment, and then we proceeded to test what would be the results of our pick up attempts. The main goal was to see how fast we could talk a chick into a motel, she would have to be rated a minimum of an 8. We did not specify any other parameters, just the speed and the looks rating.

First stop, Barnes and Noble book sellers. We scanned the store and no decent babes in sight. There was this RB7.5 which we agreed I should give her a try since we were already there.

Sapiens: <Smile, looking and dressed like a construction worker, makes an approach at an angle, RB7.5 checking out latest fiction releases> “Wow, so many good books, so little time.”

RB7.5: <nonchalant> “Yeah, uh huh.”
Sapiens: <Smile> “So, what do you like to read?”
RB7.5: <Walks away, does not answer>

Ouch, no action.

Next Dragon makes his move.

Same thing, RB7.5 ignores him and walks away.

I gotta tell you, Dragon is a good looking guy and we both got shot down cold. We laugh, interesting. I was at least expecting some convo.

Next, we drive to another store, on the way I spot a HB8.5 waiting for the bus, Dragon drives past her and I tell him to drop me off. I will head to talk to her. I tell him I will call him to pick me up at the bus stop if I can or can’t get any action.

I walk toward the HB8.5 and the bus stop. As I approach, I catch her eye and we make some EC. I smile, she smiles back. This babe has amazing red hair and is really cute. I open with:

Sapiens: <smile> “Hi, what time is the next bus?”
HB8.5: <Looking pensive> “Umm. I think in about 20 minutes.”
Sapiens: “Wow, it looks like is going to snow, do you think it might snow?”
HB8.5: “Don’t know I forgot to look at the weather news today.”
Sapiens: <smile> “I can’t believe you forgot to look at the weather report, you knew I would be asking you for it!”
HB8.5: <LOL> “No I didn’t”
Sapiens: <smile> “Ok, then, just make sure you don’t do it again, I will let it slide this time.”
HB8.5: <LOL>
Sapiens: <smile> “So, what’s your name? My name is Sapiens” <Extending hand>
HB8.5: “Margaret” <shakes hand>
Sapiens: <smile> “Margaret, nice to meet you, LOL, wow it is COLD”
Margaret: <smile> “Yeah, it is freezing.”
Sapiens: <smile> “So Margaret, what you do for fun, besides waiting for the bus and harassing other passengers?”
Margaret: <LOL> “Not much, just work all the time.”
Sapiens: <smile> “Mmm, wow, we are gonna have to fix that!”
Sapiens: <smile> “If you didn’t have to work, what would you do for fun?”
Margaret: “Don’t know, maybe just hang out with my friends.”
Sapiens: <smile> “Where would you guys hang out? The zoo?”
Margaret: <LOL> “Not the zoo, LOL, that would be interesting though. I like animals.”
Sapiens: <smile> “Really, what kind of animals?”
Margaret: “All kinds, you know cats, not really dogs, they are too aggressive.”
Sapiens: <smile> “yeah, cats are cool, all furry and lazy.”
Margaret: <smile> “They aren’t really lazy, they are always getting in trouble.”
Sapiens: <smile> “uh, oh, you aren’t one of those closet master lion tamers, are you?”
Sapiens: <looking some what serious> “You provably whip everybody into shape huh, if they don’t listen to you?” <smile>
Margaret: <LOL> “No, I am not mean; I am really nice to people, maybe too nice.”
Sapiens: “Why do you say that, why too nice?”
Margaret: <looking down> “Don’t know, I don’t like to hurt peoples feelings.”
Bus arrives and we get on…

I sit next to her. We continue chatting….then

Sapiens: “So which is your stop?”
Margaret: “Umm, about four more stops.”
Sapiens: “I get off at the next one.”
Sapiens: “Margaret, I enjoyed talking to you, give me your number and I will give you a call so we can go out.”
Margaret: “Umm, I have a boy friend.”
Sapiens: <looking disappointed> “Oh, too bad for me. Is it serious? Are you getting married?”
Margaret: “We haven’t talked about it, maybe, don’t know.”
Sapiens: <smile> “Well, give me your number so we can talk, if you guys decide it is serious, I won’t bother you. But I would like to take you out dancing or to a movie”
Margaret: <smile> “That would be nice.”
Sapiens: <smile> “I know, maybe we can take one of those dinner tours on the Hudson, you know on the little romantic boats.”
Margaret: <smile> “Yeah that would be really nice.”
Sapiens: <smile> “Uh, oh, this is my stop, give me your number.” <Pulling out cell phone>
Margaret: <smile> “It’s xxx-xxx-xxxx”
Sapiens: <smile> “Mmm, what is it again?” <Checking to see if it is not a flake>
Margaret <smile> “It’s xxx-xxx-xxxx”
Sapiens: <smile> “Cool, I will give you a call Wednesday night ok.”
Margaret: <smile>”Okay, bye”
Sapiens: <smile, getting off bus> “Bye”

Next……………….
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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Being Yourself…….

Before we continue with our experiment, I want to share this with you:

Some people will tell you to “just be yourself;” others will tell you that that is the worst advice you can give someone.

Why the contradiction?

Well, let’s break it down and see which side would be right.

The people that advice you to “just be yourself” come from the assumption you are a valuable, noble and productive human being. While those that advocate the contrary believe that you must appear better than what you are or something else that you are not.

It is clear from this preliminary inquiry that from the moment you begin to mislead you are setting yourself up for failure. You will eventually be confronted with the truth and will be discredited and disappointed when you are found out.

But let us continue with our inquiry and peek in to the different perspectives.

Let us create an individual and see which of the above perspectives would be the best advice.

We will call this individual Ricky; from here we will explore Ricky’s present reality.

Ricky is a 19-year-old male who lives with his mother. He has barely graduated from secondary school (High School) and has difficulty with reading and writing. He has a limited vocabulary, is a loner and not very social. He is not very fond of personal hygiene, preferring to bathe once or twice a week.

He is unemployed and does not have any immediate prospects of finding a new job. The last job he had was as a cashier at the local supermarket; from where he was fired because his cash register was always coming up short at the end of his shift. Ricky was not stealing; he just gave back the wrong change.

Ricky’s mom had him when she was 17 years old. She was a beautiful young woman that was seduced by a married man whom she met through one of her school friends. This man would say and do just the right things that enable him to gain her trust. After a few weeks of having intercourse, she was late menstruating. She told this to the married man and he disappeared soon after.

Ricky’s mom was left to fend for her and Ricky, all alone and no one to help her raise her child. Her family disowned her because she had brought shame to the family and its name. Her mother told her that there are “no bastards in our family;” and that she must get an abortion immediately to prevent any further shame and stains to the family name.

Ricky’s mom refused to have an abortion. She contacted a charity group in another city and moved to make a new life for her and her son. She received social assistance (welfare) and worked as a waitress to feed and care for Ricky and make ends meet.

When tips were low and the rent was due and there seemed no other alternative to make ends meet, Ricky’s mom would prostitute herself. There were some customers whom would proposition her and she would agree to their advances.

That is how she was able to raise her son, and unwed but loving and caring single mother.

Clearly Ricky has come to this world under difficult circumstances. Some would say that he was cheated from his chance to experience a decent upbringing.

These are Ricky’s present circumstances. He wants to get laid, his hormones are raging and his body is going through a natural chemical storm.

He approaches an HB and is immediately ignored and rejected. This happens again and again to Ricky’s frustration; he boils in anger, “how dare this *****s refuse me,” he thinks.

Ricky expects women to ignore their biological instinct developed through hundreds of thousands of years of evolution. He wants them to just lie down and copulate with him, just because he is a male and nothing more.

Ricky in his consuming frustration asks an older friend for advice and is told to be “just yourself.” Well, thinks Ricky, I have just been myself and it is not working out. Why?

Yes indeed, why?

Through hundreds of thousand of years of evolution there were no condoms or birth control pills. Women have always had the urge to copulate, but that urge has been attached to the risk of pregnancy and consequently reproduction via offspring.

What Ricky in his frustration does not understand is the biological imperatives of the female. By being himself and his circumstances in his present reality, he has nothing to offer the female and her biological imperative.

Her biological imperative is to reproduce, but not just reproduce; but to reproduce and “raise” her offspring successfully.

That is why the qualities of the Alpha Male are extremely attractive to the female. Ricky is not and does not display any Alpha Male characteristics, and it becomes evident why “just being yourself” is not working out for Ricky.

By learning to display the qualities of an Alpha Male and mastering those qualities Ricky becomes and Alpha Male, and thus increasing his chances of success with the females.
It can be said we all are “Potential;” thus Ricky by being himself and practicing and mastering the qualities of an Alpha Male, he becomes one.

Some of us are propelled to be Alphas from an early age and have been practicing the qualities of Alpha Maleness since childhood. Therefore all that practice gives us a so-called “natural advantage.” This is true, it is the years of practice that gives us the advantage, but does not prevent a Beta to become an Alpha. All you need to do is to choose to be an Alpha and begin practicing those qualities.

Even in the playground a young female can pick out the Alpha from the group; and knows instinctually a young Alpha will eventually become an adult Alpha.

And why are such Alpha qualities so attractive? Because they presuppose bountiful resources and prestige, which lead to successful raising of offspring.

So, I would tell you, be yourself. Know yourself, edify yourself, improve yourself, and perform the actions to become what you want to be and to be perceived as such.

The power to be what you want to be is in your hands and only in your hands, no one else’s.

-Sapiens
 

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thumbs up, keep up the experiment!


though, thats not an easy hilll to climb, ...hopefully not mundane either peace
 

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FR….A Sarging Experiment….on Pick Ups part 2

As I get off the bus, I dial Dragon to tell him to pick me up. Dragon tells me he is in an important meeting; this is my clue that he is working a pick-up. I tell him that there is a McDonald’s next to the bus stop; I will wait for him there. He agrees to pick me up there after his is finished.

I walk into the McD’s and fall in line behind two very large women, these women could give a hippo a run for its money in size, they are HUGE. As I wait in line behind the herd, I scan the McD’s for any action, there is none, other than the cute cashier a solid HB7.

My turn comes up and I step up to order, I notice the name on the nametag of the cute cashierHB7: Bahia. I say to her –smile- “Wow, that is a cool name, where are you from?” She replies that she is from Morocco. I respond with –smile- “Wow, that was a long swim huh? LOL, just kidding.” Bahia smiles.

Bahia: -smile- “So, what will be your order?”
Sapiens: -smile- “I will have the vegetarian BigMac and a low calorie water.”
Bahia: -LOL- “We don’t have a veggie BigMac, and water has no calories.”
Sapiens: -smile- “You don’t say! Well, if you don’t have a veggie BigMac, I will have the Kosher BLT; and your no calorie water.”
Bahia: -LOL- “Sorry, no Kosher BLT either. Hey wait a minute, BLT’s have bacon, you can’t have bacon in something Kosher!”
Sapiens: -smile- “No way, are you sure?”
Bahia: -nods head, big smile-

After haggling for a bit I end up with a McFruit Salad and no calorie water. The manager shows up and asks if there is a problem. I replied that there is not, but that I noticed the help wanted sign. I tell her I would like to apply for employment.

McManager6.12 –smile- “Do you have fast food work experience?”

Sapiens: -smile- “Well, back on the farm, my momma had me catch the chickens for supper, they are fast little suckers, so yea, you can say I have experience with fast food.”

McManager6.12 –not amused-
Bahia: -smiles, LOL-
McManager6.12 –serious look- “That is not what I meant.”
Sapiens: -smile- “I know, I am just kidding, have a nice day.”

I smile to Bahia, and walk with my grub to the dining area. I see the herd busy chopping down their Supersized Kids Meal, man, there ought to be a law against doing that in public, ugh!

I take a seat, grab a napkin and write some notes.

Minutes later Dragon shows up with an amazing blond a solid HB9 and maybe not older than 19. He comes up to me with her and says:

Dragon: -smile- “Hey Sapiens.”
Sapiens: -jaw dropped- “Dude, watch where you step, my tongue is down there.”
Dragon: -smile- “I know, please don’t drool on my shoes!”
Sapiens: -LOL-
Dragon: -smile- “Sapiens, this is my friend Cristy; with a “C” and no “H.”
Sapiens: -smile- “Hey Cristy; with a “C” and no “H,” pleased to me you, I am Sapiens.” –extends hand-
Cristy: -LOL- “Me too” –shakes hand-

Cristy tells us that she is from Kentucky and that her “boy friend” Daryl had a court date and has been detained. They are staying at a motel and are just visiting NYC. It quickly becomes evident that Cristy is a very young prostitute, a very beautiful young prostitute.

We continue to chat and finally she tells us that she would do each of us for $100.00 a piece. Dragon haggles with her and brings down the price to $40.00 each. She agrees and we head out to the local motel 8. I just follow along, this is Dragon’s show and I want to see what he is up to. Once we get to the motel Dragon gets a room and we go inside.

Inside the room Dragon pulls out a $100.00 Dollar bill and hands it to Cristy, then tells her that he wants his change. I laugh; Cristy tells him she does not have change. This is too crazy; I continue to laugh.

Once Dragon and Cristy settle their monetary dispute, the issue of who goes first comes up. I tell Cristy not to worry; I say that I just want to see her masturbate. She looks disgusted and tells me she doesn’t play with her self. Dragon tells her that that is all he wants too; she looks unsettled and says, “What kind of weirdo’s are you?” We laugh; this is coming from a hooker. We tell her that we are just practicing safe sex and that both of us are married. She replies that she is clean, and in fact had an AIDS test 3 weeks ago and it came back negative.

All the same we tell her we just want to watch. After some back and forth haggling we end up agreeing that she would dance for us and give us each a lap dance. After we are done we drop off Cristy at her motel and Dragon and I head to my house.

On the way to my house, I ask Dragon how did he pick up Cristy. He tells me that he was putting fuel in the vehicle when he saw her walk by the gas station. He could not believe his eyes. He walked towards her and just started to make conversation. He tells me that for all intents and purposes our experiment is done. I point out that hookers don’t count; he replies that I didn’t stipulate this at the beginning of the experiment. He continues with saying that all we agreed to was to talk an HB8 into a motel room. Technically he is right, but the spirit of the experiment is to see how fast we can get a regular chick to do it.

More next………..
 

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FR….A Sarging Experiment….on Pick Ups part 3

I got to tell you, the original goal of this experiment was pretty stupid.

But I think we are on to something; by documenting our approaches, there are some very significant patterns that have emerged.

It took 2 contacts, over two days and less than 4 hours total time to talk a regular woman into a motel. I mean by regular, someone like a girl next door.

I will continue this experiment after the holidays; these patterns that have become evident, tells us something disturbing about men and women. For example, out of 167 approaches, 73 were married women. From those married women, more than half didn’t disclosed they were married until late in the convo, even after being asked directly if they were married.

The main significant pattern that has emerged is this: Women are always looking to move up in the social hierarchy, even if they are already married and with kids. It seems to us they are willing to betray their mate to move up the social ladder.

I feel sick…
 

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Re: FR….A Sarging Experiment….on Pick Ups part 3

Originally posted by Sapiens

The main significant pattern that has emerged is this: Women are always looking to move up in the social hierarchy, even if they are already married and with kids. It seems to us they are willing to betray their mate to move up the social ladder.

I feel sick…
I second that feeling of sickness. Sad but true.
 

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FR….A Sarging Experiment….on Pick Ups part 3.01

I am standing in the lobby of a corporate complex; I am there because I have an appointment to close on a business deal. I see this amazing beautiful woman enter the coffee shop from the opposite side of the lobby.

She has long flowing black hair to the middle of her back, is tall, about 5’9” or 5’10;” very voluptuous and athletic looking with long sexy legs and creamy white skin.

I can’t resist and head to enter the coffee shop. As I enter she is standing in line ready to order, she turns her head back and quickly glances at me. I smile and she smiles back. Wow, her eyes are a deep emerald green; gorgeous eyes, they leave me breathless.

I fall in line behind her; as she finishes her order, she turns her head again and looks at me briefly, I smile and again she smiles back. She picks up her coffee and moves away, I step up and order bottle water. She walks toward the condiment bar and flavors her coffee. I walk up to the condiment bar and say to her:

Sapiens: -smile- “Please don’t make it too sweet, I don’t like my coffee very sweet.”
SuperHotBabe9.9: -smile, and retorts with - “I don’t prepare coffee; coffee is prepared for me.”
Sapiens: -smile- “There is always a first time for everything.”
SHB9.9: -smile- “Today, is not that day.”
Sapiens: -smile- “Oh, don’t tell me, you are a power feminist.”

SHB9.9: -LOL- “What’s a power feminist?”

Sapiens: -smile- “By the looks of it, I would be inclined to say you are. But I don’t know anything about you yet, other than you are very sharp and maybe witty.”

SHB9.9: -smile- “What would you like to know about me that would support or dispel your allegation?”
Sapiens: -smile- “I haven’t alleged anything yet, but like I said, I don’t know anything about you. From your choice of words I am inclined to say you could be an attorney.

SHB9.9: “Your assumption is correct, does that make me a power feminist?”

Sapiens: -LOL- “I don’t know yet, allow me to find out.”

SHB9.9: -smile- “Question is, are you man enough to find out? Can you handle it?”

Sapiens: -smile- “I think you will be pleasantly surprised. What is your name?”

SHB9.9: -smile- “My name is Tracy, what is yours?”

Sapiens: -smile- “Sapiens, my name is Sapiens.”

Tracy: -smile- “Sapiens, it is good to meet you, but I must run. I am late for my morning meeting.”

Sapiens: -LOL- “ You know, that sure is a power move; quite excellent I may add. Let me get to the point, give me your number.”

Tracy: -lol- “I will give you my card, leave me a message if I don’t answer.”

Sapiens: “On second thought, never mind, keep your card.”

Tracy: -serious look- “Now, that is rude. You don’t ask someone for their number and then turn it down.”

Sapiens: -smile- “Tracy, like I said before, there is always a first time.”

I exit the coffee shop and walk toward the elevators; she keeps up with me.

Tracy: “What brings you to the CrossRoads?”

Sapiens: “I am closing on a licensing deal.”

Tracy: “What kind of licensing?”

Elevators open and we get on, I press 12, and she presses 8.

Sapiens: “Oh, you know, the everyday kind.”

Tracy: “I see, so now you are being anti-social.”

Sapiens: “No, at least I don’t think so. I don’t like to talk about business outside a business setting. I find it quite rude.”

Tracy: -LOL- “Look, I am really late. Please take my card and give me your phone number. We will finish this later.”

Sapiens: “There is nothing to finish, it’s done as far as I am concerned.”

Tracy: -smile, hands card- “Well, I am not.”

Sapiens: -smile, takes her card and I give her mine-

She walks off the elevator and I proceed to my appointment.

The next day I call her. The operator answers the phone and she transfers me to her extension. I leave a message with my cell phone number.

Later in the day I get a voice mail message. She tells me we are playing phone tag, and then leaves me her office number with her extension; I find this odd.

I call her, the operator answers again.

Operator: “Thank you for calling Shyster, Theft and Misrepresentation. How may I connect your call?”
Sapiens: “May I speak with Tracy?”
Operator: “Whom may I say is calling?”
Sapiens: “Her husband.”
Operator: “Oh Mr. Michaels I am sorry, I didn’t recognize your voice. Happy Holidays sir.”
Sapiens: “Thank you”

Phone rings as call is being transferred.

Tracy answers.

Tracy: “Hi darling, why didn't you call me on the mobile? Did you try the mobile?”
Sapiens: “I would have, but I don’t have your mobile number?
Tracy: “WHO IS THIS?”
Sapiens: “Tracy is me, Sapiens.”
Tracy: “That is really underhanded of you to do. Why would you do that?”
Sapiens: “You didn’t tell me you were married.”
Tracy: “You didn’t ask.”
Sapiens: “You know what Tracy, for a lawyer…. I guess you didn’t make it to your ethics class. Good bye!”

I hung up the phone.

My cell phone rings… I don’t answer.
My cell phone rings again. Again, I don’t answer.
The voice mail indicator goes off. I check my message.
It’s Tracy, she tells me she doesn’t know me or who I am. What business of mine is her personal life, and that she did attend her ethics class; also, not to call her again.

LOL, women always have to have the last word.

I really liked this broad. Oh, well.

-Sapiens
 

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I can't believe I'm reading this.... I've mostly been a lurker and this is by far the best thread ever. Ever.

This needs to be a book. Priceless.

Sapiens, you say you were an ex-afc? I would like to hear your conversion story....
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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