I assume you guys are talking about Dr. Laura. I used to despise that chick, I thought she was judgemental and a nag. But, I have listened to her show on my lunch breaks and now I like her. She is very into self-responsibility, and she talks a lot about the roles men and women play. The other day I heard her talk about masculine and feminine polarity, what I've heard her say about what men need is very much in line with what we talk about here.