Doesn't matter if it's an attractive woman you've never talked to before or an attractive woman you might have had a brief interaction(s) with.
Feel the fear and just do it!
Remember, shyness is a feminine passive trait and a natural repellent to the majority of women.
Women can get away with being shy since it can be seen as a feminine quality and attractive, but not men.
If your gut is telling you to go talk to that woman, but you have butterflies, just do it! Better to try and possibly be awkward then to not try
at all.
In regard to this, I am only referring to attractive women whom your gut tells you that she might also be attracted to you (e.g. that woman across the bar or that female patron online at Starbucks, etc.....who gave you an IOI)
I am NOT talking about a female(s) who act like you don't exist.
Regardless of the outcome, you will be proud of yourself for doing so.
An experience I had today prompted me to post this.
Feel the fear and just do it!
Remember, shyness is a feminine passive trait and a natural repellent to the majority of women.
Women can get away with being shy since it can be seen as a feminine quality and attractive, but not men.
If your gut is telling you to go talk to that woman, but you have butterflies, just do it! Better to try and possibly be awkward then to not try
at all.
In regard to this, I am only referring to attractive women whom your gut tells you that she might also be attracted to you (e.g. that woman across the bar or that female patron online at Starbucks, etc.....who gave you an IOI)
I am NOT talking about a female(s) who act like you don't exist.
Regardless of the outcome, you will be proud of yourself for doing so.
An experience I had today prompted me to post this.
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