escorts vs civvies

[Dr.Suave]

Im replying to the Original Post

Escorts are better than civvies

This can be true and valid for you and most members of escort forums. But the opposite can also be true for most members on this website. "Cada quien habla como le fue en la feria"

What are your thoughts?

- Its possible to have good or bad sex with both civvies or escorts.
- Escorts can be cheaper than civvies and viceversa.
- Most guys (not all) who have "never paid" for sex like to go around on a high horse telling everyone about it.
- Escorts, trannies, gays discussions should be in the Anything Else forum.
- "Escorts vs Civvies" sometimes feel like apples & oranges comparisons.
- You are more likely to get an std from spinning plates than from a prostitute on Amsterdam´s red light district.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Escorting is ok for a good time but tbh even that hobby (business) has become filled with lazy/over weight and over priced vaginaa .

It’s been inflated by the “ho3” culture that has been going on for the last decade or so. Women demand more but offer less.

The best way to put it is before the advent of a smartphone in everyones hand. A “working girl” actually had to keep clients. Now if she blows of some dude knowing he will not call her back she can have another client come within in minutes. That mixed with Instagram, only fans (the majority of where the new working girls go) and twitch etc their just aren’t any girl

the industry has turned into over inflation and leftover women who haven’t made the change to newer avenues for ho3ing. What’s left for the traditional escorting are uglys, drug addicts/felons and women who have burned every other bridge in their life.


Escorting has is place, if your grinding and don’t have time/money to do dating it can create a vice for women. Along with other benefits that have been stated.

the problem you’ll find with escorting is kinda the same as dealing with a single mother in her late 30s. She single for a reason and doing this because she can’t find a man. So yes you don’t necessary deal with the girl1 hour once a week/month/day will rub of on you one way of the other. Making the situation more detrimental to your mental state.

The biggest draw back to escorting (and if you don’t understand this you should do it) compared to a normal gf she will have passion for you. Unless you catch an escort on a good day she will not have passion for the deed. It’s the nature of the business, when she just f’d 3 guys the day before.

Tinder is a better, though less certain, option.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

The only way I could imagine seeing a prostitute was if I was on a business trip on a weekday. Was super horny. Just pay a ho*ker to come by & blow me.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Shift work, 13.5 on 3 days a week.

What do you do for a living?

 

[GoodMan32]

It does seem to have allot of variety of options on there, in contrast with incel - no options, etc.... or even a guy with very scarce options with women he does not like all that much but bends to like them because they like him, etc....

Have you gone on any spree where you've visted multiple escorts within a very short period of time? Or anything nasty like do anal with one escort and do bareback oral with another escort within the same day? When I had that problem in the past, it was on a spree where three escort locations were visited in the space of almost 24 hours, and I ditched one location and went to another one across town because it was $20 cheaper. Anyway the whole thing made me feel totally off, like some pagan/heathen and I couldn't handle that at all. Again, this was back in 2014 and something that has been buried as a memory for a very long time. Do you think you could handle visiting multiple women on the same day or short period of time or would you feel sick with that?

This is what chads probably do with girls on Tinder if they are lining up a bunch of first-date lays right?

Back in 2016, I banged one escort one night. Then another escort the next night.

Then in 2017, an escort cut the session short before I climaxed. Right after she left, I ordered another escort.

At my current age, I wouldn't do anything like that again.

Since I'm not a Tinder Chad, I'm not sure what Tinder Chads do.

 

[GoodMan32]

Escorting is ok for a good time but tbh even that hobby (business) has become filled with lazy/over weight and over priced vaginaa .

It’s been inflated by the “ho3” culture that has been going on for the last decade or so. Women demand more but offer less.

The best way to put it is before the advent of a smartphone in everyones hand. A “working girl” actually had to keep clients. Now if she blows of some dude knowing he will not call her back she can have another client come within in minutes. That mixed with Instagram, only fans (the majority of where the new working girls go) and twitch etc their just aren’t any girl

the industry has turned into over inflation and leftover women who haven’t made the change to newer avenues for ho3ing. What’s left for the traditional escorting are uglys, drug addicts/felons and women who have burned every other bridge in their life.


Escorting has is place, if your grinding and don’t have time/money to do dating it can create a vice for women. Along with other benefits that have been stated.

the problem you’ll find with escorting is kinda the same as dealing with a single mother in her late 30s. She single for a reason and doing this because she can’t find a man. So yes you don’t necessary deal with the girl1 hour once a week/month/day will rub of on you one way of the other. Making the situation more detrimental to your mental state.

The biggest draw back to escorting (and if you don’t understand this you should do it) compared to a normal gf she will have passion for you. Unless you catch an escort on a good day she will not have passion for the deed. It’s the nature of the business, when she just f’d 3 guys the day before.

You're right about escort inflation. I've had an obese escort charge me $500 (Her base price was $300. Then she added an extra hundred for kissing. Then an extra hundred for fetish)

 

[GoodMan32]

The only way I could imagine seeing a prostitute was if I was on a business trip on a weekday. Was super horny. Just pay a ho*ker to come by & blow me.

When I failed at getting (what I thought was going to be) a sure lay (back when I was 23), that was when I contacted my first escort.

 

[corrector]

Since I'm not a Tinder Chad, I'm not sure what Tinder Chads do.

They can get any girl they want and have more women lined up then time to deal with them. Much like how you would feel in your catalogue of escorts. I'm sure people like @Hamurabimbi or @Pierce.Manhammer can get all what I"m sa ying. When you can pick up women like that then of course there is going to be a diconnect whenever this type of topic is brought up.

Both of them put in hard time and hours to improve their body to the point that they became attractive to women so they could like them naturally (as they have claimed) and view using escorts as a cop-out to doing the work needed to improve yourself.

 

[corrector]

You're right about escort inflation. I've had an obese escort charge me $500 (Her base price was $300. Then she added an extra hundred for kissing. Then an extra hundred for fetish)

That's allot of money on a salary that's like $ 35K per year. How are you able to splurge like that?

I do have a vacation pay from my full-time job. If I were a different type of guy then it would be tempting to take a one day vacation and splurge the vacation money on an escort, lol! I'm not that type of guy though.

 

[corrector]

The only way I could imagine seeing a prostitute was if I was on a business trip on a weekday. Was super horny. Just pay a ho*ker to come by & blow me.

I'm shocked you would "imagine" seeing a prostitute. You shouldn't since you can attract women naturally and could make connections over the net to meet a civvie on such a trip.

 

[The Duke]

If you can't find girls willing to go out with you then why not date down until you find some?

 

[corrector]

If you can't find girls willing to go out with you then why not date down until you find some?

Because even those girls are super entitled and have too many options.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I'm shocked you would "imagine" seeing a prostitute. You shouldn't since you can attract women naturally and could make connections over the net to meet a civvie on such a trip.

I was trying to picture a possible situation. A thought excercise if you will.

 

[corrector]

I was trying to picture a possible situation. A thought excercise if you will.

That doesn't make me less shocked. You have been very vocal against this. Calling escorts a fringe type of women or that these types of topics don't belong on this section. If something is that far beneath you then there wouldn't be any possible scenario or situation where you would use one or picture using one.

I guess you are not as strongly against them as you've made yourself out to be then.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Partially true, but to think it’s easy for me to pick up a new chick is hilarious- it takes work as well. The way you look and behave only gets you a chance, it’s not a guarantee of success.

If I suddenly lost all my fwbs it would take me at least a mnoth to establish another steady chick and probably two years to reestablish my current roster’s numbers.

They can get any girl they want and have more women lined up then time to deal with them. Much like how you would feel in your catalogue of escorts. I'm sure people like @Hamurabimbi or @Pierce.Manhammer can get all what I"m sa ying. When you can pick up women like that then of course there is going to be a diconnect whenever this type of topic is brought up.

Both of them put in hard time and hours to improve their body to the point that they became attractive to women so they could like them naturally (as they have claimed) and view using escorts as a cop-out to doing the work needed to improve yourself.

 

[The Duke]

Because even those girls are super entitled and have too many options.

I wish I could date 9's and 10's. You know why I can't? It's not because of the reasons you listed. It's because I am not good enough. Could I get there? Probably. I've dated one 9 in my entire career of banging girls. Because of the work I put in, I can get 8's all day long now. They seem to be a good match for my SMV.

There was a time I sucked so bad I could barely score a 6 on a good day. I kept at it, improved my situation, and now I'm pleased with where I am.

Stop blaming your situation on others. Go date an HB1 if you have to. Sure beats banging a hooker that drips the voodoo goo on your jimmy.

 

[SW15]

Because of the work I put in, I can get 8's all day long now. They seem to be a good match for my SMV.

8's are good. If you can get 8's without getting married to them and falling into some of the traps of married life, that's a very good position for a 46 year old man.

The typical 46 year old married man is married to his early to mid 40s wife and they've been together 10+ years, if not 15+ years. Her SMV has declined and so has her attitude. He likely has 1-3 children with this wife he's been with for 15+ years. The oldest child is in junior high or high school at this point.

OR

Another typical 46 year old man is a divorced guy with a biatchy, likely out of shape ex-wife with whom he co-parents 1-3 children with an oldest child in junior high or high school. This is a divorce guy with a limited social circle who is trying to get laid/get into relationships using Bumble, Hinge, or Match. He might also occasionally try to approach with alcohol in his system at bars. He's generally making efforts with 39-45 year old women whose looks haven't held up well over time and many of them are divorced single moms. He could even be incel to borderline incel.

Your reality is better than the realities I just described.

There was a time I sucked so bad I could barely score a 6 on a good day. I kept at it, improved my situation, and now I'm pleased with where I am.

Having committed relationships with women in the 4.5 - 6 range doesn't sound good to me.

 

[GoodMan32]

That's allot of money on a salary that's like $ 35K per year. How are you able to splurge like that?

I do have a vacation pay from my full-time job. If I were a different type of guy then it would be tempting to take a one day vacation and splurge the vacation money on an escort, lol! I'm not that type of guy though.

Without going into a whole lot of detail, let's just say I have savings.

Am I wealthy? Not by any means. But my income doesn't tell the whole story.

Plus, I don't think I'm ever going to hire the escort who upsold me to 500 again. My escorts are generally in the 150-300 range.

 

[GoodMan32]

If you can't find girls willing to go out with you then why not date down until you find some?

Believe me, I've dated down. I've dated some fatties as well as a major nutjob.

 

[SW15]

Believe me, I've dated down. I've dated some fatties as well as a major nutjob.

That sounds unpleasant.