Don't believe everything you read on the internet [ MUST READ POST]

[CornbreadFed]

On this forum in 2023 I bet only 3% of the members are banging the women that they want while 30% are banging anything they can get and 67% are incels or guys who ain't banging shyt

Welcome to the Internet, take a seat lol.

 

[Gamisch]

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Op is not lying though the real players are not on sosauve, the real players are not on reddit, or watching redpill podcasts. Matter fact in my experience the real players would think it's "Corny" or "lame" I get it there are outliers but real players are living their best lives and banging the women that they want

On this forum in 2023 I bet only 3% of the members are banging the women that they want while 30% are banging anything they can get and 67% are incels or guys who ain't banging shyt

Makes me wonder which category YOU belong to..

There's are very very VERY few men banging "all the multiple women they want". Most men are either settling with a woman whose less attractive, or indeed banging whatever comes their way, which includes dryspells.

A smart occupied dude can also be found here, as he might be aware of male female dynamics and how he needs to sharpen his tools. Some men join reddit, others are here. Forums are a real thing every since the internet exits.

That uber player you're talking about merely exists. Besides that in order to joinh SS you dont have to be a player, just an above average interest in women is more than enough. If that " player" would ever join a forum, this place/ forum will probably have the most affinity with his lifestyle.

I am im the category of your socalled 30 %:: i have had plenty of relationships , made much more mistakes and I'm catching a fish every now and then. Nothing special.

But again, lets get this question out of the way: what category do YOU belong to?

 

[CornbreadFed]

Makes me wonder which category YOU belong to..

There's are very very VERY few men banging "all the multiple women they want". Most men are either settling with a woman whose less attractive, or indeed banging whatever comes their way, which includes dryspells.

A smart occupied dude can also be found here, as he might be aware of male female dynamics and how he needs to sharpen his tools. Some men join reddit, others are here. Forums are a real thing every since the internet exits.

That uber player you're talking about merely exists. Besides that in order to joinh SS you dont have to be a player, just an above average interest in women is more than enough. If that " player" would ever join a forum, this place/ forum will probably have the most affinity with his lifestyle.

I am im the category of your socalled 30 %:: i have had plenty of relationships , made much more mistakes and I'm catching a fish every now and then. Nothing special.

But again, lets get this question out of the way: what category do YOU belong to?

Too many people are over idolizing this Perfect Player Guy when it doesn't take a genius to get laid. If you have been in the game for two plus years and still struggling on getting laid, then you need advanced help at that point.

The issues men seem to have beyond the novice level are:

1). Having sex with hotter girls or girls they want
2). Relationship/Marriage Problems

 

[CornbreadFed]

You can get laid with 4s but that's not impressive.

The truth is that your typical Joe with a high lay count is predominantly fvcking 4s and 5s for the bulk of his encounters. This is why I am not impressed by. High lay counts because it is statistically impossible to fvck 50 plus women that are all 8s and above. There’s a reason for the existence of the term 49er. I go to the grocery store and see all of these <5s single moms, so one is fvcking them.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Que???? Just speak the F up bro. What you doing here? Being the blue pill /normie conscious of the forum? Or just another troll?

Such a shame . This thread does kinda connects to the thread about people/men hate to see their fellow men get better.

But hey, yall teaching me a great lesson so even this isn't necessarily wasted energy. I know by heart that most men are fake bytches. Its oke. Doesn't mean we are ALL fake h0es lol.

Next is probably @Jesse Pinkman who actually already came out with a similar type of confession that started with this paragraph:My confession, dark past in game full of lies, and message to all who have been following my journey.

Jesse Pinkman's approach/field reports thread.

Having read a lot of your journal and commend you for putting your balls on the line , I can't help but get the feeling a lot of these sets are seeing you as a dancing monkey its critical from the word go a woman sees you as a sexual option and not just some random dude blindly trying his luck...

www.sosuave.net

Hey what ever floats y'all boats..to me being real is just as save as being fake is to you guys: nobody will ever know who is who, might as well be honest and actually learn something...

I am lost, how did my name get dragged into this again?

 

[Solomon]

Makes me wonder which category YOU belong to..

There's are very very VERY few men banging "all the multiple women they want". Most men are either settling with a woman whose less attractive, or indeed banging whatever comes their way, which includes dryspells.

A smart occupied dude can also be found here, as he might be aware of male female dynamics and how he needs to sharpen his tools. Some men join reddit, others are here. Forums are a real thing every since the internet exits.

That uber player you're talking about merely exists. Besides that in order to joinh SS you dont have to be a player, just an above average interest in women is more than enough. If that " player" would ever join a forum, this place/ forum will probably have the most affinity with his lifestyle.

I am im the category of your socalled 30 %:: i have had plenty of relationships , made much more mistakes and I'm catching a fish every now and then. Nothing special.

But again, lets get this question out of the way: what category do YOU belong to?

Seems my comment has trigged you, not sure why cause it was not aimed at you, I was speaking in general, so yes two things can be right guys can be on this forum occupied with life wanting to talk about female nature and improve and also guys who are the creme da la creme are not posting on sosuave(I have yet to see Austin Dunham here ha ha).

First I have always been a 30% guy not ashamed to admit it. I've banged fatties, average chicks, girls that use to model, party girls, nerdy girls, SmokeShows, milfs, etc. There are men who have never heard any Game or RP concepts yet they are doing just fine in the real world. There is nothing wrong with that, the goal should always be to be better that's one of the reasons I'm still here!

I've been on this forum for 15 years since a young punk 24-year-old kid, I started in the clouds soaking up the knowledge then signed up I wrote field reports but even back then I used to post pictures and videos in some of them, not to brag but because of people like OP I wanted to be held accountable because I really wanted to figure this shyt out and wanted to be taken seriously as I was taken this journey of self-improvement seriously (some of the pics/videos are still up just go through my posts history). I've gone out with half a dozen guys throughout the years who have vouced for me, most of them haven't posted in years why? they are either married or living their best lives now. @Borknagar still posts and he and I had a few adventures over 10 years ago and he can tell you I'm not a super player and that I've always been a networker trying to build a social circle since back then. How many guys can you say you have met up with in person on here and are willing to put your real-life reputation on the line? Have you had a 18 year old kid message you asking you to go to frat parties with him and you're in your 30s? Have you consoled a man who had a mental breakdown because he got rejected in person that you met of this forum?


Once again I never claimed to be a Super player, Alpha, High Value Man or any of that. Have I hung around some in the last 15 years? Aye! Have Had epic moments when it comes to women? More than the average man. Have I also had tons of failures in the last 15 years? you bet your 2 left shoes I have, and is through my greatest failures that I have learned to persevere, press on, and become better. Life has its ebbs and flows some seasons you can't lose and some seasons you can't win no matter how hard you try. But it's through your darkest moments that you will find out who you really are as a man. I have been in the abyss of darkness that most men cannot fathom and it's not by my strength that I'm here but by the Grace of God!

I will say this again, the guys(Top 1%) that are truly living in abundance have beautiful women chasing after them are not on forums, reddit etc they are living their lives. This has been my experience they are not coming on sosuave. We should all strive to be the best version of ourselves not for the sake of women but the sake of wanting to best men that we can be. It's our purpose as men to change the world and be the change we want it to be!

Cheers!

P.S.
Also let me add that OP should face some consequences for lying
As a guy who has met up with half a dozen guys on this site once again
This was our way of holding each other accountable because if a guy was talking that player shyt and was a fraud we could call it out
Now a days anyone can come out the blue and claim all these results with no field reports, no evidence (pictures&Videos) nothing. I remember 2009 if you were popped big shyt you had to be able to back it up with proof or had people vouch for you

Things have changed

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

Am I the only naive fool who actually seriously listens to advice on forums and in youtube videos and is always honest about my results?
When I compare my results to guys like John Anthony or Playing With Fire they seem so lackluster, so I don't know what to believe anymore.
Still, there must be more optimal and less optimal ways to communicate with women. That is what forums are good for, you gather data, experiment, analyze and make conclusions on how to improve your communication strategy. That is the game part. That is for turning "maybe" girls into "yes" girls. Nothing will turn a "no" girl into a "yes" girl.
But I don't see the point in making up fake stuff about yourself online, what do you gain from it?

Isn't John Anthony the guy whose laycount includes trans women and brasses (hookers)?

 

[Solomon]

I am lost, how did my name get dragged into this again?

Jesse keep doing what you're doing, you're one of the few members who I check for on this forum. People have always looked down on the field reporters but it's people like you that give this site credibility let the haters hater while we create!

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

Seems my comment has trigged you, not sure why cause it was not aimed at you, I was speaking in general, so yes two things can be right guys can be on this forum occupied with life wanting to talk about female nature and improve and also guys who are the creme da la creme are not posting on sosuave(I have yet to see Austin Dunham here ha ha).

First I have always been a 30% guy not ashamed to admit it. I've banged fatties, average chicks, girls that use to model, party girls, nerdy girls, SmokeShows, milfs, etc. There are men who have never heard any Game or RP concepts yet they are doing just fine in the real world. There is nothing wrong with that, the goal should always be to be better that's one of the reasons I'm still here!

I've been on this forum for 15 years since a young punk 24-year-old kid, I started in the clouds soaking up the knowledge then signed up I wrote field reports but even back then I used to post pictures and videos in some of them, not to brag but because of people like OP I wanted to be held accountable because I really wanted to figure this shyt out and wanted to be taken seriously as I was taken this journey of self-improvement seriously (some of the pics/videos are still up just go through my posts history). I've gone out with half a dozen guys throughout the years who have vouced for me, most of them haven't posted in years why? they are either married or living their best lives now. @Borknagar still posts and he and I had a few adventures over 10 years ago and he can tell you I'm not a super player and that I've always been a networker trying to build a social circle since back then. How many guys can you say you have met up with in person on here and are willing to put your real-life reputation on the line? Have you had a 18 year old kid message you asking you to go to frat parties with him and you're in your 30s? Have you consoled a man who had a mental breakdown because he got rejected in person that you met of this forum?


Once again I never claimed to be a Super player, Alpha, High Value Man or any of that. Have I hung around some in the last 15 years? Aye! Have Had epic moments when it comes to women? More than the average man. Have I also had tons of failures in the last 15 years? you bet your 2 left shoes I have, and is through my greatest failures that I have learned to persevere, press on, and become better. Life has its ebbs and flows some seasons you can't lose and some seasons you can't win no matter how hard you try. But it's through your darkest moments that you will find out who you really are as a man. I have been in the abyss of darkness that most men cannot fathom and it's not by my strength that I'm here but by the Grace of God!

I will say this again, the guys(Top 1%) that are truly living in abundance have beautiful women chasing after them are not on forums, reddit etc they are living their lives. This has been my experience they are not coming on sosuave. We should all strive to be the best version of ourselves not for the sake of women but the sake of wanting to best men that we can be. It's our purpose as men to change the world and be the change we want it to be!

Cheers!

P.S.
Also let me add that OP should face some consequences for lying
As a guy who has met up with half a dozen guys on this site once again
This was our way of holding each other accountable because if a guy was talking that player shyt and was a fraud we could call it out
Now a days anyone can come out the blue and claim all these results with no field reports, no evidence (pictures&Videos) nothing. I remember 2009 if you were popped big shyt you had to be able to back it up with proof or had people vouch for you

Things have changed

Very good post actually.

I admitted have had many rejections, but I've also had a lot of successes too. I just work with what I've got.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Jesse keep doing what you're doing, you're one of the few members who I check for on this forum. People have always looked down on the field reporters but it's people like you that give this site credibility let the haters hater while we create!

Thanks brotha!

 

[RazorRambo24]

So does this mean I'm back to being the most jacked dude on this board? That's the only thing I care about.
^sarcasm

Too bad @RazorRambo24 , I'd hoped you were the kind of person I believed you to be.

+1 for the hoodwinked crowd.

I think most people over exaggerate me "exposing myself". First, i did it to myself.. half of it was for entertainment, and the other half is ebcause i realized im on a forum full of inept men.

Now, people are failing to realize, because they really don't read any post longer than their 10 second attention span can manage.. --that I didnt make any false stories, and all my stories on here are true, about my upbringing and experiences with women, and game.

THE ONLY things I lied about/was
1. My physique/profile pic
2. Having made it in business/making 6 figures a year
3. Having a swank apartment downtown chicago (this is a dream)
4. Overinflating my success with women.

That being said, the main thing that did prevent me from being the guy some of you respected or would respect is this:
Out of around 20 diff women I dated in life, I only slept wtih about 6 of them. and not just one night stands but diff lengths of time. -- and that was due to my porn related anxiety/issues surrounding self esteem related to a few diff events in my life.

As far as being that alpha male who got indicted for selling drugs, grew up getting into trouble alot, fighting, being the cool kid, popular kid fo ra while , losing my virginity at 14 (which i dont count in the 6 bodies since its a one off), always wanting to be a player my whole life and being influenced by and having cool older friends grwing up --its all true.

I mean sht, you don't get an attitude and experience or give advice like mine without having a fucc.ing world of experience

Beta ****s like @All_Kindz_Of_Gainz can never relate.. Thats why he was one of the first betas i called out on here and made a whole thread about him and his unfortunate experience gettin cucked by a girl he fell in love with who ended up being a ho.e and trying to lie to him about a hickey on her breasts. --a thread which got deleted ofc but was hilarious whileit was up.

IF u noticed my experience on this forum, i always sniffed out and had an adversion/wasnt cool with the few more beta types on this forum.. dudes who admittedly were like engineers and accountants, nerd types, or dudes who weref ake tough like Murk..

In essence, the tale is this: Even the coolest, most alpha dudes that most people look up to (even tho im only 5'10 and 160 lbs .. never onced lied about my heighton here at least..) can have secrets and misfortunes.. But sht, i overcame that sht

Just wait till i start goin out again and start posting more pics of plates/videos and sht, people will really hate me .. I mean sht , has anyone else ever posted anything on herer ot prove their experience? Not a single perosn has posted more than I did. but each time i did, it was met with immature comment s and pure envy.. or people saying "Oh ur boasting , bro way to brag, etc".

fucc em.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Wait, George Razor Rambo Martin is a fraud? No way, who could have seen that one coming.

 

[Epicenter]

Wait, George Razor Rambo Martin is a fraud? No way, who could have seen that one coming.

Why are you calling him a fraud? He lied only some points. You might hurt his feelings. lol.

 

[Murk]

Lmao i bet you feel real proud now.

Im still cooler than 90% of this forum on my worse day. Many of yall dont even have friends let alone get b.itches.

For me i thought i was a player since young since i got so much attention and attraction from women early on. I jus didnt capitalize on it cuz i was an inexperienced twig of a man who grew up in a househould where therw was no sexual energy between parents. Mostly jus fighting.

Also all the pics i posted of bitches were mine. Same with texts. But i still dont have a girlfriend is what matters most rn. Will try to have one soon. Tho its already fall. :/

I think what ppl need to take away from this is how damaging porn and masturbation can be. I used to be the person everyone called player and chick magnet. Reality was i was more like the makeout and finger king.

I don't feel proud at all, I take what people say here with a pinch of salt, I try to be as honest as possible on this site... as lying to strangers doesn't benefit me, it shouldn't benefit you either. This is a place to be honest, if you lie here, online to strangers, God help you in real life, because you will need it.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I think people here forget that this place isn't about what it is, but rather what it was, the biggest contributions SoSuave will see have very likely already been made and there is nothing really wrong with that.

Truthfully, I'm sure there are a lot of posters here who eventually went on to self-delete or some other negative outcome, it's bound to happen.

I didn't see this post before I saw your post about you leaving Rambo, I'm fairly concerned for you at this point and you seem manic depressive bro, you should definitely seek help.

Aim to improve is all we can do.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

RazorShambo... this thread could have been the beginning of some real personal growth for you. You admitted your failings and seemed like you wanted to make a change.

But the last few posts reveal you are still a sadkunt with major inadequacy issues. Why don't you take a page from your nonsense philosophy and ching chang moo the f outta here?

This made me laugh my ass off

 

[Borknagar]

...

I'm too lazy at 4:22am to go back and review everything but I can confirm everything you said as far as I remember but also in the same boat. I also didn't post on here for a long time as well though like the others, but I'd imagine none of them got divorced, yet lol.

You're on point when it comes to seeking out social circles. I think that's really the key. I think it actually needs to be emphasized. To tell you the truth I think for those of us without major social circles and looking beyond ONS I think going to a bar to meet friends is still reasonably acceptable and with friends comes the social circle and women who now know you not so much as a random dude, but such and suchs friend, which helps a lot more than "this dude that came up to me at Wild Bills I know nothing about".

Most of the dudes I know that did well always had decent social circles and while I was kinda part of the circle I lacked confidence and wouldn't try too much with the females in them due to lack of any sort of confidence. Usually I would try with women outside of that because I felt if they "knew me like that" within the group they wouldn't like me. My success rate before I lost the weight, and actually got into it, which was really just within the year of when we met, was probably a bit better than my experience suggests though as I had a count of about 25 by the time I actually discovered that pickup artists were a thing. Most of my time since I signed up here in freakin 2001(WOW) was dormant but come back whenever I'm totally single and on the prowl. Just now after marriage, I'm not putting in anywhere near as much effort.

Anyway sorry if I went off topic lol but yeah, like you I've been kinda a 30% guy, I've had my share of "I'd hit it, but wouldn't date it" as well as models, and ex-strippers, and so on. And yeah you didn't try to come off as a player at all and it was obvious you just wanted to meet just one cool women, but of course as for a lot of us, it can be difficult.

Today it's much much harder for me than back then. I spent 10 years, literally, where the only "chick" I talked to was pretty much my ex-wife. So today it takes me more positive ques from women for me to even give it a try, even if alcohol is involved. Part of it of course, is now a good amount of women I'm seeing out there are daughter age to me and I'm father age to some of them. Having younger looks certainly helps, but I'm not a good liar and "I'm actually 44" has burned me a couple times. I dunno, I'm even less into the BS than I used to be. I'll delete a womens number and unmatch if they don't reply to my last message. I won't bother because I really just don't care unless they are willing to put in effort. Probably my age and having went through a long LTR now makes it harder for me to care enough to put in the effort. It's Friday, I might just stay home tonight and play guitar which is cheaper than spending money on drinks and an uber with nothing to show for it.

Again, sorry if I'm off topic. I spend pretty much all week talking about work so being able to address something else makes me write way too much. haha.

To address what seems to be the topic. I would agree I don't think there's that many "great at getting hotties" guys out there. They exist, but they are outside most of our social circles. As for guys on here, your previous post is probably accurate. A small% are doing well, more than half are incels, and like 1/4 to 1/3 are probably banging whatever comes their way, which might sometimes include pretty attractive women. And some, at one point myself, are doing a little bit better than that. I am now I guess incel, I simply cannot get laid today. But I guess it comes to more of lack of effort than anything else. Outside the need for my weekly "Just for Men" on my facial hair I pretty much look the same, however when I do go out I'm not piss drunk and don't give a ****, I'm having a few drinks and toking a bit which while doesn't make me anywhere near as gutsy with women, but makes me more of a pleasure to be around for others though. I admit, I took it too far at times and for that I apologize but unfortunately for me I was so not used to approaching I couldn't do it without. Even when it was a POF date, when I lived in the apt I would somehow convince them to meet me at the Pizza Place across from my apt, and have a couple drinks before they even showed up. lol

 

[Grounded eagle]

You know what ? If this is true you are probably the biggest b1rch I've ever known. And I've seen a LOT...

Delete your account. NOW. Have some pride and tell the mods to bann your account and delete all of your post.


You lil *****.

No need for that.His own shame will prove to be a more effective repellent than any ban could possibly hope to be.

Also, it’s been obvious from the start that he’s a fraud.