Don't believe everything you read on the internet [ MUST READ POST]

[Bokanovsky]

I wanted to "like" the original post but somehow it doesn't seem like an appropriate reaction given the subject matter. But I do agree that there is a fair bit of fakery and BS in what people write about themselves on SS. It's usually pretty easy to spot too. Anytime you get a braggadocios vibe from somebody's posts, you can tell with 100% certainty that he is full of sh!t.

One of the other tryhard retards (not the OP) accused me of being bad with women because I don't post my success stories on SS. But why would I write about my successes? I have nothing to prove to any of you. I come here to discuss ideas, not to brag about banging some b!tch. Anyone who is trying to convince others that he is good with women is, first and foremost, trying to convince himself.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I don't understand the "thrill" of pretending to be somebody you're not. It's just weird.

It's a coping mechanism for people who feel pathetic and worthless.

 

[Black Widow Void]

Excellent post RazorRambo24

I'm 59 and admittedly past my zenith, but still do fairly well for someone my age. But I'm not going to kid myself. My best years are behind me.

Throughout my postings on SS, I've occasionally mentioned female conquests that I never believed that I'd achieve (more than once, I've slept with two women in one day and one time, slept with three) but I've also experienced and mentioned equal failures that were embarrassing to admit.

Although not as common as I've grown older, I can still meet a girl that can put my head in the clouds. After the 'haze' dissipates, I will look back on my behavior and feel like the biggest fool. I'm almost sixty and should know better, but we all have flaws and this is one of mine.

I've slept with close to eighty women. If I counted women that I've recycled (women from past relationships that years later I dated again or they returned as a FWB) or blow/hand jobs etc... it would be over 100. I've probably slept with about half the women I've dated and so I've (realistically) dated somewhere between 175 to 200 women. But again, despite some long-term relationships and some 'light-hearted' action, I'll still make a few mistakes. If we are honest with ourselves and honest with other forum members, we all (despite our history) have and will continue to make mistakes.

On this forum, it's easy to spot the fakes. These are the ones that will haze and bully a new member that is laying his troubles on the line. These particular people are the least successful and feel inadequate (and their posting behavior is their only way to feel 'empowered.')

Those of us that are older didn't grow up with a forum like SS. Many of us also didn't grow up with encouraging fathers and/or the best masculine role models. In today's society, I think that it's even more difficult for young men (societal attitudes are damaging and quite influencing).

If I can prevent a newbie from jumping through hoops and trying to get his ex back (as I did in my youth and feeling 100% humiliated) then I've made life easier for someone than it was for me. Learning from my mistakes and attempting to prevent a fellow brother from going through the same... is why I'm still here (though not as frequent these days).

 

[RazorRambo24]

Excellent post RazorRambo24

I'm 59 and admittedly past my zenith, but still do fairly well for someone my age. But I'm not going to kid myself. My best years are behind me.

Throughout my postings on SS, I've occasionally mentioned female conquests that I never believed that I'd achieve (more than once, I've slept with two women in one day and one time, slept with three) but I've also experienced and mentioned equal failures that were embarrassing to admit.

Although not as common as I've grown older, I can still meet a girl that can put my head in the clouds. After the 'haze' dissipates, I will look back on my behavior and feel like the biggest fool. I'm almost sixty and should know better, but we all have flaws and this is one of mine.

I've slept with close to eighty women. If I counted women that I've recycled (women from past relationships that years later I dated again or they returned as a FWB) or blow/hand jobs etc... it would be over 100. I've probably slept with about half the women I've dated and so I've (realistically) dated somewhere between 175 to 200 women. But again, despite some long-term relationships and some 'light-hearted' action, I'll still make a few mistakes. If we are honest with ourselves and honest with other forum members, we all (despite our history) have and will continue to make mistakes.

On this forum, it's easy to spot the fakes. These are the ones that will haze and bully a new member that is laying his troubles on the line. These particular people are the least successful and feel inadequate (and their posting behavior is their only way to feel 'empowered.')

Those of us that are older didn't grow up with a forum like SS. Many of us also didn't grow up with encouraging fathers and/or the best masculine role models. In today's society, I think that it's even more difficult for young men (societal attitudes are damaging and quite influencing).

If I can prevent a newbie from jumping through hoops and trying to get his ex back (as I did in my youth and feeling 100% humiliated) then I've made life easier for someone than it was for me. Learning from my mistakes and attempting to prevent a fellow brother from going through the same... is why I'm still here (though not as frequent these days).

THanks for sharing this and thanks for the kind words. Yeah man I mean I think when people read this forum they expected it to be "oh LOL hes really a loser!" when its far from that. In one of the last 5 times i been to the bars/clubs i made out with 2 women in the same night, fondled ass and titties and all on the 2nd girl, had m y face in her titties an dsht too, all to go smash a diff chick..

When im operating in confidence ican do some great things.. but i ultimately am picky with women.. which makes things harder . But reality is at times my confidence is wavering.. Because I have tons of experiences that are validating, but also meet women who I dont feel are as interested in me.. My last relationship really took a toll on my confidence but not just that, losing a buncha friends/cutting them off because of my insecurities about that chick prob sleepin with people i knew also kinda affected me..

Regardless i always bounce back somehow. Im working hard to be ready for another serious relationship. To me jus sleeping around is unideal. im not your new age pu55ified man.. i cant share a chick with other dudes.. that sht is pitiful to me.

 

[DonJuanjr]

i cant share a chick with other dudes.. that sht is pitiful to me.

Its not up to you, it's up to her, and you probably wouldn't even know it.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Thoughts? and anyone else want to come clean about their stories?

Man thats really a fall from "living the life of a pornstar".

You and @CornbreadFed ..... i always thought you guys are talking out of your azz with no real life experience.

The most hilarious thing is that you put up content here that was supposed to lead men to a better life. Thats absolutely disturbed and you clearly need professional help before anything else.

From what i read in this thread you are not a top 1%er, you are amongst the 80% of men struggling for the bottom 20% of women.

So, instead of already starting again to talk down on people that are your betters, how about you just shut the fvck up, listen for once and be grateful instead of trying to lecture people on SS that are way above your league.


Maybe Cornfred might wanna use that thread for his coming out as well?

 

[CornbreadFed]

Man thats really a fall from "living the life of a pornstar".

You and @CornbreadFed ..... i always thought you guys are talking out of your azz with no real life experience.

The most hilarious thing is that you put up content here that was supposed to lead men to a better life. Thats absolutely disturbed and you clearly need professional help before anything else.

From what i read in this thread you are not a top 1%er, you are amongst the 80% of men struggling for the bottom 20% of women.

So, instead of already starting again to talk down on people that are your betters, how about you just shut the fvck up, listen for once and be grateful instead of trying to lecture people on SS that are way above your league.


Maybe Cornfred might wanna use that thread for his coming out as well?

Lol at this random grandpa on the internet name dropping me like he is some DJ John Wick seeking revenge You are 45 years old and your @$$ is still sore from some disagreement on the internet from god knows when? You and @Gamisch have the maturity level of a 3rd grader and need to learn give up the fight after you lose a fist fight on the playground.

Or maybe y'all are the alts for @HaleyBaron because that poster hasn't stalked me in a while. Either way, if I see a bunch of posters like your posts who I never see post on this forum, I will know that answer for sure

 

[CornbreadFed]

Damn, you destroyed those two guys in, how long didn't take you to write that? 30 secs?

When are you going to go back to your cringy MLM TRT Gimmick Mr. Manufacturing Technician or Logistics Coordinator lying about being a jacked alpha Engineer on the internet? You are probably the biggest gimmick account on this site trying to relive the Misc BodyBuilding forum glory days.

 

[Gamisch]

Lol at this random grandpa on the internet name dropping me like he is some DJ John Wick seeking revenge You are 45 years old and your @$$ is still sore from some disagreement on the internet from god knows when? You and @Gamisch have the maturity level of a 3rd grader and need to learn give up the fight after you lose a fist fight on the playground.

Or maybe y'all are the alts for @HaleyBaron because that poster hasn't stalked me in a while. Either way, if I see a bunch of posters like your posts who I never see post on this forum, I will know that answer for sure

?? Nah bro..i am here to learn and if possible help a fellow men.. i admit that at times I can be overly angry.

But you, you are the crab in the bucket trying to pull other men down . Sometimes you do have a good take tho, but you make a sport out of being annoying. This thread you're using as schadenfreude, instead of simply calling out OP for what he is ; a real bish. You celebrate a man who lies....let that sink in before you continue to embarrass yourself.

Your presence here is surprising, as you are
- in a ltr,
-makng a above average salary
-and claim to make women cvm in buckets--claiming smv 8 or up/ being goodlooking



I gotta admit you aint stupid, yet I wonder what you're doing here. Wouldn't suprise me if you too are a fraud somehow. Every man here is here for a reason! You should never be reluctant to say why you ard here .


Just start adding without the constant negging. We as men being negged enough by life itself aint we?

 

[CornbreadFed]

But you, you are the crab in the bucket trying to pull other men down . Sometimes you do have a good take tho, but you make a sport out of being annoying. This thread you're using as schadenfreude, instead of simply calling out OP for what he is ; a real bish. You celebrate a man who lies....let that sink in before you continue to embarrass yourself.

Why would I neg OP? He came out of his closet, but he doesn't make outrageous claims?

Your presence here is surprising, as you are
- in a ltr,
-makng a above average salary
-and claik to make women cvm in buckets.

Because I was frustrated with women back in my twenties and HS and I still like to discuss topics pertaining to that and hopefully help people out. However, you can note that my topic creation has dwindled down greatly, so you are partially correct. This has happened to a lot of posters on this site, so it is not just me. I tried to look up Rollo's account history and I saw a lot of activity from posters that don't post as much today. At the end of the day, guys on this site want to be sold a dream with a big fat pink bow on top with a box of chocolates on the side. Go ahead and believe the snake oil RP posters like @We_ArE_VeNOM obviously over-exaggerating or lying about their dating life or continue to mope and cry about how ALL WOMEN are Meanie BUTTS with the Red pill squad. At the end of the day, there's still some quality posts and posters on this site, but it is dwindling down and eventually this site will be a sad knockoff Misc Bodybuilding forum.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Not only that, but earning x2.8 the median income in my city, never married, no kids, and I own a house in 2019 with an equity of $180k, thanks to liberals, keep 'em coming.

You want a cookie? You still heavily project your insecurities on this forum, so are you really happy though?

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I never assume anyone on this forum is who they claim or do what they say. And I never once thought for a second that OPs profile picture was even him.

I judge every poster only on the content of their messages. Nothing else matters. I come here for discourse and arguing; discourse is the best way to grow and expand your knowledge. Out of my friends, only 2 of them see women and relationships for how they really are, so i'm starved for discussion on topics like this. I suspect this is the case for a good chunk of people here. You could argue that a man who's truly self actualized and focused on higher goals cares so little about women that he doesn't even waste time thinking about them. But, I think men need to dedicate a lot of time interacting with and thinking about women if they're ever going to find lasting success with them.

Anyway, anyone who comes here for clout and ego is a sad person. Nothing wrong with some bragging here there, but creating an entirely false persona with an alpha bravado and made up stories about your life is a sign of a serious inferiority complex or something.

 

[Gamisch]

Why would I neg OP? He came out of his closet, but he doesn't make outrageous claims?



Because I was frustrated with women back in my twenties and HS and I still like to discuss topics pertaining to that and hopefully help people out. However, you can note that my topic creation has dwindled down greatly, so you are partially correct. This has happened to a lot of posters on this site, so it is not just me. I tried to look up Rollo's account history and I saw a lot of activity from posters that don't post as much today. At the end of the day, guys on this site want to be sold a dream with a big fat pink bow on top with a box of chocolates on the side. Go ahead and believe the snake oil RP posters like @We_ArE_VeNOM obviously over-exaggerating or lying about their dating life or continue to mope and cry about how ALL WOMEN are Meanie BUTTS with the Red pill squad. At the end of the day, there's still some quality posts and posters on this site, but it is dwindling down and eventually this site will be a sad knockoff Misc Bodybuilding forum.

Here you go again for no reason you pull Venom into this, as you just love to tear people down along with you huh? But oke.


No OP does NOT have a point. As @ThisIsSparta said, why waste time telling men you are a 1%er only to come out as the opposite? OFCOURSE men in a men space like this will look up to that. Its just a small niche community..as with any community, it up to the participants (both mods and posters!!) to keep the forum "clean". (You are actually shyting on the whole concept of moderation, like degenerates shyte on the concept of a policeforce)

You and Op are more like the "criminals " overhere, insincere men who troll the forum. I'd ban the two of you if i was a mod long time ago ,but oke. You DO behave better lately tho..

I am not busy figuring out whether your story is true or not, all I'm after is knowledge I can apply to my own life. E.g I'd like to hear which stocks I should invest in. Yeah , stupid me for believing another human being who tells me he knows a thing or two about investing. Or boxing. Or ...women..

Eventually the lie will come out , that's the BIGGEST lesson I've learned from this lol.

I bet OP felt relieved. Judging by his pathetic long azz posts he's been laying awake from all this. Like a cheater, or a fugitive killer on the run is relieved once they get caught, or like in this case: they turn themselves in lol.

And you should shyte on OP because that's what men do..in real life we would beat him up, or ghost him. You would hang even closer to and with the untrustworthy traitor...says enough about you.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Here you go again for no reason you pull Venom into this, as you just love to tear people down along with you huh? But oke.

What he did was muchhhhhh worse than what OP did.

No OP does NOT have a point. As @ThisIsSparta said, why waste time telling men you are a 1%er only to come out as the opposite? OFCOURSE men in a men space like this will look up to that. Its just a small niche community..as with any community, it up to the participants (both mods and posters!!) to keep the forum "clean". You and Op are more like the "criminals " overhere, insincere men who troll the forum. I'd ban the two of you if i was a mod long time ago ,but oke. You DO behave better lately tho..

When did I say I was a 1% man? I am not sure what you think I am exactly lying about? My income is achievable, my lay count is like 55 so achievable, my gym physique is achievable, my dating advice isn't outrageous. I get it, I can come across as an @$$hole with some of my topics, but it is just tough love from my perspective.

m pretty content with what I have. I have to put women in the back burner to be where I am today. Now that I chased excellence, I'm here polishing seduction, as you know I have vasectomy so no woman can trap me. But I'm definitely not you mad at the red pill.

Listen, I don't care what you do, and we can have civilized discussion in the future if needed. However, I do not like random John Wick wannabes name dropping me to get some last-minute sucker punch in. If you have a problem with me, block me or provide a decent rebuttal to my point, but please do not resort to the childish ghetto behavior of what @ThisIsSparta did.

 

[characternote]

I'm not gonna lay the boot in, but it was surely obvious that this was all fantasy and like @Murk says, the only thing of note is how so many people couldn't seem to tell lol. The clearly fake profile pic, the non stop mention of being an 'aLpHa MaLe' in about 95% of posts (what actual 'alpha' would do that). The endless 'living like p0rn star' posts etc. It was like reading posts written by 'Jay' from 'the inbetweeners' for any other Brits who get the reference

Only thing he's right about is how there's others on here living a 2nd fantasy life which again is super obvious, at least to me.

I shouldn't be surprised. It's like when I watch infields and footage from that 'john anthony' guy (you know, the guy with the 'five thousand lay count made up of mostly teenage models' or whatever his current claim is). People will literally watch his 'infield' with their own eyes and STILL come to the conclusion that he's a pimp who can get any girl he wants and teach them stuff despite watching him creeping girls out, awkwardly asking if he can touch their butts and then nervous laughing again, almost NEVER getting any sort of attraction from the girl (kissing, flirting etc). A complete lack of charisma. I see a guy who is literally worse at this stuff than most guys I know yet so many ppl on youtube and forums like this who don't seem to have any sort of social skills or critical thinking skills think he's a 'slayer'.

Similar with 'Roosh'! I can't believe that there's still so many ppl on here who think he was some sort of ladies man! It's flabbergasting lol (maybe I have an unfair advantage having watched some of his very rare 'infields' back in the day where his autism was jumping out of the screen) but even reading his posts and his general behaviour should be enough, yet clearly isn't.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Why would I neg OP? He came out of his closet

He´s gay!? That explains a lot.
Im just joking op, not interested in picking a fight.

Go ahead and believe the snake oil RP posters like @We_ArE_VeNOM obviously over-exaggerating or lying about their dating life

Who would lie about sucking the titties of a 74 year old woman? My bro is legit.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Brother, but shouldn't care what a random person in the interwebs writes about you trying to "sucker punch you" hahahaha wtf, you need to get some friends in real life my dude

Really! I think a 45-year-old guy patiently waiting for any given moment to sucker punch a poster on a website forum needs some friends in real life? I guess we can have different opinions then lol.

 

[member162951]

The only thing i lied about was being wealthy and being a **** slanging machine of a man with a rippes physique.

Weren't you the one who posted how you became exclusive with a plate you were f*cking for two years? That she was now your girlfriend and spinning plates was for losers? You created a thread about it which was quite detailed.

That was a huge lie, but whatever man I admire you for coming clean, took a lot of guts.

I'm curious why you still have the same avatar though since admittedly it's not you.

 

[Solomon]

The truth is, no really successful guy whos good with women needs or would spend time on Sosuave. why? they have instagrams and other social media where people with good levles of self esteem hang out. Capable men dont sit around talking about stuff, --they make moves.

Most of what i said on here besides where I came up and my upbringing is bull****. I never had all these plates or women, and I dont have a girlfriend. The profile pic is not mine. im not wealthy. i make like 30k a year and live at home with my family.

I did have abundance with women when i was younger but mostly did not do much with them besides the typical makeout, and fingering..why? because at some point i couldnt hard with one girl,.. albeit while she was a hot polish chick, i didnt find her attractive as i was into a diff typ eof chick at that age, mostly puerto rican latinas.. becuase of that one incident, i used to be real anxious around sex

in total i have only had successful sex with 2 women.. all the other times i either jus stopped at making out or fingering and an arguement or me getting angry at them would cause them to leave. while i did have some model quality women in my life, there snothing to brag about when id idnt bone all of 'em.

i turned to viagra for help and it helped quite a bit.

The reality is, i was always a skinny/smaller guy than average. nowadays i am considered average but im still only about 160 lbs

Ive found myself frustrated mostly becuase of online dating. Going from having abundance to going to trying dating apps left me feeling horrible, sad and undesirable. I didnt understand why people were ignring me on online dating. it was very painful.. iremember it vividly, how angry i would be at the women who barely gave me any attention and didnt take me seriously. I even remember messaging some girls and asking them what they think was the issue.

But the reality is,... my abundance didnt change outta nowhere. what happened was I went from being very confident and masculine to more feminine after being mentally abused by an older friend i used to hang with. he was a crazy BPD type who grew up motherless and with an abusive father. i was scared o fhim evr since he attacked me one time .. but i knew i would always beat his ass if we ever had a real fight, which i later did. but by that time, the damage was done. i was changed so much as a person that i felt ugly , i felt weak, ifelt like a b.itch.. i became sensitive and i developed deep anxiety..

it took me YEARS to recover from that.. but i still always never felt the same..
now fastforward maybe 9-10 years from that time and i still dont feel the way i used to at that age. at that age i felt like women liked me/girls liked me.. and because of that, i reaped what i sowed.. and had an abundance of women.numbers in my phone, etc.. and ofc while i wasnt banging all of them, i relished greatly off of the fact that i had options and that was enough for me.. in th esame way how hot chicks operate... and why they dont care about 90% of guys

Now, the part that is true is my knowledge about women. Where did it come from? jsu having alot of dating experience/and women friends.. Having women friends was some of the best times in my life.. even tho i cut of all my friends because i fell in love with a hoe who played me like a fool and while she did love me, it was a narcissistc type of love, conditional, etc. plus i ruined it because of anger and jealousy.. in my mind she was f-ing one of my friends.. and she prob did..

So where does RAzorrambo go from here? Nothing im practicing nofap, doing kegels, quit porn.. which i came to really enjoy fapping and porn. its osme of th emost beautiful gratifying stuff ever - its hard to think how its not one of the best hobbies in the world.. i mean u never get what u can out of porn out of real sexual experiences unless u manage to get like a buncha hot superficial looking chicks together and have variety of threesomes or something..

Mostly, in my life, ifeel like I was cursed by God or something.. but reality is it was being introduced to computers from a young age + porn that really messed up my experiences with women.. and while i have had more women and more dates than your average guy, it means nothing when you cant hang onto them.

like i said only bange 2 girls officially. despite having a ton of great girls in my life --

Nowadays i try to find sht.. and yes, I have had experiences where i got fired for alking to multiple chicks in my workplace and getting one jealous.. and usually at times i become one of the main guys girls talk about and whisper amonst themselves and older ladies talk about in diff environments.. but i think its mainly because besides having decent looks, and knowing how to dress/smell nice.. i know how t really play that charm... something ive always had

My current job im getting noticed by women agian, i get so many stares and looks.. theres 2 young girls who i know who at times if elt like both like me but --whats the point when im a mess? i cant really move forward with anyone of them properly becuas ei fear so much. i fear being heartbroken again ,i fear not being good in bed, i fear alot. i have premature ejaculation and while i can get hard with viagra, i dont trust my ability as much.. but regradless, im gonna try again, just not wit the girls at work.. cuz like i said, i have a really jeallous and angry mind.. and alwas suspect them to be talkin to another guy at work and sleepin with them... alot of that sht is deeply rooted to my mom cheating on my dad

Sometimes i still struggle with inadequacy as im a smaller guy (height is 5'10 but smaller head, smaller hands,smaller frame, 160 lbs) I Just look smaller than most guys/weaker. Infact, some people think im like 18-22 when im 31. Thats why i get alot of young girls staring at me and sht but its pathetic lol im afriad to even do anythingwiht anyone.. i want to but its likei fear success in a way.

Thoughts? and anyone else want to come clean about their stories?

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Op is not lying though the real players are not on sosauve, the real players are not on reddit, or watching redpill podcasts. Matter fact in my experience the real players would think it's "Corny" or "lame" I get it there are outliers but real players are living their best lives and banging the women that they want

On this forum in 2023 I bet only 3% of the members are banging the women that they want while 30% are banging anything they can get and 67% are incels or guys who ain't banging shyt

 

[Manure Spherian]

I'm curious why you still have the same avatar though since admittedly it's not you.

I’m wondering the same.