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The truth is, no really successful guy whos good with women needs or would spend time on Sosuave. why? they have instagrams and other social media where people with good levles of self esteem hang out. Capable men dont sit around talking about stuff, --they make moves.

Most of what i said on here besides where I came up and my upbringing is bull****. I never had all these plates or women, and I dont have a girlfriend. The profile pic is not mine. im not wealthy. i make like 30k a year and live at home with my family.

I did have abundance with women when i was younger but mostly did not do much with them besides the typical makeout, and fingering..why? because at some point i couldnt hard with one girl,.. albeit while she was a hot polish chick, i didnt find her attractive as i was into a diff typ eof chick at that age, mostly puerto rican latinas.. becuase of that one incident, i used to be real anxious around sex

in total i have only had successful sex with 2 women.. all the other times i either jus stopped at making out or fingering and an arguement or me getting angry at them would cause them to leave. while i did have some model quality women in my life, there snothing to brag about when id idnt bone all of 'em.

i turned to viagra for help and it helped quite a bit.

The reality is, i was always a skinny/smaller guy than average. nowadays i am considered average but im still only about 160 lbs

Ive found myself frustrated mostly becuase of online dating. Going from having abundance to going to trying dating apps left me feeling horrible, sad and undesirable. I didnt understand why people were ignring me on online dating. it was very painful.. iremember it vividly, how angry i would be at the women who barely gave me any attention and didnt take me seriously. I even remember messaging some girls and asking them what they think was the issue.

But the reality is,... my abundance didnt change outta nowhere. what happened was I went from being very confident and masculine to more feminine after being mentally abused by an older friend i used to hang with. he was a crazy BPD type who grew up motherless and with an abusive father. i was scared o fhim evr since he attacked me one time .. but i knew i would always beat his ass if we ever had a real fight, which i later did. but by that time, the damage was done. i was changed so much as a person that i felt ugly , i felt weak, ifelt like a b.itch.. i became sensitive and i developed deep anxiety..

it took me YEARS to recover from that.. but i still always never felt the same..
now fastforward maybe 9-10 years from that time and i still dont feel the way i used to at that age. at that age i felt like women liked me/girls liked me.. and because of that, i reaped what i sowed.. and had an abundance of women.numbers in my phone, etc.. and ofc while i wasnt banging all of them, i relished greatly off of the fact that i had options and that was enough for me.. in th esame way how hot chicks operate... and why they dont care about 90% of guys

Now, the part that is true is my knowledge about women. Where did it come from? jsu having alot of dating experience/and women friends.. Having women friends was some of the best times in my life.. even tho i cut of all my friends because i fell in love with a hoe who played me like a fool and while she did love me, it was a narcissistc type of love, conditional, etc. plus i ruined it because of anger and jealousy.. in my mind she was f-ing one of my friends.. and she prob did..

So where does RAzorrambo go from here? Nothing im practicing nofap, doing kegels, quit porn.. which i came to really enjoy fapping and porn. its osme of th emost beautiful gratifying stuff ever - its hard to think how its not one of the best hobbies in the world.. i mean u never get what u can out of porn out of real sexual experiences unless u manage to get like a buncha hot superficial looking chicks together and have variety of threesomes or something..

Mostly, in my life, ifeel like I was cursed by God or something.. but reality is it was being introduced to computers from a young age + porn that really messed up my experiences with women.. and while i have had more women and more dates than your average guy, it means nothing when you cant hang onto them.

like i said only bange 2 girls officially. despite having a ton of great girls in my life --

Nowadays i try to find sht.. and yes, I have had experiences where i got fired for alking to multiple chicks in my workplace and getting one jealous.. and usually at times i become one of the main guys girls talk about and whisper amonst themselves and older ladies talk about in diff environments.. but i think its mainly because besides having decent looks, and knowing how to dress/smell nice.. i know how t really play that charm... something ive always had

My current job im getting noticed by women agian, i get so many stares and looks.. theres 2 young girls who i know who at times if elt like both like me but --whats the point when im a mess? i cant really move forward with anyone of them properly becuas ei fear so much. i fear being heartbroken again ,i fear not being good in bed, i fear alot. i have premature ejaculation and while i can get hard with viagra, i dont trust my ability as much.. but regradless, im gonna try again, just not wit the girls at work.. cuz like i said, i have a really jeallous and angry mind.. and alwas suspect them to be talkin to another guy at work and sleepin with them... alot of that sht is deeply rooted to my mom cheating on my dad

Sometimes i still struggle with inadequacy as im a smaller guy (height is 5'10 but smaller head, smaller hands,smaller frame, 160 lbs) I Just look smaller than most guys/weaker. Infact, some people think im like 18-22 when im 31. Thats why i get alot of young girls staring at me and sht but its pathetic lol im afriad to even do anythingwiht anyone.. i want to but its likei fear success in a way.

Thoughts? and anyone else want to come clean about their stories?
 

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TLDR: I made up all my stuff about being this badass player on this forum, The profile pic is fake, im not wealthy either and i make like 30k a year and live at home. I only have had sex with 2 women total in life because most other women i would only stop at makeouts and fingering and such because i was afraid of erectile issues that came from many diff things but mostly masturbatn and porn forever. i still have had beautiful and model like women in life, but after some traumatic experience s tht destroyed alot of my masculine confidence, i became a shell of who i was and stopped havin gthe abundance of women in my life, so i went from having an abundanc eof women attention when young to long droughts of nothing. the longest friendship i had with a woman ws like 5-6 years before i finally told her that the reason i didnt f- her is because she wasnt the ideal to get me aroused and that i was like afraid to have sex with her because of my sexual anxiety. i thught she would be accepting of it since she was super into me.. but i thnk over the years her interest broke down.. and i felt like she found someone else . even with her i only saw her onc eor twice every few months becuase i didnt care as much.. but i knew she liked me alot and she was like an angel.. becuase she was the only girl life brought me after a huge drought of having no women,. The women i had my first successful sex with i fell in love with and she played me hard and my anger and jealousy made me lose her.. evne tho we had no commitment i felt like she was mine only and the prospect of her banging one of my friends hurt me for a long time even tho i have no evidence.

nowadays im looking to date again and feeling confident again but ultimately fear things still. regardless its hard for me to find women onlnie but in person, i get some good attention.. especially at my pastt 2 workplaces where i became the token guy alot of young girls talk about and older woman talk about as handsome
 

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TLDR pt 2: while i did grow up in brooklyn and chicago, and did sell drugs and was involve din the streets and did mostl yhang around older guys who were also scummy and slept around with diff women and hit parties and things... it wasnt as glamourous as could be. it was still cool and defining of who i am but it was a traumatic incident that happened when i was around 21 or so that really shattered m confidence . up until then i had tons of girls attention and was a badass for sure.. def tough, used to clown around with gangs and make fun of them and had little risk aversion, id id alot of diff hustles for money and stuff but ultimatly none oftht means anything as my self esteema nd confidence was shattered many times throughout my 20s.

my biggest issue and biggest factor into not being a successful man with abundance now is and always has been porn and masturbation.. spilling that sacred energy/semen for nothing


For me meeting that girl who broke my heart was like heaven and hell. in a way it was so lustful pleasureful and she let me do whatever with her. but at the same time my mind was telling me she was playing me and sleeping with my friend.. becaus eof my own insecurities of not haivng my own place, not having a job at the time and dealing with sexual issues.

This life has brought me up many times to feel popular, feel golden, get lots of love and attention from around me, and then took me down to 0, multiple times. and im not sure why.. at times i felt cursed.. but i think it was just bad parenting/no proper rolemodels and no guidance.. kept making alot of the same mistakes..

In total i probably dated 20 women in my life. many didnt last more than a week or two. some lasted few months, one lasted many years - that one she was the nicest girl but eventually she had to up and leave.. she couldnt keep waiting for me to seal the deal
 

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Lol

Well I liked your persona anyway. Like I always loved Dirty Harry ,James Bond , or the comic version of Wolverine.

Must be a sad existence to fool yourself like this. Why don't you try to live up to your persona?

At the end of the day nothing and nobody's character is set in stone. Every dat we wake up we can be who we want to be..
 

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I called out all this BS from the jump and was extremely disappointed in the vast majority of this forum's gullible and plain basic thinking. It mirrors real life perfectly and my way of thinking is mostly right although always against the grain.

This further confirms my lack of belief in competent and free thought amongst most people alive today. Common sense aint common.

It took me about a week until I refused to open or read any threads made by this poster, clout chasing. Shout out to @characternote for also being of sound mind. This thread really didn't need to be made as it was obvious.

As you were gents.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You know what ? If this is true you are probably the biggest b1rch I've ever known. And I've seen a LOT...

Delete your account. NOW. Have some pride and tell the mods to bann your account and delete all of your post.


You lil *****.
 

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Am I the only naive fool who actually seriously listens to advice on forums and in youtube videos and is always honest about my results?
When I compare my results to guys like John Anthony or Playing With Fire they seem so lackluster, so I don't know what to believe anymore.
Still, there must be more optimal and less optimal ways to communicate with women. That is what forums are good for, you gather data, experiment, analyze and make conclusions on how to improve your communication strategy. That is the game part. That is for turning "maybe" girls into "yes" girls. Nothing will turn a "no" girl into a "yes" girl.
But I don't see the point in making up fake stuff about yourself online, what do you gain from it?
 

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I think what is most hilarious is that I can see everybodys IP address and personal information so I know who has multiple accounts and I know which moderators also have normal accounts. I wont rat anybody out though. Just know that I know. I am not nicknamed the Hacker for no reason. Many people are pretending here or they use multiple accounts to try to get there point across or to talk bad about someone. They think by using multiple accounts in a thread that whoever they are arguing against will feel worse because they have several accounts disagreeing with them on the same thread.
Lol I just block the haters. One guy accused me of using fake accounts. You know I dont
 

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I think what is most hilarious is that I can see everybodys IP address and personal information so I know who has multiple accounts and I know which moderators also have normal accounts. I wont rat anybody out though. Just know that I know. I am not nicknamed the Hacker for no reason. Many people are pretending here or they use multiple accounts to try to get there point across or to talk bad about someone. They think by using multiple accounts in a thread that whoever they are arguing against will feel worse because they have several accounts disagreeing with them on the same thread.
Just thinking out loud but, Wouldnt it be a good thing for the community if you exposed them?
 

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You know what ? If this is true you are probably the biggest b1rch I've ever known. And I've seen a LOT...

Delete your account. NOW. Have some pride and tell the mods to bann your account and delete all of your post.


You lil *****.
This dude was one of my biggest fans on here.
 

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I don't understand the "thrill" of pretending to be somebody you're not. It's just weird.
Never pretended to be anyone else.

Everything i mentioned on here besides being wealthy or having multiple plates is true.

People can fake w.e but they cant fake experiences and attitude. I still get a decwnt amount of attention from women and my last job i did get fired for talking to multiple women and being seen leaving with one. All that sht is true.

Ive dated model qualify women. Also true

Only other thing i lied abkut waa being adept at sex. Ans yes while i made women orgasm, squirt, it was mostly the same chick whos texts i posted 2 diff times to make it seem like she was 2 diff chicks... but she was also unideal and crazy. She was the 2nd chick i ever had successful sexual intercourse with. While i dated prob over 20 women in my life sexual anxirty kept me from sealing the deal with alot of them.

The girl i dated before who i had my best sexual experience with was 2018.


I also didnt ever lower my standards or bang any fat or ugly chicks.

But yes i did deal with porn related issues and ssxual anxiety for a while which really ruined alor of my experiences.

I became really good at using my fingers because of it but. Yeah im now decent all around and dont have any anxiety anymore ..which is why im looking for a girl again
 

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I called out all this BS from the jump and was extremely disappointed in the vast majority of this forum's gullible and plain basic thinking. It mirrors real life perfectly and my way of thinking is mostly right although always against the grain.

This further confirms my lack of belief in competent and free thought amongst most people alive today. Common sense aint common.

It took me about a week until I refused to open or read any threads made by this poster, clout chasing. Shout out to @characternote for also being of sound mind. This thread really didn't need to be made as it was obvious.

As you were gents.
Lmao i bet you feel real proud now.

Im still cooler than 90% of this forum on my worse day. Many of yall dont even have friends let alone get b.itches.

For me i thought i was a player since young since i got so much attention and attraction from women early on. I jus didnt capitalize on it cuz i was an inexperienced twig of a man who grew up in a househould where therw was no sexual energy between parents. Mostly jus fighting.

Also all the pics i posted of bitches were mine. Same with texts. But i still dont have a girlfriend is what matters most rn. Will try to have one soon. Tho its already fall. :/

I think what ppl need to take away from this is how damaging porn and masturbation can be. I used to be the person everyone called player and chick magnet. Reality was i was more like the makeout and finger king.
 

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Lmao i bet you feel real proud now.

Im still cooler than 90% of this forum on my worse day. Many of yall dont even have friends let alone get b.itches.

For me i thought i was a player since young since i got so much attention and attraction from women early on. I jus didnt capitalize on it cuz i was an inexperienced twig of a man who grew up in a househould where therw was no sexual energy between parents. Mostly jus fighting.

Also all the pics i posted of bitches were mine. Same with texts. But i still dont have a girlfriend is what matters most rn. Will try to have one soon. Tho its already fall. :/

I think what ppl need to take away from this is how damaging porn and masturbation can be. I used to be the person everyone called player and chick magnet. Reality was i was more like the makeout and finger king.
Lol pretty funny, one of my first posts was a fight with you about some views on game that I thought were pretty idiotic, but though I think that u were actually representing your views there and not playing a persona, later on I saw that u changed ur profile picture and thought to myself wtf that is literally one in million physique no way, but when I saw your threads everytime I logged in it was pretty unbelivable at that point already someone would actually be spending that much time here, so I think if u toned it down a little u could have been pretty belivable user, some of few threads u had written were pretty good, but lastly about your point on masturbation it is absolutely very very true, I had just yesterday ended my streak out of boredom and felt so weak I couldnt believe it, like holy ****, if anything one shouldnt not satiate himself and it will be a pretty good start for anything, wish u luck man I believe with your awareness you will end up good
 

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RazorShambo... this thread could have been the beginning of some real personal growth for you. You admitted your failings and seemed like you wanted to make a change.

But the last few posts reveal you are still a sadkunt with major inadequacy issues. Why don't you take a page from your nonsense philosophy and ching chang moo the f outta here?
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This dude was one of my biggest fans on here.
Yup.

I'd rather say i felt most connected to the persona you played. Its fightclub for a reason I geuss...Tyler was never real. Whatever.



Imagine being in jail ,sharing war stories. One did this another did that. Then one dude comes in with all kinds of stories. Credible to some degree Saying he did a robbery and once he gets out he'll have tons of cash hidden somewhere. Yadiya

Only to later be exposed as a fraud. That tale is as old as humanity bro.
Joke's on YOU .

I dont care if you live in a lie or not. Tomorrow is a new day any how...

People come on this site to discuss topics that are too taboo for normies, be sold a dream, or drink the red pill/black pill Coperade
And why are you here actually??

Might as well expose yourself as biggest troll #2 so the rest of us can continue to dive deep and spar about real shyte without you interrupting every damn time
 

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And why are you here actually??

Might as well expose yourself as biggest troll #2 so the rest of us can continue to dive deep and spar about real shyte without you interrupting every damn time
You know exactly why I am here.
 

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Yup.

I'd rather say i felt most connected to the persona you played. Its fightclub for a reason I geuss...Tyler was never real. Whatever.



Imagine being in jail ,sharing war stories. One did this another did that. Then one dude comes in with all kinds of stories. Credible to some degree Saying he did a robbery and once he gets out he'll have tons of cash hidden somewhere. Yadiya

Only to later be exposed as a fraud. That tale is as old as humanity bro.
Joke's on YOU .

I dont care if you live in a lie or not. Tomorrow is a new day any
You acted like a douche. So stop acting like a douche and be authentic
My attitude and conviction was never acting. All that sht is real and thats how i truly am. My upbringing, the bwautiful womwn i had, even the pics and texts i posted of women were all real as well, albeit they werent always recent pics and didnt mean much.

Regardless the thing is, no one cares what others are here to say. Most ppl are here to fulfill their own validation by giving opinionated responses to things.

No real players or don juans hang out here anymore. It hasnt been that way for ages.

I might still be the closest thing to a Don Juan on here sadly.

The only thing i lied about was being wealthy and being a **** slanging machine of a man with a rippes physique. My businesses never reached that success. I always wanted to make it in ecom so it was an easy lie to craft since i actually am an enterpreneur in the sense i create and test diff business models.

I dont think a single story i said on here besides making it seem like i was slaying like crazy was false either. I also did enjoy the nightlife for over a decade (bara/clubs) but not as consistently some years.

I also do have more than 2 bodies but i said it for effect sincw it sounds funny. Out of 20 girls ive dated i smashed 6 total. Thats still incredibly low and why i needed to expose myself.

Regardless I had to come clean because the truth is i have had issues finding a girl for a relationship. Much of my life i lost women either to negligence aka not caring enougu or getting angry about something and insulting them badly.
 

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John Anthony or Playing With Fire
Any man with a sixth sense gets the impression, that these two, along with that Casey Zander guy, are not only likely liars, but definitely total head cases.

Pay attention to their tones, affects, and physiognomies. They are nuts.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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