Does Tall Dark and Handsome have its appeal anymore? (my experience)

[Iceberg]

Someone in here gets it.

Don't misinterpret my words to say that there are areas where a guy doesn't have good looks or game can get laid. Looks, game, and all of that matters. Yet there are areas where a guy can have the looks and the game but not score with a certain niche of girls.

Who are these people telling you that you have looks and game? These white girls you want so badly?

Maybe you don't. Maybe your personality is terrible, and you're not that good looking.

You're talking like, "I have good looks and game and white girls don't date me." Well, oh, okay then, maybe you don't have either.

I know it's only an internet forum, but I certainly can't imagine a guy like you being fun to be around.

 

[Kailex]

I'm sorry, but the argument from the OP is HUGELY flawed.

He's specifically targeted box office draws, which have the widest of ranges to a broader audience. Of course more people know Leo than they do Shemar Moore. Of course more people know Channing Tatum than Gabriel Garcia Bael.

You're specifically speaking about movie stars when movie star leads are predominantly caucasian.

It's not that tall, dark, and handsome doesn't have its appeal, it's just that it's not the widest available option in show business.

Other than Will Smith and Denzel Washington, you are hard pressed to find an actor who is a huge box office draw that is black. Caucasians? A dime a dozen.

 

[Jaylan]

OP, I dont know if anyone said it already...but the tall dark and handsome trope was something created that typically applies to white dudes. As in an over 6 ft, Mediterranean skin tone, and good looking Caucasian guy.

I'm sorry, but the argument from the OP is HUGELY flawed.

He's specifically targeted box office draws, which have the widest of ranges to a broader audience. Of course more people know Leo than they do Shemar Moore. Of course more people know Channing Tatum than Gabriel Garcia Bael.

You're specifically speaking about movie stars when movie star leads are predominantly caucasian.

It's not that tall, dark, and handsome doesn't have its appeal, it's just that it's not the widest available option in show business.

Other than Will Smith and Denzel Washington, you are hard pressed to find an actor who is a huge box office draw that is black. Caucasians? A dime a dozen.

Super true.

...and a lot of white girls feel this way about you. No amount of "game" will ever change that.

Lol, Ive heard white girls say this and then date me. I dont bank on it though.

Btw, OP, you cant target one type of girl. Broaden thy horizons.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

I'm sorry, but the argument from the OP is HUGELY flawed.

He's specifically targeted box office draws, which have the widest of ranges to a broader audience. Of course more people know Leo than they do Shemar Moore. Of course more people know Channing Tatum than Gabriel Garcia Bael.

You're specifically speaking about movie stars when movie star leads are predominantly caucasian.

It's not that tall, dark, and handsome doesn't have its appeal, it's just that it's not the widest available option in show business.

Other than Will Smith and Denzel Washington, you are hard pressed to find an actor who is a huge box office draw that is black. Caucasians? A dime a dozen.

Yes, and Hollywood and natural selection has decided that M. Night Shyamalan (director), and Gov. Jindal, are not to be leading hearthrobs who get all the white babes. Get over it.

 

[floydb25]

Hustlaz: Fair enough. But the OP lived in NC before, and had no luck there, either. As for moving in a predominantly white area, like in the Midwest: be prepared for racial backlash and being shunned by all the cliquey white crowds... which is where most of the easy, hot girls are found. They also love bad boys up there. The hot ones go for the hot bad boys, of course. Definitely comes with some damage... there's a lot of *******s up there, too. Best comparable to savage animals.

 

[Justin Time]

Time to debunk this thread -

My best friend in college was born outside of the states. He f*cked more white women than any white guy in that college. You know the worst part? He was dumb as a f*cking brick. He had NO game either. Now you're probably wondering how is that even possible, or maybe these chicks were nasty or something. Let me tell you, these chicks are nothing less than an Hb7...Mostly Hb8 and Hb9. Where we went to school had all sorts of white girls, however a lot of Russian/Bosnian women. I counted 20+ chicks he nailed in the four years we were out there. Bear in mind he dated a girl for 2 of those years and didn't cheat on her.

He was born in Trivandrum....For those of you that don't know, that's in India. He was of a lighter skin tone, and could easily be mistaken for a dark european (Kinda like an Enrique Iglesias) type of guy. It's all about the looks, less about the race. He's stolen white chicks from white guys, like straight up poon robbery while they sit there...then again, these white dudes weren't really all that.

 

[Moment Viscosity]

Floyd, interesting that you said everyone wants you to fail, like the one mentality about it. I mean look at all these posters on this board, yyc and even the Mexican trying to pull me against dating a White girl and having an issue with my preference. We see a prime example of it right here.

It is like these people want me to leave the White women alone due to some nationalist BS (maybe they are Brown nationalists wanting brown people to stick with each other or White nationalists trying to protect the White women). Yet this is what failures and guys who have crashed and burned hard with White women sound like. Since these men were not able to score with White girls themselves (and believe me, I highly doubt they have) they end up either:

1. Insulting White women
2. Telling me White women worldwide do not want me

Even on here though you see it, like this very thread, that is how failure sounds like and that is what guys who cannot score with women do. They come on to these forums and stop other men from being the best that they can be because misery loves company. Like I am starting to see a lot of these guys would love for me to end up lonely or have to resort to dating a black or asian girl because if I succeed they have to sit back and become even more depressed that someone is having success with White women and it is not them.

Lets be honest, Ethnic Latino, Asian, Indian, or Middle Eastern men are not going to have success with women White women in most cases. I have seen it in real life, White women are either interested in White men or some (a small number) have a Black man fetish.

I am trying to be the 1 out of 100 million Indian men in this world who has success dating White girls and just look at how actively these guys are trying to stop me. I would not be surprised if some of them were Indian themselves. They are trying to stop me from living the kind of dating life I want because they don't even try to improve themselves. As a result they pull up all this BS trying to get me to date women I have no attraction to by guilt tripping me, the type of **** a feminist would pull.

 

[Justin Time]

MV - Do you find that you get a lot of attention from Asian/black women?

 

[Moment Viscosity]

Or are they generally just more outgoing and seriously are not attention h0ring like the white girls that do this?

Generally speaking, Black women get a lot less attention than women of other races (especially if the girl who is black is darker skinned), this is what my Black friends have told me (and since I live in the south I have a lot of Black friends due to demographics). Out of all races of men, I have noticed that Black men are the only men who will push men of other races into dating Black women and try to set them up with Black girls. White men do the exact opposite and even these liberals that everyone whines about will try to talk a man of my color (brown dude) from dating a White girl. I have never in my life met a White guy who was okay with me dating a White girl or encouraging of the idea of me dating a White girl but I live in the south so that is probably why.

Latino men throw baby fits but I don't care I sleep with their women anyways because I want to, almost all races of men sleep with Latina girls because they are easier than White girls, have lower standards, and are generally more attractive than Black girls.

Since Black women don't usually get as much attention, a lot of them throw themselves at guys of other races because of it (generally speaking). I have not met a guy till this day who has struggled with Black girls and when I hear of guys struggling I know it is because they don't even talk to them.

White women on the other hand have so much attention, not only from White guys but guys of other races. When I have seen a woman get hit on endlessly and whiteknighted, she has been a White girl.

Problem for me is how do I become that one guy who is different from others and get her attention.

 

[floydb25]

Word... it's like that everywhere, with most everyone. People will just tell you to give up, and be just like them. The majority won't be giving out positive, helpful advice - nor will they help you achieve your goals. Most people do NOT want to see you succeed, or rise above them - and will dissuade / sabotage to the best of their ability. Some will even bully you if they see you getting what they can't. But the hate and jealousy is clear as day. That's why I fly solo, and don't believe ****... or tell people ****.

Not sure what you're expecting with this kind of thread, though.

 

[Moment Viscosity]

MV - Do you find that you get a lot of attention from Asian/black women?

Yup, way too much. A lot more from Black girls but a lot from Asian girls too.

I asked this friend of mines who is an Asian guy why Asian women love me so much and he said it is because:

1. I have the same skin color as most East Asians (the yellow skin)
2. I don't have the Asian eyes
3. I am typically a bright person (going places in life to a lot of people)
4. I look like I workout and lift
5. I have the sorta Macho vibe that isn't over the top like with some Latino guys but I am not submissive either

As for Black girls, I am not sure but from my experience Black women break for any race of guys outside of their own race. Most in my area love Latino guys and Asian guys, and a lot are way more open minded.

 

[foreverAFC]

* yawn *

 

[Moment Viscosity]

Not sure what you're expecting with this kind of thread, though.

I was hoping some sort of useful advice and discussion on why my White friends get better treatment in the looks department and how a guy that looks like me can compete with their looks. Mean I got into beautifulpeople.com and all that but I cannot seem to get the same respect based on my looks as my White friends. Makes me wonder if PUAs who give advice on looks should just say "forget about being the pretty boy if you aren't White".

Now anyways I have come to realize through a lot of these discussions that Brown people (Brown men especially) ****ing hate it when men of their own race go interracial. Like many of them have this whole "why him not me" kind of hater mentality. Some of them just hate it for some reason which isn't odd to find that Brown dudes seem to really have an issue with me hooking up with White women. You say you are Middle Eastern, I am not talking about you guys as much as I am Indians and Pakistanis.

It is not a coincidence that I probably get more hate from Indian guys than any other group of guys out there. They just don't want to see each other succeed. I personally want to see more Indian men - White women couples but Indian men in general have this whole hater complex going on with other Indians to the point they want each other to fail.

Sucks......

Not only do you have bad stereotypes about your race to deal with but men of your own race hate you and want you to fail.

 

[Jaylan]

OP, black girls are forward and assertive because thats how our culture raises black men and women. It has nothing to do with where you think black women lie on some hierarchy chart.

Black men are way more sought after for interracial coupling than black women, and we are forward and assertive with women as well. Its really just that our culture teaches us to get what we want. No puszyfooting around what we desire.

PS - Move away from the south. Your dating life will do better for it.

 

[Moment Viscosity]

On a more relevant note to the thread, I have no idea why Indian men with the Bollywood appearance are seen differently as other swarthy men. I mean if you have an Indian guy with olive skin, dark hair, and dark eyes and he happens to be tall and handsome, why can he not fit the role of tall dark and handsome?

 

[foreverAFC]

On a more relevant note to the thread, I have no idea why Indian men with the Bollywood appearance are seen differently as other swarthy men. I mean if you have an Indian guy with olive skin, dark hair, and dark eyes and he happens to be tall and handsome, why can he not fit the role of tall dark and handsome?

thats how it seems to you because thats how you view indian men yourself