Does Tall Dark and Handsome have its appeal anymore? (my experience)

[Moment Viscosity]

wrong, my good friend is an indian guy, he is dating an attractive white girl right now, and has also dated white women in the past

he isnt the indian guy who looks like a virgin engineering student though, he does martial arts and is in good shape

Where in the USA is this thought? I can believe it happens in the US and some areas of the world but as me and other members have said on this thread, it isn't in the south (especially not here in Atlanta).

 

[yyc12]

As an Indian, if you have 9/10 looks and good game you will still get rejected by beautiful White women for just being Indian.

Dude, what is your problem?? Why are you so determined to get a white girl. There really isn't anything special about them (other than they tend to put out sooner than other races in my experience, :crackup: ), but seriously, a lot of brown girls are hot...and you'd likely have better luck with them. (I'd like to get a brown girl, :cheer: ). Are you really not attracted to them? Why? What do you find attractive about white women? You're not doing yourself any favours by chasing women that are not likely to be into you!

 

[yyc12]

wrong, my good friend is an indian guy, he is dating an attractive white girl right now, and has also dated white women in the past

he isnt the indian guy who looks like a virgin engineering student though, he does martial arts and is in good shape

and your ONE friend is representative of the norm???

 

[Moment Viscosity]

why do people have a problem with my preference? I love white girls, I love Chinese food, I love Japanese food, and I love the smell of fried chicken. Why? I don't ****ing know, all I know is

1. I love it
2. I want to get what I love

and **** all of you dummies who think White girls aren't special. yes, some 9/10 Indian girl is soooooo much better than a blonde who has posed for playboy, get outta here with that nonsense. I love White girls more than any other race of women out there and quite honestly I am willing to do what it takes to improve my results with them. Suck on that *****.

But I am also smart enough to know I will not step one foot in Canada because Indian guys there have ****ed it so bad for Brown men that White women walk to other side of the street when they see a Brown guy.

 

[Iceberg]

Hell, I wish most guys on here were successful with women (white and non-White) so as a result they could give me suggestions on where to go if I want to game White girls for the best results and what to do differently with them than I would do with other races.

Women are women. And you are who you are. You can't adapt your game to specific races because (obviously) your game, and how you speak to people, is a part of your personality. If you start trying to change how you speak to women depending on what race they are, you're just going to sound fake and awkward.

You don't know how it feels like to know that these men are failing hard with White women while some pasty fraternity kid with a heavy southern accent is getting the women me and a lot of guys find attractive.

Your personal opinion of these "brown" guys' game and appearance means nothing. Maybe their game is wack. Maybe the pasty dude with the southern accent sounds more natural while the guys YOU think are DJs are trying too hard and reeking of desperation.

At that point you throw up your hands and say "**** this the location is the problem". Now I don't know how California is like for example but I am pretty sure a ripped Latino guy who can talk to women and has game would do better than a pale White kid in a fraternity with a heavy country accent in most cases there.

See, that's the thing about this board. Guys think ripped = getting laid. I live in Manhattan, dude. All sorts of guys are getting laid. Pasty guys with southern accents (who have game) can get laid just as much as a ripped guy. Despite whatever Rule Book you've read, not every girl wants the guy who's spending 80 hours per week in the gym.

Now this thread was about looks. When it comes to looks, I notice that usually blonde men and white men with pale skin and brown hair get way more attention for their looks than a swarthy looking guy.

Well, maybe what you're noticing is corrupted by your own negative vibes.

 

[floydb25]

RE: OP's last post:

Word... ****, IME, it's the white guys who get angry when you attract hot white girls - and not them. That just makes me laugh at them, hard... especially to see them squirm and attack like the insecure, hating little *****es they are. Ha Ha.

I wouldn't fret over what people say about anything, ever... they don't know **** - whether good or bad. Don't take it as the truth. So, if they say there's lots of brown players in that area - don't believe them. If they say you can't get a hot girl - don't believe them. I've learned not to take anything people say too personally, as it's usually not true, OR with your best interests in mind - only theirs. As well, they are speaking from their own personal experience - which has no basis on what your outcome might be (whether they like it or not)... Even friends won't hesitate to cut you down, and make you look bad or feel inferior - all so they can have their way, and claim superiority over you. Most so-called players are also full of ****... I used to be involved with that crowd, and 90% of them were liars and pretenders. Just straight up losers who lied about their successes, and sabotaged everyone else's. Really sad, but so were they. Everyone wants to fit in and be top dog - even if that means destroying everyone else.

One thing I've learned about losers is that, they compensate for their own failures and misery by attacking, degrading, and dragging everyone else down beneath them, so that they can feel better about themselves. That's how pathetic they are. They're completely fake.

Just do you, and find your own success. Don't depend on others, or believe their claims. It has no basis on reality - literally as it's happening. ****, guys who couldn't get **** told me this or that girl is out of my league, I need to lower my standards, and attack / compete / sabotage - AS these same girls were approaching, flirting, and wanting sex with me - and wanting nothing to do with them. And they knew it, and hated it. Don't let people pursuade you into being below them.

It's just like Will Smith said in "The Pursuit of Happiness":

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRNqoqFzTi0

Another fine example is Eminem. That's probably a better motivation in this case. Stop blaming race, saying you can't do it, looking at everyone else's failures (as a way to compensate yours), and just do it. Most people can't get ****, and blame all these external factors - then get angry, think this is how it is, and give up. BLAH. Don't be a *****. Be the exception, and prove everyone wrong.

On that note, I love this intro to his song (and the song itself is badass, too):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FwDmUrlU58E

 

[floydb25]

Iceberg: Agreed. OP needs to stop viewing things through such a simple, one-sided lense. 9-10, he's only seeing what he wants to see - based on what he convinced himself as fact - and making that his focus. Not sure why we do that sometimes. It quickly becomes your reality.

****, I used to believe there was good in everyone - and convinced myself they all were. Then, when that wasn't the case, and the same *******s I tried to see the good in (WTF?) turned out to be... *******s - I believed everyone was a selfish ******* with ulterior motives - only to focus and subconsciously seek them out, to make it my reality. Same with all girls being sluts and *****es - after seeking those types out in the first place - only to focus EVEN MORE on, and continually attract those types left and right (based on my negative views and issues, which those types flock to). From one extreme to the next... all created by myself.

Your thoughts shape your reality, so make sure it's open-minded, not extreme or one-sided, and not negative. Make sure you don't surround yourself with, or focus solely on a limited selection of people, either - or that will become your reality, as well (ie, brown guys and white girls). Whether you realize it or not, you also send strong vibes to others based on your thoughts - and they come off in your interactions with others, as well. Don't be angry, judgemental, obsessive, etc... you're only hurting yourself, and every interaction you have with others.

Even on here... everyone is calling you an IRT - because ALL you talk about (negatively, at that) is race, looks, failure, and how unfair it is. For years, even on other forums. Not healthy, and isn't going to attract anyone to you. A lot of times, we get people to hate us - by always being negative, complaining, having one-sided, judgemental views (which are far from reality... outside of ours), repeating the same mantras OVER AND OVER, etc.

So, yea... knock it off. And in real life, too... you obviously worry and obsess about it, and most likely sabotage through fear. Ze ol' self-fulfilling prophecy.

A lot of the damsels I tried rescuing were this way, too. They were SO convinced that all men were jerks and players - based on their own limited experience with, and selection in them - that the fear and bitterness consumed them - which also got dumped onto everyone else as baggage, and pissed everyone off in the process (while continually attracting negativity; jerks and players... d'oh).

This **** shows, and can even control you.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Dude, from the experience of this brown man, I can attest to what yyc12 says, white girls are the easiest to hook up with/get to put out.

 

[floydb25]

Dude, from the experience of this brown man, I can attest to what yyc12 says, white girls are the easiest to hook up with/get to put out.

I'll third that. They're also the sleaziest and most aggressive. :rockon:

 

[Stagger Lee]

I'll third that. They're also the sleaziest and most aggressive. :rockon:

I think it just girls that interracially date tend to be. Asian, India, latin girls that date outside their race tend to be just as sleazy and aggressive.

 

[yyc12]

I think it just girls that interracially date tend to be. Asian, India, latin girls that date outside their race tend to be just as sleazy and aggressive.

I'm finding that as well..especially the ones that want black guys specifically...don't know what that's about.

 

[floydb25]

I think it just girls that interracially date tend to be. Asian, India, latin girls that date outside their race tend to be just as sleazy and aggressive.

Can't really disagree or disown this claim, since the only girls I dated or fooled around with white. But they definitely came on hella strong, and wanted to "ravage" me, do all this freaky ****, etc. Only fooled around with one brown girl, but she was a little nicer and less aggressive by nature. I think looks and sex appeal has a lot to do with it, though... moreso than race. But again, I can't discredit or prove otherwise, since my selection was 99% white.

 

[Moment Viscosity]

First, bravo floyd, excellent post. I actually realized a while ago that in real life most people want you to fail and will go out of their way to make it happen. That is one reason I never talk about race in real life because it will cause issues. I come online to talk about it because it is safe to talk about it.

I also agree with you on this obsession and a lot of it being based on mindset. As I did say, this thread was based off of looks too. I get bothered sometimes when most of the guys that girls say are hot and handsome and other people call handsome are often White (not that swarthy looking). Makes me wonder if going to the gym is a waste of time and waste of energy along with dressing right.

As for the White girls putting out part, not the reality for me. I notice that Black women are the only women who throw themselves at guys they like and make their attraction obvious. Like I have been hit on by Black girls in public in front of all of my friends with things such "boy you fine!" out loud. Not really into Black girls (or Asian girls) so that is that. Asian girls love me too.

Latin girls come up next, a lot of them get touchy with you FAST. Like I have had Latinas do KINO on me at clubs.

White girls will play the snobby game and avoid you, at least girls down south. Many of them will play a long list of games too. It is like such a confusing thing to get with them and I do think this might just be Southern girls.

As for the Brown guy thing, I call it as I see, never seen any Brown guys down here hook up with White girls, if it did happen it would turn heads. I know it from personal experience.

It is like almost torture for me down south. Most of the attractive girls I run into are White, most of them want White guys, and here I am. But hey, I guess it is going to be my duty now to keep pushing and see where I end up. I am going to have to be a pioneer for all these Brown men down south.

 

[floydb25]

Can't disagree with most attractive guys being white, but we're not talking about most people - nor should comparisons to others be used as a benchmark. Always focus on you, and don't give a damn what anyone else is doing, or what the majority is. As long as you're good looking, interesting, funny, maybe a bit ****y, and dress to impress - bishes will come. Doesn't matter what your race or location is, IME. I have not seen any evidence to the contrary. Was always different from most people, too. Wasn't a drunken wanna be ******* up north, and am not a southern gentleman or frat guy down here. Doesn't make a difference to women, and they dig guys who are different anyway - so long as they deem you as "sexy" in the process.

White girls act as you describe up north, too... even moreso than down here. All they did was play games, act snobby and retarded... certain ones, of course. The cliquey, popular, fake ones who thought they were something special, especially. The hotter they were, and the more attention they received - the worse it was.

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

Floyd you can't be serious NC is not THE South, like the Deep Cotton South is. The Deep South is on a whole different ball game. NC/DC/Maryland DMV Tri-State area is child's play compared to down here in Mississippi, Alabama, Southern Georgia, Lousiana, and northern Florida when it comes to conservativism. I can tell from your posting history you are a tough SOB, but I don't know if you could hold out here, before you snap of boredom. You BETTER like college football, if you want to fit in down here. I've never been to the DMV area where you live, but down here Indian/Asian men have a CLEAR disadvantage against them. I have seen 2 Asian dudes with good looking skinny hippie white girls, but Asia dudes have it easier than Indian due to Anime, manga, Video games from Japan, Manny Pacqauio, and Bruce Lee making them look cool to recently. But, then again if go after only Becky's your going to make it difficult for yourself. If your filling up the Mamacita's tacos with sour cream I don't know why you're still stressing over white women.

Luckily for me I like Hispanic chicks and Asian chicks so I don't worry too much about the white womenz lol. I'll give them play, but they ain't #1 on my priority list. Just move OP. Moving to Midwest/West Coast/East Coast would be good. Being exotic helps so try an open minded Midwest area.

Stop being an idiot. No sexy, tall confident famous Indian guy will ever attract one of those true Southern Belle blondes that are former presidents of their sorority, involved in their "community social network", and were raised in the Deep South with a confederate heritage.

Those types of girls go for the blonde fraternity men who are in top tier fraternities at schools such as the University of Alabama who are involved in SGA, the community and campus affairs, and grow up to be potential future governors.


So yes, location does matter... You're obviously daydreaming of the wrong girls. And like I said again, if you even want a 3% chance of even landing these girls....change the way you dress. You look like a FOB in the picture you posted.


~BSmooth

I'm starting my first semester there next month. You went to school in T-Town? Funny thing is the current governor of Alabama, Robert Bently is an Alumni at UA.

We had a California Blonde that visited my state and I was able to get her number, she was interested but back then I was too big of a wimp to progress or escalate.

My thing with the south is that being a good looking Indian dude, I get so much attention from Black, Asian, and Indian women and I have no issues with the Latinas. The thing about the White girls that I do notice is that if they are foreign or not from the state, they will try any kind of race of guy. Now the attractive sorority girls, most of them won't even try a Black guy, sorry to break it to you man but I know a good looking muscular Black guy who is 6"2 and still gets rejected by those kinds of girls.

When that guy was out in California he would pull like there is no tomorrow, showed me some pictures of the girls he was with and a lot of them were legit 7s and up. This guy is a good looking guy (no homo), friendly, outgoing, and has some of the best game I have seen but I see these Southern Belles turn him down for the pasty poorly dressed White fraternity kid.

Classic case of life being unfair right there. I mean you start to lose hope and get a new perspective on things when that happens. I hit the gym, I dress right (no that purple shirt was me getting a quick pic), and I do everything to put myself out there. Now I have gotten laid but these girls down here in the south aka these Southern belles will not open up to you if you are not their typical White fraternity kid.

Then you come on here to seek a solution to your problem only to have these guys who probably haven't had life experience tell you that you are just whining. Give you the same basic advice of just learning game and blah blah blah.

Well at this small university I went to last year the white sorioty girls would **** black guys, but at a big state school like Alabama, Ole Miss, Mississippi State, LSU, or Auburn? I don't know about, but I'm going to see they in a month though lol. The black sorioty's at UA has some of the hottest black girls in the country though so they probably see no need to lay down with the snowbunnies.

Also I agree with the OP down here in the cotton south white girls are not the easiest. It's the Latinas. The conservative, southern gentleman hospitality, confederate roots down here makes girls socially conditioned to marry and have a baby. The Latinas in the other hand GO AFTER THE ****!

 

[In2theGame]

Again, it doesnt matter where you go, if your good looking, Girls are game anywhere even in the south. Here in NYC i get told im good looking a lot, Ive been told few times i look like Adam Rodriguez, I had a LTR with a girl from the south (Louisiana) i met her parents and her friends, They treated me pretty well for me not being from around there but still had the hot southern white girl with big t!ts. Whats crazy is one of her friends made a pass at me while my ex was at work lol and she herself even had a BF. Black, White, Latin, Indian, Arab, Russian..etc... When girls like what they see... they like what they see no matter what.

 

[Moment Viscosity]

Someone in here gets it.

Don't misinterpret my words to say that there are areas where a guy doesn't have good looks or game can get laid. Looks, game, and all of that matters. Yet there are areas where a guy can have the looks and the game but not score with a certain niche of girls. Again, I am tired of all these bull****ters saying "oh hay I am brown and I have been with White Southern girls", no the **** you haven't bro because I have been here in the south for a while.

Honestly, right now I do not care for any other race than White women. I am tired of screwing Latina and mixed girls, and I am just not attracted to Black girls or Asian girls. Now of course this is a huge issue with all posters that a guy does not find Black women attractive for example but whatever, it is my preference and we are here to improve our results.

If my results with White women improved, then I would probably not even come on forums, like ever.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I'm not even that attracted to white girls so ehhhh

 

[yyc12]

I am just not attracted to Black girls or Asian girls.

...and a lot of white girls feel this way about you. No amount of "game" will ever change that.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

...and a lot of white girls feel this way about you. No amount of "game" will ever change that.

:yes: :crackup: