Man, you're so full of ****... I know the difference between courtesy and attraction... I'm not retarded. And it's not just being conceited, because male acquaintances I go out with have said this girl is checking you out, staring at you the whole time, laughing at everything you say, all googly eye'd, she's clearly interested, and so forth.
When I first came here on vacation with some friends (no intention of staying, at the time), I immediately picked up 2 white girls for them, at a club 20 miles from here. One was very attractive; a "hot blonde". White girls are always staring, smiling, wanting to conversate, be around me, etc... no different than it was up north. The "lack of southern hospitality for minorities and browns" is also BS. Chicks, especially, are exceedingly nice to me down here... moreso than guys (though they are helpful in a courteous, neutral manner).
It's always been this way; nothing changed coming down here... except the women are more traditional and reserved, and expect you to initiate interest in them. They're also not as aggressive or sexual. But they're not stuck up or closed off, and make it easy for you to conversate with them. ****, they conversate with YOU 90% of the time.
When I put up a dating profile online over here - 85% of the messages I received (but couldn't read, as you had to pay... **** that) were from white girls... even from neighboring states, such as SC, Virginia, etc.
It's not this way with everyone, however - and isn't up north, either. There's guys I talk to of ALL RACES (including whites) down here that receive no looks, no compliments, no conversation openers, no "hospitality", or going out of ones way for, no nothing. They also get rejected and flaked on / blown off a lot. Women act like they don't exist - because they're not attractive to them. It's this way EVERYWHERE. The only difference is, there's more colored guys down here, and so, their failures are noted as well. Up north, damn near everyone was white, but not everyone was successfu... not even close.
****, when I was up north - only maybe 2% of the guys I knew were getting anything... and they were all white. Everyone else was complaining about how unfair it was. Every job I had, there were white guys who couldn't attract ****; girls had no interest in them. It's not like, if you're the same race - you automatically shack up together. I see white guys all over the place down here with no women.
You can be fairly attractive to good looking (and a lot of people are), but unless you're considered (and are told, by the opposite sex) that you're hot / sexy, you won't be getting much... especially not from very attractive women. You certainly won't be getting approached, and will get rejected / avoided often. I see (and hear about it, from guys) EVERYWHERE.
OTOH, if chicks as a whole dig you, it doesn't matter what race or color you or they are. Lick my ass if you believe otherwise, 'cause it's true. Like I said when you first trolled on here, I knew racist white girls who HATED blacks, but said they would still date them if they were "hot" - and some of them did. That's all bishes care about.
Anywhoo, most of those guys I knew up north ended up with average to cute girls to shack up with - as they couldn't date around, play the field, land hotties, etc. Or they just lied about their successes, and brought everyone else down who actually was successful (ie, pretenders and haters). Yes, they got with "white girls" and were white themselves, but that's the majority up there. They can't date the air...
Go up north once, and see how successful you are. I bet nothing will change.