Does it really get better for men with age?

[oc16]

One online article said a mens sexual desirability peaks at 50, while a women's starts high at 18 and slowly drops from there.

Anyways, I think the 20–29-year range is rough for most men (myself included when I was that age) due to lack of resources and life experience. Most men are broke in their 20's.

30's were a little better since most men at this age have figured it out career wise and now have some cash.

It seemed to be easier in attracting younger women (early to mid 20's) than in the 20's.

What about men 45-55? Is it easier to attract a woman 10 to 15 years younger at 47 than it was at 35?

I am talking about men who are still in shape, not these other guys who was noticeably out of shape and go out in jogging pants and hoodies. My old boss once said, "Men become invisible to women (younger women) at aged 55. I have 9 years to go! haha

 

[soulforge]

One online article said a mens sexual desirability peaks at 50, while a women's starts high at 18 and slowly drops from there.

Anyways, I think the 20–29-year range is rough for most men (myself included when I was that age) due to lack of resources and life experience. Most men are broke in their 20's.

30's were a little better since most men at this age have figured it out career wise and now have some cash.

It seemed to be easier in attracting younger women (early to mid 20's) than in the 20's.

What about men 45-55? Is it easier to attract a woman 10 to 15 years younger at 47 than it was at 35?

I am talking about men who are still in shape, not these other guys who was noticeably out of shape and go out in jogging pants and hoodies. My old boss once said, "Men become invisible to women (younger women) at aged 55. I have 9 years to go! haha

All depends on how well you are looking after yourself.

Solid fitness routine, muscles, good nutrition and you can pass for 35, even if you're actual age is 45.

If you add to your regiment, no fap, no porn and semen retention, your face will glow up and look even better.

I'm 47, and in the past 2-3 years, have smashed several 20-25 year olds.. It can happen.

 

[oc16]

All depends on how well you are looking after yourself.

Solid fitness routine, muscles, good nutrition and you can pass for 35, even if you're actual age is 45.

If you add to your regiment, no fap, no porn and semen retention, your face will glow up and look even better.

I'm 47, and in the past 2-3 years, have smashed several 20-25 year olds.. It can happen.

Congrats to you! At this point (I'm 46) smashing a 32 year old would be a great accomplishment.

 

[soulforge]

I'm pro nofap, I've been doing streaks on a regular basis for more than 10years (longest 60days)

The face glow, deeper voice, etc is BS.
It doesn't really change anything but it keeps the porn/fap habit under control, that is the only real benefit. It's all in your head (not pointing finger at you, but in general)

Sorry to hear about your skin not improving at all.. Luckily the effects of Semen Retention are not one size fits all.. For me my skin has improved quite alot.. in-fact it's the first thing I noticed, was an improvement of my complexion and skin.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

All things being equal yes, but the dating market is getting worse so realistically you're going to stay about the same

 

[soulforge]

Congrats to you! At this point (I'm 46) smashing a 32 year old would be a great accomplishment.

Do you look 46?

I mean some people look there age.. I don't.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Sorry to hear about your skin not improving at all.. Luckily the effects of Semen Retention are not one size fits all.. For me my skin has improved quite alot.. in-fact it's the first thing I noticed, was an improvement of my complexion and skin.

Whose semen are you retaining? lolz

 

[soulforge]

All things being equal yes, but the dating market is getting worse so realistically you're going to stay about the same

Yeh it's not easy outhere right now.

 

[oc16]

Do you look 46?

I mean some people look there age.. I don't.

I don't think so, I can pass for late 30's for sure.

 

[soulforge]

Whose semen are you retaining? lolz

Well I broke my streak of 8 weeks recently, as smashed this girl, she was hot couldn't resist.

Back on retaining again now.

 

[soulforge]

I don't think so, I can pass for late 30's for sure.

Your good then dude.

If you can pass for 37, you could potentially pull in a 25 year old

 

[Black Widow Void]

Once you are over 35, ask yourself this question: What do you; a 35+ year old man have to offer a mid 20's or younger girl.. that someone her own age cannot? True. If you have money, status etc... you do have some leverage, but for the status quo 35+ man, the odds dwindle with age.

Opportunities can still occur, but for the avg 35+ man, they will not be as frequent. A couple of years ago, I made out with a 23 year old (I was 58). I also had a chance to go home with (what I thought was) a girl in her mid 20's. She looked it, but turned out she was 32. But let's be real. This isn't some braggart moment. I'm fairly certain that my situations were a matter of right place at the right time.

If you look decent, and know how to communicate with women... it's not entirely game over with women in their 20's, but don't fool yourself. It becomes more a matter of right place/right time.

The reason that I didn't escalate with the 23 year old? At 58, I felt kind of creepy just french kissing a 23 year old. The 32 year old looked even better, but she was divorced with a kid at her house and I was too drunk to think of driving home after the fact.

 

[Gamisch]

One online article said a mens sexual desirability peaks at 50, while a women's starts high at 18 and slowly drops from there.

Anyways, I think the 20–29-year range is rough for most men (myself included when I was that age) due to lack of resources and life experience. Most men are broke in their 20's.

30's were a little better since most men at this age have figured it out career wise and now have some cash.

It seemed to be easier in attracting younger women (early to mid 20's) than in the 20's.

What about men 45-55? Is it easier to attract a woman 10 to 15 years younger at 47 than it was at 35?

I am talking about men who are still in shape, not these other guys who was noticeably out of shape and go out in jogging pants and hoodies. My old boss once said, "Men become invisible to women (younger women) at aged 55. I have 9 years to go! haha

One online article said a mens sexual desirability peaks at 50, while a women's starts high at 18 and slowly drops from there.

Anyways, I think the 20–29-year range is rough for most men (myself included when I was that age) due to lack of resources and life experience. Most men are broke in their 20's.

30's were a little better since most men at this age have figured it out career wise and now have some cash.

It seemed to be easier in attracting younger women (early to mid 20's) than in the 20's.

What about men 45-55? Is it easier to attract a woman 10 to 15 years younger at 47 than it was at 35?

I am talking about men who are still in shape, not these other guys who was noticeably out of shape and go out in jogging pants and hoodies. My old boss once said, "Men become invisible to women (younger women) at aged 55. I have 9 years to go! haha

Nope. Old myths . Lets also never forget these articles somehow use the George Clooneys and Morgan Freemans of fhis world as their prime example. Aka outliers. Should YOU on a individual level STRIFE to be that? Hell yeah!!!

But, OLD has changed the game completely. Think..the immense internet change. Most men REFUSE to acknowledge this.

At this point it's like the manosphere still uses landlines with the oldschool "put you finger in and spin to the number" phones and drives to the other side of the country for a simple purchase,ignoring the fact that there are mobile phones and Amazon like sites : reality has changed ,and thus most "older" laws don't apply anymore


On a individual level every woman will be able to land her some D if needed. I just explained in another post how prostitution =demand for p00s= demand for all kinds of women. We already see AI created women ,and Very soon there will be sex robots. Especially in this environment.

MONEY. EUROS, DINERO. PIENIĄDZE.

The ONLY thing we as man have over women is : we TEND to be smarter and stronger, thus we can make more money more ways. We can work harder, longer and more complex and /or riskier jobs than most women.

If you somehow leverage this, you can (no pun intended) SEEK an ARRANGEMENT with the type of woman you like. Eventually most women will sell p00s anyway, because after a while that "abundance of D" gets old, and she "might as well" do something nasty if it pays right.

 

[Gamisch]

Once you are over 35, ask yourself this question: What do you; a 35+ year old man have to offer a mid 20's or younger girl.. that someone her own age cannot? True. If you have money, status etc... you do have some leverage, but for the status quo 35+ man, the odds dwindle with age.

Opportunities can still occur, but for the avg 35+ man, they will not be as frequent. A couple of years ago, I made out with a 23 year old (I was 58). I also had a chance to go home with (what I thought was) a girl in her mid 20's. She looked it, but turned out she was 32. But let's be real. This isn't some braggart moment. I'm fairly certain that my situations were a matter of right place at the right time.

If you look decent, and know how to communicate with women... it's not entirely game over with women in their 20's, but don't fool yourself. It becomes more a matter of right place/right time.

The reason that I didn't escalate with the 23 year old? At 58, I felt kind of creepy just french kissing a 23 year old. The 32 year old looked even better, but she was divorced with a kid at her house and I was too drunk to think of driving home after the fact.

This. Imma get a little philosophical with this one..

Ironically enough imo this is also the best way for a man to actually get there where OP wants to be: if you ACCEPT that the game is not for you anymore, you can focus on other shyte and thus create the financial leverage/abundance AND obtain the needed peace of mind that's necessary to "stay " successful with women long term.

A 40+ year old man imo ,who knows the game , shouldn't be chasing women purely to spend time ,money and resources on them anymore. Love is a battlefield, and fighting is a young man's game...at some point that ship has sailed. (Funnily enough the thread about the 35 y.o virgin is the page I accidentally bookmarked, so every time when I go to sosauve I see that thread. )

I pray for all my SS brother that they'll all have a 100/ 200 notch count before 40...you don't wanna be running around at parties and festivals where there are only lower 20 some y.o women . All the time. Once in a while..but not on a weekly basis anymore!

The moment you let go of your (irrational) need for p00sy, you can FINALLY focus on other things. From that moment on a man can actually reach great heights, and become something so great he'd never even imagined he could (still) become.

But that will be SO MUCH HARDER when you have a nagging woman who feeds off you ,cheats on you ,demands all kinds of bs that will cost you real money. Let alone having a young child aka another money drain.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Well I broke my streak of 8 weeks recently, as smashed this girl, she was hot couldn't resist.

Back on retaining again now.

Did you instantly break out in cystic acne?

 

[sangheilios]

Once you are over 35, ask yourself this question: What do you; a 35+ year old man have to offer a mid 20's or younger girl.. that someone her own age cannot? True. If you have money, status etc... you do have some leverage, but for the status quo 35+ man, the odds dwindle with age.

Opportunities can still occur, but for the avg 35+ man, they will not be as frequent. A couple of years ago, I made out with a 23 year old (I was 58). I also had a chance to go home with (what I thought was) a girl in her mid 20's. She looked it, but turned out she was 32. But let's be real. This isn't some braggart moment. I'm fairly certain that my situations were a matter of right place at the right time.

If you look decent, and know how to communicate with women... it's not entirely game over with women in their 20's, but don't fool yourself. It becomes more a matter of right place/right time.

The reason that I didn't escalate with the 23 year old? At 58, I felt kind of creepy just french kissing a 23 year old. The 32 year old looked even better, but she was divorced with a kid at her house and I was too drunk to think of driving home after the fact.

I'd also say how young the woman is a huge factor. A guy that is 35-40 going for women that are 27-32 really isn't all that ridiculous to be honest, especially if he was in shape, did well for himself, etc. However, at 35-40 it would be ridiculous to expect to pull 18-22 lol, these women are barely out of high school and you should have nothing in common with them. Dating an "older guy" for women in this age range would also vary, for an 18-20 year old it would probably be a guy that is 21-22, for a girl that is 21-22 "older" is probably a guy that is like 24-27.

 

[savi0r]

I'd also say how young the woman is a huge factor. A guy that is 35-40 going for women that are 27-32 really isn't all that ridiculous to be honest, especially if he was in shape, did well for himself, etc. However, at 35-40 it would be ridiculous to expect to pull 18-22 lol, these women are barely out of high school and you should have nothing in common with them. Dating an "older guy" for women in this age range would also vary, for an 18-20 year old it would probably be a guy that is 21-22, for a girl that is 21-22 "older" is probably a guy that is like 24-27.

This is objective thinking and I can relate to that. At 37 myself, I'm looking to settle down. I am no longer interested in the 18-25 years old range. I have my life in order and I think I can get a 27-32 year old girl to marry and this ,I think, is realistic .

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I wasn't doing badly when I was younger, but I really hit my stride in my fifties. And the more flexible shibari bunnies tend to be 20-35y.

 

[soulforge]

Did you instantly break out in cystic acne?

No not at all.. however I definitely didn't feel as good as I did, through my retaining period.

 

[Bigpapa]

I'm fairly certain that my situations were a matter of right place at the right time.

One of the biggest factors in dating is being at the right at the right time. People tend to forget this

You can be the most amazing guy on earth, if you do not go where women go, you will not do a thing