One of my hottest ever spells was also when I was unemployed tbh. Although it was probably just coincidence to some extent, for me at least. (although I guess it still shows that very young women/girls don't care at all about that sort of stuff in general. Whether you work or not or are 'successful' or not etc. They just need to think you are hot)
Right.
In the situation of white collar males who tend to meet white collar females, I tend to think that there's an expectation that the white collar male is employed. I would think that a lot of white collar females would look down on a white collar male for unemployment. The problem with unemployment becomes getting laid on dates. Women aren't impressed when they find out a man is unemployed on a date, unless that man looks like a criminal dirtbag with multiple tattoos. If a man looks like a basic, white collar guy, it isn't impressive. I have direct experience in this area. I have had periods of unemployment and tried to use Roosh's method of saying you are unemployed when the subject arises. That didn't go over too well. It's very difficult to convince younger women (under 40) that you are worthwhile while you are unemployed, even if you aren't at risk for homelessness soon.
I also found that reason for unemployment doesn't matter. My unemployment was shorter term as well.
Most white collar guys will get judged on their money/career achievements. Watch what happens when a white collar man in a longer term relationship becomes unemployed. He stands a good chance of losing his girlfriend or wife during unemployment. A typical white collar man's SMV is more tied to his job than the SMV of a blue collar or McJob worker man. A blue collar worker or McJob worker might be able to withstand a period of unemployment better in terms of keeping women attracted to him than a white collar worker. Blue collar males and McJob working males tend to date lower income McJob/service sector type females. These are the types of females that less commonly interact with white collar males.
Unemployment is a miserable experience. These two women I had flings with were an accountant and a recently-divorced staffing executive. I met them though Match.com. One lived on the same street as me.
No game was required. These women simply liked my personality and screwing me.
One asked for a pen-s picture during our first phone conversation. Our first “date” was in her basement. For our second date, she paid for dinner, and we had sex two times after. I would sometimes sleep over and stay at her house during the day while she was at work because I had no job to wake up to. She actually said, “whenever you need a blowj0b, just ask”. She once had a phone convo while intermittently fell@ting me on her knees. She would provide literal full body massages as I lied nude while we watched movies.
I’m not even a gorgeous man. I’m modestly attractive and have a serious gym bod. I call the above dynamic sperm/DNA game. It simply entails a woman wanting to have sex with a man because of his mind (personality) and physicality, by “being himself”. No money, no job, no status, or jestermaxxing required.
I’m not saying this to brag, but to state what’s out there. I actually felt loving feelings for these women, as they were both intelligent, nice, and not nuts. The divorcee remarried. I saw a pic of her husband long ago and he has a striking resemblance of me facially.