Do you actually enjoy approaching women #2025 (YES I DO!!!)

[GoodMan32]

I made that post before I saw your post asking me to stop posting on your thread.

This post here will be the last post I make on this thread.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I enjoy it far more than I enjoy not-approaching and beating myself up for it.

My only discomfort from approaching isn't actually rooted in a fear of rejection or embarassment, but the contrary: knowing that if it goes well I am now burdened to perform and act decisively to not fvck it up, and that pressure can be uncomfortable, but it's rarely an issue except in certain situations (typically "mixed sets").

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

The list of "reasons" we have it better is pretty short (and some of the reasons don't even apply to some men). Here are the common arguments I hear:

• We tend to be physically stronger on average (which isn't true in my case)

• As the topic of this thread indicates, we're expected to do the approaching, which many folks say is an advantage, as we can (theoretically at least) approach infinite gals, whereas a woman is "stuck" with choosing between whichever men approach her (As you've pointed out, however, it can also be a disadvantage, as there's all sorts of stuff that can go wrong when a man approaches a woman. Plus, some men simply aren't cut out to make the first move. It's pretty fvcked up that we live in a society where us men who aren't cut out to make the first move get sidelined even if we have good looks)

• We're at less risk of getting raped (Many a woman will use this as a rebuttal to the argument that a woman can get partners/dates a lot easier than a man. The woman's argument is essentially "Yeah, we can get dates/partners easier...but we also have to deal with a higher risk of getting raped." This is perhaps the one point that's true across the board. It's a fact a woman is far more likely to get raped than a man is. And obviously rape is wrong. Regardless, however, the topic of who's more likely to get raped is a totally separate issue from which gender can get dates/sex easier. It really shouldn't get used as a rebuttal to a man's valid grievances)

• We don't have to sit to urinate (While true, here's why that's not exactly the gotcha a woman thinks it is: It is possible for a woman to stand even without the help of those funnels. I'd know; I've seen it with my own 2 eyes. It's harder for a woman to stand, yeah, but it can be learned. Society has merely conditioned a woman to think she needs to sit. I know a woman who had been brainwashed to think she had to sit for about 6 decades; once I told her about a standing female method, it's like a new world was opened up to her)

Yeah, reading that long statement or quote from that pick up artist guy really pissed me off, despite the advantages that men have over women, men are naturally always more at risk than women are at being forever alone/single or a virgin later than normal obviously, and i know i'm a broken record on this, i'm in good company for this, womens social awkwardness/ineptness is never dismissed as weird or creepy, uncomfortable, when interacting with the other gender, obviously not true for men though.

Yet, people and society just expect men to just naturally instinctively "get it" for knowing how to never be creepy or weird around women, never make them uncomfortable, never have awkward interactions that result in that.

 

[Gamisch]

Yeah, reading that long statement or quote from that pick up artist guy really pissed me off, despite the advantages that men have over women, men are naturally always more at risk than women are at being forever alone/single or a virgin later than normal obviously, and i know i'm a broken record on this, i'm in good company for this, womens social awkwardness/ineptness is never dismissed as weird or creepy, uncomfortable, when interacting with the other gender, obviously not true for men though.

Yet, people and society just expect men to just naturally instinctively "get it" for knowing how to never be creepy or weird around women, never make them uncomfortable, never have awkward interactions that result in that.

That's why the fecking thread was made: to find ways to navigate through it and make it easier.

It would be appreciated if you guys either share information that can help the community with the "dawning task" of approaching, or you guys should take this complaining elsewhere. You are free to make a new thread...

It's kinda disrespectful to be complaining always and everywhere even after people ask you polite to cut it out. Also shows how extremely egotistical you guys are. No regards for anything else expect your own feelings.

No wonder women avoid you guys like the plague.

 

[Borknagar]

LOL I totally forgot I was the first reply. The dude that started it looks to not have posted since 2002.
Who "enjoys" approaching women? | SoSuave Discussion Forum

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

That's why the fecking thread was made: to find ways to navigate through it and make it easier.

It would be appreciated if you guys either share information that can help the community with the "dawning task" of approaching, or you guys should take this complaining elsewhere. You are free to make a new thread...

It's kinda disrespectful to be complaining always and everywhere even after people ask you polite to cut it out. Also shows how extremely egotistical you guys are. No regards for anything else expect your own feelings.

No wonder women avoid you guys like the plague.

Well we have a right to feel the way we do because of awkward interactions we've had with women in the past just for approaching them, awkward interactions in which we accidentally made women uncomfortable or got perceived as weird/creepy, and yes i know i'm a broken record on that, but its a fact that womens social awkwardness/ineptness is normally never perceived or dismissed as weird/creepy/uncomfortable in social interactions between the 2 sexes.

Yet, part of the broken record, men are just naturally expected to like be born with the knowledge or social inuition, social calibration, social IQ, for knowing what is creepy/weird/uncomfortable behavior and what is NOT when approaching/interacting with women, and the world is obviously never going to be patient enough to understand men on the ASD spectrum, goes to show how the world will never come to save you if you're a guy, but it will if you're a woman.

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

Talk to any guy that's actually had women
overreact
and accuse him of being creepy or weird, making them uncomfortable when approaching them and he will tell you it's one of the worst things or embarrassing things to ever happen to him, even when that guy or man was harmless and he had good kind intentions going into the interaction.

It just feels more risky or unsafe than ever to approach these days. it fills me with anger and rage on how people and society expect men to have natural common sense for knowing what is creepy behavior and what is not when approaching/interacting with women, because of that, no wonder lots of men swear off on talking to women forever due to negative, bad experiences, from when approaching, interacting with women, not because of rejection, but because their approaches or advances were viewed as dangerous or uncomfortable, weird, their advances get called creepy or labeled as predators, made the woman uncomfortable.

It angers me a lot because, lots of men get perceived that way and they unfortuneately never knew, they were never aware of what they did wrong when approaching or interacting with women, they just didn't know, because of that, i have the mindset that, men are the only gender that have to go through social failure, make painful mistakes socially in order to get better at talking to or interacting with the other sex, not women.

Its impossible for women to get labeled creepy or weird, uncomfortable by men, that is a fact.

Thats how it looks like or seems like, yes im aware that women have their own problems to deal with, men and women have different problems when it comes to dating, but for women, messing up socially when interacting with men that causes the other sex to feel uncomfortable, creeped out or weird, is never an issue for women.

It just pisses me off when people say to guys " don't be creepy or weird then". okay that's another angry reminder on how people and Society just expect us guys to have common sense or they just expect us to have the social intuition, social calibration,for knowing what is creepy or weird behavior and what is not when interacting with women. I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has long had anger and hatred over the double standard in which.

Men's social awkwardness or social ineptness easily be perceived or dismissed as weird or creepy or uncomfortable around the opposite sex but not the other way around. Women's social awkwardness or social ineptness is normally perceived as cute adorable or people won't care.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

At bars/clubs yes.
Elsewhere: less so.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I enjoy phucking with them for sh1ts and giggles

 

[Gamisch]

Talk to any guy that's actually had women
overreact
and accuse him of being creepy or weird, making them uncomfortable when approaching them and he will tell you it's one of the worst things or embarrassing things to ever happen to him, even when that guy or man was harmless and he had good kind intentions going into the interaction.

It just feels more risky or unsafe than ever to approach these days. it fills me with anger and rage on how people and society expect men to have natural common sense for knowing what is creepy behavior and what is not when approaching/interacting with women, because of that, no wonder lots of men swear off on talking to women forever due to negative, bad experiences, from when approaching, interacting with women, not because of rejection, but because their approaches or advances were viewed as dangerous or uncomfortable, weird, their advances get called creepy or labeled as predators, made the woman uncomfortable.

It angers me a lot because, lots of men get perceived that way and they unfortuneately never knew, they were never aware of what they did wrong when approaching or interacting with women, they just didn't know, because of that, i have the mindset that, men are the only gender that have to go through social failure, make painful mistakes socially in order to get better at talking to or interacting with the other sex, not women.

Its impossible for women to get labeled creepy or weird, uncomfortable by men, that is a fact.

Thats how it looks like or seems like, yes im aware that women have their own problems to deal with, men and women have different problems when it comes to dating, but for women, messing up socially when interacting with men that causes the other sex to feel uncomfortable, creeped out or weird, is never an issue for women.

It just pisses me off when people say to guys " don't be creepy or weird then". okay that's another angry reminder on how people and Society just expect us guys to have common sense or they just expect us to have the social intuition, social calibration,for knowing what is creepy or weird behavior and what is not when interacting with women. I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has long had anger and hatred over the double standard in which.

Men's social awkwardness or social ineptness easily be perceived or dismissed as weird or creepy or uncomfortable around the opposite sex but not the other way around. Women's social awkwardness or social ineptness is normally perceived as cute adorable or people won't care.

Well, to be honest nobody cares about a man's anger/ struggle/ pain/ problems because he can't get xyz in or out of life. It's the winners that get to write the history books.

That's why we are here . To encourage each other instead of playing that broken record about how hard it is.

EVERY man that's chasing women will run into one that will make it as difficult as possible (aka sometimes even humiliate him). That's why the rewards are so big. Because most men have that crabs in the bucket mentality and they scare each other. If I'm reading your posts I'd think that women are monsters from a horror movie.

What do you actually want? Why are you kn tbe forum? To learn? Or just to vent your frustration? Because I've noticed that you will simply ignore encouraging comments and just rage on like a madman. You want help or WHUT?

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

Well, to be honest nobody cares about a man's anger/ struggle/ pain/ problems because he can't get xyz in or out of life. It's the winners that get to write the history books.

That's why we are here . To encourage each other instead of playing that broken record about how hard it is.

EVERY man that's chasing women will run into one that will make it as difficult as possible (aka sometimes even humiliate him). That's why the rewards are so big. Because most men have that crabs in the bucket mentality and they scare each other. If I'm reading your posts I'd think that women are monsters from a horror movie.

What do you actually want? Why are you kn tbe forum? To learn? Or just to vent your frustration? Because I've noticed that you will simply ignore encouraging comments and just rage on like a madman. You want help or WHUT?

yup, even you admit that only society and the world cares about womens pains/struggles/anger, but not mens, so in other words, its a good thing if men have awkward interactions with women that result in men getting thrown the creepy/weird label, are men to supposed to enjoy those reactions from women?

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Obviously inspired by the 20 year old thread that's running now.

Iam converted back to my previous "religion ". I am back to enjoying women for who and what they are, enjoy approach, rejection, flirting, fecking, and even the wishy-washy nature of women. I love the interaction that only women can give a man, the feeling of taking risks that makes me feel alive.

It's a brand new year and we need POSITIVE propaganda. We need to ENCOURAGE each other . Yeah yeah we know that female nature is this and that. We know now...all that negative talk brings us nowhere. It offer NO SOLUTION.

I'm working on myself everyday, so I have reasons to believe my approach is justified. I am the king in my own mind. A boss. With a smooth mouthpiece some serious D game.

Do I enjoy interacting with women? HELL FECKING YEAH!!!

Women are boring

Approaching women is boss hogg

But if you succeed, you end up with a boring woman

If you don't succeed, you end up lonely

I'm not sure which is worse

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Women are like children. You have to baby them through life.

If you don't want children, always keep women (mentally) in a place you can drop them

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

doesn't matter, men will always be stuck with this role or burden whether they hate it or not