Do you actually enjoy approaching women #2025 (YES I DO!!!)

[GoodMan32]

I made that post before I saw your post asking me to stop posting on your thread.

This post here will be the last post I make on this thread.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I enjoy it far more than I enjoy not-approaching and beating myself up for it.

My only discomfort from approaching isn't actually rooted in a fear of rejection or embarassment, but the contrary: knowing that if it goes well I am now burdened to perform and act decisively to not fvck it up, and that pressure can be uncomfortable, but it's rarely an issue except in certain situations (typically "mixed sets").

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

The list of "reasons" we have it better is pretty short (and some of the reasons don't even apply to some men). Here are the common arguments I hear:

• We tend to be physically stronger on average (which isn't true in my case)

• As the topic of this thread indicates, we're expected to do the approaching, which many folks say is an advantage, as we can (theoretically at least) approach infinite gals, whereas a woman is "stuck" with choosing between whichever men approach her (As you've pointed out, however, it can also be a disadvantage, as there's all sorts of stuff that can go wrong when a man approaches a woman. Plus, some men simply aren't cut out to make the first move. It's pretty fvcked up that we live in a society where us men who aren't cut out to make the first move get sidelined even if we have good looks)

• We're at less risk of getting raped (Many a woman will use this as a rebuttal to the argument that a woman can get partners/dates a lot easier than a man. The woman's argument is essentially "Yeah, we can get dates/partners easier...but we also have to deal with a higher risk of getting raped." This is perhaps the one point that's true across the board. It's a fact a woman is far more likely to get raped than a man is. And obviously rape is wrong. Regardless, however, the topic of who's more likely to get raped is a totally separate issue from which gender can get dates/sex easier. It really shouldn't get used as a rebuttal to a man's valid grievances)

• We don't have to sit to urinate (While true, here's why that's not exactly the gotcha a woman thinks it is: It is possible for a woman to stand even without the help of those funnels. I'd know; I've seen it with my own 2 eyes. It's harder for a woman to stand, yeah, but it can be learned. Society has merely conditioned a woman to think she needs to sit. I know a woman who had been brainwashed to think she had to sit for about 6 decades; once I told her about a standing female method, it's like a new world was opened up to her)

Yeah, reading that long statement or quote from that pick up artist guy really pissed me off, despite the advantages that men have over women, men are naturally always more at risk than women are at being forever alone/single or a virgin later than normal obviously, and i know i'm a broken record on this, i'm in good company for this, womens social awkwardness/ineptness is never dismissed as weird or creepy, uncomfortable, when interacting with the other gender, obviously not true for men though.

Yet, people and society just expect men to just naturally instinctively "get it" for knowing how to never be creepy or weird around women, never make them uncomfortable, never have awkward interactions that result in that.

 

[Gamisch]

Yeah, reading that long statement or quote from that pick up artist guy really pissed me off, despite the advantages that men have over women, men are naturally always more at risk than women are at being forever alone/single or a virgin later than normal obviously, and i know i'm a broken record on this, i'm in good company for this, womens social awkwardness/ineptness is never dismissed as weird or creepy, uncomfortable, when interacting with the other gender, obviously not true for men though.

Yet, people and society just expect men to just naturally instinctively "get it" for knowing how to never be creepy or weird around women, never make them uncomfortable, never have awkward interactions that result in that.

That's why the fecking thread was made: to find ways to navigate through it and make it easier.

It would be appreciated if you guys either share information that can help the community with the "dawning task" of approaching, or you guys should take this complaining elsewhere. You are free to make a new thread...

It's kinda disrespectful to be complaining always and everywhere even after people ask you polite to cut it out. Also shows how extremely egotistical you guys are. No regards for anything else expect your own feelings.

No wonder women avoid you guys like the plague.

 

[Borknagar]

LOL I totally forgot I was the first reply. The dude that started it looks to not have posted since 2002.
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[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

That's why the fecking thread was made: to find ways to navigate through it and make it easier.

It would be appreciated if you guys either share information that can help the community with the "dawning task" of approaching, or you guys should take this complaining elsewhere. You are free to make a new thread...

It's kinda disrespectful to be complaining always and everywhere even after people ask you polite to cut it out. Also shows how extremely egotistical you guys are. No regards for anything else expect your own feelings.

No wonder women avoid you guys like the plague.

Well we have a right to feel the way we do because of awkward interactions we've had with women in the past just for approaching them, awkward interactions in which we accidentally made women uncomfortable or got perceived as weird/creepy, and yes i know i'm a broken record on that, but its a fact that womens social awkwardness/ineptness is normally never perceived or dismissed as weird/creepy/uncomfortable in social interactions between the 2 sexes.

Yet, part of the broken record, men are just naturally expected to like be born with the knowledge or social inuition, social calibration, social IQ, for knowing what is creepy/weird/uncomfortable behavior and what is NOT when approaching/interacting with women, and the world is obviously never going to be patient enough to understand men on the ASD spectrum, goes to show how the world will never come to save you if you're a guy, but it will if you're a woman.