Originally posted by biker_gixxer
I totally understand where our boy is coming from Kevin, I just think it's the wrong way to approach it. I've reacted the same way in the past and it's gotten me nowhere. Getting pissed off did only one thing, made me look insecure and weak.
Quick note. Don't expect her to 'learn her lesson' if she's laughing her ass off bro.
Anyway, good luck, keep us posted.
If she is laughing her ass off then she is useless to him. When it comes to love there is only one way to act. You can't play games or use manipulation tactics. In your case, uou should be thankfull that it got you no place. At least you didn't make a dumb mistake and get hooked up with those hoes.
If however he was just interested in keeping her around as one of his girls then you are correct he should just ignore it and not worry about it. It is al about the poon in that case.
Don't you agree that people who are worried about looking insecure ARE insecure? There is nothing wrong with telling a woman off if she is out of line. There is nothing wrong with being pissed off. A woman that calls you insecure for sticking up for how you feel isn't someone you need. How can a man honestly love a woman that doesn't respect him?
Do you know why so many feminized f-uck dolls call men insecure? It is because they want to discourage men from being men. Women toss the word "insecure" around all the time. It is their explanation for everything a man does wrong. Feminized women don’t want you to assert your natural dominance. They know that when a man confronts a woman regarding a disrespectful act he asserts his dominance. When a woman makes you feel insecure about acting on your gut instincts they win and you become a chump.
Can you explain to me how confronting a woman about her disrespect is an insecure act? How can a man honestly live with himself if he isn’t secure enough with his own natural instincts?
Does a man not have to first be secure with himself in order to command respect? Why should a man be insecure about his importance?
Just stick up for yourself in life. When a woman calls you insecure ignore it. They don’t know what they are talking about and don’t respect a man for being a man.
This is why I don't go after americanize f-cuk dolls for a LTR.
and if she wants to see ME again, she will need to get on her f*cking knees and beg for my company... *sigh* dont wirry about that... i'll show her that 2 can play that game! 
