A man needs to work with whatever "in" the woman gives him.
Without formally asking a man for a date, a woman can subtly offer him an opportunity. Then (if he is smooth and she is willing) he can quickly turn it into something romantic. I just moved to a new town and here are some examples of women who made it easy for me:
Girl A (a dealer at the casino) immediately put her cheek out for me to kiss her and she gave me her casino card as I sat down. I said "Are there pictures of you on your web site?" and she said "Yes, you can follow me!" so I agreed. The next morning I was able to send her a message online and she replied. It quickly led to a date.
Girl B (a barmaid), the second time I saw her, remembered exact details of our first conversation, already had a name for me ("You're my soft talker" she said) and (without my asking) told me her work schedule with precision, so I said "I don't want to leave anything to chance. Write your number down for me."
Girl C (a stripper) complimented a particular garment I had and said she was a "fashion snob" and that she made her own clothing (she later showed me her hand-crafted underwear).
Girl D (a cashier) commented on how one of the movies I was buying was good, and just "looked a little too long" as I was leaving. In this case I have rehearsed my next "act" when I see her next. (If the man fails to seize these moments, all is lost).
Girl E (health food merchant at the grocery store) showed me the product she was selling and handed me her card as we were talking. Acting skeptical, I told her I had to go and research it online and as I was leaving I asked: "Is your email on your card?" "Yes". "Should I write to you?" "Yes". "Are you single?" "Yes".
If no such "green light" is provided to the man, he should remain idle. In the above scenarios, with the woman offering and the man watching for buying signals (which come either directly or indirectly through body language), neither party is ever rejected. If there are formal events then simply offering dates is appropriate. "I am going to this place at this time if you'd like to join me". But then go either way.
Without formally asking a man for a date, a woman can subtly offer him an opportunity. Then (if he is smooth and she is willing) he can quickly turn it into something romantic. I just moved to a new town and here are some examples of women who made it easy for me:
Girl A (a dealer at the casino) immediately put her cheek out for me to kiss her and she gave me her casino card as I sat down. I said "Are there pictures of you on your web site?" and she said "Yes, you can follow me!" so I agreed. The next morning I was able to send her a message online and she replied. It quickly led to a date.
Girl B (a barmaid), the second time I saw her, remembered exact details of our first conversation, already had a name for me ("You're my soft talker" she said) and (without my asking) told me her work schedule with precision, so I said "I don't want to leave anything to chance. Write your number down for me."
Girl C (a stripper) complimented a particular garment I had and said she was a "fashion snob" and that she made her own clothing (she later showed me her hand-crafted underwear).
Girl D (a cashier) commented on how one of the movies I was buying was good, and just "looked a little too long" as I was leaving. In this case I have rehearsed my next "act" when I see her next. (If the man fails to seize these moments, all is lost).
Girl E (health food merchant at the grocery store) showed me the product she was selling and handed me her card as we were talking. Acting skeptical, I told her I had to go and research it online and as I was leaving I asked: "Is your email on your card?" "Yes". "Should I write to you?" "Yes". "Are you single?" "Yes".
If no such "green light" is provided to the man, he should remain idle. In the above scenarios, with the woman offering and the man watching for buying signals (which come either directly or indirectly through body language), neither party is ever rejected. If there are formal events then simply offering dates is appropriate. "I am going to this place at this time if you'd like to join me". But then go either way.