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[rjc149]

Women are only nice to people who are useful to them. That’s not blackpill talk, that’s just how it is if you stop and observe it. I dunno how many women I’ve dated that turned flat out cold towards me after they decided to end it with me. It was like a personality shift.

Yes that is black pill talk with your typical misogynist spin on it. Maybe you've only encountered manipulative narcissist women?

I get the sense you're the type of guy who does not take breakups well. I'm guessing you get pretty vindictive and nasty with them -- I mean, you're already quite vindictive and nasty about them on this forum. Hence your consistent experience of women switching gears with you when you don't accept their decision gracefully and leave them alone.

 

[Robert28]

Yes that is black pill talk with your typical misogynist spin on it. Maybe you've only encountered manipulative narcissist women?

I get the sense you're the type of guy who does not take breakups well. I'm guessing you get pretty vindictive and nasty with them -- I mean, you're already quite vindictive and nasty about them on this forum. Hence your consistent experience of women switching gears with you when you don't accept their decision gracefully and leave them alone.

Well if you call deleting them off social media and deleting and blocking their number “not taking breakups or ejection well”, then ok. Do I cuss them out and call them names? Nope. Why don’t you tell us how to handle breakups the blue pill way? What should we do, still agree to be friends?

 

[rjc149]

Well if you call deleting them off social media and deleting and blocking their number “not taking breakups or ejection well”, then ok. Do I cuss them out and call them names? Nope. Why don’t you tell us how to handle breakups the blue pill way? What should we do, still agree to be friends?

It’s not about being red or blue pill. I just don’t seem to have the same bad experiences with women as you do.

 

[Robert28]

It’s not about being red or blue pill. I just don’t seem to have the same bad experiences with women as you do.

Never said all my experiences were bad. You think because you haven’t had bad experiences that means no one should have bad experiences.lol That’s why I asked you in another thread if you were a late bloomer when it came to women and dating because it sounds like it.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Why do they match you and even chat a bit with no intention of meeting up?

To boost their self-image and ego.
What else is there?

Social media is for women like crack to a junkie. They are way too addicted to quit and are always seeking for the new fix and a new high.

Remember that women's brains are by nature wired much differently than us men and that it is specifically wired towards the social side.

The female brain has a much larger social center than male brains do which is obviously something that all social media companies are very aware of and such builds their platform to feed that social addiction.

 

[rjc149]

Never said all my experiences were bad. You think because you haven’t had bad experiences that means no one should have bad experiences.lol That’s why I asked you in another thread if you were a late bloomer when it came to women and dating because it sounds like it.

Do you think I’ve never had bad experiences with women? Do you think I’ve never been wronged and hurt by women?

Your experiences don’t define you. It’s how you view those experiences and how you let them mold you. Whether you grow from them or deteriorate.

In your case, bad experiences with women has filled you with resentment, bitterness and what often appears to be hatred for the entire gender.

In my experience, bad experiences with women are confined to those specific women and the women who demonstrate their personality traits. I’m wary of them, but I don’t hate them. Everyone is fighting a battle you know nothing about.

 

[Robert28]

Do you think I’ve never had bad experiences with women? Do you think I’ve never been wronged and hurt by women?

Your experiences don’t define you. It’s how you view those experiences and how you let them mold you. Whether you grow from them or deteriorate.

In your case, bad experiences with women has filled you with resentment, bitterness and what often appears to be hatred for the entire gender.

In my experience, bad experiences with women are confined to those specific women and the women who demonstrate their personality traits. I’m wary of them, but I don’t hate them. Everyone is fighting a battle you know nothing about.

Your last line is very true. Just like you have no idea the battles someone else is fighting. I don’t hate women, to hate them wouldn’t do me any good and would take away from my happiness in other aspects of my life. I just don’t date women right now, don’t talk to them unless I’m forced to interact with them, and I damn sure don’t let their games be played on me. I do think a lot of women are narcissistic *******s though.

 

[rjc149]

I don’t hate women... I just don’t date women right now, don’t talk to them unless I’m forced to interact with them,

...I damn sure don’t let their games be played on me.

I do think a lot of women are narcissistic *******s though.

Lol no I think you hate women. You're a raging and unabashed misogynist. I think you're just backing off from the confrontation here. Essentially everything you write demonstrates a clear, readily observable contempt for women.

I'm not trying to antagonize you, but I think it's important to call out the relentlessly dour and bitter posts you write about women, which is usually some sort of baseless generalization and negative conclusion about them. That "they're all this" and "they all want that" etc. etc.

You can insist that you got 99 problems but a b!tch ain't one. But if you had no interest in women, you wouldn't be in a seduction forum. So my advice to you, if you want to drop the alpha posing like so many others here do and actually have good relationships with women, stop hating them.

 

[Robert28]

Lol no I think you hate women. You're a raging and unabashed misogynist. I think you're just backing off from the confrontation here. Essentially everything you write demonstrates a clear, readily observable contempt for women.

I'm not trying to antagonize you, but I think it's important to call out the relentlessly dour and bitter posts you write about women, which is usually some sort of baseless generalization and negative conclusion about them. That "they're all this" and "they all want that" etc. etc.

You can insist that you got 99 problems but a b!tch ain't one. But if you had no interest in women, you wouldn't be in a seduction forum. So my advice to you, if you want to drop the alpha posing like so many others here do and actually have good relationships with women, stop hating them.

I’ve always thought it was weird when one guy calls another guy a misogynist. That’s wokanspeak and it makes me think you’re actually a woman posing as a man on here. You say I hate women, I say I don’t, we can argue this all day. I won’t spend any effort to change your mind though because it wouldn’t benefit me to do so.

 

[AttackFormation]

it makes me think you’re actually a woman posing as a man on here.

Haha! i gotta admit ive suspected the same from other threads

And in this thread for example, this seems like what a woman would write: "Maybe you've only encountered manipulative narcissist women?"

 

[Robert28]

Haha! i gotta admit ive suspected the same from other threads it's all right though.

If he’s not then he’s definitely spent a lot of time on women forums on Reddit and such places. I read Reddit a good bit and he’s saying a lot of things that are said on there by women about men. Word for word, even the arguments are the same.

 

[AttackFormation]

If he’s not then he’s definitely spent a lot of time on women forums on Reddit and such places. I read Reddit a good bit and he’s saying a lot of things that are said on there by women about men. Word for word, even the arguments are the same.

Yeah i just edited my post to include an example haha

 

[AttackFormation]

If he’s not then he’s definitely spent a lot of time on women forums on Reddit and such places. I read Reddit a good bit and he’s saying a lot of things that are said on there by women about men. Word for word, even the arguments are the same.

You know, i wish what women and white knights say on the internet was true since the picture they paint of dating for men is much better than reality. But the reason why im jaded (which i just accept) after my collective dating experience so far, is because it hasnt been true. When you read what they write though, it's as if they think we want our dating experience to be this way, and if we just "snapped out of our misogyny" then we would start having good experience.

It's kind of like victim blaming in that it both puts 100% of the agency on us for our experience and denies the validity of the "trauma" that builds up too. And i think the reason why they find us so despicable for having that experience and how it affects our mindsets, is because although theyll deny it to others and themselves, they do view men and women as different and they treat them differently. They see us as losers of the sexual competition within our tournament species, by evidence that women dont treat us the way they treat the men they really want to spread their legs for, and cant fully contain their contempt for us because of that.

If the 30 women i tried to send custom openers and the countless more i tried to match with this summer are all "manipulative narcissists", and that's why i got zero results again, there sure is a lot of them!

 

[Robert28]

You know, i wish what women and white knights say on the internet was true since the picture they paint of dating for men is much better than reality. But the reason why im jaded after my collective dating experience so far, is because it hasnt been true. When you read what they write though, it's as if they think we want our dating experience to be this way, and if we just "snapped out of our misogyny" then we would start having good experience.

It's kind of like victim blaming in that it both puts 100% of the agency on us for our experience and denies the validity of the "trauma" that builds up too. And i think the reason why they find us so despicable for having that experience and how it affects our mindsets, is because although theyll deny it to others and themselves, they do view men and women as different and they treat them differently. They see us as losers of the sexual competition within our tournament species, by evidence that women dont treat us the way they treat the men they really want to spread their legs for, and cant fully contain their contempt for us because of that.

If the 30 women i tried to send custom openers and the countless more i tried to match with this summer are all "manipulative narcissists", and that's why i got zero results again, there sure is a lot of them!

I could get laid tonight if I wanted to. The problem is I’m not interested in sticking my **** in a 30’s single mom who’s still carrying her pregnant weight from 2 years ago, who openly tells me she hoed around for 7 months (God only knows how many men and what types of men or what kind of std’s she has) and has an awful personality to boot. She’s called me a prude because I blow off her advances when the truth is I don’t think I could get it up if she took her clothes off. I wasn’t good enough for her back when she was hot and in her 20’s, so she’s damn sure not good enough for me now. That’s just one example of the bs I’m over with dating.

 

[rjc149]

If he’s not then he’s definitely spent a lot of time on women forums on Reddit and such places. I read Reddit a good bit and he’s saying a lot of things that are said on there by women about men. Word for word, even the arguments are the same.

Haha no. I've spent a lot of time around actual women, in real life. Unlike you. And it's not that I'm promoting a feminist agenda. I'm here offering advice on how to be better with women. With a guy like you, who really, really clearly fvcking hates women (despite pathetic denials to the contrary), you're your own worst enemy.

I could get laid tonight if I wanted to.

This is the most fake, laughable bullsh!t anyone has written on this thread. All you do here is piss, moan, whine, b!tch and complain. About women, about Chad, about everything. Which leads me to believe that you couldn't fvck a wet hole in the ground.

Haha! i gotta admit ive suspected the same from other threads

And in this thread for example, this seems like what a woman would write: "Maybe you've only encountered manipulative narcissist women?"

You trying to help this guy, or are you just an echo chamber for his whining now? I thought you actually had some substance.

 

[AttackFormation]

I could get laid tonight if I wanted to. The problem is I’m not interested in sticking my **** in a 30’s single mom who’s still carrying her pregnant weight from 2 years ago, who openly tells me she hoed around for 7 months (God only knows how many men and what types of men or what kind of std’s she has) and has an awful personality to boot. She’s called me a prude because I blow off her advances when the truth is I don’t think I could get it up if she took her clothes off. I wasn’t good enough for her back when she was hot and in her 20’s, so she’s damn sure not good enough for me now. That’s just one example of the bs I’m over with dating.

This is why i broke it off with the last girl i had sex with too, i was so unattracted to her that i couldnt even get fully hard, and being with her outside of sex was so much worse that overall i couldnt accept this spending of time as part of my life. For me it's definitely better to be celibate than have sex with women you dont like.

You trying to help this loser, or are you just an echo chamber for his whining now? I thought you actually had some substance.

I dont accept your dichotomy of either "helping a loser" or "being an echo chamber", and i dont need your validation. Im not afraid of being shamed. My posts are based on my decades long dating experience, and when i see posts that i can identify with, that's what i do. The reason why is because as a man, i have empathy with those experiences and reflections that women either do not have or cannot have. That's one reason why we are on this forum.

 

[rjc149]

It's kind of like victim blaming in that it both puts 100% of the agency on us for our experience and denies the validity of the "trauma" that builds up too.

It's interesting that you frame yourselves, men who struggle with women, as "victims" and that calling out the anger you direct toward women for denying you sex is akin to "victim blaming."

This is the core of the incel mindset -- that you have been "victimized" by society -- by women, by Chad, by Tinder, by this that etc.

Interesting and telling use of the word.

Sometimes "trauma" is valid, and sometimes, it's not. Some people feel trauma more acutely than others. Within the context of pickup and dating, the accumulation of "trauma" from the mundane rejection that men experience when approaching women is greater in some than in others.

It's clearly too great, for some people, for them to function as secure, confident men.

Apologizing for misogyny with the accumulation of "traumas" and "victimization" from women is just pathetic.

 

[rjc149]

TThat's one reason why we are on this forum.

I think you're on this forum, also, because it's a anonymous boy's club where you can express toxic sentiments about dating that would never fly in actual society.

I've experienced the same amount of rejection from women as is typical. More than some. Less than others. I reject the notion that one's experience with women speaks for every member of the gender.

 

[Robert28]

You could always get your revenge by making them think you're interested in a ltr, then pump and dump. Me personally, I wouldn't care if I was with a girl that I knew wouldn't have given me the time of day back in her better years. I'll get mine then eventually move on.

She’s so fat though. She’s disgusting now. I **** you not, she looks like shes 8 months pregnant, she sweats all the time because she’s fat and complains about it, she’s just nasty af now.

 

[AttackFormation]

It's interesting that you frame yourselves, men who struggle with women, as "victims" and that calling out the anger you direct toward women for denying you sex is akin to "victim blaming."

This is the core of the incel mindset -- that you have been "victimized" by society -- by women, by Chad, by Tinder, by this that etc.

Interesting and telling use of the word.

Sometimes "trauma" is valid, and sometimes, it's not. Some people feel trauma more acutely than others. Within the context of pickup and dating, the accumulation of "trauma" from the mundane rejection that men experience when approaching women is greater in some than in others.

It's clearly too great, for some people, for them to function as secure, confident men.

Apologizing for misogyny with the accumulation of "traumas" and "victimization" from women is just pathetic.

You are definitely a woman. In this case, the overt or covert shaming is what gives it away as clear as a summer day. Ive long found it very interesting how easy it is to tell, not always but in so many cases, whether the writer of something dating-related is a man or a woman.

But im one of the guys here who doesnt care much one way or the other about women being here, it's all right.