You know, i wish what women and white knights say on the internet was true since the picture they paint of dating for men is much better than reality. But the reason why im jaded after my collective dating experience so far, is because it hasnt been true. When you read what they write though, it's as if they think we want our dating experience to be this way, and if we just "snapped out of our misogyny" then we would start having good experience.
It's kind of like victim blaming in that it both puts 100% of the agency on us for our experience and denies the validity of the "trauma" that builds up too. And i think the reason why they find us so despicable for having that experience and how it affects our mindsets, is because although theyll deny it to others and themselves, they do view men and women as different and they treat them differently. They see us as losers of the sexual competition within our tournament species, by evidence that women dont treat us the way they treat the men they really want to spread their legs for, and cant fully contain their contempt for us because of that.
If the 30 women i tried to send custom openers and the countless more i tried to match with this summer are all "manipulative narcissists", and that's why i got zero results again, there sure is a lot of them!