Do attention h0es get satisfaction of stringing guys on?

[rjc149]

It's kind of like victim blaming in that it both puts 100% of the agency on us for our experience and denies the validity of the "trauma" that builds up too.

It's interesting that you frame yourselves, men who struggle with women, as "victims" and that calling out the anger you direct toward women for denying you sex is akin to "victim blaming."

This is the core of the incel mindset -- that you have been "victimized" by society -- by women, by Chad, by Tinder, by this that etc.

Interesting and telling use of the word.

Sometimes "trauma" is valid, and sometimes, it's not. Some people feel trauma more acutely than others. Within the context of pickup and dating, the accumulation of "trauma" from the mundane rejection that men experience when approaching women is greater in some than in others.

It's clearly too great, for some people, for them to function as secure, confident men.

Apologizing for misogyny with the accumulation of "traumas" and "victimization" from women is just pathetic.

 

[rjc149]

TThat's one reason why we are on this forum.

I think you're on this forum, also, because it's a anonymous boy's club where you can express toxic sentiments about dating that would never fly in actual society.

I've experienced the same amount of rejection from women as is typical. More than some. Less than others. I reject the notion that one's experience with women speaks for every member of the gender.

 

[Robert28]

You could always get your revenge by making them think you're interested in a ltr, then pump and dump. Me personally, I wouldn't care if I was with a girl that I knew wouldn't have given me the time of day back in her better years. I'll get mine then eventually move on.

She’s so fat though. She’s disgusting now. I **** you not, she looks like shes 8 months pregnant, she sweats all the time because she’s fat and complains about it, she’s just nasty af now.

 

[AttackFormation]

It's interesting that you frame yourselves, men who struggle with women, as "victims" and that calling out the anger you direct toward women for denying you sex is akin to "victim blaming."

This is the core of the incel mindset -- that you have been "victimized" by society -- by women, by Chad, by Tinder, by this that etc.

Interesting and telling use of the word.

Sometimes "trauma" is valid, and sometimes, it's not. Some people feel trauma more acutely than others. Within the context of pickup and dating, the accumulation of "trauma" from the mundane rejection that men experience when approaching women is greater in some than in others.

It's clearly too great, for some people, for them to function as secure, confident men.

Apologizing for misogyny with the accumulation of "traumas" and "victimization" from women is just pathetic.

You are definitely a woman. In this case, the overt or covert shaming is what gives it away as clear as a summer day. Ive long found it very interesting how easy it is to tell, not always but in so many cases, whether the writer of something dating-related is a man or a woman.

But im one of the guys here who doesnt care much one way or the other about women being here, it's all right.

 

[rjc149]

You are definitely a woman. In this case, the overt or covert shaming is what gives it away as clear as a summer day. Ive long found it very interesting how easy it is to tell, not always but in so many cases, whether the writer of something dating-related is a man or a woman.

But im one of the guys here who doesnt care much one way or the other about women being here, it's all right.

Sorry man. I'm male.

 

[user252009]

Wow this thread took a turn lol

 

[rjc149]

Wow this thread took a turn lol

Yeah I got a little triggered when my refusal to validate their contempt for women led them to actually question my gender. I’m all better now.

 

[Zimbabwe]

I was in a similar situation. It hurts, but it feels so much better to move on. I believe both parties are to blame. The girl who strung you along for her selfish reasons and the guy who let it happen to himself. We all make mistakes and it is up to us to choose the right path. I use to get angry at the girl for leading me on. I cut her off and that was the best thing for me. It maybe different for other guys who decide not to cut them off. At the end of the day it has to be you not her/him that will dictate how you feel. You cannot change selfish people (women & men), they will hurt you no matter what because of their lack of empathy. Do what you need to do, to make yourself better. If you need to cut them off, do it. Wish the best for them. Because the best will come back to you. I stopped hating the girl who strung me along, because the hate and anger will continue to the next girl I date. Not everyone is the same. Stop limiting yourself, there are lot more beautiful people out there in this big world. Stand back up, brush off the hurt, and feel good about yourself. The right girls/women can sense a man that feels good about himself. Because she knows that you the man will make her feel good. You feel me.

 

[zinc4]

Haha no. I've spent a lot of time around actual women, in real life. Unlike you. And it's not that I'm promoting a feminist agenda. I'm here offering advice on how to be better with women. With a guy like you, who really, really clearly fvcking hates women (despite pathetic denials to the contrary), you're your own worst enemy.


This is the most fake, laughable bullsh!t anyone has written on this thread. All you do here is piss, moan, whine, b!tch and complain. About women, about Chad, about everything. Which leads me to believe that you couldn't fvck a wet hole in the ground.


You trying to help this guy, or are you just an echo chamber for his whining now? I thought you actually had some substance.

Agreed. Few guys can say for 100 percent certain they can get laid a certain night out especially in this day and age. It's usually a crap shoot and a lot of girls night out barriers to break through. Some of those 30 plus year old milfs can still be genuinely hot as well. Def good enough for a 1 nighter or two.

 

[zinc4]

She’s so fat though. She’s disgusting now. I **** you not, she looks like shes 8 months pregnant, she sweats all the time because she’s fat and complains about it, she’s just nasty af now.

Ugghh. Yeah def a pass on that one then.