DJ Alpha Male PERSONIFIED!

[Rollo Tomassi]

My problem with his infidielity isn't so much that he did it in the first place (we're all human), but that he's using it as verification to make his case which really only reflects badly on him while maiking his "alpha-female" wife look more like a very "beta-female." By proudly adding this to his essay, he only shoots himself in the foot because, judging from the overwhelming comments, he calls into question his whole motivation - which I think for the most part deserves some mass media attention - but this has the opposite effect of what he's trying to explain because his behavior serves as an example of every reason why women and pussified men love-to-hate guys like him. He deserves praise for being forthcoming about his infidelity, but he defeats the whole point of his article. If he'd stopped just short of popping off about his personal sexual prowess and crowing like some c0ck about how his wife confirms him as "the boss" he'd be taken more seriously. As it stands, he only confirms for women and AFCs what they think of masculinity already.

I should also add that his infidelity could also serve as an illustration of a lack of his vaunted control over his wife and make him seek intimacy elsewhere rather than being the married Man's Man he claims to be.

 

[wayword]

maiking his "alpha-female" wife look more like a very "beta-female."

Well, let's be honest - she was probably a beta journalism geek, not a true head cheerleader alpha-female in high school. And just cuz 20 years have passed and she's pulling in 6 figures now...doesn't change that fact. You line her and some HB8s up in a bar...and she'd be the last to get hit on. Just because she has a high-paying job does not make her truly socially-dominant, desired, better-looking or younger. Hence, she still has less options and leverage than Nirpahl - even though she makes far more.

Which is why the feminist career-path is ultimately a dead-end for women. Because more money does not really increase a woman's (reproductive) worth and value to men. Just ask Oprah. :crackup:

Therefore, I agree that she is not a true alpha female. Which is a main reason why Nirpahl can play her like this... Honestly, most of my gf's have been better-looking (although far less compliant) than her. Life's all about trade-off's, though.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

WAYWORD, I understand your point, and you're probably right (judging from her picture in the article), but he builds her up to being this "Amazon Warrior" by describing her as a super-capable "Alpha-Female" so that's the perception he wants us to have of her in order to have some kind of social proof of his position - which he knows going into it that it will be controversial. He seems to think that by his infidelity with this Warrioress, and her consequent surrender to him afterwords, it proves his point. By crossing the line in this way it weakens his assertions as a positive masculine male and makes him 1950's typical - at least in perception.

 

[Vulpine]

Which is why the feminist career-path is ultimately a dead-end for women. Because more money does not really increase a woman's (reproductive) worth and value to men. Just ask Oprah. :crackup:

I donno. Did you see Dave Chapelle's skit on Oprah?

 

[wayword]

RT - I agree that Nirpahl boosted her stock (and prolly secretly flattering her) to boost his own. But, her pic don't lie. She appears to be in her 40s while Nirpahl in his 30s? Is she older than him? If so, that explains her plight. A woman's value goes DOWN with age, NO MATTER WHAT. And she f'n knows that...

Therefore, when it comes time to get SERIOUS, she has lost all her youthful leverage and must pick from the leftovers or "abusers." Her income is not a factor here. Again, women who party or slave away at their careers during their 20s are wasting their best years of their life for attracting a trophy male.

I donno. Did you see Dave Chapelle's skit on Oprah?

No, why? In any case, he certainly didn't marry some rich Black career fug himself...but avoided those like the plague. He just wanted a HWP female who could have his kids (not some fugly career woman) - and got her flatbacked and swole up ASAP!

He brought up his Asian wife and how he got her pregnant before they got married.

 

[wayword]

...double post delete...

 

[Vulpine]

No, why?

Dude, that skit is HI-FuXin-LARIOUS in regards to what you are saying about Oprah being worthless... oh, please do yourself a favor and look it up.

 

[Latinoman]

Wayword,

Here is the thing...(and I agree with Rollo on this too)...

She is probably an Alpha-female by career/societal standards. But every alpha man knows that EVERY woman has vulnerabilities and insecurities (even the HB-10). The alpha man finds them (vulnerabilities/insecurities) and exploit them to his advantage. But he never abuse them! It is done subtlely. You keep them in the back of your mind just in case you need to adjust the knob a little to "influence" her (more of roller coaster theorem) emotions.

By he bragging and publicly telling people that she took his infidelity...what he is doing is changing her in the PUBLIC eye from a alpha-female into an omega one.

I read the comments in the very first article. One thing I found out is that she is anorexic. That's a clear indication of a woman that is very weak. Which is fine...in the sense that she could have still maintain her "alpha-image". But she lost that image once he wrote the infidelity part.

Comes down to this...Lack of RESPECT. And when a man PUBLICLY talk about how he cheated on his wife (a well know woman) and then she took him back while he humillate her. Then that man is with a woman that he does NOT respect. Some things are better kept secret.

And that is the ONLY thing I have an issue about. Because personally...how can a man with options be with a woman he doesn't respect?

I will tell you why...because he needs her as much as she needs him.

Now...everything else in his paper is OUTSTANDING. In fact, even when he uses her as an example on how to deal with her whining, etc.

 

[wayword]

she is anorexic. That's a clear indication of a woman that is very weak.

Lack of RESPECT. And when a man PUBLICLY talk about how he cheated on his wife (a well know woman) and then she took him back while he humillate her. Then that man is with a woman that he does NOT respect.

And that is the ONLY thing I have an issue about. Because personally...how can a man with options be with a woman he doesn't respect?

I will tell you why...because he needs her as much as she needs him.

Yes, the anorexia represents SUPPLICATION to Nirpahl.

And no he doesn't respect her, because she is only an HB5.5 and going down every year! Plus, she's a modern woman. They deserve less respect on average.

Now, I believe he does have other sexual options (as was demonstrated with his cheating), but she is decent as far as doable, supplicating sugar-mamas go. If she wasn't supporting his bum azz though, you can bet he wouldn't even bother sticking his banana up her tailpipe. He wants her MONEY and connections into the writing community, not HER. And I can bet you once he gets his book deal and doesn't need her support anymore, she will be quickly replaced with a far younger, more attractive version... All he's doing is slumming and biding his time for now.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Again, I like what they guy had to say and I agree 100% up to his infidelity. For all of his self-empowerment and focused observations he still hasn't learned the art of covertly maintaining feminine competition anxiety. Rather he overtly expresses it by cheating on his wife. There are ways to maintain this anxiety in an LTR and marriage without resorting to the threat of infidelity, I know because I've done it for most of the 10 years I've been married. I keep myself in shape and I maintain a ****y/funny outlook while being a very focused, ambitious man of 38. My wife knows other women find me attractive, at the gym, at my work, at her work, even her girlfriends tell her they wish their husbands/boyfriends had the same traits I have. That sounds like I'm glossing myself, but it's meant to illustrate the point that you don't have to cheat on your wife to have her confirm that you're "the boss". My wife has never told me "you're the boss", because she's never had to, she implies this for me by confirming it in her behavior and her respect for me. She knows I have potential options and appreciates the man she chose to marry. I don't have to OVERTLY spell this out for her nor to I have to cheat on her to force her to realize this because I've carefully and naturally cultivated this attitude for 10 years now. And, consequently, I enjoy terrific sex with a wife I can still say I look forward to banging every week who looks about 28 when she's 42.

 

[wayword]

^ I agree, no one said he should, much less HAD to, cheat.

If he had his choice, he probably would have upgraded to a slightly hotter HB whom he would feel more sexually-satisfied with and wouldn't desire to cheat on. With whom he could have still maintained the minimum level of anxiety in her without going to such drastic measures. Cuz if he did go that far, she probably would not have teken him back.

However, he's still getting what he really wants (MONEY & CAREER CONNECTIONS) with this aging HB5.5, while sacrificing just a few points in the looks/age department. Again, which he can easily FIX by DIVORCING HER, TAKING HALF HER NET WORTH and trading her in for an HB9 when the time is RIGHT.

This dude is just biding his time for now. I can guarantee you they will divorce within the next few years as his gameplan progresses...and he will make out like a bandit! :crackup: BOY, I can't wait for THAT ARTICLE!!! LMFAO - PWNAGEEEEEEE!!!!!

 

[Slickster]

What did I tell you? This dude is a GOD.
:crackup:

Not only does he DO all of this stuff, but he OPENLY AND FRANKLY BRAGS ABOUT IT publically - so his wife, their friends and everyone in the whole damn world can read about WHO'S THE BOSS in their totally 1-sided relationship! No shame in HIS game! LMFAO!!!!!!!!! This dude's got bowling balls and probably a huge pin to match!
LMFAO...god this guy kills me!
SOOOOO TRUE! This guy is damned GENIUS! Fvck, even I wanna suck his kawk now!
Dies.

I always have to shake my head when I come across these anti-feminist type posts and conversations.

Men b!tching about man-hating feminists and feminist women b!tching about men.

Just like the guy says in his article there is no use arguing with the stupid b!tches. What's the point of even discussing it? There isn't anything that either side could do or say that will make any difference.

Standing around with a bunch of men complaining about all the b!tchy feminist women is in fact extremely feminine!

You call this guy a GOD?

I think he's a chump. He chooses to work in an environment surrounded by man-hating feminists and even worse wastes his precious time writing about it. Waste of life if you ask me.

If this is some sort of battle of the sexes where men stand around b!tching about women then I say the score is 1-0 for the ladies. Don't get drawn into their game.

Why would you waste even a minute of your time discussing and paying attention to feminist b!tches when you could be doing something entirely more productive like drinking a beer.

Which I think I'll go do right now.

 

[wayword]

You don't have to have a huge c0ck to D!CK-MOTIZE your woman. Play rough with her during sex. Women don't want to be loved and kissed all over. They want to be fvcked like a $20 wh0re. Sure, to get her in the mood you have to be all romantic and sensual and etc. Once her motor's hot though, give it to her like she's a south Tehran streetwalker. Ride her with your boots on cowboy. Ride her, like you would if she had 500 wh0re friends that she would tell just how incredibly remarkable you were. Then you'll get respect once and for all and forever.

She'll never admit it, but she wants a lil abuse. Not physical abuse, the occasional back hand to keep her in line. But the mental and emotional abuse. If you do the emotional and mental abuse right, she'll be more attached to you and will do prety much whatever you say.

:cheer:

 

[d9930380]

I hate to say it but I agree with this as well. I've noticed all that too. In a club (a black RnB place, I'm white) a girl (pretty hot) just pushed past me to get her drink. I turned round and glared at her and said "I'm going to have to teach you some etiquette", she stared at me and I stared back with out flinching. After a few seconds she smiled and introduced herself and we got flirting until her boyfriend realised and grabbed her away. Now I could have been a real alpha male and tried to take her away however I didn't want to get shot so I thought better off it In the same place I also realised I had ALOT more success than if I was in a normal white club because white women don't like black guys because of why we think they do (the **** legend) but because of their attitude to women. White women are dying for white men to stop acting like wimps.

I also knew a white girl from California who said that her sister never went out with white guys because she was into the gang scene and white guys had no credibility.

Now obviously this doesn't prove anything because these girls are obviously attracted to this type given where they choose to socialise but to a lesser degree I've noticed that with ALL women. I think it's just that some women are just as socially conditioned as some men so they pretend to be something they are not. That's why they say one thing and act another. They also need nice guys to help raise their kids for the first 5 to 10 years, be they his or not. I think deep down all girls want to be sluts ****ing the hottest alpha guys at heart and as western society de-evolves you are seeing that.

 

[wayword]

They also need nice guys to help raise their kids for the first 5 to 10 years, be they his or not. I think deep down all girls want to be sluts ****ing the hottest alpha guys at heart and as western society de-evolves you are seeing that.

Yup, which is why we should never enable that behavior and seriously date MILFs. And we should also fight against welfare legislation that makes the taxpayer their baby daddy, too.

If women can make their own bed...then they can sleep in it too.

 

[Wyldfire]

I think it's funny how so many guys on here strive to become an "alpha male". You are either born alpha or born beta. If you aren't born alpha you will never be alpha...yet so many on this site still obsess over the myth that they can "become alpha". Waste of time...

 

[RedPill]

I think it's funny how so many guys on here strive to become an "alpha male". You are either born alpha or born beta. If you aren't born alpha you will never be alpha...yet so many on this site still obsess over the myth that they can "become alpha". Waste of time...

Two questions:

1) What is your definition of alpha?

2) Why did you bump this thread?

 

[Wyldfire]

Being alpha is the natural ability to command respect from the people you are around without making the effort to do so. An alpha is a leader...people automatically gravitate to them, follow them and try to emulate them. All of these are effortless and come naturally and an alpha person (there are alpha females as well) never tries to have the traits...it is just a natural part of who they are. Betas desperate to pose as alphas will attack a TRUE alpha person in a futile attempt to convince others they are an alpha...but the fact that they try so hard makes it apparent that they are just a poser. If you aren't born alpha you always be beta, period.

I bumped the thread because I wanted to...

 

[blueguy]

I don't completely agree with Wyld. I view life as a deck of cards with different people given different hands. It's part luck and part strategy. Alphas can go down and betas can go up - the extent and boundaries of which are limited by what cards are first given.

 

[Bourne]

I think it's funny how so many guys on here strive to become an "alpha male". You are either born alpha or born beta. If you aren't born alpha you will never be alpha...yet so many on this site still obsess over the myth that they can "become alpha". Waste of time...

What are you basing this off of? You simple opinionated statement fails to have anything backing itself up. So much goes into that, people spend their entire lives studying it.

I completely disagree with that statement you made.