Learn to filter the ones that are truly interested, from the ones that want to waste your time.
Works fine with different wording:
Hell, you can even be doubly innovative, by extending that invitation in the form of a song, like so
It's semantics at that point. All you do is say, "it was nice meeting you but I don't really feel like this is going to work out."
Yep. As was mentioned in a prior thread https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/embarrassing-huge-adds-plastered-over-the-forum.282171/
I've noticed that people on the east coast are more direct than they are on the west coast. Maybe it's one of those things?
I dunno...you are a grown man and talking to someone you don't even know and will never see again. I just don't think it should be that hard.
When you click on the red icon labeled "Listen", a bar labelled "Forum" appears at the bottom of the page. Click on that bar, and a dial will appear, the likes of which will allow you to listen to fast forward. I really recommend listening to the entire interview, and reading Pfeffer's book as well
Alternate way of a vetting a woman... Show her this brief video
I have a hard time picturing a truly renaissance man going on dates with random women from apps. Even more incredible, women who are +30yrs old.What do you talk about? Well if you know anything about her you pick subjects you know she’s interested in, if not you ask questions. On my last initial date we talked about working out, what we do for them etc., kids, tattoos, she asked to see mine which required lifting up my shirt to see a few (which she loved and traced them with her fingers. We talked about her new car, about music, I asked if she liked to dance, we talked about tequilas, we talked about beaches and surfing, live music…you know like a normal conversation, normal people have.
If you’re a troglodyte and you don’t know how to even keep a conversation alive you have no business trying to date chicks, you’ll fail 99/100 times. You need to be a renaissance man as they say, be knowledgeable enough about many subjects to hold a conversation thread, be passionate about something, be mysterious and playful. In order to be these things a man has to develop his knowledge, read classics, be an expert at interesting things, and smile a lot, try it, it’s contagious.
Oh and know the inside jokes about many things, women love to laugh.
i think it depends where you meet the women personally. Although saying that, there is alot of dates that are 'free' to go on, walks down the beach, hike. Even a coffee date is no more than £15
Umadbro?I have a hard time picturing a truly renaissance man going on dates with random women from apps. Even more incredible, women who are +30yrs old.
Firstly, because to stay on top of all his interests, job/businesses it means his free time is very limited.
Secondly, very unlikely he's going to enjoy spending that scarce resource to make small talk about beaches, surfing and tequilas with random women with loads of baggage and issues.
Thirdly, he meets enough people through his activities, interests and extended social circle.
Not mad at all. That second part of your post, - one has to be this and that, a renaissance man - just seemed highly incongruous in the context of swipe apps and past the wall women ... kind of like talking about how one has to have this and that quality, an MBA even, to apply for minimum wage paying jobs.
As we’ve discussed ad nauseam for years on the forum, everyone has their strategies. The strategies I describe do not work for everyone because not everyone fits the the mold I do or has the willpower to follow them - they are certainly not panacea - all a man can do is describe his own successes, in an attempt to help those less fortunate.Not mad at all. That second part of your post, - one has to be this and that, a renaissance man - just seemed highly incongruous in the context of swipe apps and past the wall women ... kind of like talking about how one has to have this and that quality, an MBA even, to apply for minimum wage paying jobs.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Add to that the fact that we're discussing relations between humans, thus things are never as simple as "She's either an unblemished unicorn, or a bloodthirsty harpy". All unions have bumps in the roads, none are eternal, and some we find more satisfying than others
Looking out for the average poster by dismissing other poster’s personal experience is not productive, it’s sour grapes.
That's a strawman, what I actually advocate is to marry a virgin as young as possible. Go ahead and date as many 40yrs olds as you like, I just don't think that's anything special or newsworthy. Just as I don't think that making slightly above minimum wage is anything to be proud about or to keep belabouring.
Doesn't take personal experience necessarily. Smart guys learn by observing the mistakes other guys make and avoiding them in the first place. If you want to read some stories that I find inspiring, read @Colossus posts - TLDR, the guy dated his fair share of hoes but in the end he married a virgin. That in my view is a story with happy end, as opposed to being in your 50s and still pursuing hags from OLD. --> this is not a hidden dig at @Pierce Manhammer because as we all know, he dates attractive women from OLD.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
