Did I make a mistake not making a move?

[BackInTheGame78]

interesting, i've long been under the impression that even handsome good looking, high status men, normally never have women throwing themselves at them, or normally never have women hitting on them.

You must not get out much. I was at a bar with one dude who was literally male model good looking from one of the Balkan countries and within 10 minutes of him getting there a really good looking woman came up to him, said a few words and he took out back behind a dumpster and fvcked the sh!t out of her then came back in about 20 minutes later and told us what happened and we were like "Did you know her?" And he was like "I've never seen her before in my life"...

Not even 10 minutes later the girls friend who was even hotter than she was walked up to him and in front of all of us asked him "When is it my turn?" And he said "right now, let's go". And she followed him out back and he fvcked her too.

I suggest you actually get out more. Women can be very aggressive when they want something and are in the right situations.

As a former house club DJ I've seen plenty of other scenarios not much different than the one above

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

You must not get out much. I was at a bar with one dude who was literally male model good looking from one of the Balkan countries and within 10 minutes of him getting there a really good looking woman came up to him, said a few words and he took out back behind a dumpster and fvcked the sh!t out of her then came back in about 20 minutes later and told us what happened and we were like "Did you know her?" And he was like "I've never seen her before in my life"...

Not even 10 minutes later the girls friend who was even hotter than she was walked up to him and in front of all of us asked him "When is it my turn?" And he said "right now, let's go". And she followed him out back and he fvcked her too.

I suggest you actually get out more. Women can be very aggressive when they want something and are in the right situations.

As a former house club DJ I've seen plenty of other scenarios not much different than the one above

interesting, something you would never expect

 

[itouchyou]

Having read nothing other than this original post, I don't understand the reason for it.

You're talking like this is a person from your past and you're wondering "what could've been".

Did you make a mistake by not making a move? I mean yeah, if you wanted to f*** her, you need to initiate. Sounds like you had this whole weird fantasy of her potentially not living up to the standards you've set for her in your head...I don't know why you posted this, nothing you've described indicates she's shown any interest in you - and yet you're hoping she lives up to YOUR standards when you probably aren't even on her radar.

The one thing I will say, is that if a woman is comfortable publicly talking about her past hookups, she's probably not interested in anybody in that audience - AKA she's not worried about being potentially disqualified by putting out too much information.

She admitted to being interested a while back.

Anyways - found out she started seeing some guy seriously but she's banging a guy friend on the side while she's seeing this new guy.

Looks like I made the right call in not pursuing, but from a game perspective I agree with people in this thread that I shouldn't have hesitated to make a move. I just didn't want to catch feelings for the wrong one.

It is kind of sad because I had some hope she wasn't this way - but my intuition right.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She admitted to being interested a while back.

Anyways - found out she started seeing some guy seriously but she's banging a guy friend on the side while she's seeing this new guy.

Looks like I made the right call in not pursuing, but from a game perspective I agree with people in this thread that I shouldn't have hesitated to make a move. I just didn't want to catch feelings for the wrong one.

It is kind of sad because I had some hope she wasn't this way - but my intuition right.

Probably because the "relationship" guy is a simp.

 

[itouchyou]

Probably because the "relationship" guy is a simp.

I don't know anything about him. She does like him though, and they're intimate with each other so who knows.

She just can't make up her mind. I was right in not pursuing, women like this are trouble.

It's a damn shame because this girl was pretty, educated, and had a great personality. Promiscuity negated all that.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I don't know anything about him. She does like him though, and they're intimate with each other so who knows.

She just can't make up her mind. I was right in not pursuing, women like this are trouble.

It's a damn shame because this girl was pretty, educated, and had a great personality. Promiscuity negated all that.

She likes him but there is something missing that makes her want to continue seeing the other guy.

Likely it's the typical nice guy issue...losing respect and attraction for him as he continues to do those things.

Also she probably knows that he likes her more than she likes him which is usually the beginning of the end even if it takes a year or two.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

yeah, okay i will admit, part of the reason for my attitude lately, is well i got out of a failed relationship with someone i was incompatible with, it didn't feel like a normal relationship, she didn't feel like a true girlfriend, i will admit, i stayed with her longer than i should have is because i didn't want to become alone again.

You cannot make good decisions with a scarcity mindset.

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

yeah, there must be something in womens DNA that prevents them from making a move on a guy they like.