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You know, 'these men' are one particular group that often complain about not getting approached or IOIs or don't take action. I hope you understand what I’m hinting at.
Often, the 4s, 5s and 6s can be extremely picky as many men have the attitude that they will be easier due to getting less attention than more attractive women. This is known as "Juggernaut theory".
I'd add that checking out all the ladies on social media also gives one unrealistic expectations.
There is a lot of truth to it. Look at the amount of attention hideous/average women get on apps. Often, they're even more stuck up.
That can certainly transfer over to real life. I've seen even decent looking guys getting rejected by horrendous looking women.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
SerendipityCope.
This is total nonsense
Well, the idea that was that it was REALLY OVER for a lot of men (i.e., dying in battle), but the ones that survived had a cornucopia of poon.
I have another recent post that goes into how men are more religious than women these days.
What is even worse is when the only ones that do this are extraordinarily fat & nasty.
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I once smiled at an attractive chick, and she nastily snarled back, "what are you smiling at?".
She was quite hot back in the day, although I could tell that she was a bit flat for her general physique.
I think that for a lot of men, the only time that they get approached by decently attractive women is at a strip joint or brothel (or a night-club that is known to be a bit of a brothel).
Could be worse. My stripclubcel friend got un-approaced at a strip club.I think that for a lot of men, the only time that they get approached by decently attractive women is at a strip joint or brothel (or a night-club that is known to be a bit of a brothel).
Then why are many average and below women extremely picky and get inundated on apps?
Spend less time trying to make linear sense out of anything a woman does(That's more of a losing proposition than trying to persuade the Haitians down the street to take up burgers and fries, rather cat and plantains)and more time focused on becoming the most awesome version of you
Forget about apps its a cess pit of bad behaviour and terrible dating practices
Plenty of guys already have your belief about average women, even in bars and other places, where they'll be less picky and more down to earth and the hot ones are completely unobtainable. It isn't just on the apps.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
