Dating is for Losers

[Last Man Standing]

Dinner = McDonalds or Kentucky Fried Chicken

Movie = i have a TV/DVD in my car ( 7" screen ) it is all hooked up to my sound system which has a 400watt pioneer 12" subwoofer so the movies sound awesome.

Entertainment = also have a Playstation hooked up to the system in my car with 2 controllers

if i am just cruising and it's just chicks i want as LJBF's to get into their friends pants, then they pay

eg. last thursday i got a call from 2 chicks asking me can i come pick them up, i said no as i was with my friend. eventually he had to go home so dropped him off. rang the 2 chicks as said to them : i am low on petrol and hungry, if you give me $10 for petrol and buy me Kentucky Fried Chicken i will come pick you up.

they said yes and it was a done deal “

Haha, this boy has geme!!

LIT where art thee?

Lost In Translation was the man who had some serious knowledge at all levels - the Australian street pimp - a rare commodity indeed!!! I miss you bro!!!

 

[Aaron B]

You are still taking the girls on dates.

A trip to the pet store is a date.

I agree if you change the topic to "Dinner and the movies is for losers"

Oh and if the date requires money, I expect her to pay her half. Its an excellent way to see if she will be reasonable to deal with in the future.

 

[djbr]

That's right, while most guys are contemplating whether or not they should pull that lame-ass yawn move at the movie theater, I am busy plowing into her ass doggystyle, calling her a filthy slvt and blowing my load all over her face.

Why the guys who throw this kind of advice gets banned?

Also, I am LMAO here. Pet store was amazing :crackup:

 

[The Sperminator]

Don Ronny talking to a girl on the phone.

Don Ronny- Hey hows it going baby?

Girl- Um ok.

Don Ronny- Yeah well you want to go out with me today.

Girl- Doing what?

Don Ronny- I was think going to the super market to buy food, then maybe the Rite Aid to buy some condoms, then going to the post office because I have to turn in a package. Then we can go to my house and use the condoms from the pharmacy.

Girl- That sounds like fun.

Trust me that isn't going to work. Don't take her on errands and ****. Why would a girl want to go to the post office with you or Rite Aid. Honestly Ronny what do you say to the girls? Hey want to go with me to Walgreens tonight? I want to know what kind of girls you go out with Ronny so I can stay away from them. Those types of things are for like gf bf and technically all those are dates just not very good ones. Actually the shopping date is actually not bad but you shouldn't ask her if she wants to go shopping with you. It sounds like your her gay friend. Ask her if she wants to go to the boardwalk at the beach or the mall. Actually I've done that many times and it actually is a good date because you get to talk to them and get to know them better and it's free.

 

[SamePendo]

Don't bother reading my post, I'm talking out of my ass and know **** about seduction. Remember who I am so all posts in the future by me are ignored. Did you notice how I said that the shopping date wasn't bad, but then, isn't because you sound like a "gay friend"? But then go and talk about the boardwalk, and getting to know them and ****, as if that wasn't gay? Yeah, I was just testing you.

Yeah, when dudes that do what I say, spend money, and are contemplating when to use "kino", those who know their stuff are already at least making out with bytches.

. . .

 

[donjuanapprentice01]

You are right, dating is for losers, and as for me, too much trouble for little or no gain.

Just pay an escort a few hundred (not some sleazy crackho) for a night, makes things so much easier.

 

[Kev07]

take a girl on too many errands and you might just make yourself a new friend

 

[Aaron B]

Trust me that isn't going to work. Don't take her on errands and ****. Why would a girl want to go to the post office with you or Rite Aid.

Highly interested women will do damn near any activity as long as they get to spend time with the object of their interest.

You are looking at this wrong. You are operating from a standpoint of wanting to please the women, which is false. You should only be concerned with what it is that YOU want.

If you want to waste your money taking women with low interest on romantic dates, go right ahead. Because when you tailor the date to be exciting, you are selling her on the idea of the date. Problem there is she doesn't need to be that excited about YOU to actually go on the date (since you have made it seem so great or she is getting a free dinner out of the deal).

Whereas if he takes her to Walgreen's, she has passed his test and confirmed her high interest, so he doesn't waste any of his time or money on women with low interest.

 

[Aaron B]

take a girl on too many errands and you might just make yourself a new friend

Wow. You obviously don't get it. Go read The Book of Pook and Anti-Dump's Machine immediately and quit polluting the board with this crap.

 

[comic_relief]

bump

comic_relief

 

[Serialized3]

Cyp, this is what I was referring to when I said "dating is for chumps" on your post. Read and digest this information.

It's a trip to see the good things i've missed during my sporadic absences from SS.

Good bump comic_relief

 

[cyp6]

ok i see were your coming from, but i stil think dating is fun

 

[crossboss]

Good post

What do you mean, "responded in a more bf/gf manner"? Does this mean you've gotten further with them sexually? Or they've just started feeling guilty for taking you on a trip for your cash and are trying to compensate you by acting all "girly"?

I always pay for the "main" activity on a date. If we go to a movie, I pay for tickets, for example. Any food or sh!t she wants, though, that's on her. If we go out drinking, I'll buy her drinks within reason (for example if she's drinking something inexpensive, I'm not going to pitch a fit over it), but if she wants to start taking shots, she's buying. (I've learned THAT lesson pretty hard. ) And I make sure she buys me at least ONE round every once in a while.

Millionaires and rock/rap stars out there pay for everything, buy girls expensive drinks, expensive jewelry, etc, and THEY still get laid.

It's because the money isn't a thing to them. They NEVER buy a girl things to try to get bargaining leverage sexually...they buy those things because they can. They know there are a hundred women waiting in line if this girl shows the least lack of appreciation or any indication that she's starting to "expect" gifts in exchange for sex.

You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable.

Good thinking.

 

[izza]

What I really like about this post is how it is not about "action dates." I hate action dates. I feel they are too much about making a girl like the action and not enough about getting a girl to like my personality - as seen through my expressions, my emotions, my way of interacting with the normal world.

I find these more sedentary dates are more "flattering" for me. I feel like I must be an interesting person if we're sitting in a laundromat and she's still having an amazing time.

Right?

Right. Do you think that any fool can pull that off? Do you think any rich lawyer can make a laundromat exciting? To me, that a display of art, of real people skills. I don't like the OP but I love this post.

If a HB10 is having a great time in a laundromat, that means I'm a very interesting person. That is an impressive display of humanity, and I feel like a good person afterwards.

I believe that: me feeling good ---> lady luck.

Izza

 

[crossboss]

I agree with you.

Donny Ronny, good post, what I have realized is that women value time with a man irregardless to what they're doing. The more casual, the better. Why? No social mask B/S to deal with. Every one's being themselves, or real as many would call it. Not to mention, the context of a situation. Everything hinges on context. What you're doing is casual seduction. Thanks for the ideas.

Primus 1, good post as well. There's nothing wrong with taking a woman out to dinner. It shows you can conduct yourself in a formal setting. It's still the gentlemanly thing to do. Everyone has their style. If done right, it can used be as romantic seduction. If I do it, I will certainly play the romantic hero role to the freaking limit. In short, do what works.

Both of you guys have your points. So arguing over who's right is mute and counterproductive. Donny's postion creates a better atmosphere for knowing a woman on the inside, while Primus's position tests a woman's behaivor in public. I'll used both situations. We gotta work every situation to get the main prize.

Both ways, work.

 

[crossboss]

He's right.

Yes, exactally. That is the problem. These things do not make you a nice guy at all, they make you what David DeAngelo calls a "wussy", not a nice guy. There is a difference.




You are right, my James Bond example is borderline. But this (In my opinion.) still does not exclude him from being what I consider to be a "nice guy." He is still a charming, polite, kind, curtious and generally friendly person to be around which is the complete opposite of the character that Donny and the rest of this board advocates that you should be. Like what some of the other guys have hinted at before in this thread, there is more than one way to skin a cat.



I guess you know since you were there? I met that girl in college and never once saw her at work but I suppose that you know all about them since you've dated so many? That one girl had more morality, honesty and couth than half of the old women at my church. Dont ever make judgements about someone that you know nothing about. It shows your ignorance.

You guys don't really know what a nice guy is. Your envision of a nice guy, is a fake nice guy.

 

[izza]

You guys don't really know what a nice guy is. Your envision of a nice guy, is a fake nice guy.

AMEN!

 

[comic_relief]

Cyp, this is what I was referring to when I said "dating is for chumps" on your post. Read and digest this information.

It's a trip to see the good things i've missed during my sporadic absences from SS.

Good bump comic_relief

I knew exactly what you were talking about, but since you didn't explain it. I decided to bump it.

comic_relief

 

[The_way]

Dating is for chumps, unless you can fck-close any woman at the bar, otherwise your bound to go for some form of dating.

But then again, who really sets dates if your a dj, you find at which date you decide to allow the hb to take home the prize, discuss.

 

[OzyBoy]

Yeah, i think dating is over rated.